No.... I supppse I have a lower limit at around 30, but no upper limit and I've been lucky to meet some very hot women in their 60's. And the lower one has more to do with approaching the age of my kids, and thats juut weird  |
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"No.... I supppse I have a lower limit at around 30, but no upper limit and I've been lucky to meet some very hot women in their 60's. And the lower one has more to do with approaching the age of my kids, and thats juut weird "
ye I wouldn't have the same issue with lower age but then again I don't have kids |
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Not in the slightest... I do find I have more in common with certain age groups which improves the chance of connecting with someone.
But age would have zero factor in deciding in a meet |
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If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience. |
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"As long as their down to earth , hot, fit and happy in their skin then im in 
What about if their happy out of their skin Jack??"
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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"As long as their down to earth , hot, fit and happy in their skin then im in
What about if their happy out of their skin Jack??
Then I'll just give em a cuddle and end up with the same result "
Nice and casual Jack |
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Really should avoid this thread too as I suspect lots of eyes on it making judgements, however...
This has bothered me as I have grown older. I feel like a lech if I look at girls who could be my daughter (that's even in mid 20s..!) but regrettably my inbuilt physical attraction preference has a low spectrum and as I grow older I find that is worryingly not evolving as it should .
In other words, ladies in my age range should be my sweet spot but are not any more.
I've tended to find that God/nature is harsher on the female of the species as we all grow older and I find that my involuntary attraction points down instead of up in terms of age.
So ladies that are older than me tend not to attract me but younger does. And if I'm honest, If there was a mature 21 yr old who was interested I would likely pursue, as creepy as it sounds.
Quite apart from how cringeworthy it would be to see an old guy like me with a lady that young..!
Do other guys find something similar for their attraction as you grow older..? |
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"Really should avoid this thread too as I suspect lots of eyes on it making judgements, however...
This has bothered me as I have grown older. I feel like a lech if I look at girls who could be my daughter (that's even in mid 20s..!) but regrettably my inbuilt physical attraction preferences have a low spectrum and as I grow older I find that is worryingly not changing.
In other words, ladies in my age range should be my sweet spot but are not any more.
I've tended to find that God/nature is harsher on the female of the species as we all grow older and I find that my involuntary attraction points down instead of up in terms of age. So ladies that are older than me tend not to attract me but younger does. And if I'm honest, I'd there was a mature 21 yr old who was interested I would likely pursue, as creepy as it sounds looks. Quite apart from how cringeworthy it would be to see an old guy like me with a lady that young..!
Do other guys find this..?"
I have a teenage daughter, and somtimes wonder will I feel the the same when shes in her 20s, will it be creepy for a dad to find wemon attractive of her age?. . I think not, there shouldn't be an age cap on who your attracted to,it's just human nature |
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"If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience."
Yes... But most of them seem to see an 'older woman' as an experience or a bucket list item... You get the feeling that your age is more important to them than anything else. |
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"If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience.
Yes... But most of them seem to see an 'older woman' as an experience or a bucket list item... You get the feeling that your age is more important to them than anything else. "
Nah, I just assume they've unsuccessfully messaged everyone younger |
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"Fellas how much does age bother you with no strings sex. Be honest. Males only. "
Not at all once age is irrelevant in my opinion once theres mutual attraction I have a fwb 16.5 years older than me,and other than teasing about it theres never a problem.We get on brilliantly both in and out of the bedroom |
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"Really should avoid this thread too as I suspect lots of eyes on it making judgements, however...
This has bothered me as I have grown older. I feel like a lech if I look at girls who could be my daughter (that's even in mid 20s..!) but regrettably my inbuilt physical attraction preference has a low spectrum and as I grow older I find that is worryingly not evolving as it should .
In other words, ladies in my age range should be my sweet spot but are not any more.
I've tended to find that God/nature is harsher on the female of the species as we all grow older and I find that my involuntary attraction points down instead of up in terms of age.
So ladies that are older than me tend not to attract me but younger does. And if I'm honest, If there was a mature 21 yr old who was interested I would likely pursue, as creepy as it sounds.
Quite apart from how cringeworthy it would be to see an old guy like me with a lady that young..!
Do other guys find something similar for their attraction as you grow older..?"
.Actually I do find ladies in my age range more attractive,I think it's to do with maturity and confidence and probably that we have more in common!..now I've met some lovely ladies in their late 30s,but I don't think i'd go much lower..and there are some stunning ladies in their 20s,and it's always lovely to see a beautiful lady,but I think my mind is pre-conditioned to the point it doesn't even cross my mind to go down that road!..as for older,if she's attractive age doesn't really matter,I've seen ladies in their 60s who are still very attractive (take Helen Mirren for example and she's in her 70s) than those much younger! |
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"Fellas how much does age bother you with no strings sex. Be honest. Males only.
Not at all once age is irrelevant in my opinion once theres mutual attraction I have a fwb 16.5 years older than me,and other than teasing about it theres never a problem.We get on brilliantly both in and out of the bedroom "
Sure we get on great and the sex is outrageously good. It's not about the age difference but all about the chemistry |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Pulses and core temps are always negotiable with me
Hey CJ, since when did you regain ‘morals’ and up your standards? 
Talking of standards how did u get Tabiata to drop her's
Touché! ( )"
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"Really should avoid this thread too as I suspect lots of eyes on it making judgements, however...
This has bothered me as I have grown older. I feel like a lech if I look at girls who could be my daughter (that's even in mid 20s..!) but regrettably my inbuilt physical attraction preference has a low spectrum and as I grow older I find that is worryingly not evolving as it should .
In other words, ladies in my age range should be my sweet spot but are not any more.
I've tended to find that God/nature is harsher on the female of the species as we all grow older and I find that my involuntary attraction points down instead of up in terms of age.
So ladies that are older than me tend not to attract me but younger does. And if I'm honest, If there was a mature 21 yr old who was interested I would likely pursue, as creepy as it sounds.
Quite apart from how cringeworthy it would be to see an old guy like me with a lady that young..!
Do other guys find something similar for their attraction as you grow older..?"
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I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors
When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant... |
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"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors
When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant..."
I'd be extra nice to that ass. |
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Age doesn't really factor too much at the upper scale on the lower scale yes. Personality and intelligence which can be more attractive than some other factors. As long as there is some sort of attraction and they aren't too young then not an issue.
I've met 25 year Olds more mature and with better personality than women my own age but I've also met total headwrecks in all age brackets.(not in a sexual way) |
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Yes... But most of them seem to see an 'older woman' as an experience or a bucket list item... You get the feeling that your age is more important to them than anything else. "
I wouldn't say most men. A select few yes. But I see a woman as a woman. A woman's age isn't some kinda trophy. |
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"If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience.
Yes... But most of them seem to see an 'older woman' as an experience or a bucket list item... You get the feeling that your age is more important to them than anything else. "
And it certainly doesn't make you feel to great when they put in a message
"a woman of your age"
"I would love to experience an older woman"
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"Really should avoid this thread too as I suspect lots of eyes on it making judgements, however...
This has bothered me as I have grown older. I feel like a lech if I look at girls who could be my daughter (that's even in mid 20s..!) but regrettably my inbuilt physical attraction preference has a low spectrum and as I grow older I find that is worryingly not evolving as it should .
In other words, ladies in my age range should be my sweet spot but are not any more.
I've tended to find that God/nature is harsher on the female of the species as we all grow older and I find that my involuntary attraction points down instead of up in terms of age.
So ladies that are older than me tend not to attract me but younger does. And if I'm honest, If there was a mature 21 yr old who was interested I would likely pursue, as creepy as it sounds.
Quite apart from how cringeworthy it would be to see an old guy like me with a lady that young..!
Do other guys find something similar for their attraction as you grow older..?"
I understand a lot of what you say and have had the latch feeling also at times.
However I find that I am gaining more respect/ attraction to older ladies also. I've seen some 65yr old women that I find attractive.
Gives me hope for the nursing home years |
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When I was younger I thought age mattered. It doesn't.!
You'll mentally connect to the people you connect to. Simple as that. As regards to sex witch everyone's thinking. In my experience, practice makes perfect. BUT..... attitude,.! Some women just have an amazing attitude to sex. These women, these women will Rock your world regardless to their age.. |
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"When I was younger I thought age mattered. It doesn't.!
You'll mentally connect to the people you connect to. Simple as that. As regards to sex witch everyone's thinking. In my experience, practice makes perfect. BUT..... attitude,.! Some women just have an amazing attitude to sex. These women, these women will Rock your world regardless to their age.."
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over a year ago
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"When I was younger I thought age mattered. It doesn't.!
You'll mentally connect to the people you connect to. Simple as that. As regards to sex witch everyone's thinking. In my experience, practice makes perfect. BUT..... attitude,.! Some women just have an amazing attitude to sex. These women, these women will Rock your world regardless to their age.."
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"If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience.
Yes... But most of them seem to see an 'older woman' as an experience or a bucket list item... You get the feeling that your age is more important to them than anything else.
And it certainly doesn't make you feel to great when they put in a message
"a woman of your age"
"I would love to experience an older woman"
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totally agree....another one from young guys would be "you could teach me a thing or 2"......instant block  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm laughing here reading some of the wording in mail that bothers women. "
If you hear it once, it doesn't bother you. If you hear it a few times you think 'right'. If you hear it over and over again you just think 'f off'. |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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For me I have no issue with age if we're both into it, as long as they're legal of course.
But, being an almost 39 year old man I find the idea of me actively trying to get with a girl in her mid 20's or lower a bit iffy. Just my feeling on it.
But if she makes the first move then I'm perfectly fine to go along with it.
Other than that if I fancy someone age has no bearing. |
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"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors
When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...I'd be extra nice to that ass. "
Flattery will get you.... everything |
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"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors
When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...I'd be extra nice to that ass.
Flattery will get you.... everything "
even dinner cooked for me this evening? The thoughts of cooking is a nightmare. |
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"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors
When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...I'd be extra nice to that ass.
Flattery will get you.... everything even dinner cooked for me this evening? The thoughts of cooking is a nightmare. "
Take you out for a fish supper? |
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"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors
When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...I'd be extra nice to that ass.
Flattery will get you.... everything even dinner cooked for me this evening? The thoughts of cooking is a nightmare.
Take you out for a fish supper?"
September maybe? |
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"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors
When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...I'd be extra nice to that ass.
Flattery will get you.... everything even dinner cooked for me this evening? The thoughts of cooking is a nightmare.
Take you out for a fish supper?"
that will do lovely. |
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