I don’t hassle people on here and mostly here for the banter, a bit of craic and the off chance that there is someone on the site where we will click and have mutual fun.
My question is what are your thoughts on, if you have messaged someone, possibly over a year ago and there was no reply that if you went to send them another message and the warning notification came back that you had messaged them before and received no reply would you message them again?
I rarely would send another message to someone I had sent a message to previously as I would see that as hassling them! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Ye you should send a message often have replied to a second message later on. Mainly because I may have missed the first one or else just had so many messages the first time that I just gave a quick reply back but we never got talking. I'd send one and see what happens worse they can do is not reply. |
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"I don’t hassle people on here and mostly here for the banter, a bit of craic and the off chance that there is someone on the site where we will click and have mutual fun.
My question is what are your thoughts on, if you have messaged someone, possibly over a year ago and there was no reply that if you went to send them another message and the warning notification came back that you had messaged them before and received no reply would you message them again?
I rarely would send another message to someone I had sent a message to previously as I would see that as hassling them! "
Second message is fine, they can be missed, the person may not be meeting at that time, you may do a bulk delete. Second read and no reply would give impression of not interested. |
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Sometimes I think that, especially if it up to 12 months or so since I would have sent one and think it may have being a time they were looking for something else.
But then I don’t want to be hassling someone if they haven’t replied. |
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"I don’t hassle people on here and mostly here for the banter, a bit of craic and the off chance that there is someone on the site where we will click and have mutual fun.
My question is what are your thoughts on, if you have messaged someone, possibly over a year ago and there was no reply that if you went to send them another message and the warning notification came back that you had messaged them before and received no reply would you message them again?
I rarely would send another message to someone I had sent a message to previously as I would see that as hassling them!
Second message is fine, they can be missed, the person may not be meeting at that time, you may do a bulk delete. Second read and no reply would give impression of not interested."
A lot of the time they aren’t deleted or even read! Hard to gauge what someone is thinking receding so many messages ! |
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over a year ago
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"I don’t hassle people on here and mostly here for the banter, a bit of craic and the off chance that there is someone on the site where we will click and have mutual fun.
My question is what are your thoughts on, if you have messaged someone, possibly over a year ago and there was no reply that if you went to send them another message and the warning notification came back that you had messaged them before and received no reply would you message them again?
I rarely would send another message to someone I had sent a message to previously as I would see that as hassling them!
Second message is fine, they can be missed, the person may not be meeting at that time, you may do a bulk delete. Second read and no reply would give impression of not interested."
Exactly this, I'd very rarely send a third, after that it's bordering staking.. |
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"I don’t hassle people on here and mostly here for the banter, a bit of craic and the off chance that there is someone on the site where we will click and have mutual fun.
My question is what are your thoughts on, if you have messaged someone, possibly over a year ago and there was no reply that if you went to send them another message and the warning notification came back that you had messaged them before and received no reply would you message them again?
I rarely would send another message to someone I had sent a message to previously as I would see that as hassling them!
Second message is fine, they can be missed, the person may not be meeting at that time, you may do a bulk delete. Second read and no reply would give impression of not interested.
A lot of the time they aren’t deleted or even read! Hard to gauge what someone is thinking receding so many messages !"
I open most, I tend not to reply to all, but if it's someone I may be interested in i will reply and see how conversation flows. |
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"I don’t hassle people on here and mostly here for the banter, a bit of craic and the off chance that there is someone on the site where we will click and have mutual fun.
My question is what are your thoughts on, if you have messaged someone, possibly over a year ago and there was no reply that if you went to send them another message and the warning notification came back that you had messaged them before and received no reply would you message them again?
I rarely would send another message to someone I had sent a message to previously as I would see that as hassling them!
Second message is fine, they can be missed, the person may not be meeting at that time, you may do a bulk delete. Second read and no reply would give impression of not interested.
Exactly this, I'd very rarely send a third, after that it's bordering staking.. "
I've had up as many as 8 without reply. |
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"Depends if the message is a copy and paste job of the first message I will delete straight away "
Oh I don’t copy paste, read the profiles and try to message in relation to the profile itself! But a lot of similar profiles on here !-/ |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
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"I normally tend to message about 8 or 9 times just to be 100% sure they are not jntrested
How’s that working for you? I haven’t tried that tact myself now  "
To be completely honest...its going terribly...I'm normally blocked |
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"I normally tend to message about 8 or 9 times just to be 100% sure they are not jntrested
How’s that working for you? I haven’t tried that tact myself now
To be completely honest...its going terribly...I'm normally blocked"
Time for for a tactical change? |
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"I normally tend to message about 8 or 9 times just to be 100% sure they are not jntrested
How’s that working for you? I haven’t tried that tact myself now
To be completely honest...its going terribly...I'm normally blocked
Time for for a tactical change? "
10 message minimum? |
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"I don’t hassle people on here and mostly here for the banter, a bit of craic and the off chance that there is someone on the site where we will click and have mutual fun.
My question is what are your thoughts on, if you have messaged someone, possibly over a year ago and there was no reply that if you went to send them another message and the warning notification came back that you had messaged them before and received no reply would you message them again?
I rarely would send another message to someone I had sent a message to previously as I would see that as hassling them! "
I have, on numerous occasions messages women once, no reply, could try another time and get a reply. That's fab. |
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"I don’t hassle people on here and mostly here for the banter, a bit of craic and the off chance that there is someone on the site where we will click and have mutual fun.
My question is what are your thoughts on, if you have messaged someone, possibly over a year ago and there was no reply that if you went to send them another message and the warning notification came back that you had messaged them before and received no reply would you message them again?
I rarely would send another message to someone I had sent a message to previously as I would see that as hassling them! I have, on numerous occasions messages women once, no reply, could try another time and get a reply. That's fab. "
True, who knows what’s happening the other end of a phone to whom your messaging! |
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over a year ago
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"No harm in sending a 2nd message but I'd leave it if that one goes unanswered
Lol most all messages go unanswered "
Aww, that just means they weren't the right ones. The message or the women lol you decide  |
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"No harm in sending a 2nd message but I'd leave it if that one goes unanswered
Lol most all messages go unanswered
Aww, that just means they weren't the right ones. The message or the women lol you decide "
 I’d say your right on both counts there |
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"Send again. The woman could be in a different head space after a few months. As no response could be due to various reasons at the time.
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Now I’m going to be cheeky and say a woman’s head space can change a lot quicker than a few months |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well it's depends. If you mail them first and you see they read a message and didn't respond or they just deleted it. That is a no go zone. So you shouldn't bother them anymore. But if they mail you or wink you or you had some conversation with those people or person. And they didn't respond but you want to get the conversation going yes mail them again. Cause maybe they didn't see your message because they are getting too many. But of course don't bombard with messages nor getting upset and mail them a nasty one
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"Well it's depends. If you mail them first and you see they read a message and didn't respond or they just deleted it. That is a no go zone. So you shouldn't bother them anymore. But if they mail you or wink you or you had some conversation with those people or person. And they didn't respond but you want to get the conversation going yes mail them again. Cause maybe they didn't see your message because they are getting too many. But of course don't bombard with messages nor getting upset and mail them a nasty one
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Oh if the message is deleted straight after reading I won’t message again. In fact lately I just block people that do that so as not to message them again and be annoying them. |
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"Well it's depends. If you mail them first and you see they read a message and didn't respond or they just deleted it. That is a no go zone. So you shouldn't bother them anymore. But if they mail you or wink you or you had some conversation with those people or person. And they didn't respond but you want to get the conversation going yes mail them again. Cause maybe they didn't see your message because they are getting too many. But of course don't bombard with messages nor getting upset and mail them a nasty one
Oh if the message is deleted straight after reading I won’t message again. In fact lately I just block people that do that so as not to message them again and be annoying them. "
Yeah I do the same |
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"Send again. The woman could be in a different head space after a few months. As no response could be due to various reasons at the time.
Now I’m going to be cheeky and say a woman’s head space can change a lot quicker than a few months "
Smartarse |
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"Send again. The woman could be in a different head space after a few months. As no response could be due to various reasons at the time.
Now I’m going to be cheeky and say a woman’s head space can change a lot quicker than a few months
Smartarse "
I did say I was going to be cheeky |
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"I normally tend to message about 8 or 9 times just to be 100% sure they are not jntrested
How’s that working for you? I haven’t tried that tact myself now
To be completely honest...its going terribly...I'm normally blocked"
I wonder why lol lads take note if ye wanna be blocked try this method |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well it's depends. If you mail them first and you see they read a message and didn't respond or they just deleted it. That is a no go zone. So you shouldn't bother them anymore. But if they mail you or wink you or you had some conversation with those people or person. And they didn't respond but you want to get the conversation going yes mail them again. Cause maybe they didn't see your message because they are getting too many. But of course don't bombard with messages nor getting upset and mail them a nasty one
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Anyone sending nasty messages ruins this for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a year I'd think it was OK to try again...
It's when someone keeps doing it every week even though you haven't replied or have replied saying not interested that it becomes tiresome. "
I have had a message every other day for the last 2 weeks. My name is ......
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but your question. Is I forget who I have sent mail to so yes I go to sometimes send mail again. But I don't.
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