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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, it's my first forum post so I'm kinda nervous??. I'm just wondering if anyone has advice on the best places to meet them in Dublin. So far, I've met a few bit I want to broaden my horizons! I just adore being with older women! It's just the extra experience and their sensuality but I know some struggle with feeling sexy and I want to show them they still have it ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Barry's if it's still open. Failing that. Dublin zoo might have a few. 
Really need a laughing emoji on fab!
Where’d you get that ?"
At the discount isle in Asda.
(type in r.o.f.l. without the dots) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Barry's if it's still open. Failing that. Dublin zoo might have a few.
Really need a laughing emoji on fab!
Where’d you get that ?
At the discount isle in Asda.
(type in r.o.f.l. without the dots)"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just a little tip... not all older women want to be desired because the are a fantasy, older, more experianced etc....
Now I dont know how you have been chatting to them but just message them like a normal person if you fancy them and avoid the cougar word unless you know they like to be refered to as that as you might put a few ladies off before they have a chance to know you  |
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"Just a little tip... not all older women want to be desired because the are a fantasy, older, more experianced etc....
Now I dont know how you have been chatting to them but just message them like a normal person if you fancy them and avoid the cougar word unless you know they like to be refered to as that as you might put a few ladies off before they have a chance to know you "
well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Barry's if it's still open. Failing that. Dublin zoo might have a few. "
Barry’s... we used to call it Jurassic Park.... they’re not cougars they’re saber tooth tigers |
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"Barry's if it's still open. Failing that. Dublin zoo might have a few.
Barry’s... we used to call it Jurassic Park.... they’re not cougars they’re saber tooth tigers"
That’s was a great spot with the show bands playing, watlz’s With the pensioners was brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a little tip... not all older women want to be desired because the are a fantasy, older, more experianced etc....
Now I dont know how you have been chatting to them but just message them like a normal person if you fancy them and avoid the cougar word unless you know they like to be refered to as that as you might put a few ladies off before they have a chance to know you "
Yes exactly some older women don't want to just be a fantasy to be ticked off your fuck it list
My Fwb is 17 year's younger than me the age difference rarely comes up in conversation. He just treats me like a normal person and not some novelty because I am older. |
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"Just a little tip... not all older women want to be desired because the are a fantasy, older, more experianced etc....
Now I dont know how you have been chatting to them but just message them like a normal person if you fancy them and avoid the cougar word unless you know they like to be refered to as that as you might put a few ladies off before they have a chance to know you
Yes exactly some older women don't want to just be a fantasy to be ticked off your fuck it list
My Fwb is 17 year's younger than me the age difference rarely comes up in conversation. He just treats me like a normal person and not some novelty because I am older. "
agree.. once of my fwb she is 23yrs Older than me.. |
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Jesus lads some people get offended by the slightest thing. A woman mailed me the other day and refered to me as a "cub". Did I get offended? Of course not, it's just a word same way as cougar is. Everybody knows what it refers to in a sexual context. Op your best bet for a cougar is online. Very hard approach in a normal pub/club setting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jesus lads some people get offended by the slightest thing. A woman mailed me the other day and refered to me as a "cub". Did I get offended? Of course not, it's just a word same way as cougar is. Everybody knows what it refers to in a sexual context. Op your best bet for a cougar is online. Very hard approach in a normal pub/club setting. "
Who got offended? People were juat stating that not everyone.likes to be reffered to that way.
You sound the most outraged person on the thread....
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"Jesus lads some people get offended by the slightest thing. A woman mailed me the other day and refered to me as a "cub". Did I get offended? Of course not, it's just a word same way as cougar is. Everybody knows what it refers to in a sexual context. Op your best bet for a cougar is online. Very hard approach in a normal pub/club setting.
Who got offended? People were juat stating that not everyone.likes to be reffered to that way.
You sound the most outraged person on the thread....
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if they're saying they don't like been refered that way, they're offended by it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jesus lads some people get offended by the slightest thing. A woman mailed me the other day and refered to me as a "cub". Did I get offended? Of course not, it's just a word same way as cougar is. Everybody knows what it refers to in a sexual context. Op your best bet for a cougar is online. Very hard approach in a normal pub/club setting.
Who got offended? People were juat stating that not everyone.likes to be reffered to that way.
You sound the most outraged person on the thread....
if they're saying they don't like been refered that way, they're offended by it. "
Really? Your bar for offence is very low so... |
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"Jesus lads some people get offended by the slightest thing. A woman mailed me the other day and refered to me as a "cub". Did I get offended? Of course not, it's just a word same way as cougar is. Everybody knows what it refers to in a sexual context. Op your best bet for a cougar is online. Very hard approach in a normal pub/club setting.
Who got offended? People were juat stating that not everyone.likes to be reffered to that way.
You sound the most outraged person on the thread....
if they're saying they don't like been refered that way, they're offended by it.
Really? Your bar for offence is very low so..."
they wouldn't complain about it otherwise which I have seen many a woman do in the past on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jesus lads some people get offended by the slightest thing. A woman mailed me the other day and refered to me as a "cub". Did I get offended? Of course not, it's just a word same way as cougar is. Everybody knows what it refers to in a sexual context. Op your best bet for a cougar is online. Very hard approach in a normal pub/club setting.
Who got offended? People were juat stating that not everyone.likes to be reffered to that way.
You sound the most outraged person on the thread....
if they're saying they don't like been refered that way, they're offended by it.
Really? Your bar for offence is very low so...they wouldn't complain about it otherwise which I have seen many a woman do in the past on here. "
We are talking about this thread but regardless... dislike does not equate to offence..... I dislike soggy cornflakes but those mushy yellow fuckers do not offend me |
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"Jesus lads some people get offended by the slightest thing. A woman mailed me the other day and refered to me as a "cub". Did I get offended? Of course not, it's just a word same way as cougar is. Everybody knows what it refers to in a sexual context. Op your best bet for a cougar is online. Very hard approach in a normal pub/club setting.
Who got offended? People were juat stating that not everyone.likes to be reffered to that way.
You sound the most outraged person on the thread....
if they're saying they don't like been refered that way, they're offended by it.
Really? Your bar for offence is very low so...they wouldn't complain about it otherwise which I have seen many a woman do in the past on here.
We are talking about this thread but regardless... dislike does not equate to offence..... I dislike soggy cornflakes but those mushy yellow fuckers do not offend me"
totally different context altogether. Using a non offensive word shouldn't decide whether somebody talks to you or not. |
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" Using a non offensive word shouldn't decide whether somebody talks to you or not. "
Why not?
If the person does.not like how they are addressed and choose not to reply then no harm.no foul and noone need to be offended |
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" Using a non offensive word shouldn't decide whether somebody talks to you or not.
Why not?
If the person does.not like how they are addressed and choose not to reply then no harm.no foul and noone need to be offended"
lol you're been offended whether you want to admit it or not. |
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Once again forum users telling op what he should’ve said & how he should think  stop with the criticism, we know that’s not what the op intended by his post.
Op nope I’m afraid I don’t know if any places & altho Iv has a few cubs myself in d fab world, 20yrs is just a bit young esp In d swinging scene. Good luck on ur forums & fantasies tho & pay no attention to those that try pull u apart on here, says more abt them than u.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Using a non offensive word shouldn't decide whether somebody talks to you or not.
Why not?
If the person does.not like how they are addressed and choose not to reply then no harm.no foul and noone need to be offendedlol you're been offended whether you want to admit it or not. "
If you dont reply to someone because you dont fancy them do their looks offend you? |
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" Using a non offensive word shouldn't decide whether somebody talks to you or not.
Why not?
If the person does.not like how they are addressed and choose not to reply then no harm.no foul and noone need to be offendedlol you're been offended whether you want to admit it or not.
If you dont reply to someone because you dont fancy them do their looks offend you?"
again that's nothing to do with it. If a woman is regarded to as a cougar and some get offended by the word, they won't reply to the message regardless of what he looks like. I have seen some say "they don't want to be somebody's fantasy". That's exactly what alot are on here. Fantasies of other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Using a non offensive word shouldn't decide whether somebody talks to you or not.
Why not?
If the person does.not like how they are addressed and choose not to reply then no harm.no foul and noone need to be offendedlol you're been offended whether you want to admit it or not.
If you dont reply to someone because you dont fancy them do their looks offend you?again that's nothing to do with it. If a woman is regarded to as a cougar and some get offended by the word, they won't reply to the message regardless of what he looks like. I have seen some say "they don't want to be somebody's fantasy". That's exactly what alot are on here. Fantasies of other people. "
I still dont see where people are getting offended for having preferences on how they are addressed and who they reply to but sure we will have to agree to disagree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No bickering kids or I'll have to get my whip out. Tut tut. 
I find your threat of violence offensive
I said I'd get my whip out, never said I'd use it.
Careful of this one. She's a man eater "
Ah just bring her cake she will get distraced looking for cream |
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"No bickering kids or I'll have to get my whip out. Tut tut.
I find your threat of violence offensive
I said I'd get my whip out, never said I'd use it.
areful of this one. She's a man eater
Ah just bring her cake she will get distraced looking for cream"
She prefers a footlong.
....... From Subway
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"No bickering kids or I'll have to get my whip out. Tut tut.
I find your threat of violence offensive
I said I'd get my whip out, never said I'd use it.
areful of this one. She's a man eater
Ah just bring her cake she will get distraced looking for cream
She prefers a footlong.
....... From Subway
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There's a subway not far from you.... off ya go hubby. |
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"No bickering kids or I'll have to get my whip out. Tut tut.
I find your threat of violence offensive
I said I'd get my whip out, never said I'd use it.
areful of this one. She's a man eater
Ah just bring her cake she will get distraced looking for cream
She prefers a footlong.
....... From Subway
There's a subway not far from you.... off ya go hubby. "
No bother wifey you want a ?? cookie too? |
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"No bickering kids or I'll have to get my whip out. Tut tut.
I find your threat of violence offensive
I said I'd get my whip out, never said I'd use it.
areful of this one. She's a man eater
Ah just bring her cake she will get distraced looking for cream
She prefers a footlong.
....... From Subway
There's a subway not far from you.... off ya go hubby.
No bother wifey you want a ?? cookie too?"
Nope.... a foot long will do. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"Just a little tip... not all older women want to be desired because the are a fantasy, older, more experianced etc....
Now I dont know how you have been chatting to them but just message them like a normal person if you fancy them and avoid the cougar word unless you know they like to be refered to as that as you might put a few ladies off before they have a chance to know you "
As an "older" lady I agree with this. Not offended by the post at all, each to their own. But it wouldn't attract me or quite a few of my female friends. Best of luck in your search OP. |
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