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When the little man won’t respond...
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I had the misfortune to go through major surgery with anesthetic recently.
For the first three weeks little joe was unresponsive. Flat lined.
In the fourth week some twitching returned and eventually an embarrassing excuse for a hard on even graced my boxers for the briefest of minutes, although in truth trading standards woud have had me up for wrongful advertising.
Now into my 8th week of recovery and normal service has finally resumed, although i’m not going to call clean bill of health until it gets put through its paces with a willing lady 
Anyone else (male or female) ever had any nervous moments where libido or function seemed to desert them..?? |
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Happens to everyone..
Problem is the more you think about it or force it the less lightly it will come back
The fact you are just after surgery would be the factor if your whole body is recovering.
Obviously if it becomes lengthy you could say it your doctor but I wouldn't stress about it, because well that will just add to your problem
Unfortunately men seem to think their masculinity is in question when they can't get hard or stay hard etc...
Don't put yourself under pressure to perform while recovery is happening and be up front about it.
Mind over matter sometimes |
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"Happens to everyone..
Problem is the more you think about it or force it the less lightly it will come back
The fact you are just after surgery would be the factor if your whole body is recovering.
Obviously if it becomes lengthy you could say it your doctor but I wouldn't stress about it, because well that will just add to your problem
Unfortunately men seem to think their masculinity is in question when they can't get hard or stay hard etc...
Don't put yourself under pressure to perform while recovery is happening and be up front about it.
Mind over matter sometimes "
Believe me, i was trying to will it up for days: at one stage i was considering trying to find Master Yoda to use the Force...! |
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"I had the misfortune to go through major surgery with anesthetic recently.
For the first three weeks little joe was unresponsive. Flat lined.
In the fourth week some twitching returned and eventually an embarrassing excuse for a hard on even graced my boxers for the briefest of minutes, although in truth trading standards woud have had me up for wrongful advertising.
Now into my 8th week of recovery and normal service has finally resumed, although i’m not going to call clean bill of health until it gets put through its paces with a willing lady
Anyone else (male or female) ever had any nervous moments where libido or function seemed to desert them..??"
Next time it happens give it a tape on the head with a hammer always work's. |
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Anyone else (male or female) ever had any nervous moments where libido or function seemed to desert them..?? Next time it happens give it a tape on the head with a hammer always work's."
Holy feck, dog..! Are your solutions always so extreme..?! Can’t see fellas queuing up for naked socials in your house if thats what might be waiting for them..! Although some of the ladies on here might come along to wield the hammer... |
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"Hope you and your wee man are fighting fit soon 
Awww thanks J. Just dont want to rush into anything premature...  "
If you need any encouragement give me a shout I'm sure I can gently lick him into standing to attention I mean talk him into  |
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yea i had when i got a vasectomy, it was all mental tho not physical. for some reason i thaught it wouldnt work after it. i got a bit workedup it didnt work. binge watching porn was the cure for me. |
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"Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha. "
Yikes!
You should have gotten them to put you in a 'Y' cast with removable gusset piece..!! |
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"Hope you and your wee man are fighting fit soon
Awww thanks J. Just dont want to rush into anything premature...
If you need any encouragement give me a shout I'm sure I can gently lick him into standing to attention I mean talk him into "
I've heard talking up close helps people and plants to feel better. What you do with your tongue at that close proximity is purely a judgement call...  |
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"yea i had when i got a vasectomy, it was all mental tho not physical. for some reason i thaught it wouldnt work after it. i got a bit workedup it didnt work. binge watching porn was the cure for me. "
Ah porn... The universal answer to most problems in the universe... |
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"Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha.
Yikes!
You should have gotten them to put you in a 'Y' cast with removable gusset piece..!! "
Honestly I had no mood at all, lying in my back for several weeks wasn't funny thing
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"Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha.
Yikes!
You should have gotten them to put you in a 'Y' cast with removable gusset piece..!!
Honestly I had no mood at all, lying in my back for several weeks wasn't funny thing
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I totally get that; would not be funny at all, having experienced something similar. Hopefully all the old feelings came back with a vengeance when you were recovered..? |
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A little nerves  or alcohol
made the "not so" little man  unresponsive a few times...
With experience you learn to laugh about it
as well as get better at your oral and foreplay skills
...to bide you some time at least!!!!  |
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"Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha. "
I was the opposite... Libido was off the charts while I was wearing my leg brace... Just meant we had to be a bit more inventive, but where there's a will there's most definitely a way  |
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"Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha.
I was the opposite... Libido was off the charts while I was wearing my leg brace... Just meant we had to be a bit more inventive, but where there's a will there's most definitely a way "
Did you keep the brace......... |
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"I had the misfortune to go through major surgery with anesthetic recently.
For the first three weeks little joe was unresponsive. Flat lined.
In the fourth week some twitching returned and eventually an embarrassing excuse for a hard on even graced my boxers for the briefest of minutes, although in truth trading standards
Cinnamon! woud have had me up for wrongful advertising.
Now into my 8th week of recovery and normal service has finally resumed, although i’m not going to call clean bill of health until it gets put through its paces with a willing lady
Anyone else (male or female) ever had any nervous moments where libido or function seemed to desert them..??"
Cinnamon! |
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