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We're all been used her for sex. It's the nature of the site but my question is does it bother you? For me it's no problem. Sexual pleasure both ways and the jobs done. Are you looking for more then just sex from the website? |
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I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests"
Exactly  , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imo |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imo"
I look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. "
There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different? |
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I can honestly say that only one guy here made me feel used and that was years ago when I was fairly new. Anyone I've met since then I've built up a bit of rapport with before I met them so it hasnt been an issue since. I'm not looking for a relationship at all here but I do like to get to know someone a bit before I meet them, that's for safety reasons mostly. Not because I want to date them. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?"
I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different. "
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?"
find what person? A person for casual sex? |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?"
Don't be obtuse. |
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"Just seen this subject and it’s not really a place to find a relationship otherwise it would be a dating site . Fun both ways works for me "
Don't agree. I know a few peiple that have met their life partner thro this site. Just use the site how it works for you. If people are looking for relationships what gives others the right to day they shouldn't be on here? |
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"Just seen this subject and it’s not really a place to find a relationship otherwise it would be a dating site . Fun both ways works for me
Don't agree. I know a few peiple that have met their life partner thro this site. Just use the site how it works for you. If people are looking for relationships what gives others the right to day they shouldn't be on here?"
because it's a site for sex. No strings sex but I see your view. 2 singles could join, get together in a swingers relationship. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse."
I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship. |
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I think it's OK to use someone else's body for your own sexual needs on the condition that you remember they are human beings who need treating with respect, and you ensure that are aware and consenting to the nature of your relationship. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse.I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship."
It doesn't have to be a swinging relationship, and if you met someone suitable, would you discount them simply because of where you met? |
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"I think it's OK to use someone else's body for your own sexual needs on the condition that you remember they are human beings who need treating with respect, and you ensure that are aware and consenting to the nature of your relationship. "
. It's the "respect' part that seems to escape a lot of people. |
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"Just seen this subject and it’s not really a place to find a relationship otherwise it would be a dating site . Fun both ways works for me
Don't agree. I know a few peiple that have met their life partner thro this site. Just use the site how it works for you. If people are looking for relationships what gives others the right to day they shouldn't be on here?because it's a site for sex. No strings sex but I see your view. 2 singles could join, get together in a swingers relationship. "
It's a swingers site. Yes it has been over run with people who don't understand swinging and are here for a quick fuck with anything, but swinging is a social as well as sexual activity. If that develops into people forming relationships then that is great. I think you are confusing fab with a pure hook up site. If people want to find relationships it is fuck all to do with people who just see here to use it as a sex site.
Do if people want relationships they can be found on here. |
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"Just seen this subject and it’s not really a place to find a relationship otherwise it would be a dating site . Fun both ways works for me
Don't agree. I know a few peiple that have met their life partner thro this site. Just use the site how it works for you. If people are looking for relationships what gives others the right to day they shouldn't be on here?because it's a site for sex. No strings sex but I see your view. 2 singles could join, get together in a swingers relationship. "
Its actually a site for swingers and all the social aspects that entails.
However everyone is free to use it how they wish which means we are free to use it as a nsa hook uo site with other likewise singles and if someone wants to use it to find their soulmate so be it, as long as noone breaks the site rules |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse.I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship.
It doesn't have to be a swinging relationship, and if you met someone suitable, would you discount them simply because of where you met?"
I'd say anyone looking for a relationship on here is looking for a swinging one |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse.I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship.
It doesn't have to be a swinging relationship, and if you met someone suitable, would you discount them simply because of where you met?I'd say anyone looking for a relationship on here is looking for a swinging one "
I don't believe that to be necessarily the case. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse.I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship.
It doesn't have to be a swinging relationship, and if you met someone suitable, would you discount them simply because of where you met?I'd say anyone looking for a relationship on here is looking for a swinging one
I don't believe that to be necessarily the case."
I doubt anyone is here looking for a one to one relationship and only have each other. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse.I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship.
It doesn't have to be a swinging relationship, and if you met someone suitable, would you discount them simply because of where you met?I'd say anyone looking for a relationship on here is looking for a swinging one
I don't believe that to be necessarily the case.I doubt anyone is here looking for a one to one relationship and only have each other. "
There are a lot of people here like yourself, I'd say, using the site for casual sex between "monogamous" relationships. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse.I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship.
It doesn't have to be a swinging relationship, and if you met someone suitable, would you discount them simply because of where you met?I'd say anyone looking for a relationship on here is looking for a swinging one
I don't believe that to be necessarily the case.I doubt anyone is here looking for a one to one relationship and only have each other.
There are a lot of people here like yourself, I'd say, using the site for casual sex between "monogamous" relationships."
I would actually say there is alot more people here who are not into all things swinging. I didn't sign up day one to make friends. I have enough friends in real life. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse.I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship.
It doesn't have to be a swinging relationship, and if you met someone suitable, would you discount them simply because of where you met?I'd say anyone looking for a relationship on here is looking for a swinging one
I don't believe that to be necessarily the case.I doubt anyone is here looking for a one to one relationship and only have each other.
There are a lot of people here like yourself, I'd say, using the site for casual sex between "monogamous" relationships.I would actually say there is alot more people here who are not into all things swinging. I didn't sign up day one to make friends. I have enough friends in real life. "
So you're looking only to use people as you put it yourself. And so long as everyone understands and consents and is treated respectfully, why would there be a problem? |
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We are all here for fun but has to be with respect
We make friends here sure.
Some friendships here are prob more open and honest than your normal ones
Because your being yourself which can be great just chatting in company that share the same views
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse.I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship.
It doesn't have to be a swinging relationship, and if you met someone suitable, would you discount them simply because of where you met?I'd say anyone looking for a relationship on here is looking for a swinging one
I don't believe that to be necessarily the case.I doubt anyone is here looking for a one to one relationship and only have each other.
There are a lot of people here like yourself, I'd say, using the site for casual sex between "monogamous" relationships.I would actually say there is alot more people here who are not into all things swinging. I didn't sign up day one to make friends. I have enough friends in real life.
So you're looking only to use people as you put it yourself. And so long as everyone understands and consents and is treated respectfully, why would there be a problem?"
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"I can honestly say that only one guy here made me feel used and that was years ago when I was fairly new. Anyone I've met since then I've built up a bit of rapport with before I met them so it hasnt been an issue since. I'm not looking for a relationship at all here but I do like to get to know someone a bit before I meet them, that's for safety reasons mostly. Not because I want to date them. "
Could've agree with you more I had one terrible meet from another site that was very upsetting and basically make me feel like a unpaid sex worker. I can laugh about it now but at the time it was horrible.
Hence why I have so many coffee verifys. Any potential candidates are well vetted and interviewed. Because of this all my Fab play meets here being great. |
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"I can honestly say that only one guy here made me feel used and that was years ago when I was fairly new. Anyone I've met since then I've built up a bit of rapport with before I met them so it hasnt been an issue since. I'm not looking for a relationship at all here but I do like to get to know someone a bit before I meet them, that's for safety reasons mostly. Not because I want to date them.
Could've agree with you more I had one terrible meet from another site that was very upsetting and basically make me feel like a unpaid sex worker. I can laugh about it now but at the time it was horrible.
Hence why I have so many coffee verifys. Any potential candidates are well vetted and interviewed. Because of this all my Fab play meets here being great."
thats what the site is mostly, an interview. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse.I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship.
It doesn't have to be a swinging relationship, and if you met someone suitable, would you discount them simply because of where you met?I'd say anyone looking for a relationship on here is looking for a swinging one
I don't believe that to be necessarily the case.I doubt anyone is here looking for a one to one relationship and only have each other.
There are a lot of people here like yourself, I'd say, using the site for casual sex between "monogamous" relationships.I would actually say there is alot more people here who are not into all things swinging. I didn't sign up day one to make friends. I have enough friends in real life. "
Yeh alot of people don't meet. All talk basically no action. |
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"I wouldnt feel used so long both people are up front and honest about what they are looking for.
I also dont see any issue with someone looking for more than just a fuck buddy on here. What better place to find someone who shares your sexual interests
Exactly , unless you're the kind of person who makes a distinction between people you have sex with and people you have a relationship with, which is a little skewed imoI look for alot more in a person id have a relationship with. No strings sex is very different. There's no reason why you shouldn't find such a person here - unless of course you think people who enjoy casual sex couldn't possibly be relationship material - in which case, why are you any different?I never said they are not relationship material. I look for more attibutes in a person for a relationship. Casual sex is different.
And why shouldn't you find that person here?find what person? A person for casual sex?
Don't be obtuse.I'm not here for a relationship plus if I was I'm not looking to get into a swinging relationship.
It doesn't have to be a swinging relationship, and if you met someone suitable, would you discount them simply because of where you met?I'd say anyone looking for a relationship on here is looking for a swinging one
I don't believe that to be necessarily the case.I doubt anyone is here looking for a one to one relationship and only have each other.
There are a lot of people here like yourself, I'd say, using the site for casual sex between "monogamous" relationships.I would actually say there is alot more people here who are not into all things swinging. I didn't sign up day one to make friends. I have enough friends in real life.
Yeh alot of people don't meet. All talk basically no action."
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"I can honestly say that only one guy here made me feel used and that was years ago when I was fairly new. Anyone I've met since then I've built up a bit of rapport with before I met them so it hasnt been an issue since. I'm not looking for a relationship at all here but I do like to get to know someone a bit before I meet them, that's for safety reasons mostly. Not because I want to date them.
Could've agree with you more I had one terrible meet from another site that was very upsetting and basically make me feel like a unpaid sex worker. I can laugh about it now but at the time it was horrible.
Hence why I have so many coffee verifys. Any potential candidates are well vetted and interviewed. Because of this all my Fab play meets here being great.thats what the site is mostly, an interview. "
Well I think the single ladies have to feel comfortable and safe. I live in rural area I want be very very sure about the person I invite into my home. |
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"I can honestly say that only one guy here made me feel used and that was years ago when I was fairly new. Anyone I've met since then I've built up a bit of rapport with before I met them so it hasnt been an issue since. I'm not looking for a relationship at all here but I do like to get to know someone a bit before I meet them, that's for safety reasons mostly. Not because I want to date them.
Could've agree with you more I had one terrible meet from another site that was very upsetting and basically make me feel like a unpaid sex worker. I can laugh about it now but at the time it was horrible.
Hence why I have so many coffee verifys. Any potential candidates are well vetted and interviewed. Because of this all my Fab play meets here being great.thats what the site is mostly, an interview.
Well I think the single ladies have to feel comfortable and safe. I live in rural area I want be very very sure about the person I invite into my home."
u bring lads from here to your house? |
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We are all here for fun
So lads if ye have to go to a few coffee meets what's the harm in that
Single females and couples have to feel comfortable and safe and if that's a coffee meet or a drink so be it
If they don't feel a connection no harm done
Why is everything expected instantly |
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"We are all here for fun
So lads if ye have to go to a few coffee meets what's the harm in that
Single females and couples have to feel comfortable and safe and if that's a coffee meet or a drink so be it
If they don't feel a connection no harm done
Why is everything expected instantly "
that's why distance is an issue. A person is not going to travel a massive distance just to drink a tea/coffee. |
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"I can honestly say that only one guy here made me feel used and that was years ago when I was fairly new. Anyone I've met since then I've built up a bit of rapport with before I met them so it hasnt been an issue since. I'm not looking for a relationship at all here but I do like to get to know someone a bit before I meet them, that's for safety reasons mostly. Not because I want to date them.
Could've agree with you more I had one terrible meet from another site that was very upsetting and basically make me feel like a unpaid sex worker. I can laugh about it now but at the time it was horrible.
Hence why I have so many coffee verifys. Any potential candidates are well vetted and interviewed. Because of this all my Fab play meets here being great.thats what the site is mostly, an interview.
Well I think the single ladies have to feel comfortable and safe. I live in rural area I want be very very sure about the person I invite into my home.u bring lads from here to your house?"
Well eventually down the line I do when I know them for repeat meets. I don't invite randomners. I don't let just anyone into my home |
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"I can honestly say that only one guy here made me feel used and that was years ago when I was fairly new. Anyone I've met since then I've built up a bit of rapport with before I met them so it hasnt been an issue since. I'm not looking for a relationship at all here but I do like to get to know someone a bit before I meet them, that's for safety reasons mostly. Not because I want to date them.
Could've agree with you more I had one terrible meet from another site that was very upsetting and basically make me feel like a unpaid sex worker. I can laugh about it now but at the time it was horrible.
Hence why I have so many coffee verifys. Any potential candidates are well vetted and interviewed. Because of this all my Fab play meets here being great.thats what the site is mostly, an interview.
Well I think the single ladies have to feel comfortable and safe. I live in rural area I want be very very sure about the person I invite into my home.u bring lads from here to your house?
Well eventually down the line I do when I know them for repeat meets. I don't invite randomners. I don't let just anyone into my home"
i can accom but never would I don't think. Nice profile pic by the way |
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"Why not some here nearly expect petrol money to go somewhere
If your not willing to travel sounds like your married
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I'm not married nor have a gf. Single as a Pringle. Location is bigger on here then you would think. |
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I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin. |
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"I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin."
it is for me.
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"Why not some here nearly expect petrol money to go somewhere
If your not willing to travel sounds like your married
I'm not married nor have a gf. Single as a Pringle. Location is bigger on here then you would think. "
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"I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin.it is for me. "
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"I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin.it is for me.
Why?"
I'm not looking for a partner |
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"I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin.it is for me.
Why?I'm not looking for a partner "
You don't have to be looking to find one. |
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Why?I'm not looking for a partner
You don't have to be looking to find one. "
trust me. I won't end up in a relationship from here. |
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Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I can honestly say that only one guy here made me feel used and that was years ago when I was fairly new. Anyone I've met since then I've built up a bit of rapport with before I met them so it hasnt been an issue since. I'm not looking for a relationship at all here but I do like to get to know someone a bit before I meet them, that's for safety reasons mostly. Not because I want to date them.
Could've agree with you more I had one terrible meet from another site that was very upsetting and basically make me feel like a unpaid sex worker. I can laugh about it now but at the time it was horrible.
Hence why I have so many coffee verifys. Any potential candidates are well vetted and interviewed. Because of this all my Fab play meets here being great."
This is exactly right. I had the same experience off here with 1 meet in particular where I left feeling cheap and nasty and we didn't even have sex but he was so horrible and seemed to think because I was single and on here I was a slut for him to do what he wanted.I came so close to leaving but a few genuine people I talk to on here kept me on here. Now I do social meets first and chat for a while before I meet. I need to actually like the person if I going to have sex with them. I'm not looking for a relationship but I'm also not going to fuck just anyone and certainly not someone who wants to use me for his own pleasure only. Yes this is not a dating site but it's also not a site for people to treat others like unpaid sex workers. |
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"I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin.it is for me.
Why?I'm not looking for a partner
You don't have to be looking to find one. trust me. I won't end up in a relationship from here. "
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Why?I'm not looking for a partner
You don't have to be looking to find one. trust me. I won't end up in a relationship from here.
Not good enough eh? "
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"I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin.it is for me.
Why?I'm not looking for a partner
You don't have to be looking to find one. trust me. I won't end up in a relationship from here.
Not good enough eh? plenty of lovely women who I'd love to have sex with. "
Well OP from what I can see on this thread I doubt you’ll be having a whole lot of sex either so it’s all a bit academic |
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"I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin.it is for me.
Why?I'm not looking for a partner
You don't have to be looking to find one. trust me. I won't end up in a relationship from here.
Not good enough eh? plenty of lovely women who I'd love to have sex with.
Well OP from what I can see on this thread I doubt you’ll be having a whole lot of sex either so it’s all a bit academic"
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"I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin.it is for me.
Why?I'm not looking for a partner
You don't have to be looking to find one. trust me. I won't end up in a relationship from here.
Not good enough eh? plenty of lovely women who I'd love to have sex with.
Well OP from what I can see on this thread I doubt you’ll be having a whole lot of sex either so it’s all a bit academicwhy's that?"
You’ve pretty much said the women here are fine to have sex with but beyond that they are not relationship material. And before you say you haven’t, the inference is clear. So if we are talking about people feeling used it might be as well to talk about disrespect and condescension. |
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"I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin.it is for me.
Why?I'm not looking for a partner
You don't have to be looking to find one. trust me. I won't end up in a relationship from here.
Not good enough eh? plenty of lovely women who I'd love to have sex with.
Well OP from what I can see on this thread I doubt you’ll be having a whole lot of sex either so it’s all a bit academicwhy's that?
You’ve pretty much said the women here are fine to have sex with but beyond that they are not relationship material. And before you say you haven’t, the inference is clear. So if we are talking about people feeling used it might be as well to talk about disrespect and condescension."
I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them. |
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".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them. "
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations. |
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".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations."
lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either. |
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"I'm not a swingers either.
Why are you here?"
sex. pure no strings sex as I have stated many times before. I have come to realise though there is very few id meet. I'm very fussy, physicality wise, probably 2 fussy. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations.lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either."
People are free to meet people anywhere and however they like. People want to use a swinging site as a pure sex site, fine, but don't then try to tell people interested in the swinging lifestyle or any alternative lifestyle how or where they should go to meet or date. |
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".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations.lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either.
People are free to meet people anywhere and however they like. People want to use a swinging site as a pure sex site, fine, but don't then try to tell people interested in the swinging lifestyle or any alternative lifestyle how or where they should go to meet or date. "
I don't think anyone did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its just sex you want and seek a certain standard of physical appearance maybe an escort service might suit..not being funny but if you're not a swinger then there's little point being here...especially now you"ve made it public that you're not lol |
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".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations.lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either.
People are free to meet people anywhere and however they like. People want to use a swinging site as a pure sex site, fine, but don't then try to tell people interested in the swinging lifestyle or any alternative lifestyle how or where they should go to meet or date. "
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"If its just sex you want and seek a certain standard of physical appearance maybe an escort service might suit..not being funny but if you're not a swinger then there's little point being here...especially now you"ve made it public that you're not lol"
I have stated many times in the past I'm not a swinger. It shouldn't be hard to get pure no strings sex. Sex workers get paid. Nobody should have 2 pay for sex.
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".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations.lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either.
People are free to meet people anywhere and however they like. People want to use a swinging site as a pure sex site, fine, but don't then try to tell people interested in the swinging lifestyle or any alternative lifestyle how or where they should go to meet or date.
I don't think that's what OP set out to do to be fair.."
spot on. Some get offended on here by very little. |
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".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations.lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either."
You do realise the same people who are on here are also on the dating sites? Why is the same womam seen differently on here than on a dating site? |
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".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations.lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either.
You do realise the same people who are on here are also on the dating sites? Why is the same womam seen differently on here than on a dating site? "
so everyone here are on dating sites also? I doubt it very much. There is also an option on dating sites as far as I'm aware to say what you're looking for as in casual, serious relationship etc. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations.lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either.
People are free to meet people anywhere and however they like. People want to use a swinging site as a pure sex site, fine, but don't then try to tell people interested in the swinging lifestyle or any alternative lifestyle how or where they should go to meet or date. I don't think anyone did. "
They did. |
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".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations.lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either.
You do realise the same people who are on here are also on the dating sites? Why is the same womam seen differently on here than on a dating site? so everyone here are on dating sites also? I doubt it very much. There is also an option on dating sites as far as I'm aware to say what you're looking for as in casual, serious relationship etc. "
Yes some are, not all, only a fool would think that. But yes alot are, and are open about it. You haven't answered my question what is the difference? Some use here for dating, some use dating sites for nsa. So if you find your other half on here why does it matter? |
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".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations.lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either.
People are free to meet people anywhere and however they like. People want to use a swinging site as a pure sex site, fine, but don't then try to tell people interested in the swinging lifestyle or any alternative lifestyle how or where they should go to meet or date. I don't think anyone did.
They did. "
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".I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them.
As one of the posters said, you don’t have to be looking for a relationship to find one but You have said that there’s no way you would be in a relationship with someone from here, the inference being that the women here aren’t good enough. Tbh though I think most of the women here wouldn’t waste their time getting offended by any of your proclamations.lol you clearly are getting offended. I don't want a relationship on here I'm here for sex nor would I ever look for a relationship on here. If I wanted a relationship online I'd join a dating site. I'm not a swingers either.
You do realise the same people who are on here are also on the dating sites? Why is the same womam seen differently on here than on a dating site? so everyone here are on dating sites also? I doubt it very much. There is also an option on dating sites as far as I'm aware to say what you're looking for as in casual, serious relationship etc.
Yes some are, not all, only a fool would think that. But yes alot are, and are open about it. You haven't answered my question what is the difference? Some use here for dating, some use dating sites for nsa. So if you find your other half on here why does it matter?"
it doesn't matter at all. I'm just not looking for a relationship on here. If I say I want sex I want sex. It doesn't change to "oh I now want a relationship". |
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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago
Saltash aka Fraggle Rock |
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Why are you here?sex. pure no strings sex as I have stated many times before. I have come to realise though there is very few id meet. I'm very fussy, physicality wise, probably 2 fussy. "
So basically you think this is a sex site and NOT a swingers site as all you want to do is get your dick wet  |
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"I'm not a swingers either.
Why are you here?sex. pure no strings sex as I have stated many times before. I have come to realise though there is very few id meet. I'm very fussy, physicality wise, probably 2 fussy.
So basically you think this is a sex site and NOT a swingers site as all you want to do is get your dick wet "
it's a site where I'd be confident to say the vast majority sign up for sex first and foremost. |
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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not a swingers either.
Why are you here?sex. pure no strings sex as I have stated many times before. I have come to realise though there is very few id meet. I'm very fussy, physicality wise, probably 2 fussy.
So basically you think this is a sex site and NOT a swingers site as all you want to do is get your dick wet it's a site where I'd be confident to say the vast majority sign up for sex first and foremost. "
Not me I'm afraid I like to get to know the person first before I drop my knickers. Plus I see this as a social site where sex might happen and not a sex site where a social might happen |
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"I'm not a swingers either.
Why are you here?sex. pure no strings sex as I have stated many times before. I have come to realise though there is very few id meet. I'm very fussy, physicality wise, probably 2 fussy.
So basically you think this is a sex site and NOT a swingers site as all you want to do is get your dick wet it's a site where I'd be confident to say the vast majority sign up for sex first and foremost.
Not me I'm afraid I like to get to know the person first before I drop my knickers. Plus I see this as a social site where sex might happen and not a sex site where a social might happen "
that's if you attend social events like meet and greets. I don't know do many. |
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"I wouldn't use anyone or let anyone use me. I've met people here, people that I now consider friends. It's down to each person how they use the site ,and how they view the people they meet. OP the chance of meeting someone who becomes a "partner" is not beyond the realms possibility. Just sayin.it is for me.
Why?I'm not looking for a partner
You don't have to be looking to find one. trust me. I won't end up in a relationship from here.
Not good enough eh? plenty of lovely women who I'd love to have sex with.
Well OP from what I can see on this thread I doubt you’ll be having a whole lot of sex either so it’s all a bit academicwhy's that?
You’ve pretty much said the women here are fine to have sex with but beyond that they are not relationship material. And before you say you haven’t, the inference is clear. So if we are talking about people feeling used it might be as well to talk about disrespect and condescension.I have said I'm not looking for a relationship on here and I know I'll never end up in one from here. I have said that before also. If women get offended by that god help them. "
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Well, I have never felt used by anyone here. I can spot the fakers and users, so they never get to meet me. Anyway, there are no "shoulds" about life, or swinging or sex, or relationships. And if you're having sex with someone, you are relating, hence in a relationship, no matter how short. I enjoy what this site has to offer,.. Carefully filtered swingers, who meet me for a social, chat, coffee, and then we both decide if we want to continue the relating. And the most satisfying are the repeat meets, when the relating deepens. And I think it is a great site to meet a like minded swinger, and have a relationship. |
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"Well, I have never felt used by anyone here. I can spot the fakers and users, so they never get to meet me. Anyway, there are no "shoulds" about life, or swinging or sex, or relationships. And if you're having sex with someone, you are relating, hence in a relationship, no matter how short. I enjoy what this site has to offer,.. Carefully filtered swingers, who meet me for a social, chat, coffee, and then we both decide if we want to continue the relating. And the most satisfying are the repeat meets, when the relating deepens. And I think it is a great site to meet a like minded swinger, and have a relationship. "
Oh so nicely put, the repeat meets, are the most satisfying for myself too! |
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"Well, I have never felt used by anyone here. I can spot the fakers and users, so they never get to meet me. Anyway, there are no "shoulds" about life, or swinging or sex, or relationships. And if you're having sex with someone, you are relating, hence in a relationship, no matter how short. I enjoy what this site has to offer,.. Carefully filtered swingers, who meet me for a social, chat, coffee, and then we both decide if we want to continue the relating. And the most satisfying are the repeat meets, when the relating deepens. And I think it is a great site to meet a like minded swinger, and have a relationship. "
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"Well, I have never felt used by anyone here. I can spot the fakers and users, so they never get to meet me. Anyway, there are no "shoulds" about life, or swinging or sex, or relationships. And if you're having sex with someone, you are relating, hence in a relationship, no matter how short. I enjoy what this site has to offer,.. Carefully filtered swingers, who meet me for a social, chat, coffee, and then we both decide if we want to continue the relating. And the most satisfying are the repeat meets, when the relating deepens. And I think it is a great site to meet a like minded swinger, and have a relationship.
Oh so nicely put, the repeat meets, are the most satisfying for myself too! "
I had a bad experience with 2 many repeat meets with a girl and feelings became involved on her part. It was stated from the off that it was pure NSA. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Well, I have never felt used by anyone here. I can spot the fakers and users, so they never get to meet me. Anyway, there are no "shoulds" about life, or swinging or sex, or relationships. And if you're having sex with someone, you are relating, hence in a relationship, no matter how short. I enjoy what this site has to offer,.. Carefully filtered swingers, who meet me for a social, chat, coffee, and then we both decide if we want to continue the relating. And the most satisfying are the repeat meets, when the relating deepens. And I think it is a great site to meet a like minded swinger, and have a relationship.
repeat meets are great "
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Feelings are good. It means you're alive. And what's to fear from a few feelings of lust, desire, attraction,.. And dare I mention... Rxmxancx.. (I know its forbidden to use that word here). You can't decide to banish all feelings! They surface, it's human nature. This tempts me to start a new thread on feelings... |
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"Feelings are good. It means you're alive. And what's to fear from a few feelings of lust, desire, attraction,.. And dare I mention... Rxmxancx.. (I know its forbidden to use that word here). You can't decide to banish all feelings! They surface, it's human nature. This tempts me to start a new thread on feelings... "
much less chance of feelings developing if you don't see lots of a person.
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"Feelings are good. It means you're alive. And what's to fear from a few feelings of lust, desire, attraction,.. And dare I mention... Rxmxancx.. (I know its forbidden to use that word here). You can't decide to banish all feelings! They surface, it's human nature. This tempts me to start a new thread on feelings... "
Isn't it sad to think that feelings have become almost something to be ashamed of? As if people are afraid to live life to the full |
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That's your choice.. And hers too, of course. If you met someone here, found them very attractive, and felt that soft hearted warm glow of affection and desire, would you want to meet them.. just one more time? |
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"Feelings are good. It means you're alive. And what's to fear from a few feelings of lust, desire, attraction,.. And dare I mention... Rxmxancx.. (I know its forbidden to use that word here). You can't decide to banish all feelings! They surface, it's human nature. This tempts me to start a new thread on feelings...
Isn't it sad to think that feelings have become almost something to be ashamed of? As if people are afraid to live life to the full"
I dont like seen people get attached and upset when it's clearly stated as no strings. Is it my fault? Of course not. Is there a chance we were in one another's company to much ? Of course |
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"Feelings are good. It means you're alive. And what's to fear from a few feelings of lust, desire, attraction,.. And dare I mention... Rxmxancx.. (I know its forbidden to use that word here). You can't decide to banish all feelings! They surface, it's human nature. This tempts me to start a new thread on feelings...
Isn't it sad to think that feelings have become almost something to be ashamed of? As if people are afraid to live life to the fullI dont like seen people get attached and upset when it's clearly stated as no strings. Is it my fault? Of course not. Is there a chance we were in one another's company to much ? Of course "
It's a little disingenuous to see a person repeatedly and then trot out "I told you it was NSA" when they have fallen for you. Conversely it's also quite sad to think someone is so closed to possibilities that they couldn't countenance the idea that what started as NSA could develop into something more. You like a person and are sexually attracted to them, why wouldn't feelings develop, it's entirely natural and normal. |
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"Feelings are good. It means you're alive. And what's to fear from a few feelings of lust, desire, attraction,.. And dare I mention... Rxmxancx.. (I know its forbidden to use that word here). You can't decide to banish all feelings! They surface, it's human nature. This tempts me to start a new thread on feelings...
Isn't it sad to think that feelings have become almost something to be ashamed of? As if people are afraid to live life to the fullI dont like seen people get attached and upset when it's clearly stated as no strings. Is it my fault? Of course not. Is there a chance we were in one another's company to much ? Of course
It's a little disingenuous to see a person repeatedly and then trot out "I told you it was NSA" when they have fallen for you. Conversely it's also quite sad to think someone is so closed to possibilities that they couldn't countenance the idea that what started as NSA could develop into something more. You like a person and are sexually attracted to them, why wouldn't feelings develop, it's entirely natural and normal. "
that's exactly why in a no strings sense I don't see somebody loads. |
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"Feelings are good. It means you're alive. And what's to fear from a few feelings of lust, desire, attraction,.. And dare I mention... Rxmxancx.. (I know its forbidden to use that word here). You can't decide to banish all feelings! They surface, it's human nature. This tempts me to start a new thread on feelings...
Isn't it sad to think that feelings have become almost something to be ashamed of? As if people are afraid to live life to the fullI dont like seen people get attached and upset when it's clearly stated as no strings. Is it my fault? Of course not. Is there a chance we were in one another's company to much ? Of course
It's a little disingenuous to see a person repeatedly and then trot out "I told you it was NSA" when they have fallen for you. Conversely it's also quite sad to think someone is so closed to possibilities that they couldn't countenance the idea that what started as NSA could develop into something more. You like a person and are sexually attracted to them, why wouldn't feelings develop, it's entirely natural and normal. that's exactly why in a no strings sense I don't see somebody loads."
And if someone really appealed you would simply stick to your no-strings policy just because you met them here and people on fab are, in your view, unsuitable as relationship material? |
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"Feelings are good. It means you're alive. And what's to fear from a few feelings of lust, desire, attraction,.. And dare I mention... Rxmxancx.. (I know its forbidden to use that word here). You can't decide to banish all feelings! They surface, it's human nature. This tempts me to start a new thread on feelings...
Isn't it sad to think that feelings have become almost something to be ashamed of? As if people are afraid to live life to the fullI dont like seen people get attached and upset when it's clearly stated as no strings. Is it my fault? Of course not. Is there a chance we were in one another's company to much ? Of course
It's a little disingenuous to see a person repeatedly and then trot out "I told you it was NSA" when they have fallen for you. Conversely it's also quite sad to think someone is so closed to possibilities that they couldn't countenance the idea that what started as NSA could develop into something more. You like a person and are sexually attracted to them, why wouldn't feelings develop, it's entirely natural and normal. that's exactly why in a no strings sense I don't see somebody loads.
And if someone really appealed you would simply stick to your no-strings policy just because you met them here and people on fab are, in your view, unsuitable as relationship material?"
it's like I said earlier. If I meet somebody for no strings that's all it is for me and I most certainly don't want a girl crying and whinging at me if feelings set in. That'd be a disaster. |
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"Feelings are good. It means you're alive. And what's to fear from a few feelings of lust, desire, attraction,.. And dare I mention... Rxmxancx.. (I know its forbidden to use that word here). You can't decide to banish all feelings! They surface, it's human nature. This tempts me to start a new thread on feelings...
Isn't it sad to think that feelings have become almost something to be ashamed of? As if people are afraid to live life to the fullI dont like seen people get attached and upset when it's clearly stated as no strings. Is it my fault? Of course not. Is there a chance we were in one another's company to much ? Of course
It's a little disingenuous to see a person repeatedly and then trot out "I told you it was NSA" when they have fallen for you. Conversely it's also quite sad to think someone is so closed to possibilities that they couldn't countenance the idea that what started as NSA could develop into something more. You like a person and are sexually attracted to them, why wouldn't feelings develop, it's entirely natural and normal. that's exactly why in a no strings sense I don't see somebody loads.
And if someone really appealed you would simply stick to your no-strings policy just because you met them here and people on fab are, in your view, unsuitable as relationship material?it's like I said earlier. If I meet somebody for no strings that's all it is for me and I most certainly don't want a girl crying and whinging at me if feelings set in. That'd be a disaster. "
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I’ve been used for sex several times on here. They just wanted my cock inside them after I’d licked them to orgasm. I went along with it; but I do feel used . |
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"it's like I said earlier. If I meet somebody for no strings that's all it is for me and I most certainly don't want a girl crying and whinging at me if feelings set in. That'd be a disaster.
How often, just incidentally, has this actually happened? "
Fprget wrapping ypur willy kid... you need to just lock yourself away for the welfare of the womanfolk ya irrisistable hunk of meat ya |
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"it's like I said earlier. If I meet somebody for no strings that's all it is for me and I most certainly don't want a girl crying and whinging at me if feelings set in. That'd be a disaster.
How often, just incidentally, has this actually happened?
Fprget wrapping ypur willy kid... you need to just lock yourself away for the welfare of the womanfolk ya irrisistable hunk of meat ya"
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I’ve been used for sex several times on here. They just wanted my cock inside them after I’d licked them to orgasm. I went along with it; but I do feel used ."
Like a peice of meat then thrown to the wayside |
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This is not a dating site the name says it all,not to say you won’t meet your future wife or husband on here cause it’s happened to a few ppl,I’m here for nsa fun nothing more if something comes from that it’s a bonus |
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"Feelings are good. It means you're alive. And what's to fear from a few feelings of lust, desire, attraction,.. And dare I mention... Rxmxancx.. (I know its forbidden to use that word here). You can't decide to banish all feelings! They surface, it's human nature. This tempts me to start a new thread on feelings...
Isn't it sad to think that feelings have become almost something to be ashamed of? As if people are afraid to live life to the fullI dont like seen people get attached and upset when it's clearly stated as no strings. Is it my fault? Of course not. Is there a chance we were in one another's company to much ? Of course
It's a little disingenuous to see a person repeatedly and then trot out "I told you it was NSA" when they have fallen for you. Conversely it's also quite sad to think someone is so closed to possibilities that they couldn't countenance the idea that what started as NSA could develop into something more. You like a person and are sexually attracted to them, why wouldn't feelings develop, it's entirely natural and normal. that's exactly why in a no strings sense I don't see somebody loads.
And if someone really appealed you would simply stick to your no-strings policy just because you met them here and people on fab are, in your view, unsuitable as relationship material?it's like I said earlier. If I meet somebody for no strings that's all it is for me and I most certainly don't want a girl crying and whinging at me if feelings set in. That'd be a disaster.
How often, just incidentally, has this actually happened? "
happened once. Keep casual sex as casual as possible. |
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"It actually makes me laugh reading this thread that some people have issue with keeping casual sex as casual as possible. It's not rocket science. "
Where are these posts? Please quote them, cos reading thro the thread all I see is you banging on about how people should use this site. If people want to meet the same people regulary, bang a different person every night or not meet anyone for years, then that is up to them. I see people with that view on this thread.
It makes me laugh when people can't see irony. |
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"It actually makes me laugh reading this thread that some people have issue with keeping casual sex as casual as possible. It's not rocket science.
Where are these posts? Please quote them, cos reading thro the thread all I see is you banging on about how people should use this site. If people want to meet the same people regulary, bang a different person every night or not meet anyone for years, then that is up to them. I see people with that view on this thread.
It makes me laugh when people can't see irony."
you can meet everyday of the week if you like. For me and I have learned from experience, 2 singles meeting for casual sex shouldn't see an absolute pile of one another. Less chance of feelings developing and everyone is on the same page re casual. Thats my opinion |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense. "
I can assure you that plenty of single men have exactly the same problem. |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense. "
Ya them bitches be catching feels all the time |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
Are you spreading your generalised knowledge again? "
He did say it was an opinion |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
I can assure you that plenty of single men have exactly the same problem."
then don't do casual sex if you have that problem and or keep things as casual as possible then you don't run the risk of further feelings developing. If 2 people get together sexually and see alot of each other and one gets feelings for more then sex and the other doesn't. There is then animosity and one is the bad guy. Can you avoid that happening? Course u can. Keep things very casual. |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
I can assure you that plenty of single men have exactly the same problem.then don't do casual sex if you have that problem and or keep things as casual as possible then you don't run the risk of further feelings developing. If 2 people get together sexually and see alot of each other and one gets feelings for more then sex and the other doesn't. There is then animosity and one is the bad guy. Can you avoid that happening? Course u can. Keep things very casual. "
Oh I agree, but I think the issue with those single males is often more one of ego than "romantic feelings" |
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over a year ago
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
Are you spreading your generalised knowledge again?
He did say it was an opinion"
Yeah a generalised one based on one encounter where a woman was whinging and crying at him because she developed feelings. Fab research at its finest. |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
Are you spreading your generalised knowledge again?
He did say it was an opinion
Yeah a generalised one based on one encounter where a woman was whinging and crying at him because she developed feelings. Fab research at its finest. "
It's impossible for anyone to produce statistically significant personal experience of the opposite sex, we're all generalising! |
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"It actually makes me laugh reading this thread that some people have issue with keeping casual sex as casual as possible. It's not rocket science.
Where are these posts? Please quote them, cos reading thro the thread all I see is you banging on about how people should use this site. If people want to meet the same people regulary, bang a different person every night or not meet anyone for years, then that is up to them. I see people with that view on this thread.
It makes me laugh when people can't see irony.you can meet everyday of the week if you like. For me and I have learned from experience, 2 singles meeting for casual sex shouldn't see an absolute pile of one another. Less chance of feelings developing and everyone is on the same page re casual. Thats my opinion "
You havent answered my question. Where are these posts you are laughing over? Again please quote them. All you are expressing is your opinion. |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
Are you spreading your generalised knowledge again?
He did say it was an opinion
Yeah a generalised one based on one encounter where a woman was whinging and crying at him because she developed feelings. Fab research at its finest.
It's impossible for anyone to produce statistically significant personal experience of the opposite sex, we're all generalising!"
again exactly. |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
I can assure you that plenty of single men have exactly the same problem.then don't do casual sex if you have that problem and or keep things as casual as possible then you don't run the risk of further feelings developing. If 2 people get together sexually and see alot of each other and one gets feelings for more then sex and the other doesn't. There is then animosity and one is the bad guy. Can you avoid that happening? Course u can. Keep things very casual.
Oh I agree, but I think the issue with those single males is often more one of ego than "romantic feelings""
I personally believe from this site when it's mentioned u want to keep things very casual, certain people get put off. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
Are you spreading your generalised knowledge again?
He did say it was an opinion
Yeah a generalised one based on one encounter where a woman was whinging and crying at him because she developed feelings. Fab research at its finest.
It's impossible for anyone to produce statistically significant personal experience of the opposite sex, we're all generalising!"
I'm trying and giving my best to get a decent sample together by being on here: all casual encounters, many repeats over years, no feelings involved...... I must be a heartless bitch |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
Are you spreading your generalised knowledge again?
He did say it was an opinion
Yeah a generalised one based on one encounter where a woman was whinging and crying at him because she developed feelings. Fab research at its finest.
It's impossible for anyone to produce statistically significant personal experience of the opposite sex, we're all generalising!
I'm trying and giving my best to get a decent sample together by being on here: all casual encounters, many repeats over years, no feelings involved...... I must be a heartless bitch "
I wouldn't doubt it for a moment |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
Are you spreading your generalised knowledge again?
He did say it was an opinion
Yeah a generalised one based on one encounter where a woman was whinging and crying at him because she developed feelings. Fab research at its finest.
It's impossible for anyone to produce statistically significant personal experience of the opposite sex, we're all generalising!
I'm trying and giving my best to get a decent sample together by being on here: all casual encounters, many repeats over years, no feelings involved...... I must be a heartless bitch "
From looking at some of your posts it is my considered opinion that you have the soul of a saint or nun and the mind of a ...no.... too rude to say!  |
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"Anything morethan sex and possibly a friendship and you should be on a dating site."
Half of fab are on all dating sites lol that's where I found out about fab |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
Are you spreading your generalised knowledge again?
He did say it was an opinion
Yeah a generalised one based on one encounter where a woman was whinging and crying at him because she developed feelings. Fab research at its finest.
It's impossible for anyone to produce statistically significant personal experience of the opposite sex, we're all generalising!
I'm trying and giving my best to get a decent sample together by being on here: all casual encounters, many repeats over years, no feelings involved...... I must be a heartless bitch "
Heartless is ok as long as u have a good core tempature |
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
Are you spreading your generalised knowledge again?
He did say it was an opinion
Yeah a generalised one based on one encounter where a woman was whinging and crying at him because she developed feelings. Fab research at its finest.
It's impossible for anyone to produce statistically significant personal experience of the opposite sex, we're all generalising!
I'm trying and giving my best to get a decent sample together by being on here: all casual encounters, many repeats over years, no feelings involved...... I must be a heartless bitch "
u can have repeats no problem just for me don't see one another to often. Keep it at what it is, casual. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"It's also of my opinion that alot of single women cannot keep things extremely casual in a sexual sense.
Are you spreading your generalised knowledge again?
He did say it was an opinion
Yeah a generalised one based on one encounter where a woman was whinging and crying at him because she developed feelings. Fab research at its finest.
It's impossible for anyone to produce statistically significant personal experience of the opposite sex, we're all generalising!
I'm trying and giving my best to get a decent sample together by being on here: all casual encounters, many repeats over years, no feelings involved...... I must be a heartless bitch
Heartless is ok as long as u have a good core tempature "
I do have a pulse, funny enough. |
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I get used for sex a a lot, normally I end things when I figure it out.
Even girls who would normally look for a date often say things to me like "Well I said I wouldnt do friends with benefits but youre changing my mind" as if its supposed to turn me on. |
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