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"cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ?? |
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""cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ?? "
It is a bit of an assumption.
Some are parents who (quite rightly) won't bring strangers into their family home. Others house share. Some simply prefer to keep their home private and separate from their Fab activities having had bad experiences in the past... There are a multitude of reasons for not accommodating. |
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over a year ago
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"Hung. It just annoys me I've no idea why.
Actually I'm with you on this one. Always makes me think they expect that to negate all your preferences. "
It makes me think they've got absolutely nothing else to offer. |
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over a year ago
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""cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ??
It is a bit of an assumption.
Some are parents who (quite rightly) won't bring strangers into their family home. Others house share. Some simply prefer to keep their home private and separate from their Fab activities having had bad experiences in the past... There are a multitude of reasons for not accommodating."
Although I think a fair few of my meets had cannot accommodate on their profiles but when it came down to it; they did. |
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"Hung. It just annoys me I've no idea why.
Actually I'm with you on this one. Always makes me think they expect that to negate all your preferences.
It makes me think they've got absolutely nothing else to offer."
That too!  |
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""cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ??
It is a bit of an assumption.
Some are parents who (quite rightly) won't bring strangers into their family home. Others house share. Some simply prefer to keep their home private and separate from their Fab activities having had bad experiences in the past... There are a multitude of reasons for not accommodating."
Oh i totally agree with the above, i still wont bring any9ne to mine for first meet but single males who cant accomodate are usually caught out along the line |
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I hate "I'm here for a good time not a long time" that drives me mad also single male profiles wen they are clearly attached nd keep going on about being discret. If they r that worried about getting caught then don't play away if your that worried. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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""cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ??
It is a bit of an assumption.
Some are parents who (quite rightly) won't bring strangers into their family home. Others house share. Some simply prefer to keep their home private and separate from their Fab activities having had bad experiences in the past... There are a multitude of reasons for not accommodating.
Oh i totally agree with the above, i still wont bring any9ne to mine for first meet but single males who cant accomodate are usually caught out along the line"
The same for single girls  |
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"Age range set to like 27 and up. Ugh. At least text ypinger people before assuming they are bad. Us college lads tend to fuck anything with a hole at this age haha"
I think you may have just proved a point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ?? "
I jump to the same conclusion it's ok lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What words on a profile act as an instant turnoff for you?
"Lick""
A guy trying to organise a meet with you and his status updates are calling for another woman to get in touch with him lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Age range set to like 27 and up. Ugh. At least text ypinger people before assuming they are bad. Us college lads tend to fuck anything with a hole at this age haha
I think you may have just proved a point. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ?? "
In my case I just won't strangers in my kids sanctuary 
It wouldn't change for anyone. |
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"What words on a profile act as an instant turnoff for you?
"Lick"
A guy trying to organise a meet with you and his status updates are calling for another woman to get in touch with him lol"
Those status updates always crack me up 
Do they not realise that if they're blocked from contacting the person themselves either because of a deliberate block or a filter, that they won't appear in that person's updates either? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Drama. If you have a rant on your profile, or update your status every day with some drama about another user then you are not for me."
Amen to that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wanna chat and see where it goes? - nowhere. Instant turn off.
Wanna fuck my boyfriend/husband? - nope.
I'm better than others. Give me a chance. - good people don't brag about being better than others. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
""cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ??
It is a bit of an assumption.
Some are parents who (quite rightly) won't bring strangers into their family home. Others house share. Some simply prefer to keep their home private and separate from their Fab activities having had bad experiences in the past... There are a multitude of reasons for not accommodating.
Oh i totally agree with the above, i still wont bring any9ne to mine for first meet but single males who cant accomodate are usually caught out along the line
The same for single girls "
I'm single and I don't accommodate I'm not bringing guys I just meet to my home. If they become a regular then ye in time I will. And I house share as well so its a definite no for new meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ??
It is a bit of an assumption.
Some are parents who (quite rightly) won't bring strangers into their family home. Others house share. Some simply prefer to keep their home private and separate from their Fab activities having had bad experiences in the past... There are a multitude of reasons for not accommodating.
Oh i totally agree with the above, i still wont bring any9ne to mine for first meet but single males who cant accomodate are usually caught out along the line
The same for single girls
I'm single and I don't accommodate I'm not bringing guys I just meet to my home. If they become a regular then ye in time I will. And I house share as well so its a definite no for new meets. "
Can I be a regular ? ) |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
""cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ??
It is a bit of an assumption.
Some are parents who (quite rightly) won't bring strangers into their family home. Others house share. Some simply prefer to keep their home private and separate from their Fab activities having had bad experiences in the past... There are a multitude of reasons for not accommodating.
Oh i totally agree with the above, i still wont bring any9ne to mine for first meet but single males who cant accomodate are usually caught out along the line
The same for single girls
I'm single and I don't accommodate I'm not bringing guys I just meet to my home. If they become a regular then ye in time I will. And I house share as well so its a definite no for new meets.
Can I be a regular ?)"
See I knew you were a sweet talker  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What words on a profile act as an instant turnoff for you?
"Lick"
A guy trying to organise a meet with you and his status updates are calling for another woman to get in touch with him lol
Those status updates always crack me up
Do they not realise that if they're blocked from contacting the person themselves either because of a deliberate block or a filter, that they won't appear in that person's updates either?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""cant accomodate" on single profiles.
I know some people jave genuine reasons for not being abke to accomodate, i get that totally. But i always just jump to the conclusion they are here without other halfs approval. Shame on me.. ??
It is a bit of an assumption.
Some are parents who (quite rightly) won't bring strangers into their family home. Others house share. Some simply prefer to keep their home private and separate from their Fab activities having had bad experiences in the past... There are a multitude of reasons for not accommodating.
Oh i totally agree with the above, i still wont bring any9ne to mine for first meet but single males who cant accomodate are usually caught out along the line
The same for single girls
I'm single and I don't accommodate I'm not bringing guys I just meet to my home. If they become a regular then ye in time I will. And I house share as well so its a definite no for new meets.
Can I be a regular ?)
See I knew you were a sweet talker "
Well im sweet on you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a few things, bareback pics, mention of drugs of an kind, stupid whiney status updates.
not really on a profile but we hate the comedians of the forums. seen too many good actually interesting threads ruined by them thinking their smart or stupid comments are funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tall men only.
Bin here before re verify me.
No bi men.
Stupid legal writing at the end ehh its pointless guys.
Cant accommodate cant travel?
Couples with only pics of female?
Fill in later
Safe sex only but showing BB photos?
Not looking for single guys atm so dont ail us just block them?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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smoker.... closely followed by "hun" or any misspelling.
If ya can't proof your profile, forget it.
It's the writing equivalent of dirt under your fingernails. |
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When people (you don't know or have never met) tell you they are "genuine".
Ok, so because they say they're genuine then that means we should believe they are genuine? 
How does that even work exactly, or what does that even mean?
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"Was here before, lost all the verifications...."
Does happen, in fairness.
Often people disappear for love or good sex and then come back as a couple or for new sex.
That one's allowed, from genuine Fabbers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What words on a profile act as an instant turnoff for you?
"Lick""
Only in the profile?
I've received really stupid sexist messages recently. I just can't imagine how a man can send it to a woman he never chatted before.
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"What words on a profile act as an instant turnoff for you?
"Lick"
Only in the profile?
I've received really stupid sexist messages recently. I just can't imagine how a man can send it to a woman he never chatted before.
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Loss of blood from one head to another, ignorance and lack of respect. I suppose some never cease to surprise in all the wrong ways. I just wonder how they speak to women when not behind a keyboard. I suspect your block list is full of them. |
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"Hung. It just annoys me I've no idea why.
Actually I'm with you on this one. Always makes me think they expect that to negate all your preferences. "
What about females & Couples that say on their profile that male meets must be “Hung” .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What words on a profile act as an instant turnoff for you?
"Lick"
Only in the profile?
I've received really stupid sexist messages recently. I just can't imagine how a man can send it to a woman he never chatted before.
Loss of blood from one head to another, ignorance and lack of respect. I suppose some never cease to surprise in all the wrong ways. I just wonder how they speak to women when not behind a keyboard. I suspect your block list is full of them. "
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"What words on a profile act as an instant turnoff for you?
"Lick"
Only in the profile?
I've received really stupid sexist messages recently. I just can't imagine how a man can send it to a woman he never chatted before.
Loss of blood from one head to another, ignorance and lack of respect. I suppose some never cease to surprise in all the wrong ways. I just wonder how they speak to women when not behind a keyboard. I suspect your block list is full of them. "
I'd say most would never even approach someone never mind say half the rubbish they put in messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Filters only allowing site supporters  Are you on commission or what?
Hey, yeah, sorry about that
That sounds like a handy gig combining your hobby and getting paid for it!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single athletic Female mid 20’s
No pics
Not verified (pic or meet)
“Send a face pic or I won’t respond”
Fuck
Right
Off"
And has no pic up themselves...pic trawler |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
Where to start...
Bad grammar/txt speak/bad spelling
A million dick pics and pet hate dick pic as profile pic
Attached and she/he doesn't know/cheating
Hun/Babe/Sexy I'm not your Hun or Babe
Any drug related updates
Fill in later - make an effort!
Please read my profile and if you are sending a message put the word kink/pink/whatever word in the subject line - really??
Any profiles with pics over toilet seats/ deodorant bottles/remote controls/messy rooms in background
Face pics as profile pics if you aren't discrete with your own pics you won't be with mine
Vulgar updates
You did ask...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where to start...
Bad grammar/txt speak/bad spelling
A million dick pics and pet hate dick pic as profile pic
Attached and she/he doesn't know/cheating
Hun/Babe/Sexy I'm not your Hun or Babe
Any drug related updates
Fill in later - make an effort!
Please read my profile and if you are sending a message put the word kink/pink/whatever word in the subject line - really??
Any profiles with pics over toilet seats/ deodorant bottles/remote controls/messy rooms in background
Face pics as profile pics if you aren't discrete with your own pics you won't be with mine
Vulgar updates
You did ask...
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So, why don't you tell us what you really think?  |
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"Hung. It just annoys me I've no idea why.
Actually I'm with you on this one. Always makes me think they expect that to negate all your preferences. "
And one man’s “hung” is another woman’s “meh, that’s just a basic cock.” |
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Instant turnoffs:
1. Any message ever, but especially the first one, with a list of things he will do to me, at me, or on me.
2. Bareback photos
3. 100% cock photos - no other aspect of himself displayed
4. “Not here for a long time, just a good time.”
5. Rough sex
6. Anal pounding or the like
7. Pictures of his ass, bent over and/or spread ass cheeks, asshole exposed
8. Verifications piling up with only days between and not from socials or MG parties |
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"Hung. It just annoys me I've no idea why.
Actually I'm with you on this one. Always makes me think they expect that to negate all your preferences.
And one man’s “hung” is another woman’s “meh, that’s just a basic cock.”"
Ah basic cock? As opposed to the GTI version?
What does the bells and whistle one look like? |
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