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Has this happened to anyone else??
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Can I assume that it was a fake profile?? Some fella collecting pics so he could have a good wank! Or maybe did she recognise someone she knew and got spooked.
Anyway, I am just wondering if anyone else had this experience? | |||
"Yesterday I got chatting to a newbie, she was only on the site two hours. We swapped pics, had a really nice chat,she was really attractive and local so I taught I hit the jackpot!! We planned to meet up later this week. A few hours later when I logged back in I noticed that she was gone, deleted her account
Can I assume that it was a fake profile?? Some fella collecting pics so he could have a good wank! Or maybe did she recognise someone she knew and got spooked.
Anyway, I am just wondering if anyone else had this experience?"Maybe she saw your cock hanging out of your under wear and thought it wouldn't be appropriate for a coffee meet   | |||
"Yesterday I got chatting to a newbie, she was only on the site two hours. We swapped pics, had a really nice chat,she was really attractive and local so I taught I hit the jackpot!! We planned to meet up later this week. A few hours later when I logged back in I noticed that she was gone, deleted her account
Can I assume that it was a fake profile?? Some fella collecting pics so he could have a good wank! Or maybe did she recognise someone she knew and got spooked.
Anyway, I am just wondering if anyone else had this experience?
Maybe she saw your cock hanging out of your under wear and thought it wouldn't be appropriate for a coffee meet "A coffee meet wasn't mentioned  | |||
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"Yesterday I got chatting to a newbie, she was only on the site two hours. We swapped pics, had a really nice chat,she was really attractive and local so I taught I hit the jackpot!! We planned to meet up later this week. A few hours later when I logged back in I noticed that she was gone, deleted her account
Can I assume that it was a fake profile?? Some fella collecting pics so he could have a good wank! Or maybe did she recognise someone she knew and got spooked.
Anyway, I am just wondering if anyone else had this experience?"Yep something very similar happened to me very little that can be done about it except move on if it's too good to be true it probably is don't take it too heart many fakes here unfortunately  | |||
"I would say she was swamped with hundreds of messages and decided to get out of dodge." I couldn't believe how many messages women get on here. A friend of mine got over 100 messages within the first hour of signing up.  | |||
"I'm not that type of girl" "I'm a fella"
...Could be for a hundred different reasons so wouldn't read too much into it OP. In future, would get her KIK address (if she has one) and chat to her away from the FAB madhouse!
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"Yesterday I got chatting to a newbie, she was only on the site two hours. We swapped pics, had a really nice chat,she was really attractive and local so I taught I hit the jackpot!! We planned to meet up later this week. A few hours later when I logged back in I noticed that she was gone, deleted her account
Can I assume that it was a fake profile?? Some fella collecting pics so he could have a good wank! Or maybe did she recognise someone she knew and got spooked.
Anyway, I am just wondering if anyone else had this experience?"I think Sunday is possibly the worst day of the week for a woman to join Fab, and it's more likely that a woman who joins on a Sunday will be scared off quicker. For those who don't know, female profiles get inundated with horny hangover mail on Sundays. Hundreds of cock pics from frustrated guys who want to meet right away 'to empty their balls' or at the very least want a woman (any woman will do!) to have text, phone or cam sex with them. Very often these men don't even think about the person they're mailing, about what they want or their preferences, because their own immediate need to blow their load is all-consuming. Saying no thanks frequently has no effect. They will continue to mail, saying how hard, throbbing, and horny they are, or what they are fantasising about doing to you in excruciating detail, until they are blocked. Then, even more frustrated, they will move in on another female and act even more aggressively. It's a weekly sextual assault, where apparently No doesn't mean No... It just means don't block me, I haven't cum yet. For more seasoned Fabbers, you learn to filter your mail on weekends to avoid the worst of this, but for a newbie who is just 2 hours on the site, this kind of visceral assault is most likely to send women not just running for the hills, but will most likely have them delete off the site shortly after joining, having formed an incredibly negative opinion of swingers in general as either slavering, brutish, aggressive people or, inversely, the kind of people who will allow or encourage this kind of behaviour towards themselves. Your friend may have fallen victim to this, and while your conversation with her may have been perfectly pleasant, for each pleasant message you exchanged she may have received 10 or 20 vile ones from various others. Sadly, this is Fab at times. | |||
"Yesterday I got chatting to a newbie, she was only on the site two hours. We swapped pics, had a really nice chat,she was really attractive and local so I taught I hit the jackpot!! We planned to meet up later this week. A few hours later when I logged back in I noticed that she was gone, deleted her account
Can I assume that it was a fake profile?? Some fella collecting pics so he could have a good wank! Or maybe did she recognise someone she knew and got spooked.
Anyway, I am just wondering if anyone else had this experience?
I think Sunday is possibly the worst day of the week for a woman to join Fab, and it's more likely that a woman who joins on a Sunday will be scared off quicker.
For those who don't know, female profiles get inundated with horny hangover mail on Sundays. Hundreds of cock pics from frustrated guys who want to meet right away 'to empty their balls' or at the very least want a woman (any woman will do!) to have text, phone or cam sex with them. Very often these men don't even think about the person they're mailing, about what they want or their preferences, because their own immediate need to blow their load is all-consuming. Saying no thanks frequently has no effect. They will continue to mail, saying how hard, throbbing, and horny they are, or what they are fantasising about doing to you in excruciating detail, until they are blocked. Then, even more frustrated, they will move in on another female and act even more aggressively. It's a weekly sextual assault, where apparently No doesn't mean No... It just means don't block me, I haven't cum yet.
For more seasoned Fabbers, you learn to filter your mail on weekends to avoid the worst of this, but for a newbie who is just 2 hours on the site, this kind of visceral assault is most likely to send women not just running for the hills, but will most likely have them delete off the site shortly after joining, having formed an incredibly negative opinion of swingers in general as either slavering, brutish, aggressive people or, inversely, the kind of people who will allow or encourage this kind of behaviour towards themselves.
Your friend may have fallen victim to this, and while your conversation with her may have been perfectly pleasant, for each pleasant message you exchanged she may have received 10 or 20 vile ones from various others.
Sadly, this is Fab at times. "Thats a good point. I have heard that women receive 100's of messages in the first hour after joining and like you said its guaranteed that alot of them are creeps! Its a shame | |||
"In a place like Ireland this is something most people will encounter if they are part of the community long enough... Everyone is an adult here and should have a level of discretion when it comes to keeping each others private lives private, while most of us have nothing to be ashamed of, we'd rather not have our sexual adventures be the topic of conversation down the local pub amongst the gossips! Unfortunately some people are incapable of behaving like a grown up on this site! " I was on here as a couple up to end of last year and my ex was down local one evening a couple months after and was approached by a local guy we both know who started to tell her how he knows that she used to swing and that he understands why she ended relationship as he knew she wasn't really into it and that they could continue discussion back at his place. Of course he said he found out from someone else etc etc but the fact he even brought up the subject in the local is a disgrace. | |||
" "I'm not a swinger" "I'm not that type of girl" "I'm a fella"
...Could be for a hundred different reasons so wouldn't read too much into it OP. In future, would get her KIK address (if she has one) and chat to her away from the FAB madhouse!
"There are fake Kik profiles too. A good test is to ask for a live picture. You'll soon know if they're a fake or not. | |||
" "I'm not a swinger" "I'm not that type of girl" "I'm a fella"
...Could be for a hundred different reasons so wouldn't read too much into it OP. In future, would get her KIK address (if she has one) and chat to her away from the FAB madhouse!
There are fake Kik profiles too. A good test is to ask for a live picture. You'll soon know if they're a fake or not. "Or ask them to get photo verified with the website. | |||
