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Think everyone is different a message saying hello how are you is fine by me. I than check profile and veris and if interested I reply. A lot don't read profiles |
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"Think everyone is different a message saying hello how are you is fine by me. I than check profile and veris and if interested I reply. A lot don't read profiles "
Its fine with you because your not up your own ass like some ladies here.Lets be honest Hi how are you is a perfectly good way of starting a chat with someone.
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"Think everyone is different a message saying hello how are you is fine by me. I than check profile and veris and if interested I reply. A lot don't read profiles Its fine with you because your not up your own ass like some ladies here.Lets be honest Hi how are you is a perfectly good way of starting a chat with someone. "
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"Think everyone is different a message saying hello how are you is fine by me. I than check profile and veris and if interested I reply. A lot don't read profiles Its fine with you because your not up your own ass like some ladies here.Lets be honest Hi how are you is a perfectly good way of starting a chat with someone.
Are you horny now? "
I haven't a clue what that's supposed to mean. |
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"Think everyone is different a message saying hello how are you is fine by me. I than check profile and veris and if interested I reply. A lot don't read profiles Its fine with you because your not up your own ass like some ladies here.Lets be honest Hi how are you is a perfectly good way of starting a chat with someone.
Are you horny now? I haven't a clue what that's supposed to mean."
It was my first message to you.. You didnt font it original?  |
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"Think everyone is different a message saying hello how are you is fine by me. I than check profile and veris and if interested I reply. A lot don't read profiles Its fine with you because your not up your own ass like some ladies here.Lets be honest Hi how are you is a perfectly good way of starting a chat with someone.
Are you horny now? I haven't a clue what that's supposed to mean.
It was my first message to you.. You didnt font it original? "
Your talking in riddles man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think everyone is different a message saying hello how are you is fine by me. I than check profile and veris and if interested I reply. A lot don't read profiles Its fine with you because your not up your own ass like some ladies here.Lets be honest Hi how are you is a perfectly good way of starting a chat with someone.
Are you horny now? I haven't a clue what that's supposed to mean.
It was my first message to you.. You didnt font it original? Your talking in riddles man."
A well at least I got it, that's the main thing |
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"Think everyone is different a message saying hello how are you is fine by me. I than check profile and veris and if interested I reply. A lot don't read profiles Its fine with you because your not up your own ass like some ladies here.Lets be honest Hi how are you is a perfectly good way of starting a chat with someone.
Are you horny now? I haven't a clue what that's supposed to mean.
It was my first message to you.. You didnt font it original? Your talking in riddles man.
A well at least I got it, that's the main thing"
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I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
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Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about. |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
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Having chatted with this lady plenty of times..definitely not up her own hole..us men are just jealous we dont get messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I normally read the profile and pick on a few words or phrases in the profile then construct an opening message around that . Maybe I would get a reply once in every ten messages ; about the same as if I had just said; Hi, how are you today?.
But at least I tried . But if she has 200 messages in her Inbox, it’s all down to luck. For nearly all my meets, it has been down to some witty or stupid status update which attracted their eye and they messaged me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I normally read the profile and pick on a few words or phrases in the profile then construct an opening message around that . Maybe I would get a reply once in every ten messages ; about the same as if I had just said; Hi, how are you today?.
But at least I tried . But if she has 200 messages in her Inbox, it’s all down to luck. For nearly all my meets, it has been down to some witty or stupid status update which attracted their eye and they messaged me"
Very true, it's the out there messages that get the attention but I think we're all guilty of lazy one from time to time which ends in instant delete..the main thing take it with a pinch of salt and respect the person's choice  |
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"What kinda first message do ladies like to receive form fellas apparently saying hello how are you isn't good. "
Men are forbidden from sending the first message on here, have you not been told that yet? Do you want to start another #metoo movement? |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Having chatted with this lady plenty of times..definitely not up her own hole..us men are just jealous we dont get messages "
Ah Davy! Thanks.
I got a message a couple of weeks ago and a guy literally said "hey. I noticed you were wearing a Nirvana hoodie in one of your pictures. Who's your favourite band these days?" such a simple message but I had never been asked it before.
It's not like my profile is empty and I've left you all without clues of what to put in a good first message. But men won't fucking read it! And then they complain when they get ignored.
But of course it's the woman's fault. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Having chatted with this lady plenty of times..definitely not up her own hole..us men are just jealous we dont get messages
Ah Davy! Thanks.
I got a message a couple of weeks ago and a guy literally said "hey. I noticed you were wearing a Nirvana hoodie in one of your pictures. Who's your favourite band these days?" such a simple message but I had never been asked it before.
It's not like my profile is empty and I've left you all without clues of what to put in a good first message. But men won't fucking read it! And then they complain when they get ignored.
But of course it's the woman's fault. "
I'm only asking a question I'm not giving out about anything |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Having chatted with this lady plenty of times..definitely not up her own hole..us men are just jealous we dont get messages
Ah Davy! Thanks.
I got a message a couple of weeks ago and a guy literally said "hey. I noticed you were wearing a Nirvana hoodie in one of your pictures. Who's your favourite band these days?" such a simple message but I had never been asked it before.
It's not like my profile is empty and I've left you all without clues of what to put in a good first message. But men won't fucking read it! And then they complain when they get ignored.
But of course it's the woman's fault. I'm only asking a question I'm not giving out about anything "
Never said you were. My responses weren't directed towards you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Having chatted with this lady plenty of times..definitely not up her own hole..us men are just jealous we dont get messages
Ah Davy! Thanks.
I got a message a couple of weeks ago and a guy literally said "hey. I noticed you were wearing a Nirvana hoodie in one of your pictures. Who's your favourite band these days?" such a simple message but I had never been asked it before.
It's not like my profile is empty and I've left you all without clues of what to put in a good first message. But men won't fucking read it! And then they complain when they get ignored.
But of course it's the woman's fault. I'm only asking a question I'm not giving out about anything
Never said you were. My responses weren't directed towards you. "
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The best you can do is just talk in chat/forum, get your name/image known a bit, work on your profile and THEN message and they will be like "Oh its frank from chat wonder what he wants", and not "I have 300 messages today".
Thats all you can do, and it wont stop rude people being rude and not replying anyway. |
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over a year ago
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As said above, iriginal messages seem to be met with the best response. For example, one of your 2 pics shows only your eyes so how about: "Look into my eyes, look into my eyes, the eyes, the eyes, not around the eyes, don't look around my eyes, look into my eyes, you're under. You will now go on a social with me, or at least have a chat  " - something like this maybe, it's only a suggestion but I'm trying to be light hearted and fun. Though if you send that 50 times too it'll start to get repetitive. Hi, how are you is fine but its less likely to get you a reply. |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about."
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time "
how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring "
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring "
Wouldn't call them anything. Would say "great, thanks" and walk the fuck away. Don't do small chats.
Mary |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring "
Apples and oranges man! Right now I have just over 1100 messages in my inbox because I posted a status last night. I'd say a good half of them are "hi how are you" that's over 600 of the exact same message.
If you were in a bar and 600 people who, lets me honest, you're not that interested in anyway, wanted to have the exact same small talk with you how long would it be before you were very fucking sick of it. Now imagine that's day after day after day. And you've got people saying your stuck up and worse because you don't want to, because you'd rather reply to the people who think of something original. Come on man. It's common sense. |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring "
Ladies are spoilt on fab so they come up with silly things to complain about it makes them feel important.
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Apples and oranges man! Right now I have just over 1100 messages in my inbox because I posted a status last night. I'd say a good half of them are "hi how are you" that's over 600 of the exact same message.
If you were in a bar and 600 people who, lets me honest, you're not that interested in anyway, wanted to have the exact same small talk with you how long would it be before you were very fucking sick of it. Now imagine that's day after day after day. And you've got people saying your stuck up and worse because you don't want to, because you'd rather reply to the people who think of something original. Come on man. It's common sense. "
1100 messages? You need a pa. |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Wouldn't call them anything. Would say "great, thanks" and walk the fuck away. Don't do small chats.
Mary "
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Having chatted with this lady plenty of times..definitely not up her own hole..us men are just jealous we dont get messages
Ah Davy! Thanks.
I got a message a couple of weeks ago and a guy literally said "hey. I noticed you were wearing a Nirvana hoodie in one of your pictures. Who's your favourite band these days?" such a simple message but I had never been asked it before.
It's not like my profile is empty and I've left you all without clues of what to put in a good first message. But men won't fucking read it! And then they complain when they get ignored.
But of course it's the woman's fault. "
How does...I see you have a timber floor would you about changing to laminate  |
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You can't beat originality especially in the real world, it just has to be even more original on fab, saying that, hi how are you in a bar has worked for me more often than not |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Apples and oranges man! Right now I have just over 1100 messages in my inbox because I posted a status last night. I'd say a good half of them are "hi how are you" that's over 600 of the exact same message.
If you were in a bar and 600 people who, lets me honest, you're not that interested in anyway, wanted to have the exact same small talk with you how long would it be before you were very fucking sick of it. Now imagine that's day after day after day. And you've got people saying your stuck up and worse because you don't want to, because you'd rather reply to the people who think of something original. Come on man. It's common sense.
1100 messages? You need a pa. "
Now lets be correct here: that's messages accumulated over weeks. No one with filters up has that amount of messages per day. It might have increased bit quicker with the new status. If you like the attention you get, don't complain about it, if you don't like the attention don't put such status up. It's all a bit about self importance, isn't it?
As for the 'how are you', yes those messages are boring and not original but they're polite option. |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Apples and oranges man! Right now I have just over 1100 messages in my inbox because I posted a status last night. I'd say a good half of them are "hi how are you" that's over 600 of the exact same message.
If you were in a bar and 600 people who, lets me honest, you're not that interested in anyway, wanted to have the exact same small talk with you how long would it be before you were very fucking sick of it. Now imagine that's day after day after day. And you've got people saying your stuck up and worse because you don't want to, because you'd rather reply to the people who think of something original. Come on man. It's common sense.
1100 messages? You need a pa.
Now lets be correct here: that's messages accumulated over weeks. No one with filters up has that amount of messages per day. It might have increased bit quicker with the new status. If you like the attention you get, don't complain about it, if you don't like the attention don't put such status up. It's all a bit about self importance, isn't it?
As for the 'how are you', yes those messages are boring and not original but they're polite option. "
I wasn't complaining dh, and self importance I definitely don't have any of that. I'm happy to get a message and try to reply to even the hi how are you messages |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Apples and oranges man! Right now I have just over 1100 messages in my inbox because I posted a status last night. I'd say a good half of them are "hi how are you" that's over 600 of the exact same message.
If you were in a bar and 600 people who, lets me honest, you're not that interested in anyway, wanted to have the exact same small talk with you how long would it be before you were very fucking sick of it. Now imagine that's day after day after day. And you've got people saying your stuck up and worse because you don't want to, because you'd rather reply to the people who think of something original. Come on man. It's common sense.
1100 messages? You need a pa.
Now lets be correct here: that's messages accumulated over weeks. No one with filters up has that amount of messages per day. It might have increased bit quicker with the new status. If you like the attention you get, don't complain about it, if you don't like the attention don't put such status up. It's all a bit about self importance, isn't it?
As for the 'how are you', yes those messages are boring and not original but they're polite option.
I wasn't complaining dh, and self importance I definitely don't have any of that. I'm happy to get a message and try to reply to even the hi how are you messages "
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Apples and oranges man! Right now I have just over 1100 messages in my inbox because I posted a status last night. I'd say a good half of them are "hi how are you" that's over 600 of the exact same message.
If you were in a bar and 600 people who, lets me honest, you're not that interested in anyway, wanted to have the exact same small talk with you how long would it be before you were very fucking sick of it. Now imagine that's day after day after day. And you've got people saying your stuck up and worse because you don't want to, because you'd rather reply to the people who think of something original. Come on man. It's common sense.
1100 messages? You need a pa.
Now lets be correct here: that's messages accumulated over weeks. No one with filters up has that amount of messages per day. It might have increased bit quicker with the new status. If you like the attention you get, don't complain about it, if you don't like the attention don't put such status up. It's all a bit about self importance, isn't it?
As for the 'how are you', yes those messages are boring and not original but they're polite option.
I wasn't complaining dh, and self importance I definitely don't have any of that. I'm happy to get a message and try to reply to even the hi how are you messages
Steph, that wasn't directed at you. Or do you have 1100 unread messages? "
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Apples and oranges man! Right now I have just over 1100 messages in my inbox because I posted a status last night. I'd say a good half of them are "hi how are you" that's over 600 of the exact same message.
If you were in a bar and 600 people who, lets me honest, you're not that interested in anyway, wanted to have the exact same small talk with you how long would it be before you were very fucking sick of it. Now imagine that's day after day after day. And you've got people saying your stuck up and worse because you don't want to, because you'd rather reply to the people who think of something original. Come on man. It's common sense.
1100 messages? You need a pa.
Now lets be correct here: that's messages accumulated over weeks. No one with filters up has that amount of messages per day. It might have increased bit quicker with the new status. If you like the attention you get, don't complain about it, if you don't like the attention don't put such status up. It's all a bit about self importance, isn't it?
As for the 'how are you', yes those messages are boring and not original but they're polite option.
I wasn't complaining dh, and self importance I definitely don't have any of that. I'm happy to get a message and try to reply to even the hi how are you messages
Steph, that wasn't directed at you. Or do you have 1100 unread messages?
1 this morning "
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Apples and oranges man! Right now I have just over 1100 messages in my inbox because I posted a status last night. I'd say a good half of them are "hi how are you" that's over 600 of the exact same message.
If you were in a bar and 600 people who, lets me honest, you're not that interested in anyway, wanted to have the exact same small talk with you how long would it be before you were very fucking sick of it. Now imagine that's day after day after day. And you've got people saying your stuck up and worse because you don't want to, because you'd rather reply to the people who think of something original. Come on man. It's common sense.
1100 messages? You need a pa.
Now lets be correct here: that's messages accumulated over weeks. No one with filters up has that amount of messages per day. It might have increased bit quicker with the new status. If you like the attention you get, don't complain about it, if you don't like the attention don't put such status up. It's all a bit about self importance, isn't it?
As for the 'how are you', yes those messages are boring and not original but they're polite option.
I wasn't complaining dh, and self importance I definitely don't have any of that. I'm happy to get a message and try to reply to even the hi how are you messages
Steph, that wasn't directed at you. Or do you have 1100 unread messages?
1 this morning "
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Wouldn't call them anything. Would say "great, thanks" and walk the fuck away. Don't do small chats.
Mary "
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Wouldn't call them anything. Would say "great, thanks" and walk the fuck away. Don't do small chats.
Mary and how would you start a conversation with a total stranger please tell us "
Seriously just read the profile if something grand your attention ask about that. Someone mentioned in an earlier post about a t-shirt. At end of day if you get no reply move on. I was out at weekend and if any guy had said hello how are you. I'd have replied good thanks and I think most people would.
Here is different and we are all here for different things so just go with the flow. |
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"Let call a spade a spade, the hi how are you messages aren't going to work unless your geared butler outta 300 "
Its not so much that it won't work it's just the fact that people think that being polite is boring.Not much wonder kids as young as 7 or 8 are coming out with such bad language now a days.
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Wouldn't call them anything. Would say "great, thanks" and walk the fuck away. Don't do small chats.
Mary and how would you start a conversation with a total stranger please tell us
Seriously just read the profile if something grand your attention ask about that. Someone mentioned in an earlier post about a t-shirt. At end of day if you get no reply move on. I was out at weekend and if any guy had said hello how are you. I'd have replied good thanks and I think most people would.
Here is different and we are all here for different things so just go with the flow. "
Go with the flow sure but don't say being polite is boring. When every second thread is ladies complaining about guys being rude in there messages. |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Wouldn't call them anything. Would say "great, thanks" and walk the fuck away. Don't do small chats.
Mary and how would you start a conversation with a total stranger please tell us
Seriously just read the profile if something grand your attention ask about that. Someone mentioned in an earlier post about a t-shirt. At end of day if you get no reply move on. I was out at weekend and if any guy had said hello how are you. I'd have replied good thanks and I think most people would.
Here is different and we are all here for different things so just go with the flow. Go with the flow sure but don't say being polite is boring. When every second thread is ladies complaining about guys being rude in there messages."
I have never said being boring is polite, ever and yes I've had my fair share of rude messages but that usually comes after saying not interested in meeting. |
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"Let call a spade a spade, the hi how are you messages aren't going to work unless your geared butler outta 300 Its not so much that it won't work it's just the fact that people think that being polite is boring.Not much wonder kids as young as 7 or 8 are coming out with such bad language now a days."
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Wouldn't call them anything. Would say "great, thanks" and walk the fuck away. Don't do small chats.
Mary and how would you start a conversation with a total stranger please tell us
Seriously just read the profile if something grand your attention ask about that. Someone mentioned in an earlier post about a t-shirt. At end of day if you get no reply move on. I was out at weekend and if any guy had said hello how are you. I'd have replied good thanks and I think most people would.
Here is different and we are all here for different things so just go with the flow. Go with the flow sure but don't say being polite is boring. When every second thread is ladies complaining about guys being rude in there messages.
I have never said being boring is polite, ever and yes I've had my fair share of rude messages but that usually comes after saying not interested in meeting. "
You didn't but lots of others did simply because they are up there own Asst to much attention makes people think they can walk on water even when they can't even swim. |
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"I'm not up my own hole and I think that it's pretty shit that girls like me who don't want to answer the same question hundreds of times a day are labelled like that.
There's only so many times I can type "I'm good. How are you?" before it becomes a boring chore.
It's polite, sure. But it's also unoriginal and repetitive.
Well you ladies complain if guys get straight to point and ask for the ride and you complain if they say Hi how are you. It looks to me as if ladies just love to have something to complain about.
Ladies are less likely to create "why do I never get replies" threads in forums....
And yes, what dublingirl said - there's only so many times one can answer "Hi, I'm fine, how are you" with most of them replies leading to most boring polite chats which lead to disinterest.
We ignore all "Hi, how are you" - if one chooses to be boring from a get go, may as well save any wasted time how the hell is hi how are you boring so if a fella/lady came up to you in a bar and said hi how are you would you call them boring
Wouldn't call them anything. Would say "great, thanks" and walk the fuck away. Don't do small chats.
Mary and how would you start a conversation with a total stranger please tell us
Seriously just read the profile if something grand your attention ask about that. Someone mentioned in an earlier post about a t-shirt. At end of day if you get no reply move on. I was out at weekend and if any guy had said hello how are you. I'd have replied good thanks and I think most people would.
Here is different and we are all here for different things so just go with the flow. Go with the flow sure but don't say being polite is boring. When every second thread is ladies complaining about guys being rude in there messages.
I have never said being boring is polite, ever and yes I've had my fair share of rude messages but that usually comes after saying not interested in meeting. You didn't but lots of others did simply because they are up there own Asst to much attention makes people think they can walk on water even when they can't even swim."
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Said some faceless internet ghost without profile to show or even half decent personality.
I've got my veris to show what kind of a person I am in real life. What do you Have? A handful of moany forum comments how all women think they're better than you? What are you trying to achieve with it exactly? |
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If the message is polite, it doesnt bother me if its a 'hi, how are you' type message.
I read their profile and if it interests me then the chat continues and we see where it goes. If the profile isn't for me I politely tell him so.
99 / 100 times they thank me and wish me well.
The worst messages are long boring messages, a duplicate of their profile - instant no thanks
Crude message are a turn off.
I do feel for guys on here. So many guys compared to females they need to stand out but many try too hard.
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I prefer to just say hey instead of adding the how are you part, leave it at that and let the 69 dick pics from varying unflattering angles do the talking... guaranteed to work |
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"Said some faceless internet ghost without profile to show or even half decent personality.
I've got my veris to show what kind of a person I am in real life. What do you Have? A handful of moany forum comments how all women think they're better than you? What are you trying to achieve with it exactly? "
I'm not a ghost I'm very much real and all that I did was ask a simple question |
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"Said some faceless internet ghost without profile to show or even half decent personality.
I've got my veris to show what kind of a person I am in real life. What do you Have? A handful of moany forum comments how all women think they're better than you? What are you trying to achieve with it exactly? "
Oops someone must have hit a nerve . |
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"Said some faceless internet ghost without profile to show or even half decent personality.
I've got my veris to show what kind of a person I am in real life. What do you Have? A handful of moany forum comments how all women think they're better than you? What are you trying to achieve with it exactly? I'm not a ghost I'm very much real and all that I did was ask a simple question "
OP, you do realize that NOT every single reply on your forum thread is directed at you? Right?
People do have conversations between themselves. When someone is talking to you directly - they will copy your previous message that they're replying to or will mention you in their comment. |
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"Said some faceless internet ghost without profile to show or even half decent personality.
I've got my veris to show what kind of a person I am in real life. What do you Have? A handful of moany forum comments how all women think they're better than you? What are you trying to achieve with it exactly? Oops someone must have hit a nerve ."
Allergic to incels. Hate sneezing for no reason. Please refrain from further trolling 
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"Said some faceless internet ghost without profile to show or even half decent personality.
I've got my veris to show what kind of a person I am in real life. What do you Have? A handful of moany forum comments how all women think they're better than you? What are you trying to achieve with it exactly? Oops someone must have hit a nerve .
Allergic to incels. Hate sneezing for no reason. Please refrain from further trolling
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"Said some faceless internet ghost without profile to show or even half decent personality.
I've got my veris to show what kind of a person I am in real life. What do you Have? A handful of moany forum comments how all women think they're better than you? What are you trying to achieve with it exactly? I'm not a ghost I'm very much real and all that I did was ask a simple question
OP, you do realize that NOT every single reply on your forum thread is directed at you? Right?
People do have conversations between themselves. When someone is talking to you directly - they will copy your previous message that they're replying to or will mention you in their comment. "
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"What kinda first message do ladies like to receive form fellas apparently saying hello how are you isn't good. "
Hi I just won the lotto, but its lonely here on the island, I would love you to join me here, we get regular deliveries of tayto crisps and Barry's tea ... |
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"What kinda first message do ladies like to receive form fellas apparently saying hello how are you isn't good.
Hi I just won the lotto, but its lonely here on the island, I would love you to join me here, we get regular deliveries of tayto crisps and Barry's tea ... "
Lol no need in a boat to get to the island because some think they can walk on water. |
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"What kinda first message do ladies like to receive form fellas apparently saying hello how are you isn't good.
Hi I just won the lotto, but its lonely here on the island, I would love you to join me here, we get regular deliveries of tayto crisps and Barry's tea ... Lol no need in a boat to get to the island because some think they can walk on water. "
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We think its perfectly acceptable to start with a simple Hi hows you ... we personally will respond to a polite mannerly messgae over does your missus swallow any day if the week . We dont know how else to message without a polite hi to get a chat started |
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"We think its perfectly acceptable to start with a simple Hi hows you ... we personally will respond to a polite mannerly messgae over does your missus swallow any day if the week . We dont know how else to message without a polite hi to get a chat started"
its like you have sit down and study what to write, i find if someone doesnt respond to my msgs then i dont respond in meets and greets dont care how many of the same msgs there are its not a site filled with george clooney casanova lookalikes either some guys are fooled by the ratio yes 20 men to 1 woman, but realistically a percentage of that is dreamers/fantasists old men weirdos rude or pic collectors, so chin up men its not as bad as it looks |
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