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why did you start swinging?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started for two reasons.
One was because of my high sex drive and always wanted to try 3some and moresome.
Second was because my ex wife had two affairs and I didn’t want the family to break up. So I suggested that we try swinging as it would allow us both to experience other people. Went well for 7 years and she decided to have another affair. She left to be with the guy and the Judge decided that the Family home be sold (was to be my inheritance from my Dad) and she receive half the money and my Dad the other half. I was also to pay her Solicitor fees and €55k debt mostly accrued by her.
So was it worth getting into swinging?
Answer is.....50/50
Anyway, I’ve recovered and doing good.
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"I started for two reasons.
One was because of my high sex drive and always wanted to try 3some and moresome.
Second was because my ex wife had two affairs and I didn’t want the family to break up. So I suggested that we try swinging as it would allow us both to experience other people. Went well for 7 years and she decided to have another affair. She left to be with the guy and the Judge decided that the Family home be sold (was to be my inheritance from my Dad) and she receive half the money and my Dad the other half. I was also to pay her Solicitor fees and €55k debt mostly accrued by her.
So was it worth getting into swinging?
Answer is.....50/50
Anyway, I’ve recovered and doing good.
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so sad and I can relate... hugs |
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over a year ago
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"we started swinging as we always loved pushing our sexual boundaires. in a way we are hedonists. why did you start swinging?  "
Curiosity...one life..live it ...see what happens rather than what if ... |
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"I started for two reasons.
One was because of my high sex drive and always wanted to try 3some and moresome.
Second was because my ex wife had two affairs and I didn’t want the family to break up. So I suggested that we try swinging as it would allow us both to experience other people. Went well for 7 years and she decided to have another affair. She left to be with the guy and the Judge decided that the Family home be sold (was to be my inheritance from my Dad) and she receive half the money and my Dad the other half. I was also to pay her Solicitor fees and €55k debt mostly accrued by her.
So was it worth getting into swinging?
Answer is.....50/50
Anyway, I’ve recovered and doing good.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started here with my wife a few years ago to bring a new element of excitement to our sex life, and it did, but unfortunately the craics were already there and made us realise passion in a couple dosnt always last forever...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why did you start swinging?"
Mostly peer presure. I only intended to sit there. I was young and my legs were short. Next thing I knew someone pushed me from behind. It just escalated from there....seasawing, jungle gym, merry go round....I've had my fair share of ups and downs but that's mostly been at the slides...it's a slippery slope, especially on a wet day ! |
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We’re started at the start of our relationship purely due to the fact we’re both bi. Meant we good both be greedy and have our cake and eat it while building a life together. 19 years later we’re still together and still swinging x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just met a guy or actually two different guys separately off tinder. They recommend this site to me, i am very happy that they did. I tried it and continued to swing because i enjoy it, i love the whole exploration if it all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spent many years working on ships, ferries and cruise ships at a young age and was exposed at a young age to the hedonistic, swinging
lifestyle and have loved it ever since  |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"So i see there is a few broken relationships because of swinging? Any more experiences like that here?"
Swinging is not what broke the relationship. We are both stil friends and still here, just not together. I did not come to that conclusion from the posts on here. |
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I was very sheltered and very unconfident about my body, my sexuality, my sex appeal. A man would make a pass at me and I'd presume he was taking the piss. A guy i was seeing introduced me to the idea, incidentally the 1st man to make me squirt. He woke something in me. A female friend showed me the site and here i am.
I've discovered my sexuailty, body confidence. Im sexy because i feel it, i hold myself differently. Been on here has helped with my journey. Im a kinky, bisexual woman and i love it. No regrets and no apologies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was very sheltered and very unconfident about my body, my sexuality, my sex appeal. A man would make a pass at me and I'd presume he was taking the piss. A guy i was seeing introduced me to the idea, incidentally the 1st man to make me squirt. He woke something in me. A female friend showed me the site and here i am.
I've discovered my sexuailty, body confidence. Im sexy because i feel it, i hold myself differently. Been on here has helped with my journey. Im a kinky, bisexual woman and i love it. No regrets and no apologies "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting and honestly frank so far.
I look forward to more replies
For me I reckon its my interest in sex and it's the place to meet likeminded people who enjoy sensuality. And of course it's where threesomes begin.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 3 yrs ago I had a threesome with a partner and our kinky friend, and adored every second of it. The experience honestly made me open up my eyes to what life could be like! My ex and I unfortunately didn’t last due to a whole host of other reasons (not threesome related lol), so I closed the door on fun, and presumed I could never have the same freedom in another relationship again.....
Then two yrs later I fell for someone as kinky and open as me. He introduced me to this site and we set up a profile together....We are still very happy to this day, having a blast in life together. Continuing to have our cake and eat it!! Long may this last!! x |
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I started to get to experience group play, go to parties have an MMF... have some different experiences... and to find someone I could have a casual fun time with on a regular basis..
I’ve fulfilled all... briefly had the regular a few times over the years..
it’s all be good and positive.. |
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"I started to get to experience group play, go to parties have an MMF... have some different experiences... and to find someone I could have a casual fun time with on a regular basis..
I’ve fulfilled all... briefly had the regular a few times over the years..
it’s all be good and positive.. "
I started here to meet women like u |
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By *ocvix17Couple
over a year ago
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Good few years back we watched Cannel 4 documentary about the lifestyle. At the end we both looked at each other and said that’s sexy - we decided to dip our toes and set out looking for FFM - we now know this is the hardest thing to make happen- but we started with a party in city centre which was cancelled on the day - we still went into the city and we had social meet with a couple who really gave us the insight into the real lifestyle- never looked back and have had some great some different experiences while living our double life together.
Been off the scene for while due to real life getting in the way but we will get back into the swing of things in the Autumn hopefully x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read a book about swinging and it appealed to me. I felt as if I was missing out sexually at the time too so I jumped in and it helped me fulfill a few fantasies. I keep doing it because I've been lucky to have had great sex and it provides a chance to click with talented individuals and sexy female halves with no strings. |
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Well we met when we were very young, and basicly ran out of stuff to do to each other. Fantasy of other people was always there and I took the plunge while in Vegas and we visited a club and the rest is history, 3somes 4somes and moresomes, Mrs got in touch with her bi side. Having the craic, long may it continue |
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"My wife wouldn't have sex with me so I thought some of you might.
I didn't know you are married 
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She left me when she found out, and she even took the dog.
I gave up for a while when I met my girlfriend but then she stopped having sex with me so I came back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's nearly exactly a year since I joined. I got let down on yet another Tinder date cancelling. A friend recommended it and I rolled my eyes and said yeah right not looking to be in the Sunday World anytime soon. But curiosity got the better of me. I signed up that evening and woke up to 402 unread messages. So that's how I fell down the Fab rabbit hole. Never thought I would make so many incredible friends from it. |
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I started because a very hot woman told me she was going to give her husband a 3some with another girl, but before she did he agreed to let her fuck whatever guy she wanted to in a 3some, and she wanted me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined up under the influence thought this is interesting, after a couple of years dipped my toe in and had some absolutely incredible experiences since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a girl years and years agoon a dating site. (which was only new then)
I was pretty shit and in experienced so she really thought me everything and was a fuck buddy for years.
She had desires for 3sums cams close a few times but we decided to join s4i. But it just fizzled out, she moved etc.
I heard of fab on s4i.
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I was on Fet for awhile and I wanted to attend parties where there weren't as many rules and dress codes. Where I could be free to be a kinky freak. Someone there suggested joining here to attend Vanilla. I didn't originally have any intentions of meeting anyone but that lasted about a minute haha |
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Good question op. To be honest I joined this site to perv at the plethora of male eye candy on offer and for chats as the majority of people on here seemed open minded and largely non judgemental. Chats and friendship led to an invite to a gathering by a lovely lady on here and her party organiser friend. A bit daunting being the only tranny at the party but it really was a most fantastic experience. Have gone on to make some wonderful friendships both online and in the real world. Thanks lovely people x  |
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