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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've posted something similar before, but it looks like it's about time to post it again.
Everyone is lashing out at "fab straight" men getting all upset for why do they call themselves straight and how much of lying cowards they are. So here's a few logical and grounded reasons why one would call themselves straight on their profile, but still contacts other bi, gay men and tvs:
1. Some are genuinely straight, only open minded enough to be okay and comfortable with occasional bi experience without questioning their main sexuality.
2. Some believe that one can only be classed as truly bi if they're capable to develop romantic feelings towards both sexes.
3. Some don't want to receive any messages from men and like to pick who they would like to meet themselves.
4. Some have judgmental friends on here and would like to avoid any rumours or confrontations as even as much as changing your status to bi curious without even touching another man may cause some sensitive soul start screaming AIDS.
5. Some just want to keep their own sex life private. People hide their faces, marriage statuses, work titles, home addresses, phone numbers and family members. What they do behind closed doors has every right to remain private too.
Rant over.
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Very true, I'm straight as a die and get alot of messages from men that say their straight/bi etc, i don't mind having a chat but some are hahahahhaha filthy fcks and cant take "im not interested" most folks on here seem to like to party alot.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one has a right to complain about bi sexual guys saying straight on their profile. It's all about trying to put things on your profile that will most likely give you a better chance.
There's tons of people in relationships on here who do not state they are.
Same goes for age. So called 38 year old guys who are clearly pushing 50.
I could go on.
This isn't the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh i don't get the whole bisexual thing. Hahahaha it doesn't bother me i have a few buddies that are bi, but can't get my head around it. Is it a younger thing lol"
Guys go gay when they can't get women. Harsh. I know.
Not saying everyone but I have first hand seen guys do it.
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"Tbh i don't get the whole bisexual thing. Hahahaha it doesn't bother me i have a few buddies that are bi, but can't get my head around it. Is it a younger thing lol
Guys go gay when they can't get women. Harsh. I know.
Not saying everyone but I have first hand seen guys do it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah shut up that's pure nonsense "
Then you, my good man are living in a bubble.
Go ask a tranny and see what happens when so many guys shoot their load.
But hey, nah you're right. You're 100% right. God forbid something exists that you've never heard of that you can't phantom.
Hey wanna tell me next week's lotto numbers since you know everything? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Freedom to practice as you like, stuff you enjoy and what gets you off
but tired/amused/bored with blokes hitting on profiles that are clearly not interested in boy/boy action.
Can't read, can't understand, can't give a fuck.
Either way it comes across a sad and desperate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not living in a bubble, far from it, and here, everyone has their own kinks, but your not getting your point across very well"
I did. You just flat out refused to believe something that you never thought of or heard of before.
World's a weird place dude.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You just can't turn gay just like that. Ask anyone, it looks like you know from personal experiences"
I used to think that. That there was a clean line in the sand.
The power of needing sex with a woman is strong (obviously if you are straight)
Sure why do you think gay sex happens so much in prisons?
It's messed up. I know its mad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've posted something similar before, but it looks like it's about time to post it again.
Everyone is lashing out at "fab straight" men getting all upset for why do they call themselves straight and how much of lying cowards they are. So here's a few logical and grounded reasons why one would call themselves straight on their profile, but still contacts other bi, gay men and tvs:
1. Some are genuinely straight, only open minded enough to be okay and comfortable with occasional bi experience without questioning their main sexuality.
2. Some believe that one can only be classed as truly bi if they're capable to develop romantic feelings towards both sexes.
3. Some don't want to receive any messages from men and like to pick who they would like to meet themselves.
4. Some have judgmental friends on here and would like to avoid any rumours or confrontations as even as much as changing your status to bi curious without even touching another man may cause some sensitive soul start screaming AIDS.
5. Some just want to keep their own sex life private. People hide their faces, marriage statuses, work titles, home addresses, phone numbers and family members. What they do behind closed doors has every right to remain private too.
Rant over.
Good night "
... wouldn't say it was a rant Missus ..just good specific points pointed out...my interest is very simple indeed...ladies....am as straight as a whip...and absolutely no interest in anything a male has to offer ( unless it's a red hot tip for a 30/1 shot ).. it's just the amazing .. wonderful.. sensational pleasures that a lady has that has my interest ...all the way ... |
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"Very true, I'm straight as a die and get alot of messages from men that say their straight/bi etc, i don't mind having a chat but some are hahahahhaha filthy fcks and cant take "im not interested" most folks on here seem to like to party alot.. "
Don't think those who can't take 'I'm not interested' are necessarily bi or gay, if you were a woman, you'd see plenty of that behaviour from straight men too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one has a right to complain about bi sexual guys saying straight on their profile. It's all about trying to put things on your profile that will most likely give you a better chance.
There's tons of people in relationships on here who do not state they are.
Same goes for age. So called 38 year old guys who are clearly pushing 50.
I could go on.
This isn't the real world. "
i have been 38 for years lol and pulling 50 dont push it any more
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Good tips OP.
I dont really question other people's profile.
It's your profile, do and write whatever you want.
And for those who read it, make your own individual judgement.
Poor is the person whose pleasure depends on the permission of others. |
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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago
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Hahaha the amount of shite being commented here.
Being gay or bi is not a generational thing.
While there is fellas with a "any holes a goal" attitude, there has never ever been a fella turn gay because they can't get a woman.
It doesn't work like that.
There is definitely more stupid people in ireland than Gay or Bi people. Evident here on this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would class myself as straight but if the opportunity came around I would love to try a lad I'm not looking or anything but will do some day so what does that make me."
Once you try you should never lie. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
I cant agree with this. People need be more honest with themselves in the lifestyle.
You are doing a disservice to all the brave people out there who come out.
Swinging allows for people to be honest about what they want without being judged by vanilla people.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I cant agree with this. People need be more honest with themselves in the lifestyle.
You are doing a disservice to all the brave people out there who come out.
Swinging allows for people to be honest about what they want without being judged by vanilla people.
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I wasn't saying what they should or shouldn't do. All I was saying that there are solid logical reasons why they do it and that there's no shame in doing it either.
I consider myself straight too purely referring to my point 2. While I play with women occasionally there will never be a time when I wake up in the morning and say "oh I fancy to meet a woman today" |
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"I cant agree with this. People need be more honest with themselves in the lifestyle.
You are doing a disservice to all the brave people out there who come out.
Swinging allows for people to be honest about what they want without being judged by vanilla people.
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Totally agree with the above comments. I'm straight and have filters up to avoid messages from men. I still get the odd message from men who are part of a couple but they are upfront and not using the couple's profile to camouflage their sexuality. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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1. Some are genuinely straight, only open minded enough to be okay and comfortable with occasional bi experience without questioning their main sexuality.
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Genuine 100% straight men have no bi tendencies, no interest in occasional bi experiences, i know this because i am straight.
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"isnt that why there is a "bi curious" option in the drop down menu? "
A gay man being with a woman and having kids with her is still gay, not bi curious.
A straight man who is comfortable with himself enough to fool about with a guy but has never had any notions of dating, or being romantically involved with another guy, might not see himself as bisexual curious. He might also never have any intention of meeting guys one on one.
Anyway, it don't matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Some are genuinely straight, only open minded enough to be okay and comfortable with occasional bi experience without questioning their main sexuality.
Genuine 100% straight men have no bi tendencies, no interest in occasional bi experiences, i know this because i am straight.
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Exactly your straight or your not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh gosh, another thread with straight man emphasising how straight they are and how not straight others are.  "
I don't feel the the need to emphasise how straight I am, and really don't care if gay or bi tenancies, all I know is ill chat to any guy as long as their sound, sane and aware that's as far it will go for me |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Oh gosh, another thread with straight man emphasising how straight they are and how not straight others are. "
men who occasionally find a cock in their mouth or hand are not straight, so they shouldnt be described that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's one for yous there is so many straight guys hitting on TV's profiles I get tons and I'm only looking for bi people, but Jim fussy they would have to be smooth all over before I would consider a meet with them. My preference is
smooth coupless,TV's c.ds or single ladies. The straight guys hitting on me are eithier married or lying to there teeth and pretending to be part of a couple and wanting to meet alone , the block button is excellent. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"isnt that why there is a "bi curious" option in the drop down menu?
A gay man being with a woman and having kids with her is still gay, not bi curious.
A straight man who is comfortable with himself enough to fool about with a guy but has never had any notions of dating, or being romantically involved with another guy, might not see himself as bisexual curious. He might also never have any intention of meeting guys one on one.
Anyway, it don't matter."
100% on point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has the right to privacy and to decide what they want to reveal about themselve's on their profile.However if they are not stating it for the simple fact of getting more meets with women who do not want to meet bi men,then it's lieing pure and simple.Every person here male or female has the right to decide for themselve's what turns them on and what line's they do not want to cross. So if a man play's with another man, suck's cock etc he is not straight . Fact! There is nothing at all wrong with it but just be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has the right to privacy and to decide what they want to reveal about themselve's on their profile.However if they are not stating it for the simple fact of getting more meets with women who do not want to meet bi men,then it's lieing pure and simple.Every person here male or female has the right to decide for themselve's what turns them on and what line's they do not want to cross. So if a man play's with another man, suck's cock etc he is not straight . Fact! There is nothing at all wrong with it but just be honest."
100% this ^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Amen!!
"Everyone has the right to privacy and to decide what they want to reveal about themselve's on their profile.However if they are not stating it for the simple fact of getting more meets with women who do not want to meet bi men,then it's lieing pure and simple.Every person here male or female has the right to decide for themselve's what turns them on and what line's they do not want to cross. So if a man play's with another man, suck's cock etc he is not straight . Fact! There is nothing at all wrong with it but just be honest.
100% this ^^^"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has the right to privacy and to decide what they want to reveal about themselve's on their profile.However if they are not stating it for the simple fact of getting more meets with women who do not want to meet bi men,then it's lieing pure and simple.Every person here male or female has the right to decide for themselve's what turns them on and what line's they do not want to cross. So if a man play's with another man, suck's cock etc he is not straight . Fact! There is nothing at all wrong with it but just be honest."
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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Agree...call a spade a spade....we're all to PC these days and afraid to offend. I consider myself to be open minded, live and let live and against bigotry or imposition of morals of any sort though be happy in what you are and if you are bi or gay have the honesty to state it....might even increase your chances of a meet on here so no point in "being conservative" with the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a person does not want to meet a particular type ie attached or bi or whatever then it is never right for someone to deny what they are just to get sex or for others to label them for their views saying they are not open minded.
The rights of the person not wanting to be with bi person /attached etc should be respected. It has to work both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Going by most replies so far:
1. One has to fully disclose ALL of their sexual experiences to ALL future partners way before a meet for future partner to make up their mind if previous partners were to their acceptable standard.
2. If you try or want to try something once just to see if you like it - that's it, you may as well put on that label for life.
(Basic example: I'm sure most of you have or were just about to try some drugs of any kind in your teenage or should I say experimental years. Now if you have tried them, that's it, you're a druggie for life. If you were only curious - drug risk group. You may need councelling. Does it seem fair? Don't think so)
3. Everyone is extremely concerned about safety of being with a man who has sucked a cock.
How many cocks does it take for a woman to suck until she's deemed unsafe? Or do women get a free pass at cock sucking?
4. If Linda fingered a girl in her uni years in some d*unken party. But never touched another woman or even thought about doing so. Why is she not classed as bi?
Now I'm not causing an argument just genuinely wondering why there's so many harsh double standards when it comes to bi curious men.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Going by most replies so far:
1. One has to fully disclose ALL of their sexual experiences to ALL future partners way before a meet for future partner to make up their mind if previous partners were to their acceptable standard.
2. If you try or want to try something once just to see if you like it - that's it, you may as well put on that label for life.
(Basic example: I'm sure most of you have or were just about to try some drugs of any kind in your teenage or should I say experimental years. Now if you have tried them, that's it, you're a druggie for life. If you were only curious - drug risk group. You may need councelling. Does it seem fair? Don't think so)
3. Everyone is extremely concerned about safety of being with a man who has sucked a cock.
How many cocks does it take for a woman to suck until she's deemed unsafe? Or do women get a free pass at cock sucking?
4. If Linda fingered a girl in her uni years in some d*unken party. But never touched another woman or even thought about doing so. Why is she not classed as bi?
Now I'm not causing an argument just genuinely wondering why there's so many harsh double standards when it comes to bi curious men.
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Because they don't admit what they are and they definitely not straight. |
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"Agree...call a spade a spade....we're all to PC these days and afraid to offend. I consider myself to be open minded, live and let live and against bigotry or imposition of morals of any sort though be happy in what you are and if you are bi or gay have the honesty to state it....might even increase your chances of a meet on here so no point in "being conservative" with the truth"
You want them to appease your internal bias. The is zero problem with them considering themselves straight even if they have experimented or fooled around, the bias is on your part that they label themselves with your definition of being gay or bi, which is anyone who touches another persons dick or something along them lines.
If a woman does not want men who have experimented or men who have touched another men then thats what she needs to say on her profile, "No men who have experimented or touched other men during a 3some or even thought about it".
Then the fab straight men can put on their profile "A willy nearly touched me one time but I jumped out of the way, but I got std tested anyway and carry the results around in my pocket and will show you them".
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"Going by most replies so far:
1. One has to fully disclose ALL of their sexual experiences to ALL future partners way before a meet for future partner to make up their mind if previous partners were to their acceptable standard.
2. If you try or want to try something once just to see if you like it - that's it, you may as well put on that label for life.
(Basic example: I'm sure most of you have or were just about to try some drugs of any kind in your teenage or should I say experimental years. Now if you have tried them, that's it, you're a druggie for life. If you were only curious - drug risk group. You may need councelling. Does it seem fair? Don't think so)
3. Everyone is extremely concerned about safety of being with a man who has sucked a cock.
How many cocks does it take for a woman to suck until she's deemed unsafe? Or do women get a free pass at cock sucking?
4. If Linda fingered a girl in her uni years in some d*unken party. But never touched another woman or even thought about doing so. Why is she not classed as bi?
Now I'm not causing an argument just genuinely wondering why there's so many harsh double standards when it comes to bi curious men.
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I found this very interesting I think every single person is like this. Like I see guys and think god he's hot or wonder what his cock is like everyone has a bi streak forget the labels enjoy life while we can  |
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"Going by most replies so far:
1. One has to fully disclose ALL of their sexual experiences to ALL future partners way before a meet for future partner to make up their mind if previous partners were to their acceptable standard.
2. If you try or want to try something once just to see if you like it - that's it, you may as well put on that label for life.
(Basic example: I'm sure most of you have or were just about to try some drugs of any kind in your teenage or should I say experimental years. Now if you have tried them, that's it, you're a druggie for life. If you were only curious - drug risk group. You may need councelling. Does it seem fair? Don't think so)
3. Everyone is extremely concerned about safety of being with a man who has sucked a cock.
How many cocks does it take for a woman to suck until she's deemed unsafe? Or do women get a free pass at cock sucking?
4. If Linda fingered a girl in her uni years in some d*unken party. But never touched another woman or even thought about doing so. Why is she not classed as bi?
Now I'm not causing an argument just genuinely wondering why there's so many harsh double standards when it comes to bi curious men.
I found this very interesting I think every single person is like this. Like I see guys and think god he's hot or wonder what his cock is like everyone has a bi streak forget the labels enjoy life while we can "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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PC world gone mad!
Its fine to be whatever you want to be but a person is judged if the dont want to meet that person. Rights to be equal must go both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So it's fine to state any preference at all such as wont meet attached or prefer slim/big women or tall men etc but not meeting bi men is not just seen as another preference? What's the difference..and no one mentioned safety. For some women it's just not a turn on simple as.I'm sure there are alot of women that it does turn on..it would be a very boring world if we all liked the same thing. |
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"Going by most replies so far:
1. One has to fully disclose ALL of their sexual experiences to ALL future partners way before a meet for future partner to make up their mind if previous partners were to their acceptable standard.
2. If you try or want to try something once just to see if you like it - that's it, you may as well put on that label for life.
(Basic example: I'm sure most of you have or were just about to try some drugs of any kind in your teenage or should I say experimental years. Now if you have tried them, that's it, you're a druggie for life. If you were only curious - drug risk group. You may need councelling. Does it seem fair? Don't think so)
3. Everyone is extremely concerned about safety of being with a man who has sucked a cock.
How many cocks does it take for a woman to suck until she's deemed unsafe? Or do women get a free pass at cock sucking?
4. If Linda fingered a girl in her uni years in some d*unken party. But never touched another woman or even thought about doing so. Why is she not classed as bi?
Now I'm not causing an argument just genuinely wondering why there's so many harsh double standards when it comes to bi curious men.
Because they don't admit what they are and they definitely not straight. "
UNLOS
Oh how brave! Gobshite 
As I said on another thread, Free is a good label
It always attracts me in shops anyway  |
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"Going by most replies so far:
1. One has to fully disclose ALL of their sexual experiences to ALL future partners way before a meet for future partner to make up their mind if previous partners were to their acceptable standard.
2. If you try or want to try something once just to see if you like it - that's it, you may as well put on that label for life.
(Basic example: I'm sure most of you have or were just about to try some drugs of any kind in your teenage or should I say experimental years. Now if you have tried them, that's it, you're a druggie for life. If you were only curious - drug risk group. You may need councelling. Does it seem fair? Don't think so)
3. Everyone is extremely concerned about safety of being with a man who has sucked a cock.
How many cocks does it take for a woman to suck until she's deemed unsafe? Or do women get a free pass at cock sucking?
4. If Linda fingered a girl in her uni years in some d*unken party. But never touched another woman or even thought about doing so. Why is she not classed as bi?
Now I'm not causing an argument just genuinely wondering why there's so many harsh double standards when it comes to bi curious men.
Because they don't admit what they are and they definitely not straight.
UNLOS
Oh how brave! Gobshite
As I said on another thread, Free is a good label
It always attracts me in shops anyway "
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"Going by most replies so far:
1. One has to fully disclose ALL of their sexual experiences to ALL future partners way before a meet for future partner to make up their mind if previous partners were to their acceptable standard.
2. If you try or want to try something once just to see if you like it - that's it, you may as well put on that label for life.
(Basic example: I'm sure most of you have or were just about to try some drugs of any kind in your teenage or should I say experimental years. Now if you have tried them, that's it, you're a druggie for life. If you were only curious - drug risk group. You may need councelling. Does it seem fair? Don't think so)
3. Everyone is extremely concerned about safety of being with a man who has sucked a cock.
How many cocks does it take for a woman to suck until she's deemed unsafe? Or do women get a free pass at cock sucking?
4. If Linda fingered a girl in her uni years in some d*unken party. But never touched another woman or even thought about doing so. Why is she not classed as bi?
Now I'm not causing an argument just genuinely wondering why there's so many harsh double standards when it comes to bi curious men.
Because they don't admit what they are and they definitely not straight.
UNLOS
Oh how brave! Gobshite
As I said on another thread, Free is a good label
It always attracts me in shops anyway
You scared him off John "
Rowdy, if he's scared of me, he should be scared of the internet, never mind real people |
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"Going by most replies so far:
1. One has to fully disclose ALL of their sexual experiences to ALL future partners way before a meet for future partner to make up their mind if previous partners were to their acceptable standard.
2. If you try or want to try something once just to see if you like it - that's it, you may as well put on that label for life.
(Basic example: I'm sure most of you have or were just about to try some drugs of any kind in your teenage or should I say experimental years. Now if you have tried them, that's it, you're a druggie for life. If you were only curious - drug risk group. You may need councelling. Does it seem fair? Don't think so)
3. Everyone is extremely concerned about safety of being with a man who has sucked a cock.
How many cocks does it take for a woman to suck until she's deemed unsafe? Or do women get a free pass at cock sucking?
4. If Linda fingered a girl in her uni years in some d*unken party. But never touched another woman or even thought about doing so. Why is she not classed as bi?
Now I'm not causing an argument just genuinely wondering why there's so many harsh double standards when it comes to bi curious men.
Because they don't admit what they are and they definitely not straight.
UNLOS
Oh how brave! Gobshite
As I said on another thread, Free is a good label
It always attracts me in shops anyway
You scared him off John
Rowdy, if he's scared of me, he should be scared of the internet, never mind real people "
Or she. Just to be sure |
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"Tbh i don't get the whole bisexual thing. Hahahaha it doesn't bother me i have a few buddies that are bi, but can't get my head around it. Is it a younger thing lol
Guys go gay when they can't get women. Harsh. I know.
Not saying everyone but I have first hand seen guys do it.
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"Or say straight because a lot of couples/FEMS won't meet bi guys!"
This is the main reason most bi guys here have straight on their profile, I used to have it on mine ,but had to be honest with myself for my mental health . Hate conflict especially when its with yourself |
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By *pringingMan
over a year ago
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You know, for a website where every other profile picture is someone's hard cock or some elaborate BDSM scenario, it's amazing how conservative and archaic some fabbers' views on sexuality can be when these threads pop up. Imagine all the heads exploding as soon as someone mentions that sexuality is actually a spectrum...
Mad respect to OP for talking some sense and calling out this narrow-minded bullshit so eloquently |
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By *pringingMan
over a year ago
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"So it's fine to state any preference at all such as wont meet attached or prefer slim/big women or tall men etc but not meeting bi men is not just seen as another preference? What's the difference..and no one mentioned safety. For some women it's just not a turn on simple as.I'm sure there are alot of women that it does turn on..it would be a very boring world if we all liked the same thing. "
Being bi isn't a physical attribute though, and doesn't have anything to do with availability/marital status. I don't see the correlation.
What makes it such a turn-off for you? Could you elaborate a bit about the safety issue? |
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So it's narrow minded bullshit because everyone doesn't have the same taste in what they like sexually? Should we all do thing's we don't want simply to go along with the crowd, or because apparently we are narrow minded to dare have personal preference. Ye all seem to take it very personally yet I have chatted with many bisexual guy's who take no offence at all,and simply move on to people who do share the same sexual desire's. As other's have said who care's! live and let live. Let everyone do whatever make's them happy without judgement either way. Isn't that what fab is about. |
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"So it's narrow minded bullshit because everyone doesn't have the same taste in what they like sexually? Should we all do thing's we don't want simply to go along with the crowd, or because apparently we are narrow minded to dare have personal preference. Ye all seem to take it very personally yet I have chatted with many bisexual guy's who take no offence at all,and simply move on to people who do share the same sexual desire's. As other's have said who care's! live and let live. Let everyone do whatever make's them happy without judgement either way. Isn't that what fab is about."
Well said , I block all straight guys perving on my profile when it's not what I'm looking for, no offence intended if straight be straight if bi be bi don't be pretending or say "I meant to change that on my profile" I don't know about anyone else but I see straight through it. |
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"So it's fine to state any preference at all such as wont meet attached or prefer slim/big women or tall men etc but not meeting bi men is not just seen as another preference? What's the difference..and no one mentioned safety. For some women it's just not a turn on simple as.I'm sure there are alot of women that it does turn on..it would be a very boring world if we all liked the same thing.
Being bi isn't a physical attribute though, and doesn't have anything to do with availability/marital status. I don't see the correlation.
What makes it such a turn-off for you? Could you elaborate a bit about the safety issue?"
I Didn't say nothing about the safety issue..if you actually read back it was the op that metioned safety and maybe that being one of the reason's. I am under no allusion's that every single bi guy pratice's unsafe sex or there is no risk with straight men/women.That's bullshit that was never said. For me personally it doesn't turn me on simple as that. I don't feel I have to explain myself to anyone further then that. I don't take offence when I'm not what someone is looking for. |
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"So it's fine to state any preference at all such as wont meet attached or prefer slim/big women or tall men etc but not meeting bi men is not just seen as another preference? What's the difference..and no one mentioned safety. For some women it's just not a turn on simple as.I'm sure there are alot of women that it does turn on..it would be a very boring world if we all liked the same thing.
Being bi isn't a physical attribute though, and doesn't have anything to do with availability/marital status. I don't see the correlation.
What makes it such a turn-off for you? Could you elaborate a bit about the safety issue?
I Didn't say nothing about the safety issue..if you actually read back it was the op that metioned safety and maybe that being one of the reason's. I am under no allusion's that every single bi guy pratice's unsafe sex or there is no risk with straight men/women.That's bullshit that was never said. For me personally it doesn't turn me on simple as that. I don't feel I have to explain myself to anyone further then that. I don't take offence when I'm not what someone is looking for."
Untrue I'm bi I practice safe sex all the time 100% |
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"So it's fine to state any preference at all such as wont meet attached or prefer slim/big women or tall men etc but not meeting bi men is not just seen as another preference? What's the difference..and no one mentioned safety. For some women it's just not a turn on simple as.I'm sure there are alot of women that it does turn on..it would be a very boring world if we all liked the same thing.
Being bi isn't a physical attribute though, and doesn't have anything to do with availability/marital status. I don't see the correlation.
What makes it such a turn-off for you? Could you elaborate a bit about the safety issue?
I Didn't say nothing about the safety issue..if you actually read back it was the op that metioned safety and maybe that being one of the reason's. I am under no allusion's that every single bi guy pratice's unsafe sex or there is no risk with straight men/women.That's bullshit that was never said. For me personally it doesn't turn me on simple as that. I don't feel I have to explain myself to anyone further then that. I don't take offence when I'm not what someone is looking for.
Untrue I'm bi I practice safe sex all the time 100%"
Yes..that's what I meant. |
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By *pringingMan
over a year ago
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"So it's narrow minded bullshit because everyone doesn't have the same taste in what they like sexually? Should we all do thing's we don't want simply to go along with the crowd, or because apparently we are narrow minded to dare have personal preference. Ye all seem to take it very personally yet I have chatted with many bisexual guy's who take no offence at all,and simply move on to people who do share the same sexual desire's. As other's have said who care's! live and let live. Let everyone do whatever make's them happy without judgement either way. Isn't that what fab is about."
Being bi isn't an observable trait though. I doubt you require all of your partners' interests and past exploits to line up entirely with your own, so I'm wondering why someone having possibly been with another man in the past is such a deal-breaking turn-off for you and others. Those acts and those thoughts don't even remotely involve you as a woman, there's nothing gay taking place when you're fucking a bisexual man.
And obviously you're free to do whatever you want, just like when you vaguely mention "personal preference" we're free to question and probe a bit deeper (pun unintended) if we want. |
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I don't see why it's so vague as you put it..if you don't want to do something you don't. It's pretty straight forward in my eyes. And of course ye are free to question whatever ye want . We all have freewill to do whatever we want |
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By *pringingMan
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"I don't see why it's so vague as you put it..if you don't want to do something you don't. It's pretty straight forward in my eyes. And of course ye are free to question whatever ye want . We all have freewill to do whatever we want"
But the question is "why" and it's actually a bit more complicated than that, hence all the discussion, but it doesn't seem like you're going to elaborate at all so I don't see this going anywhere really. Have a great night |
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"I don't see why it's so vague as you put it..if you don't want to do something you don't. It's pretty straight forward in my eyes. And of course ye are free to question whatever ye want . We all have freewill to do whatever we want
But the question is "why" and it's actually a bit more complicated than that, hence all the discussion, but it doesn't seem like you're going to elaborate at all so I don't see this going anywhere really. Have a great night "
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When a lot of “ straight “ men mailed me on this. I checked on their profile didn’t mentioned about interest into TS so I informed them I’m a TS and they knew then I asked why Most profile didn’t mentioned about TS. Most of them mentioned will get nasty messages from women and slag them off about into TS and labels are gay or bisexual as they don’t like it.
It’s really shame because it’s 2019 like come on.
Trans women are real women!
Respect my option.
Peace out
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It's really trans women, they're real women, it's unbelievable, I'm 8 I feel attracted only by women, I get upset, by the amount of women who send msg saying that I should change the profile for bi or gay because I left with Ts, I'm not gay or bi, and who does not find me by the simple fact of my encounter with ts, |
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"Ah shut up that's pure nonsense
Then you, my good man are living in a bubble.
Go ask a tranny and see what happens when so many guys shoot their load.
But hey, nah you're right. You're 100% right. God forbid something exists that you've never heard of that you can't phantom.
Hey wanna tell me next week's lotto numbers since you know everything? "
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Guys go gay when they can't get women. Harsh. I know.
Not saying everyone but I have first hand seen guys do it.
My ex is one, and even admitted he would continue if it meant he got sexual pleasure. Even to cheating again. If the female wasn't putting out. Oh by the way he did say that he would mentiain he's straight. |
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By *pringingMan
over a year ago
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"When a lot of “ straight “ men mailed me on this. I checked on their profile didn’t mentioned about interest into TS so I informed them I’m a TS and they knew then I asked why Most profile didn’t mentioned about TS. Most of them mentioned will get nasty messages from women and slag them off about into TS and labels are gay or bisexual as they don’t like it.
It’s really shame because it’s 2019 like come on.
Trans women are real women!
Respect my option.
Peace out
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Not to mention how ridiculously backwards it is to lump TS and TV together in the same category. This place is stuck pretty firmly in the stone age in a lot of ways. |
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