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"A question asked elsewhere but worth asking here also. Obviously no right or wrong answer it’s all down to personal preference but do you get put off by profiles with endless verifications ? Or the opposite does it stand out as a plus point ? Or does it purely not come into your thoughts ?" depends in my opinion theres 3 types of endless verifications theres one side thats social another thats a mixure and well another is endless verifications that he/she would get up on anything. Its the endless sexual verifications that I personally would avoid. A mixture is good both social an sexual for me a nice balance.  | |||
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"A question asked elsewhere but worth asking here also. Obviously no right or wrong answer it’s all down to personal preference but do you get put off by profiles with endless verifications ? Or the opposite does it stand out as a plus point ? Or does it purely not come into your thoughts ?" ....tbh...if l was reading veri's ,one thing that catches my eye a lot is the amount of veri's that ladies have put up after a coffee meet and finish with the classic line " ladies don't pass up the chance to meet this guy "...yet there is no further veri even weeks later that there was a " play " meet between the two ...so if this lady was telling other ladies not to pass up the chance to meet this guy ,why didn't she fuck him ?...So l suppose the bottom line here is l think a lot of veri's are put up so the lady doesn't hurt the guys chances of further potential play meets...as in ,there was no spark between them and she wrote a nice veri regardless...on a personal note regarding veri's l know there are ladies that don't want veri's and l wouldn't want one either once l had one that's required so to be able to get the chance to chat to ladies that will only chat to verified guys...and to answer the question asked ,it depends on the amount of veri's with the amount of time they were active on the site ... | |||
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"I don't really look at the amount of veris. I look at who left them ... " Same. I sometimes wonder from veris why the guy than would want to meet me. One guy lately all his veris were from slim women and he contacted me. Told him straight out that didn't think I was for him but he reckoned he into curvy women, but veris shows different. Or if I've been with a guy and the meet was ok but yet he's a sex God in all his other veris I wonder what I did wrong lol or are they lying 
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I do find it odd though that prolific meeters often have 'still looking for that elusive fwb' or 'partner in crime' on their profiles, as (for the reasons given above), being prolific will put the kind of people who enjoy that dynamic, off. It kinda reminds me of the times when I say 'I wish I was thin' as I stuff my face with cake  | |||
"I don't really look at the amount of veris. I look at who left them ... " This | |||
"It kinda reminds me of the times when I say 'I wish I was thin' as I stuff my face with cake "Nothing wrong with that, just eat nothing the rest of the day and burn those calories during a good play meet  ! | |||
"I don't really look at the amount of veris. I look at who left them ... Same. I sometimes wonder from veris why the guy than would want to meet me. One guy lately all his veris were from slim women and he contacted me. Told him straight out that didn't think I was for him but he reckoned he into curvy women, but veris shows different. Or if I've been with a guy and the meet was ok but yet he's a sex God in all his other veris I wonder what I did wrong lol or are they lying
"There's an element of catch 22 there Steph. Maybe he only has veris from slim women because after getting the first 1 or 2, any curvy woman he wanted to meet looked at his previous veris and thought the same thing you did. Maybe he did have veris from curvy women, but they left Fab and he can no longer display them. Maybe he's now gutted that he can't get the curvy ladies he desires, because they all think he prefers someone slimmer. The way I see veris is, they are a reflection of what or who someone wanted at that time in their life, and not necessarily what they want now. Because after all, you're the one they're mailing and trying to meet... Not x, y, or z they met last week, last month or last year | |||
"I don't really look at the amount of veris. I look at who left them ... Same. I sometimes wonder from veris why the guy than would want to meet me. One guy lately all his veris were from slim women and he contacted me. Told him straight out that didn't think I was for him but he reckoned he into curvy women, but veris shows different. Or if I've been with a guy and the meet was ok but yet he's a sex God in all his other veris I wonder what I did wrong lol or are they lying
There's an element of catch 22 there Steph. Maybe he only has veris from slim women because after getting the first 1 or 2, any curvy woman he wanted to meet looked at his previous veris and thought the same thing you did. Maybe he did have veris from curvy women, but they left Fab and he can no longer display them. Maybe he's now gutted that he can't get the curvy ladies he desires, because they all think he prefers someone slimmer.
The way I see veris is, they are a reflection of what or who someone wanted at that time in their life, and not necessarily what they want now. Because after all, you're the one they're mailing and trying to meet... Not x, y, or z they met last week, last month or last year "Still makes me cautious and my gut is usually right | |||
"I don't really look at the amount of veris. I look at who left them ... Same. I sometimes wonder from veris why the guy than would want to meet me. One guy lately all his veris were from slim women and he contacted me. Told him straight out that didn't think I was for him but he reckoned he into curvy women, but veris shows different. Or if I've been with a guy and the meet was ok but yet he's a sex God in all his other veris I wonder what I did wrong lol or are they lying
There's an element of catch 22 there Steph. Maybe he only has veris from slim women because after getting the first 1 or 2, any curvy woman he wanted to meet looked at his previous veris and thought the same thing you did. Maybe he did have veris from curvy women, but they left Fab and he can no longer display them. Maybe he's now gutted that he can't get the curvy ladies he desires, because they all think he prefers someone slimmer.
The way I see veris is, they are a reflection of what or who someone wanted at that time in their life, and not necessarily what they want now. Because after all, you're the one they're mailing and trying to meet... Not x, y, or z they met last week, last month or last year "Oh D, right to the point. Some guys, are interested in more than "younger and slimer than the average Fab lady". Kinky, experienced, looking to try new things type of women, are not always the "young and slim". It takes a bit of time for a man to learn and realise that the packaging is not what matters the most. | |||
"A question asked elsewhere but worth asking here also. Obviously no right or wrong answer it’s all down to personal preference but do you get put off by profiles with endless verifications ? Or the opposite does it stand out as a plus point ? Or does it purely not come into your thoughts ? ....tbh...if l was reading veri's ,one thing that catches my eye a lot is the amount of veri's that ladies have put up after a coffee meet and finish with the classic line " ladies don't pass up the chance to meet this guy "...yet there is no further veri even weeks later that there was a " play " meet between the two ...so if this lady was telling other ladies not to pass up the chance to meet this guy ,why didn't she fuck him ?...So l suppose the bottom line here is l think a lot of veri's are put up so the lady doesn't hurt the guys chances of further potential play meets...as in ,there was no spark between them and she wrote a nice veri regardless...on a personal note regarding veri's l know there are ladies that don't want veri's and l wouldn't want one either once l had one that's required so to be able to get the chance to chat to ladies that will only chat to verified guys...and to answer the question asked ,it depends on the amount of veri's with the amount of time they were active on the site ..." For me, lines like 'don't pass him by' or 'don't miss the chance' are code for 'He's alright, but I'm not that keen on meeting him again.... please take him off my hands so he'll stop bugging me for another meet'  | |||
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"For me, lines like 'don't pass him by' or 'don't miss the chance' are code for 'He's alright, but I'm not that keen on meeting him again.... please take him off my hands so he'll stop bugging me for another meet' "Or maybe, it is from someone who could not be arsed to write a proper veri. At least in that scenario, the guy is safe to meet. To me, a veri will tell a lot about the one who wrote the veri and less about the one receiving it. I take more hints from the ones giving the veris, as their attitude in writing a veri, tells a lot about them. Unless a very is well written and informative, it tells very little about the ones receiving them. Many complain, about the large amount of post M&G or post party veris, from someone's profile. But I like them and I find them very useful in trying to build a "picture" of the ones giving them. I've met couples/singles and very few times was I surprised and changed my view on someone, as the veris they give, have it all. | |||
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"A question asked elsewhere but worth asking here also. Obviously no right or wrong answer it’s all down to personal preference but do you get put off by profiles with endless verifications ? Or the opposite does it stand out as a plus point ? Or does it purely not come into your thoughts ? ....tbh...if l was reading veri's ,one thing that catches my eye a lot is the amount of veri's that ladies have put up after a coffee meet and finish with the classic line " ladies don't pass up the chance to meet this guy "...yet there is no further veri even weeks later that there was a " play " meet between the two ...so if this lady was telling other ladies not to pass up the chance to meet this guy ,why didn't she fuck him ?...So l suppose the bottom line here is l think a lot of veri's are put up so the lady doesn't hurt the guys chances of further potential play meets...as in ,there was no spark between them and she wrote a nice veri regardless...on a personal note regarding veri's l know there are ladies that don't want veri's and l wouldn't want one either once l had one that's required so to be able to get the chance to chat to ladies that will only chat to verified guys...and to answer the question asked ,it depends on the amount of veri's with the amount of time they were active on the site ... For me, lines like 'don't pass him by' or 'don't miss the chance' are code for 'He's alright, but I'm not that keen on meeting him again.... please take him off my hands so he'll stop bugging me for another meet' "That's one example of what I call a bad veri. | |||
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"I don't really look at the amount of veris. I look at who left them ... " Me to and in my opinion I don't think a person should be judged by how many at Al at all actually. | |||
"Verifications... Without them, Fab would be like any other site... well almost, as gender verification is unique to Fab too. Both keep us safe up to a point and help us make our mind, when deciding whom we meet." Do they really keep us safe though? I've had terrible experiences with 2 well-verified men, both of whom turned out to be complete sociopaths, one of whom told people I know that he was going to destroy me after I said I didn't want to meet him again, and the other spent 18 months setting up new profiles to contact me on trying to get back into my good graces because he had contacted all my friends, my fwb's friends, and even our friends' friends after I had said I didn't want to meet him again. Under Fab rules I can't write either of them a veri to say that they are twisted individuals... That one scared me so badly that a girlfriend had to move in with me for a few months... Or that the other went on a manipulative roaring tirade that reduced me to floods of tears, telling me how utterly and completely selfish I was, and insensitive to his needs, after I said I needed some time to grieve following a bereavement, and almost had me convinced that I was the one in the wrong... These are the stories you can't put on a verification, so all anyone ever sees are the ones that say how wonderful someone is.... And thinks they are safe in meeting them. | |||
"Verifications... Without them, Fab would be like any other site... well almost, as gender verification is unique to Fab too. Both keep us safe up to a point and help us make our mind, when deciding whom we meet. Do they really keep us safe though? I've had terrible experiences with 2 well-verified men, both of whom turned out to be complete sociopaths, one of whom told people I know that he was going to destroy me after I said I didn't want to meet him again, and the other spent 18 months setting up new profiles to contact me on trying to get back into my good graces because he had contacted all my friends, my fwb's friends, and even our friends' friends after I had said I didn't want to meet him again. Under Fab rules I can't write either of them a veri to say that they are twisted individuals... That one scared me so badly that a girlfriend had to move in with me for a few months... Or that the other went on a manipulative roaring tirade that reduced me to floods of tears, telling me how utterly and completely selfish I was, and insensitive to his needs, after I said I needed some time to grieve following a bereavement, and almost had me convinced that I was the one in the wrong... These are the stories you can't put on a verification, so all anyone ever sees are the ones that say how wonderful someone is.... And thinks they are safe in meeting them. " This is why it's good to have friends who look out for each other on Fab. I met a well verified guy when I first joined and he basically told me about all the women he had been with in my area, one or two who could lose their job over the carry on in their workplace and it never stopped him telling me who they were. | |||
"Verifications... Without them, Fab would be like any other site... well almost, as gender verification is unique to Fab too. Both keep us safe up to a point and help us make our mind, when deciding whom we meet. Do they really keep us safe though? I've had terrible experiences with 2 well-verified men, both of whom turned out to be complete sociopaths, one of whom told people I know that he was going to destroy me after I said I didn't want to meet him again, and the other spent 18 months setting up new profiles to contact me on trying to get back into my good graces because he had contacted all my friends, my fwb's friends, and even our friends' friends after I had said I didn't want to meet him again. Under Fab rules I can't write either of them a veri to say that they are twisted individuals... That one scared me so badly that a girlfriend had to move in with me for a few months... Or that the other went on a manipulative roaring tirade that reduced me to floods of tears, telling me how utterly and completely selfish I was, and insensitive to his needs, after I said I needed some time to grieve following a bereavement, and almost had me convinced that I was the one in the wrong... These are the stories you can't put on a verification, so all anyone ever sees are the ones that say how wonderful someone is.... And thinks they are safe in meeting them. "
I've met my fair share of sexual duds, psychos and veri-chasers. The veri system is meaningless if the poster is controlling the content.
I'm now naturally very suspicious of people with too-long lists of verifications. I can judge for myself within 30 seconds of meeting face-to-face if a potential sex partner is compatible or not.
Also, Ireland being the small country this is, there's an awful lot of crossover between dating/fetish apps. Some of the well-verified characters on here O wouldn't approach with a ten-foot barge pole due to experiences with them off other sites. | |||
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"A question asked elsewhere but worth asking here also. Obviously no right or wrong answer it’s all down to personal preference but do you get put off by profiles with endless verifications ? Or the opposite does it stand out as a plus point ? Or does it purely not come into your thoughts ? ....tbh...if l was reading veri's ,one thing that catches my eye a lot is the amount of veri's that ladies have put up after a coffee meet and finish with the classic line " ladies don't pass up the chance to meet this guy "...yet there is no further veri even weeks later that there was a " play " meet between the two ...so if this lady was telling other ladies not to pass up the chance to meet this guy ,why didn't she fuck him ?...So l suppose the bottom line here is l think a lot of veri's are put up so the lady doesn't hurt the guys chances of further potential play meets...as in ,there was no spark between them and she wrote a nice veri regardless...on a personal note regarding veri's l know there are ladies that don't want veri's and l wouldn't want one either once l had one that's required so to be able to get the chance to chat to ladies that will only chat to verified guys...and to answer the question asked ,it depends on the amount of veri's with the amount of time they were active on the site ... For me, lines like 'don't pass him by' or 'don't miss the chance' are code for 'He's alright, but I'm not that keen on meeting him again.... please take him off my hands so he'll stop bugging me for another meet'
That's one example of what I call a bad veri."I had a recent meet where the guy and I were definitely not compatible and is now the main reasons why I specify on my profile that I now refuse to play on the same day as first meet - cooling off periods are important! I don't think any person should feel obliged to 'help' anyone get verified if they were no good. This isn't a charity and we'd be doing more harm than good giving a veri to a person just because we're trying to be nice. I'm sure I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I certainly don't expect a list of veris from people just because I showed up and look like my photos. I expect others not to assume the same. | |||
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"Verifications... Without them, Fab would be like any other site... well almost, as gender verification is unique to Fab too. Both keep us safe up to a point and help us make our mind, when deciding whom we meet. Do they really keep us safe though? I've had terrible experiences with 2 well-verified men, both of whom turned out to be complete sociopaths, one of whom told people I know that he was going to destroy me after I said I didn't want to meet him again, and the other spent 18 months setting up new profiles to contact me on trying to get back into my good graces because he had contacted all my friends, my fwb's friends, and even our friends' friends after I had said I didn't want to meet him again. Under Fab rules I can't write either of them a veri to say that they are twisted individuals... That one scared me so badly that a girlfriend had to move in with me for a few months... Or that the other went on a manipulative roaring tirade that reduced me to floods of tears, telling me how utterly and completely selfish I was, and insensitive to his needs, after I said I needed some time to grieve following a bereavement, and almost had me convinced that I was the one in the wrong... These are the stories you can't put on a verification, so all anyone ever sees are the ones that say how wonderful someone is.... And thinks they are safe in meeting them. " Very true statement, i know by chatting for awhile usually ..... | |||
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"So any of you posting in the last few posts, meet a man/woman/couple with zero veris and on Fab for more than few months?" Yup... My first ever meet was with an unverified single male who had been on here and another site for 18 months without getting a meet. Spent many glorious weekends with him after that first social meet! I popped a few swinging cherries in the year after that, before I met Boo... I've rarely met someone else since then though as we are perfectly aligned in our minds, imaginations, kinks and perversions. The experiences I share with him aren't anything I would find with anyone else. He's not my soulmate... He's my wholemate | |||
"I don't think any person should feel obliged to 'help' anyone get verified if they were no good. This isn't a charity and we'd be doing more harm than good giving a veri to a person just because we're trying to be nice. I'm sure I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I certainly don't expect a list of veris from people just because I showed up and look like my photos. I expect others not to assume the same." "Feel obliged", God no, no one should be obliged to do anything, here on Fab or elsewhere! "If they are no good" - No good in what way? Not good enough for someone, is perfect for someone else. I don't give verifications to everyone I meet or play with, also I have not received verifications either. Showing up for a meet and at least looking like in their photos, nothing wrong, to acknowledge that in a veri. Surprisingly, is harder for some people to show up, than people imagine. I won't even get into the "looking like in the pics" subject. Fab is a community (not a charity ) and helping out others is encouraged. Some people on Fab are missing this point and I personally don't want to meet someone with a selfish attitude, here or in real life. | |||
"So any of you posting in the last few posts, meet a man/woman/couple with zero veris and on Fab for more than few months?" We don't, simply because we are a couple, and a lot of guys have aspirations about meeting couples but when it comes down to it, they don't quite get it. So we generally stick with men with couple experience. | |||
"Yes absolutely we do! We look at who left them, if we click on a guys profile and see a bunch of bareback pics the couple verified by that guy is a nope. Equally we expect to be judged by our veris" Def bareback is a big turnoff | |||
"More so on who the veris are from tbh ." Yep | |||
"Verifications... Without them, Fab would be like any other site... well almost, as gender verification is unique to Fab too. Both keep us safe up to a point and help us make our mind, when deciding whom we meet. Do they really keep us safe though? I've had terrible experiences with 2 well-verified men, both of whom turned out to be complete sociopaths, one of whom told people I know that he was going to destroy me after I said I didn't want to meet him again, and the other spent 18 months setting up new profiles to contact me on trying to get back into my good graces because he had contacted all my friends, my fwb's friends, and even our friends' friends after I had said I didn't want to meet him again. Under Fab rules I can't write either of them a veri to say that they are twisted individuals... That one scared me so badly that a girlfriend had to move in with me for a few months... Or that the other went on a manipulative roaring tirade that reduced me to floods of tears, telling me how utterly and completely selfish I was, and insensitive to his needs, after I said I needed some time to grieve following a bereavement, and almost had me convinced that I was the one in the wrong... These are the stories you can't put on a verification, so all anyone ever sees are the ones that say how wonderful someone is.... And thinks they are safe in meeting them.
I've met my fair share of sexual duds, psychos and veri-chasers. The veri system is meaningless if the poster is controlling the content.
I'm now naturally very suspicious of people with too-long lists of verifications. I can judge for myself within 30 seconds of meeting face-to-face if a potential sex partner is compatible or not.
Also, Ireland being the small country this is, there's an awful lot of crossover between dating/fetish apps. Some of the well-verified characters on here O wouldn't approach with a ten-foot barge pole due to experiences with them off other sites."No veri system could ever give you a full guarantee that someone is sound, safe and sexy, no matter if the profile owner has control over the veri display or not. What 5+ veris do though is providing a certain guarantee that the person behaves behind doors. Now you still have to use your gut feeling and your brain to choose the right meet and avoid the nut cases. | |||
"I met a well verified guy when I first joined and he basically told me about all the women he had been with in my area, one or two who could lose their job over the carry on in their workplace and it never stopped him telling me who they were." Men bragging about whom they've met and how many women they've played with, is nothing new. Getting into personal details of exactly whom they've met, not a very pleasant thing, but again some men think, that sharing that info with another woman, makes them more trustful. Wrong thinking, but not everyone understands the implications and the value of privacy and discretion, especially when swinging and real life get mixed up. Playing with someone from your area, always carries the risk of meeting them in your local Tesco , but very easy to fix ... play with someone further away, to avoid the embarrassment.
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"Verifications... Without them, Fab would be like any other site... well almost, as gender verification is unique to Fab too. Both keep us safe up to a point and help us make our mind, when deciding whom we meet. Do they really keep us safe though? I've had terrible experiences with 2 well-verified men, both of whom turned out to be complete sociopaths, one of whom told people I know that he was going to destroy me after I said I didn't want to meet him again, and the other spent 18 months setting up new profiles to contact me on trying to get back into my good graces because he had contacted all my friends, my fwb's friends, and even our friends' friends after I had said I didn't want to meet him again. Under Fab rules I can't write either of them a veri to say that they are twisted individuals... That one scared me so badly that a girlfriend had to move in with me for a few months... Or that the other went on a manipulative roaring tirade that reduced me to floods of tears, telling me how utterly and completely selfish I was, and insensitive to his needs, after I said I needed some time to grieve following a bereavement, and almost had me convinced that I was the one in the wrong... These are the stories you can't put on a verification, so all anyone ever sees are the ones that say how wonderful someone is.... And thinks they are safe in meeting them.
I've met my fair share of sexual duds, psychos and veri-chasers. The veri system is meaningless if the poster is controlling the content.
I'm now naturally very suspicious of people with too-long lists of verifications. I can judge for myself within 30 seconds of meeting face-to-face if a potential sex partner is compatible or not.
Also, Ireland being the small country this is, there's an awful lot of crossover between dating/fetish apps. Some of the well-verified characters on here O wouldn't approach with a ten-foot barge pole due to experiences with them off other sites.
No veri system could ever give you a full guarantee that someone is sound, safe and sexy, no matter if the profile owner has control over the veri display or not. What 5+ veris do though is providing a certain guarantee that the person behaves behind doors. Now you still have to use your gut feeling and your brain to choose the right meet and avoid the nut cases. "I don't pay close attention to veris, I was verified on a couples profile before and met great people but some asses too, all verified, since I'm back as a single I've met one lovely lady twice unverified, but also Had a bad experience with a guy pretending to be a woman and was verified to make it worse.. The creep even mention my real name in one of the last messages... So luck of the draw  | |||
"I met a well verified guy when I first joined and he basically told me about all the women he had been with in my area, one or two who could lose their job over the carry on in their workplace and it never stopped him telling me who they were. Men bragging about whom they've met and how many women they've played with, is nothing new. Getting into personal details of exactly whom they've met, not a very pleasant thing, but again some men think, that sharing that info with another woman, makes them more trustful. Wrong thinking, but not everyone understands the implications and the value of privacy and discretion, especially when swinging and real life get mixed up. Playing with someone from your area, always carries the risk of meeting them in your local Tesco , but very easy to fix ... play with someone further away, to avoid the embarrassment.
"He wasn't from area but visits once a week, also lied about been married. | |||
"No veri system could ever give you a full guarantee that someone is sound, safe and sexy, no matter if the profile owner has control over the veri display or not. What 5+ veris do though is providing a certain guarantee that the person behaves behind doors. Now you still have to use your gut feeling and your brain to choose the right meet and avoid the nut cases. " Spot on observation! While the women are more exposed to "dangerous" meets, men have their fair share of "predator meets" and at best are asked for money, but there are more unpleasant situations too. I find that a horny male is much more exposed to a bad situation, due to lack of judgement from his side, than a woman. Just my two cents, I could be wrong, but I just see it that way. I also know from personal experience, that a female that otherwise is very picky and judgemental, who picks a man's profile to bits and spends weeks to talk to someone and scrutinise everything, will drop all that for a man who will scoop her, of her feet. She then becomes very vulnerable, exactly like a horny man and drops all her defences. It puts her in a very bad position and if the guy happens to be manipulative and a psychopath, then it ends up like D8 mentioned above. | |||
"He wasn't from area but visits once a week, also lied about been married. " Lying about being married is the most common thing on Fab or outside, hardly any surprise and easy to spot. Still doesn't justify him lying to you. Guys with jobs allowing them to travel a lot, very common too. A lot of them even advertising it on their profile, as often the hotel might be paid by the company they are working for. | |||
"He wasn't from area but visits once a week, also lied about been married. Lying about being married is the most common thing on Fab or outside, hardly any surprise and easy to spot. Still doesn't justify him lying to you. Guys with jobs allowing them to travel a lot, very common too. A lot of them even advertising it on their profile, as often the hotel might be paid by the company they are working for. " Each to their own if they married and meeting their issue. When we met he came into coffee shop says I have coffee in the car for you, I did tell you I was married? He hadn't and I am pretty clear if I meet socially it's in a coffee shop not in a car park. At end of day it's two adults having a chat over coffee. | |||
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"He wasn't from area but visits once a week, also lied about been married. Lying about being married is the most common thing on Fab or outside, hardly any surprise and easy to spot. Still doesn't justify him lying to you. Guys with jobs allowing them to travel a lot, very common too. A lot of them even advertising it on their profile, as often the hotel might be paid by the company they are working for. Each to their own if they married and meeting their issue. When we met he came into coffee shop says I have coffee in the car for you, I did tell you I was married? He hadn't and I am pretty clear if I meet socially it's in a coffee shop not in a car park. At end of day it's two adults having a chat over coffee. " I’m sure he had expectations of a BJ in the car. 
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"He wasn't from area but visits once a week, also lied about been married. Lying about being married is the most common thing on Fab or outside, hardly any surprise and easy to spot. Still doesn't justify him lying to you. Guys with jobs allowing them to travel a lot, very common too. A lot of them even advertising it on their profile, as often the hotel might be paid by the company they are working for. Each to their own if they married and meeting their issue. When we met he came into coffee shop says I have coffee in the car for you, I did tell you I was married? He hadn't and I am pretty clear if I meet socially it's in a coffee shop not in a car park. At end of day it's two adults having a chat over coffee. I’m sure he had expectations of a BJ in the car.
"What female in her right mind would get into a car with a total stranger? | |||
"One thing I find odd in veris is when someone says “known this guy/gal for years” and they are relatively new on the site. That and the one mutual verification..... yeah right? Lol" It's possible, they might have met on another site, or they could know each other in "real life" and one have recommended the site to the other. | |||
"One thing I find odd in veris is when someone says “known this guy/gal for years” and they are relatively new on the site. That and the one mutual verification..... yeah right? Lol" Some people can and do know each other outside fab too ya know... just saying | |||
"He wasn't from area but visits once a week, also lied about been married. Lying about being married is the most common thing on Fab or outside, hardly any surprise and easy to spot. Still doesn't justify him lying to you. Guys with jobs allowing them to travel a lot, very common too. A lot of them even advertising it on their profile, as often the hotel might be paid by the company they are working for. Each to their own if they married and meeting their issue. When we met he came into coffee shop says I have coffee in the car for you, I did tell you I was married? He hadn't and I am pretty clear if I meet socially it's in a coffee shop not in a car park. At end of day it's two adults having a chat over coffee. I’m sure he had expectations of a BJ in the car.
What female in her right mind would get into a car with a total stranger? "Oh lesson learned and yet you be surprised how many guys still ask to meet in their car? | |||
"He wasn't from area but visits once a week, also lied about been married. Lying about being married is the most common thing on Fab or outside, hardly any surprise and easy to spot. Still doesn't justify him lying to you. Guys with jobs allowing them to travel a lot, very common too. A lot of them even advertising it on their profile, as often the hotel might be paid by the company they are working for. Each to their own if they married and meeting their issue. When we met he came into coffee shop says I have coffee in the car for you, I did tell you I was married? He hadn't and I am pretty clear if I meet socially it's in a coffee shop not in a car park. At end of day it's two adults having a chat over coffee. I’m sure he had expectations of a BJ in the car.
What female in her right mind would get into a car with a total stranger?
Oh lesson learned and yet you be surprised how many guys still ask to meet in their car? "I wouldn't be in the least bit surprised. | |||
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"He wasn't from area but visits once a week, also lied about been married. Lying about being married is the most common thing on Fab or outside, hardly any surprise and easy to spot. Still doesn't justify him lying to you. Guys with jobs allowing them to travel a lot, very common too. A lot of them even advertising it on their profile, as often the hotel might be paid by the company they are working for. Each to their own if they married and meeting their issue. When we met he came into coffee shop says I have coffee in the car for you, I did tell you I was married? He hadn't and I am pretty clear if I meet socially it's in a coffee shop not in a car park. At end of day it's two adults having a chat over coffee. I’m sure he had expectations of a BJ in the car.
What female in her right mind would get into a car with a total stranger?
Oh lesson learned and yet you be surprised how many guys still ask to meet in their car? "I once had a unverified guy ask me to meet in his car in my local woods for a coffee at night. But he wanted me to sit in the back seat of his car and drink it whilst I watched him wank. He couldn't understand why I wouldn't do it. Ah 11 months murder free on Fab and hoping to stay that way. | |||
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"He wasn't from area but visits once a week, also lied about been married. Lying about being married is the most common thing on Fab or outside, hardly any surprise and easy to spot. Still doesn't justify him lying to you. Guys with jobs allowing them to travel a lot, very common too. A lot of them even advertising it on their profile, as often the hotel might be paid by the company they are working for. Each to their own if they married and meeting their issue. When we met he came into coffee shop says I have coffee in the car for you, I did tell you I was married? He hadn't and I am pretty clear if I meet socially it's in a coffee shop not in a car park. At end of day it's two adults having a chat over coffee. I’m sure he had expectations of a BJ in the car.
What female in her right mind would get into a car with a total stranger? "Its fine if she wont just ask her to smell this hanky does it smell like colroform to u | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule. "Jeeeszs fussy much | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule. "Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls? | |||
"What female in her right mind would get into a car with a total stranger? "More than you can imagine and there is nothing wrong with it. Listen to the guy, watch his behavior and within minutes, you know if you need to walk away fast or find more about him. BJs in the car are not unheard of, even during the first meet. A BJ at first sight, should not be expectated by any man, unless agreed as a fantasy, consensual of course. Irish Fab, is absolutely not made entirely of psychopaths. | |||
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"I don't really look at the amount of veris. I look at who left them ... " I usually look deeper than that, if I like someone I look at who the verifications are from and who they have met. I might even go three verifications deep. If that makes sense. I like to know where the person I might meet has been and with who. | |||
"I don't really look at the amount of veris. I look at who left them ... Same. I sometimes wonder from veris why the guy than would want to meet me. One guy lately all his veris were from slim women and he contacted me. Told him straight out that didn't think I was for him but he reckoned he into curvy women, but veris shows different. Or if I've been with a guy and the meet was ok but yet he's a sex God in all his other veris I wonder what I did wrong lol or are they lying
"...like l said in my previous reply to this post Steph...ladies can put certain types of veri's up because they don't want hurt a guys feelings or harm his chances of further potential meets..because maybe they know they won't even meet those same guys again so it doesn't matter to them if the Veri is " photoshopped " ... | |||
"What female in her right mind would get into a car with a total stranger?
More than you can imagine and there is nothing wrong with it.
Listen to the guy, watch his behavior and within minutes, you know if you need to walk away fast or find more about him.
BJs in the car are not unheard of, even during the first meet.
A BJ at first sight, should not be expectated by any man, unless agreed as a fantasy, consensual of course.
Irish Fab, is absolutely not made entirely of psychopaths. "Of course not, but they are there, and they don't always display it. Taking precautions when meeting strangers is basic common sense. | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls? "Agreed, and it's not just this, there's also the question of whether the other party consented to having the pic displayed, even women's faces appear in some of them. To me, such a profile displays a lack of discretion at the very least. | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls?
Agreed, and it's not just this, there's also the question of whether the other party consented to having the pic displayed, even women's faces appear in some of them. To me, such a profile displays a lack of discretion at the very least."I have some pics of meets but those don't come out to fabs , even with consent of the other part to post they stay private | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls?
Agreed, and it's not just this, there's also the question of whether the other party consented to having the pic displayed, even women's faces appear in some of them. To me, such a profile displays a lack of discretion at the very least.
I have some pics of meets but those don't come out to fabs , even with consent of the other part to post they stay private "We have pics of meets also, but they are never uploaded to fab. | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls?
Agreed, and it's not just this, there's also the question of whether the other party consented to having the pic displayed, even women's faces appear in some of them. To me, such a profile displays a lack of discretion at the very least."I've often found that they don't have permission. I've questioned guys about full face bareback and bj photos on their profiles, only to be told it's an ex or an fwb, and when I ask if they know their photo and face are on Fab, the answer is usually 'no, but they wouldn't mind'.... As if not objecting to something you don't know is happening is the same as consent. | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls?
Agreed, and it's not just this, there's also the question of whether the other party consented to having the pic displayed, even women's faces appear in some of them. To me, such a profile displays a lack of discretion at the very least.
I have some pics of meets but those don't come out to fabs , even with consent of the other part to post they stay private
We have pics of meets also, but they are never uploaded to fab."Do your meets also have copies? | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls? "Totally agree with this | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls?
Agreed, and it's not just this, there's also the question of whether the other party consented to having the pic displayed, even women's faces appear in some of them. To me, such a profile displays a lack of discretion at the very least.
I have some pics of meets but those don't come out to fabs , even with consent of the other part to post they stay private
We have pics of meets also, but they are never uploaded to fab.
Do your meets also have copies? "We only share with people we trust, and nobody is identifiable in them. Obviously there's always risk of them making their way elsewhere, but no more so than with any pics on fab profiles or anywhere else on the internet for that matter. They're just more naked unidentifiable pics among the billions in circulation | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls?
Agreed, and it's not just this, there's also the question of whether the other party consented to having the pic displayed, even women's faces appear in some of them. To me, such a profile displays a lack of discretion at the very least.
I have some pics of meets but those don't come out to fabs , even with consent of the other part to post they stay private
We have pics of meets also, but they are never uploaded to fab.
Do your meets also have copies?
We only share with people we trust, and nobody is identifiable in them. Obviously there's always risk of them making their way elsewhere, but no more so than with any pics on fab profiles or anywhere else on the internet for that matter. They're just more naked unidentifiable pics among the billions in circulation "I've been in kik and viber groups in the past where former meets of friends of mine have shared photos of them without permission. Not necessarily even play photos, sometimes they've shared someone's face pics within the group or sent them to a subsection of the group. I've even had guys forward photos to me in the past that friends had sent them privately, laughingly asking if I'd ever wanted to know what x, y, or z looked like, not realising that we know each other. | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls?
Agreed, and it's not just this, there's also the question of whether the other party consented to having the pic displayed, even women's faces appear in some of them. To me, such a profile displays a lack of discretion at the very least.
I have some pics of meets but those don't come out to fabs , even with consent of the other part to post they stay private
We have pics of meets also, but they are never uploaded to fab.
Do your meets also have copies? "Yes they do , actually usually take them with their phones so they have full control on the pics | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls?
Agreed, and it's not just this, there's also the question of whether the other party consented to having the pic displayed, even women's faces appear in some of them. To me, such a profile displays a lack of discretion at the very least.
I have some pics of meets but those don't come out to fabs , even with consent of the other part to post they stay private
We have pics of meets also, but they are never uploaded to fab.
Do your meets also have copies?
We only share with people we trust, and nobody is identifiable in them. Obviously there's always risk of them making their way elsewhere, but no more so than with any pics on fab profiles or anywhere else on the internet for that matter. They're just more naked unidentifiable pics among the billions in circulation
I've been in kik and viber groups in the past where former meets of friends of mine have shared photos of them without permission. Not necessarily even play photos, sometimes they've shared someone's face pics within the group or sent them to a subsection of the group. I've even had guys forward photos to me in the past that friends had sent them privately, laughingly asking if I'd ever wanted to know what x, y, or z looked like, not realising that we know each other. "We no longer share face pics on any platform, as the reality is that once you share a pic, it is no longer in your control, protecting it starts with you. | |||
"I dont display play meets. That's my business but do look at other peoples veris. And yes I decide on who they have met....some I avoid if they've met certain ladies, if I think I'm not really there type and their pics.....too many with ladies on is off putting( I'm meeting a bloke not a lady) and bare back pics. Surprising too many cock pics is off putting too but it's not a written rule.
Pic-wise photos of previous meets tend to put me off too for the same reason. I want to see good, clear photos of the man who is asking to meet me, not a foof that takes up 95% of the photo, and the other 5% is a the visible 1/4 inch of his cock or tongue jammed into it. Likewise when men want to meet me, I assume they want to see what I look like, not the top of my head facing some other bloke's genitalia, or a glimpse of the back of my legs under some other guy's arse and balls... Maybe I'm wrong though... Maybe they'd prefer to see someone else's balls?
Agreed, and it's not just this, there's also the question of whether the other party consented to having the pic displayed, even women's faces appear in some of them. To me, such a profile displays a lack of discretion at the very least.
I have some pics of meets but those don't come out to fabs , even with consent of the other part to post they stay private
We have pics of meets also, but they are never uploaded to fab.
Do your meets also have copies?
We only share with people we trust, and nobody is identifiable in them. Obviously there's always risk of them making their way elsewhere, but no more so than with any pics on fab profiles or anywhere else on the internet for that matter. They're just more naked unidentifiable pics among the billions in circulation
I've been in kik and viber groups in the past where former meets of friends of mine have shared photos of them without permission. Not necessarily even play photos, sometimes they've shared someone's face pics within the group or sent them to a subsection of the group. I've even had guys forward photos to me in the past that friends had sent them privately, laughingly asking if I'd ever wanted to know what x, y, or z looked like, not realising that we know each other.
We no longer share face pics on any platform, as the reality is that once you share a pic, it is no longer in your control, protecting it starts with you. "Totally agree , its all about who you trust too , for instance not long ago on kik with a fabber she wanted to post pics of her with funny tshirts took in front of a mirror ,so I was trying to guide her step by step on how to flip the pics so the words look right but since its different phones wasn't easy , so she sent me the pics , I did it on my phone sent back and straight away deleted them cause they weren't send to me to keep . | |||
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"All of my verifications are hidden its no ones business who I fuck an who I meet socially. Wheres the discretion gone too? "Do you ask your meets to hide theirs too? | |||
"All of my verifications are hidden its no ones business who I fuck an who I meet socially. Wheres the discretion gone too?
Do you ask your meets to hide theirs too? "yep and sometimes I dont leave them. I ask my meets if they want one some do some dont. But yep I ask them not to publish mine if they do publish them I block them. That way they are no longer on that profile as far as I know. | |||
"All of my verifications are hidden its no ones business who I fuck an who I meet socially. Wheres the discretion gone too?
Do you ask your meets to hide theirs too? yep and sometimes I dont leave them. I ask my meets if they want one some do some dont. But yep I ask them not to publish mine if they do publish them I block them. That way they are no longer on that profile as far as I know. "Why leave a veri then block someone because they chose to display it? Just say you'll not leave one... | |||
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"All of my verifications are hidden its no ones business who I fuck an who I meet socially. Wheres the discretion gone too?
Do you ask your meets to hide theirs too? yep and sometimes I dont leave them. I ask my meets if they want one some do some dont. But yep I ask them not to publish mine if they do publish them I block them. That way they are no longer on that profile as far as I know.
Why leave a veri then block someone because they chose to display it? Just say you'll not leave one... "because some guys say they wont publish them so I trust them not to publish them its then that I block them if they publish it. Its my choice in the end of the day an its not a lot to ask for. Most respect that | |||
"I don't think any person should feel obliged to 'help' anyone get verified if they were no good. This isn't a charity and we'd be doing more harm than good giving a veri to a person just because we're trying to be nice. I'm sure I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I certainly don't expect a list of veris from people just because I showed up and look like my photos. I expect others not to assume the same. "Feel obliged", God no, no one should be obliged to do anything, here on Fab or elsewhere! "If they are no good" - No good in what way? Not good enough for someone, is perfect for someone else. I don't give verifications to everyone I meet or play with, also I have not received verifications either. Showing up for a meet and at least looking like in their photos, nothing wrong, to acknowledge that in a veri. Surprisingly, is harder for some people to show up, than people imagine. I won't even get into the "looking like in the pics" subject. Fab is a community (not a charity ) and helping out others is encouraged. Some people on Fab are missing this point and I personally don't want to meet someone with a selfish attitude, here or in real life. "Hmm. I seem to have touched a nerve. I'm kind of tired of all the whinging around (usually) guys demanding a veri 'just because he shows up'. If I had a euro for each of those, I could open a shop. Most of the 'showing up' guys hungry for a veri were mean, tight-fisted, boring little jerks who barely deserved five minutes of my time. And then they acted as though they were God's gift to womankind because they showed up at a café in the middle of a work day or at a pub near their hotel. Hardly a five-course meal at Shanahan's, is it? I'm tired of my expectations being constantly lowered because some horny builder in my area wants to meet me in the hopes of a blow job in his van. So YEAH, I am a little wary and I've every right to be. I prefer to spend my time in better company (my own, usually) than sifting through terabytes of horn-induced aggravation from 99.9% of the opportunists, cheaters and amateurs on this site and I couldn't give a toss about 'giving anyone a chance' if they won't meet me halfway and act like a decent human being first. | |||
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"I don't think any person should feel obliged to 'help' anyone get verified if they were no good. This isn't a charity and we'd be doing more harm than good giving a veri to a person just because we're trying to be nice. I'm sure I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I certainly don't expect a list of veris from people just because I showed up and look like my photos. I expect others not to assume the same. "Feel obliged", God no, no one should be obliged to do anything, here on Fab or elsewhere! "If they are no good" - No good in what way? Not good enough for someone, is perfect for someone else. I don't give verifications to everyone I meet or play with, also I have not received verifications either. Showing up for a meet and at least looking like in their photos, nothing wrong, to acknowledge that in a veri. Surprisingly, is harder for some people to show up, than people imagine. I won't even get into the "looking like in the pics" subject. Fab is a community (not a charity ) and helping out others is encouraged. Some people on Fab are missing this point and I personally don't want to meet someone with a selfish attitude, here or in real life.
Hmm. I seem to have touched a nerve.
I'm kind of tired of all the whinging around (usually) guys demanding a veri 'just because he shows up'.
If I had a euro for each of those, I could open a shop. Most of the 'showing up' guys hungry for a veri were mean, tight-fisted, boring little jerks who barely deserved five minutes of my time. And then they acted as though they were God's gift to womankind because they showed up at a café in the middle of a work day or at a pub near their hotel. Hardly a five-course meal at Shanahan's, is it?
I'm tired of my expectations being constantly lowered because some horny builder in my area wants to meet me in the hopes of a blow job in his van.
So YEAH, I am a little wary and I've every right to be. I prefer to spend my time in better company (my own, usually) than sifting through terabytes of horn-induced aggravation from 99.9% of the opportunists, cheaters and amateurs on this site and I couldn't give a toss about 'giving anyone a chance' if they won't meet me halfway and act like a decent human being first."I hear you lady! I've met folk in the past for coffee (when I had spare time) who needed a veri to get an invite to a club or party... People whom I ordinarily wouldn't have met, as they didn't fit my own preferences in any way, but because their online presence was largely unobjectionable, and I had the free time, I said OK to grabbing a quick coffee and giving them a veri. But then once in a while someone would turn up that you would struggle to find anything good to say about.... Rampant BO and/or halitosis, appalling manners, clearly lying about their age or height, or even using someone else's photos on their profile, no sense of humour, and whinged their way through the coffee complaining about various stuck up people on Fab who had turned them down for meets... On one memorable occasion, almost all of the above described one person! Trying to write a veri after that is almost impossible... What do you say (aside from he/she/they turned up!)?? | |||
"I don't think any person should feel obliged to 'help' anyone get verified if they were no good. This isn't a charity and we'd be doing more harm than good giving a veri to a person just because we're trying to be nice. I'm sure I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I certainly don't expect a list of veris from people just because I showed up and look like my photos. I expect others not to assume the same. "Feel obliged", God no, no one should be obliged to do anything, here on Fab or elsewhere! "If they are no good" - No good in what way? Not good enough for someone, is perfect for someone else. I don't give verifications to everyone I meet or play with, also I have not received verifications either. Showing up for a meet and at least looking like in their photos, nothing wrong, to acknowledge that in a veri. Surprisingly, is harder for some people to show up, than people imagine. I won't even get into the "looking like in the pics" subject. Fab is a community (not a charity ) and helping out others is encouraged. Some people on Fab are missing this point and I personally don't want to meet someone with a selfish attitude, here or in real life.
Hmm. I seem to have touched a nerve.
I'm kind of tired of all the whinging around (usually) guys demanding a veri 'just because he shows up'.
If I had a euro for each of those, I could open a shop. Most of the 'showing up' guys hungry for a veri were mean, tight-fisted, boring little jerks who barely deserved five minutes of my time. And then they acted as though they were God's gift to womankind because they showed up at a café in the middle of a work day or at a pub near their hotel. Hardly a five-course meal at Shanahan's, is it?
I'm tired of my expectations being constantly lowered because some horny builder in my area wants to meet me in the hopes of a blow job in his van.
So YEAH, I am a little wary and I've every right to be. I prefer to spend my time in better company (my own, usually) than sifting through terabytes of horn-induced aggravation from 99.9% of the opportunists, cheaters and amateurs on this site and I couldn't give a toss about 'giving anyone a chance' if they won't meet me halfway and act like a decent human being first.
I hear you lady!
I've met folk in the past for coffee (when I had spare time) who needed a veri to get an invite to a club or party... People whom I ordinarily wouldn't have met, as they didn't fit my own preferences in any way, but because their online presence was largely unobjectionable, and I had the free time, I said OK to grabbing a quick coffee and giving them a veri. But then once in a while someone would turn up that you would struggle to find anything good to say about.... Rampant BO and/or halitosis, appalling manners, clearly lying about their age or height, or even using someone else's photos on their profile, no sense of humour, and whinged their way through the coffee complaining about various stuck up people on Fab who had turned them down for meets... On one memorable occasion, almost all of the above described one person! Trying to write a veri after that is almost impossible... What do you say (aside from he/she/they turned up!)?? "Oh gods. All sounds too familiar. I want to be clear. I've had a few stellar meets and I'm happy to verify them. Not all of them are gargoyles. And a lot of them were actually just pleasant socials that didn't end up in sex but were great fun anyway. One of my most memorable was meeting one gent a few years back at a Starbucks in the city centre... Except I completely fouled up the address and went to the wrong one. The poor guy was sitting there texting me asking where I was and I thought he was messing me. Eventually I cottoned on and made it after all but our meet was brief. He did get his veri in the end. Another one that sticks out in my mind was one where I met this intriguing fellow with quite a few tantalising pictures on his profile and quite a few reviews. Well, it quickly became obvious after we met that we weren't a good match BUT we had the most hilarious meet venting about the kink scene, the sites we are on, the people who bailed on us, the events we've been to, the weather, the state of the schools today, travel, Catholic priests, food... You name it we talked about it. In terms of sex, our conversation would have been the sexual equivalent of a pansexual gangbang, we were having that much fun. We're both natural debaters so we definitely get along. We reconnected not long after that after I posted one of my adverts for the midday coffee socials and he was the first to show. I think he's going to be quite popular with the ladies so I am thrilled we met all those years ago.
So that's largely why I don't give up entirely on this site. I've met some very interesting people, had some fantastic sex and generally I'm much pickier than I was three years ago when I first joined on the advice of one of my lovers. I wish it had been sooner. | |||
"I've met folk in the past for coffee (when I had spare time) who needed a veri to get an invite to a club or party... People whom I ordinarily wouldn't have met, as they didn't fit my own preferences in any way, but because their online presence was largely unobjectionable, and I had the free time, I said OK to grabbing a quick coffee and giving them a veri. But then once in a while someone would turn up that you would struggle to find anything good to say about.... Rampant BO and/or halitosis, appalling manners, clearly lying about their age or height, or even using someone else's photos on their profile, no sense of humour, and whinged their way through the coffee complaining about various stuck up people on Fab who had turned them down for meets... On one memorable occasion, almost all of the above described one person! Trying to write a veri after that is almost impossible... What do you say (aside from he/she/they turned up!)?? " I agreed once to meet an unverified guy for coffee once. He knew what I looked like seen pic etc. In all messages had been polite. He walked into coffee shop, I stood up to shake hands, he just looked me up and down, says ," no thanks your not for me," turned on his heels and left. So I only meet "meet verified" guys at least I know they will have a quick chat and a coffee. I can make my own opinion about the rest of the stuff. Thankfully I've had a few good coffee meets since. | |||
"I don't think any person should feel obliged to 'help' anyone get verified if they were no good. This isn't a charity and we'd be doing more harm than good giving a veri to a person just because we're trying to be nice. I'm sure I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I certainly don't expect a list of veris from people just because I showed up and look like my photos. I expect others not to assume the same. "Feel obliged", God no, no one should be obliged to do anything, here on Fab or elsewhere! "If they are no good" - No good in what way? Not good enough for someone, is perfect for someone else. I don't give verifications to everyone I meet or play with, also I have not received verifications either. Showing up for a meet and at least looking like in their photos, nothing wrong, to acknowledge that in a veri. Surprisingly, is harder for some people to show up, than people imagine. I won't even get into the "looking like in the pics" subject. Fab is a community (not a charity ) and helping out others is encouraged. Some people on Fab are missing this point and I personally don't want to meet someone with a selfish attitude, here or in real life.
Hmm. I seem to have touched a nerve.
I'm kind of tired of all the whinging around (usually) guys demanding a veri 'just because he shows up'.
If I had a euro for each of those, I could open a shop. Most of the 'showing up' guys hungry for a veri were mean, tight-fisted, boring little jerks who barely deserved five minutes of my time. And then they acted as though they were God's gift to womankind because they showed up at a café in the middle of a work day or at a pub near their hotel. Hardly a five-course meal at Shanahan's, is it?
I'm tired of my expectations being constantly lowered because some horny builder in my area wants to meet me in the hopes of a blow job in his van.
So YEAH, I am a little wary and I've every right to be. I prefer to spend my time in better company (my own, usually) than sifting through terabytes of horn-induced aggravation from 99.9% of the opportunists, cheaters and amateurs on this site and I couldn't give a toss about 'giving anyone a chance' if they won't meet me halfway and act like a decent human being first."You do know that there's no obligation to meet anyone on here or any other site, do you? And if you had that many shite coffee meets, maybe you should look at your selection process. Anyhow I was glad to see your other post, where you point out that you had fabulous meeys too. | |||
"I don't think any person should feel obliged to 'help' anyone get verified if they were no good. This isn't a charity and we'd be doing more harm than good giving a veri to a person just because we're trying to be nice. I'm sure I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I certainly don't expect a list of veris from people just because I showed up and look like my photos. I expect others not to assume the same. "Feel obliged", God no, no one should be obliged to do anything, here on Fab or elsewhere! "If they are no good" - No good in what way? Not good enough for someone, is perfect for someone else. I don't give verifications to everyone I meet or play with, also I have not received verifications either. Showing up for a meet and at least looking like in their photos, nothing wrong, to acknowledge that in a veri. Surprisingly, is harder for some people to show up, than people imagine. I won't even get into the "looking like in the pics" subject. Fab is a community (not a charity ) and helping out others is encouraged. Some people on Fab are missing this point and I personally don't want to meet someone with a selfish attitude, here or in real life.
Hmm. I seem to have touched a nerve.
I'm kind of tired of all the whinging around (usually) guys demanding a veri 'just because he shows up'.
If I had a euro for each of those, I could open a shop. Most of the 'showing up' guys hungry for a veri were mean, tight-fisted, boring little jerks who barely deserved five minutes of my time. And then they acted as though they were God's gift to womankind because they showed up at a café in the middle of a work day or at a pub near their hotel. Hardly a five-course meal at Shanahan's, is it?
I'm tired of my expectations being constantly lowered because some horny builder in my area wants to meet me in the hopes of a blow job in his van.
So YEAH, I am a little wary and I've every right to be. I prefer to spend my time in better company (my own, usually) than sifting through terabytes of horn-induced aggravation from 99.9% of the opportunists, cheaters and amateurs on this site and I couldn't give a toss about 'giving anyone a chance' if they won't meet me halfway and act like a decent human being first.
You do know that there's no obligation to meet anyone on here or any other site, do you? And if you had that many shite coffee meets, maybe you should look at your selection process.
Anyhow I was glad to see your other post, where you point out that you had fabulous meeys too. "Of course, but when you move your schedule around in an already tight schedule only to be met by rudeness, entitlement, arrogant and rank amateur horniness, then that's one afternoon wasted saying no to three others who might have been better. Nothing wrong with my selection process, especially nowadays, just some people are consummate liars. Thankfully, as I have pointed out, the ones I have good experiences with make it worthwhile to not give up! | |||
"I don't think any person should feel obliged to 'help' anyone get verified if they were no good. This isn't a charity and we'd be doing more harm than good giving a veri to a person just because we're trying to be nice. I'm sure I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I certainly don't expect a list of veris from people just because I showed up and look like my photos. I expect others not to assume the same. "Feel obliged", God no, no one should be obliged to do anything, here on Fab or elsewhere! "If they are no good" - No good in what way? Not good enough for someone, is perfect for someone else. I don't give verifications to everyone I meet or play with, also I have not received verifications either. Showing up for a meet and at least looking like in their photos, nothing wrong, to acknowledge that in a veri. Surprisingly, is harder for some people to show up, than people imagine. I won't even get into the "looking like in the pics" subject. Fab is a community (not a charity ) and helping out others is encouraged. Some people on Fab are missing this point and I personally don't want to meet someone with a selfish attitude, here or in real life.
Hmm. I seem to have touched a nerve.
I'm kind of tired of all the whinging around (usually) guys demanding a veri 'just because he shows up'.
If I had a euro for each of those, I could open a shop. Most of the 'showing up' guys hungry for a veri were mean, tight-fisted, boring little jerks who barely deserved five minutes of my time. And then they acted as though they were God's gift to womankind because they showed up at a café in the middle of a work day or at a pub near their hotel. Hardly a five-course meal at Shanahan's, is it?
I'm tired of my expectations being constantly lowered because some horny builder in my area wants to meet me in the hopes of a blow job in his van.
So YEAH, I am a little wary and I've every right to be. I prefer to spend my time in better company (my own, usually) than sifting through terabytes of horn-induced aggravation from 99.9% of the opportunists, cheaters and amateurs on this site and I couldn't give a toss about 'giving anyone a chance' if they won't meet me halfway and act like a decent human being first.
You do know that there's no obligation to meet anyone on here or any other site, do you? And if you had that many shite coffee meets, maybe you should look at your selection process.
Anyhow I was glad to see your other post, where you point out that you had fabulous meeys too.
Of course, but when you move your schedule around in an already tight schedule only to be met by rudeness, entitlement, arrogant and rank amateur horniness, then that's one afternoon wasted saying no to three others who might have been better.
Nothing wrong with my selection process, especially nowadays, just some people are consummate liars.
Thankfully, as I have pointed out, the ones I have good experiences with make it worthwhile to not give up!" that's the spirit, enjoy the good experiences! It's about having good quality fun, the other stuff isn't even worth wasting a thought. | |||
"I've met folk in the past for coffee (when I had spare time) who needed a veri to get an invite to a club or party... People whom I ordinarily wouldn't have met, as they didn't fit my own preferences in any way, but because their online presence was largely unobjectionable, and I had the free time, I said OK to grabbing a quick coffee and giving them a veri. But then once in a while someone would turn up that you would struggle to find anything good to say about.... Rampant BO and/or halitosis, appalling manners, clearly lying about their age or height, or even using someone else's photos on their profile, no sense of humour, and whinged their way through the coffee complaining about various stuck up people on Fab who had turned them down for meets... On one memorable occasion, almost all of the above described one person! Trying to write a veri after that is almost impossible... What do you say (aside from he/she/they turned up!)?? I agreed once to meet an unverified guy for coffee once. He knew what I looked like seen pic etc. In all messages had been polite. He walked into coffee shop, I stood up to shake hands, he just looked me up and down, says ," no thanks your not for me," turned on his heels and left. So I only meet "meet verified" guys at least I know they will have a quick chat and a coffee. I can make my own opinion about the rest of the stuff. Thankfully I've had a few good coffee meets since." ...that's the worst of it Steph..even if the guy wasn't interested it wouldn't have hurt him to have a coffee with you and chat for a while especially when you made the effort and gave him your time to meet him ..but some guys just have no class... | |||
"I've met folk in the past for coffee (when I had spare time) who needed a veri to get an invite to a club or party... People whom I ordinarily wouldn't have met, as they didn't fit my own preferences in any way, but because their online presence was largely unobjectionable, and I had the free time, I said OK to grabbing a quick coffee and giving them a veri. But then once in a while someone would turn up that you would struggle to find anything good to say about.... Rampant BO and/or halitosis, appalling manners, clearly lying about their age or height, or even using someone else's photos on their profile, no sense of humour, and whinged their way through the coffee complaining about various stuck up people on Fab who had turned them down for meets... On one memorable occasion, almost all of the above described one person! Trying to write a veri after that is almost impossible... What do you say (aside from he/she/they turned up!)?? I agreed once to meet an unverified guy for coffee once. He knew what I looked like seen pic etc. In all messages had been polite. He walked into coffee shop, I stood up to shake hands, he just looked me up and down, says ," no thanks your not for me," turned on his heels and left. So I only meet "meet verified" guys at least I know they will have a quick chat and a coffee. I can make my own opinion about the rest of the stuff. Thankfully I've had a few good coffee meets since. ...that's the worst of it Steph..even if the guy wasn't interested it wouldn't have hurt him to have a coffee with you and chat for a while especially when you made the effort and gave him your time to meet him ..but some guys just have no class..." Oh my word . . That guy was just an ass!! Pretty certain he got his kicks from doing that to lots of ladies! Absolutely do not take it personally | |||
I tend to only show social meets on my own profile . . I think u can see that someone is genuine without going into full details. Surprisingly I get quite a bit of abuse for that | |||
"I've met folk in the past for coffee (when I had spare time) who needed a veri to get an invite to a club or party... People whom I ordinarily wouldn't have met, as they didn't fit my own preferences in any way, but because their online presence was largely unobjectionable, and I had the free time, I said OK to grabbing a quick coffee and giving them a veri. But then once in a while someone would turn up that you would struggle to find anything good to say about.... Rampant BO and/or halitosis, appalling manners, clearly lying about their age or height, or even using someone else's photos on their profile, no sense of humour, and whinged their way through the coffee complaining about various stuck up people on Fab who had turned them down for meets... On one memorable occasion, almost all of the above described one person! Trying to write a veri after that is almost impossible... What do you say (aside from he/she/they turned up!)?? I agreed once to meet an unverified guy for coffee once. He knew what I looked like seen pic etc. In all messages had been polite. He walked into coffee shop, I stood up to shake hands, he just looked me up and down, says ," no thanks your not for me," turned on his heels and left. So I only meet "meet verified" guys at least I know they will have a quick chat and a coffee. I can make my own opinion about the rest of the stuff. Thankfully I've had a few good coffee meets since. ...that's the worst of it Steph..even if the guy wasn't interested it wouldn't have hurt him to have a coffee with you and chat for a while especially when you made the effort and gave him your time to meet him ..but some guys just have no class... Oh my word . . That guy was just an ass!! Pretty certain he got his kicks from doing that to lots of ladies! Absolutely do not take it personally "I did take it personally and it stopped me meeting for a long time. It was only ever a coffee meet and to be treated like that was awful. Noone deserves that I'd sooner be stood up a million times | |||
"I've met folk in the past for coffee (when I had spare time) who needed a veri to get an invite to a club or party... People whom I ordinarily wouldn't have met, as they didn't fit my own preferences in any way, but because their online presence was largely unobjectionable, and I had the free time, I said OK to grabbing a quick coffee and giving them a veri. But then once in a while someone would turn up that you would struggle to find anything good to say about.... Rampant BO and/or halitosis, appalling manners, clearly lying about their age or height, or even using someone else's photos on their profile, no sense of humour, and whinged their way through the coffee complaining about various stuck up people on Fab who had turned them down for meets... On one memorable occasion, almost all of the above described one person! Trying to write a veri after that is almost impossible... What do you say (aside from he/she/they turned up!)?? I agreed once to meet an unverified guy for coffee once. He knew what I looked like seen pic etc. In all messages had been polite. He walked into coffee shop, I stood up to shake hands, he just looked me up and down, says ," no thanks your not for me," turned on his heels and left. So I only meet "meet verified" guys at least I know they will have a quick chat and a coffee. I can make my own opinion about the rest of the stuff. Thankfully I've had a few good coffee meets since. ...that's the worst of it Steph..even if the guy wasn't interested it wouldn't have hurt him to have a coffee with you and chat for a while especially when you made the effort and gave him your time to meet him ..but some guys just have no class... Oh my word . . That guy was just an ass!! Pretty certain he got his kicks from doing that to lots of ladies! Absolutely do not take it personally
I did take it personally and it stopped me meeting for a long time. It was only ever a coffee meet and to be treated like that was awful. Noone deserves that I'd sooner be stood up a million times"Should def be a ‘stay away from this ass’ option!! Am sorry he made u feel so bad  Glad though that u came back | |||
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"Definitely judge on veris . . Or as pointed out earlier by who has verified. If someone I’ve already met and get on with they instantly get put on hotlist
I tend to only show social meets on my own profile . . I think u can see that someone is genuine without going into full details. Surprisingly I get quite a bit of abuse for that "I get a little of that too because I have far more social veris than meet ones. But I lean towards regular meets over one-offs and you can't win then.... If someone verifies you repeatedly it's considered lamp-post pissing, and I've had plenty of abuse in the past over the multiple veris Boo wrote me when we started meeting first. | |||
"Definitely judge on veris . . Or as pointed out earlier by who has verified. If someone I’ve already met and get on with they instantly get put on hotlist
I tend to only show social meets on my own profile . . I think u can see that someone is genuine without going into full details. Surprisingly I get quite a bit of abuse for that
I get a little of that too because I have far more social veris than meet ones. But I lean towards regular meets over one-offs and you can't win then.... If someone verifies you repeatedly it's considered lamp-post pissing, and I've had plenty of abuse in the past over the multiple veris Boo wrote me when we started meeting first."To be fair, why would you want several repeated veris? A blow by blow account isn't necessary | |||
"Definitely judge on veris . . Or as pointed out earlier by who has verified. If someone I’ve already met and get on with they instantly get put on hotlist
I tend to only show social meets on my own profile . . I think u can see that someone is genuine without going into full details. Surprisingly I get quite a bit of abuse for that
I get a little of that too because I have far more social veris than meet ones. But I lean towards regular meets over one-offs and you can't win then.... If someone verifies you repeatedly it's considered lamp-post pissing, and I've had plenty of abuse in the past over the multiple veris Boo wrote me when we started meeting first.
To be fair, why would you want several repeated veris? A blow by blow account isn't necessary "Wasn't even every time we met! But I do see your point.... However, the flip side of the coin is, repeat veris show someone thinks you're worth a second, third or fourth encounter For those who prefer repeats, that's a good sign. | |||
"Definitely judge on veris . . Or as pointed out earlier by who has verified. If someone I’ve already met and get on with they instantly get put on hotlist
I tend to only show social meets on my own profile . . I think u can see that someone is genuine without going into full details. Surprisingly I get quite a bit of abuse for that
I get a little of that too because I have far more social veris than meet ones. But I lean towards regular meets over one-offs and you can't win then.... If someone verifies you repeatedly it's considered lamp-post pissing, and I've had plenty of abuse in the past over the multiple veris Boo wrote me when we started meeting first.
To be fair, why would you want several repeated veris? A blow by blow account isn't necessary
Wasn't even every time we met! But I do see your point.... However, the flip side of the coin is, repeat veris show someone thinks you're worth a second, third or fourth encounter For those who prefer repeats, that's a good sign. "Until it looks like territory marking, where's the tipping point? | |||
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"Just to add to this why do people keep leaving verifications of the same meets. Example at meet and greets they meet the person at 10 meet&greets but leave the exact verifications every time they meet? That one has me puzzled. I have seen more an more of this lately. (Met this person at the meet and greet tonight good to be around.) (Met this person again at the meet and greet great company.) (Met this person again at the meet and greet great craic.) It really doesn't add to me. meet Where does it end? You have met the person tons of times and have the same craic. why the need to write up every time you bump into one another at a party. "Funny thing is, they can end up being counterproductive, with tons of social veris but no play meet ones, which says "desperately attended every social event but nobody would touch with a barge pole" | |||
"Just to add to this why do people keep leaving verifications of the same meets. Example at meet and greets they meet the person at 10 meet&greets but leave the exact verifications every time they meet? That one has me puzzled. I have seen more an more of this lately. (Met this person at the meet and greet tonight good to be around.) (Met this person again at the meet and greet great company.) (Met this person again at the meet and greet great craic.) It really doesn't add to me. meet Where does it end? You have met the person tons of times and have the same craic. why the need to write up every time you bump into one another at a party.
Funny thing is, they can end up being counterproductive, with tons of social veris but no play meet ones, which says "desperately attended every social event but nobody would touch with a barge pole""and I agree with you fully I just dont understand it?? Lom | |||
"Definitely judge on veris . . Or as pointed out earlier by who has verified. If someone I’ve already met and get on with they instantly get put on hotlist
I tend to only show social meets on my own profile . . I think u can see that someone is genuine without going into full details. Surprisingly I get quite a bit of abuse for that
I get a little of that too because I have far more social veris than meet ones. But I lean towards regular meets over one-offs and you can't win then.... If someone verifies you repeatedly it's considered lamp-post pissing, and I've had plenty of abuse in the past over the multiple veris Boo wrote me when we started meeting first.
To be fair, why would you want several repeated veris? A blow by blow account isn't necessary "Pun intended? 
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