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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
Was speaking to a female friend recently. Her preference is fuck n go dates. She doesn't get that I like to spend time with people. Long, intimate sessions with a few orgasms, laughs and some connection.
What do you prefer? It would be nice to hear what everyone thinks.  |
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"Hi all,
Was speaking to a female friend recently. Her preference is fuck n go dates. She doesn't get that I like to spend time with people. Long, intimate sessions with a few orgasms, laughs and some connection.
What do you prefer? It would be nice to hear what everyone thinks. "
Oh I defiantly require more than 1-2 hours.I'm an all night or at least most of it kinda guy and showing up to fuck and duck out has no appeal to me that's why I do socials with everybody first..but each to their own gotta respect peoples wishes Im just on the page that knowing the person more than 5 mins tends to make you want to fuck them even more and adds sexual tension,as well as the fact it can be fun   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's true. I love meeting someone for first time. It's so so awesome. But the second time is when pure relaxation kicks in and the fun is soooo much more intense. Well, from my experience anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Amen SexiWexi. That's what I think. As sexy humans we're supposed to enjoy each others company, explore each others minds and bodies and maybe discover that button you haven't found yourself yet (or at least, maybe can't reach that button hahaha)
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over a year ago
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"Fuck n go not for me. I like to get to know the guy and I think the more time you spend together you learn what buttons to press etc"
....I'd fully agree with that ...so much more one can do to surprise and Pleasure a lady with out her even expecting it when longer time spent together... especially when more relaxed and comfortable with each other.. |
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Intimacy and connection is what I desire.
Unfortunately that’s hard to come by. Quickies/outdoors/dogging/cam sex all hold zero appeal to me.
It’s skin on skin,(not talking bareback here btw  ) eye contact, touching, kissing., total immersion that I want.., sigh... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Definitely Steph. I think it feels better. Feeling comfortable is so important too.
I love your buttons btw. Wish I had more time to explore them more xx  |
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"Fuck n go not for me. I like to get to know the guy and I think the more time you spend together you learn what buttons to press etc"
What if instead of a button your more like playing a xylophone  I always loved a good rhythm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck n go not for me. I like to get to know the guy and I think the more time you spend together you learn what buttons to press etc
What if instead of a button your more like playing a xylophone I always loved a good rhythm "
Can't beat a good rhythm  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah. Feel powerful and special. Maybe I'm just a big softie (not down below lol) but I love those flutters of passion. Anticipation, exploration and pure passion until the sweaty dripping off you both x. Then lying, head on chest, running fingers over each other until you're kissing each other and starting again x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Totally agree Steph - get to know the person and have a few hours rather than wham bam thank you mam.
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Yes! Exactly. Pure passion and intimacy. And that moves into the next meet, and the next one. Love it Psyche! |
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"Fuck n go not for me. I like to get to know the guy and I think the more time you spend together you learn what buttons to press etc
What if instead of a button your more like playing a xylophone I always loved a good rhythm
Can't beat a good rhythm "
Oh Steph ding dong   |
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
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We don't get out that often for fab meets so when we do we prefer a few hours fun at least....having said that some of our hottest meets have been hangover horn induced, fuck and go before checkout time, type meets lol. |
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The long sessions are better for sure, but don’t knock the quickies!!! They have there place when your rushing out and only have a short time before meeting family or a group and your the only two that knows what happened a few minutes earlier  |
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"We don't get out that often for fab meets so when we do we prefer a few hours fun at least....having said that some of our hottest meets have been hangover horn induced, fuck and go before checkout time, type meets lol. "
I understand. Maybe they do have their place in the world. Not sure I could get a girl round quick enough for just before checkout time lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The long sessions are better for sure, but don’t knock the quickies!!! They have there place when your rushing out and only have a short time before meeting family or a group and your the only two that knows what happened a few minutes earlier "
A quickie before Mass on a Sunday hahaha  |
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"The long sessions are better for sure, but don’t knock the quickies!!! They have there place when your rushing out and only have a short time before meeting family or a group and your the only two that knows what happened a few minutes earlier "
Ya but that's the type of quickie where you know the person. Love them too had a fwb on here and manys a evening before we would go for food we would have a quickie over the couch, and when it was too good we would order a takeaway while lying sweaty and naked catching out breath before the next round |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The long sessions are better for sure, but don’t knock the quickies!!! They have there place when your rushing out and only have a short time before meeting family or a group and your the only two that knows what happened a few minutes earlier
Ya but that's the type of quickie where you know the person. Love them too had a fwb on here and manys a evening before we would go for food we would have a quickie over the couch, and when it was too good we would order a takeaway while lying sweaty and naked catching out breath before the next round "
Wow Steph. That is the good ones x. Love it. |
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"The long sessions are better for sure, but don’t knock the quickies!!! They have there place when your rushing out and only have a short time before meeting family or a group and your the only two that knows what happened a few minutes earlier
Ya but that's the type of quickie where you know the person. Love them too had a fwb on here and manys a evening before we would go for food we would have a quickie over the couch, and when it was too good we would order a takeaway while lying sweaty and naked catching out breath before the next round "
Now this sounds perfect |
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Intimacy and passion is what makes it for both of us. (Long hot sessions can lead to so many fabulous, memorable times and naughty, knowing smiles)
A ‘wham, bam, thank you ma’am’ style is a total turn off and can leave you with an unsatisfied and “WTF was that” memory  |
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"Hi all,
Was speaking to a female friend recently. Her preference is fuck n go dates. She doesn't get that I like to spend time with people. Long, intimate sessions with a few orgasms, laughs and some connection.
What do you prefer? It would be nice to hear what everyone thinks. "
fuck and go can be understandably cold but you can get to close to somebody as well and feeling can set in for one or both parties. It's a tricky one. You have to remember it's pure no strings sex. Good sex ain't complicated, well not for me anyway. |
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I prefer overnights which turn into regular meets.
First meet for fun is sometimes awkward getting to know what the person likes and responds to.
Second meet is more relaxed and full on lust.
So for me there has to be mutual attraction which produces the all important spark. |
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I am looking for a regular, but so far, the only ones that would turn it into a regular thing, were looking for a boyfriend and love as well.
Not something I could offer, so I ended up doing the "fuck and go" (well more "spank, fuck and go" in my case), more often than I imagined I would.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all,
Was speaking to a female friend recently. Her preference is fuck n go dates. She doesn't get that I like to spend time with people. Long, intimate sessions with a few orgasms, laughs and some connection.
What do you prefer? It would be nice to hear what everyone thinks. "
I think both are fun but to spend a very long time with someone I would want to know them very well.
Some of the best play dates I had on here was with the same guy but they would be classed as fuck and go. The build up /messages all day, he was very very good at that!
When we met we only spend about half an hour together before both of us went on out way smiling.
I would not stay overnight/sleep with a fab date.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all,
Was speaking to a female friend recently. Her preference is fuck n go dates. She doesn't get that I like to spend time with people. Long, intimate sessions with a few orgasms, laughs and some connection.
What do you prefer? It would be nice to hear what everyone thinks. "
It's only her an a few, which doesn't mean it's like this with everyone...
The old and classy quality time spent together suits me best. I am not into quickies, unless morning sex... |
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"Hi all,
Was speaking to a female friend recently. Her preference is fuck n go dates. She doesn't get that I like to spend time with people. Long, intimate sessions with a few orgasms, laughs and some connection.
What do you prefer? It would be nice to hear what everyone thinks. "
Initially spend time together, exploring and discovering each other.
Then, if a fuck and go is all you can manage, you know what to do, that both leave happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all,
Was speaking to a female friend recently. Her preference is fuck n go dates. She doesn't get that I like to spend time with people. Long, intimate sessions with a few orgasms, laughs and some connection.
What do you prefer? It would be nice to hear what everyone thinks. "
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Intimate sessions definitely
I'm not an easy woman. There must be more than only physical attraction. No trust = no date
I like the things to be done slowly. Knowing another person is a long process to me.
I believe that people whom already met me even once, they know what to expect and even there might be a few weeks gap from the social meet to a hot session, it was worthwhile to wait.
Sometimes there is just spontaneous idea 'lets meet' but usually it has to be planned in advance.
We all have private life and responsibilities always come first then pleasure
I have to say, am happy that was lucky to meet a few wonderful people recently.
Patience is a key Building the relationship is important. I expect more than just a good and quality sex. Friend with benefits is the only option which suits both parties very well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all,
Was speaking to a female friend recently. Her preference is fuck n go dates. She doesn't get that I like to spend time with people. Long, intimate sessions with a few orgasms, laughs and some connection.
What do you prefer? It would be nice to hear what everyone thinks.
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Intimate sessions definitely
I'm not an easy woman. There must be more than only physical attraction. No trust = no date
I like the things to be done slowly. Knowing another person is a long process to me.
I believe that people whom already met me even once, they know what to expect and even there might be a few weeks gap from the social meet to a hot session, it was worthwhile to wait.
Sometimes there is just spontaneous idea 'lets meet' but usually it has to be planned in advance.
We all have private life and responsibilities always come first then pleasure
I have to say, am happy that was lucky to meet a few wonderful people recently.
Patience is a key Building the relationship is important. I expect more than just a good and quality sex. Friend with benefits is the only option which suits both parties very well "
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"Hi all,
Was speaking to a female friend recently. Her preference is fuck n go dates. She doesn't get that I like to spend time with people. Long, intimate sessions with a few orgasms, laughs and some connection.
What do you prefer? It would be nice to hear what everyone thinks.
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Intimate sessions definitely
I'm not an easy woman. There must be more than only physical attraction. No trust = no date
I like the things to be done slowly. Knowing another person is a long process to me.
I believe that people whom already met me even once, they know what to expect and even there might be a few weeks gap from the social meet to a hot session, it was worthwhile to wait.
Sometimes there is just spontaneous idea 'lets meet' but usually it has to be planned in advance.
We all have private life and responsibilities always come first then pleasure
I have to say, am happy that was lucky to meet a few wonderful people recently.
Patience is a key Building the relationship is important. I expect more than just a good and quality sex. Friend with benefits is the only option which suits both parties very well "
Not always friends with benefits.
There are other dynamics that work for others, for example, some don't talk/chat for months but when they meet, there can be a brief intense moment and then they may not be in touch again for some time.
I'm sure others will give other scenarios. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have each other for intimacy, adding other people is simply a supliment to our own sex life so there is no need or room in our lives for anyone to stay with us for hours!
Fuck and go for us!"
Totally agree it's why the majority of us are hear...some not judging from these comments no offence to anyone just my view on things here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there is a time & place for everything ... I enjoy long intimate sessions, but other times you cant beat the thrill of fuck & go."
Defo agree. All depends on the person time and place.
Sometimes no matching the intensity of a fuck and go |
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"Intimacy and connection is what I desire.
Unfortunately that’s hard to come by. Quickies/outdoors/dogging/cam sex all hold zero appeal to me.
It’s skin on skin,(not talking bareback here btw ) eye contact, touching, kissing., total immersion that I want.., sigh..."
This 100% and I wont settle for anything else . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all,
Was speaking to a female friend recently. Her preference is fuck n go dates. She doesn't get that I like to spend time with people. Long, intimate sessions with a few orgasms, laughs and some connection.
What do you prefer? It would be nice to hear what everyone thinks.
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Intimate sessions definitely
I'm not an easy woman. There must be more than only physical attraction. No trust = no date
I like the things to be done slowly. Knowing another person is a long process to me.
I believe that people whom already met me even once, they know what to expect and even there might be a few weeks gap from the social meet to a hot session, it was worthwhile to wait.
Sometimes there is just spontaneous idea 'lets meet' but usually it has to be planned in advance.
We all have private life and responsibilities always come first then pleasure
I have to say, am happy that was lucky to meet a few wonderful people recently.
Patience is a key Building the relationship is important. I expect more than just a good and quality sex. Friend with benefits is the only option which suits both parties very well
Not always friends with benefits.
There are other dynamics that work for others, for example, some don't talk/chat for months but when they meet, there can be a brief intense moment and then they may not be in touch again for some time.
I'm sure others will give other scenarios."
Maybe not always FwB...
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I enjoy quickies as much as the next person, they do have a place and time in everybody's lives.
But, could it be your friend enjoys them because she doesn't want to develop feelings for the other person? Draw the line and don't cross it works for alot of people, it's not always as black and white as out seems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck and go ,meet play leave all get what we want.Not wanting to socialize or get to be friends swinging is something we keep completely separate from real life. |
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