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Partnered People - Keep Hold of Your Phones
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This is why I do not play with partnered unless the other knows.... Just got texts from a partner who seems to have found her (I'm assuming) husband's phone and is pretending to be him to find out where he met me. I've never met him, and would never, for this very reason. I've only chatted to this man - mostly about being honest with his spouse about what he's doing. So word to the wise - keep your phones close (especially the second one your spouse doesn't know exists). You put the people you're in contact with at risk in ways that we shouldn't be put at risk. And it was going to be such a lovely day.  |
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I have gotten the same in the past, pretended to be the male asking for more face pics etc.... When I didn't play ball she got abusive and threatened to "out" me  .... I had never met him either.
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"This is why I do not play with partnered unless the other knows.... Just got texts from a partner who seems to have found her (I'm assuming) husband's phone and is pretending to be him to find out where he met me. I've never met him, and would never, for this very reason. I've only chatted to this man - mostly about being honest with his spouse about what he's doing. So word to the wise - keep your phones close (especially the second one your spouse doesn't know exists). You put the people you're in contact with at risk in ways that we shouldn't be put at risk. And it was going to be such a lovely day. "
Thinking you’re confused as to who the real “victim” is in such a scenario.
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"This is why I do not play with partnered unless the other knows.... Just got texts from a partner who seems to have found her (I'm assuming) husband's phone and is pretending to be him to find out where he met me. I've never met him, and would never, for this very reason. I've only chatted to this man - mostly about being honest with his spouse about what he's doing. So word to the wise - keep your phones close (especially the second one your spouse doesn't know exists). You put the people you're in contact with at risk in ways that we shouldn't be put at risk. And it was going to be such a lovely day. "
No problem for me... I am single and noone has access to my phone...
Having said that... How stupid it is to go after someone rather than their own partners?
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Thinking you’re confused as to who the real “victim” is in such a scenario.
I'm not claiming victimhood in the least. "
....l may be way out here but I think the lady means the Wife of that guy... |
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"This is why I do not play with partnered unless the other knows.... Just got texts from a partner who seems to have found her (I'm assuming) husband's phone and is pretending to be him to find out where he met me. I've never met him, and would never, for this very reason. I've only chatted to this man - mostly about being honest with his spouse about what he's doing. So word to the wise - keep your phones close (especially the second one your spouse doesn't know exists). You put the people you're in contact with at risk in ways that we shouldn't be put at risk. And it was going to be such a lovely day. "
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Thinking you’re confused as to who the real “victim” is in such a scenario.
I'm not claiming victimhood in the least.
....l may be way out here but I think the lady means the Wife of that guy... "
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"Golden rule : not meeting attached individuals
Here for fun ... not drama ...
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agreed. unfortunately a lot of them aren't honest about their martial status. to be honest if they can't be honest to their partners that they are playing off side how can you expect them to be honest with a person on the internet? |
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Thinking you’re confused as to who the real “victim” is in such a scenario.
I'm not claiming victimhood in the least. "
You are a victim in a way, however there is nothing we can do for you, no new idenity and new phone number for you, sorry. |
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"Golden rule : not meeting attached individuals
Here for fun ... not drama ...
agreed. unfortunately a lot of them aren't honest about their martial status. to be honest if they can't be honest to their partners that they are playing off side how can you expect them to be honest with a person on the internet?"
emm playing offside requires not being honest |
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"Golden rule : not meeting attached individuals
Here for fun ... not drama ...
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.... absolutely...met a married lady from a different site once upon a time ... definitely not worth the potential fallout ...to me anyway... for all l knew her hubby could be a fucking hitman ..the world is full of single... separated ..divorced ladies ..and if there's not enough in those 3 departments to try and meet ,well then it's time to move into something else... |
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I wasn't involved with the guy in the least. I'm not changing anything, clearing anything or doing anything other than suggesting to those who are married/attached/partnered that think they're being discreet that if they don't keep their phones secure, their spouses/attachments/partners will do what this one did with me. |
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