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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am assuming that you are attached , your partner has no clue you are here , good luck and make sure she won't catch you cause you might lose a good partner for a quick shag , on the other hand wonder how would you deal if it was the other way around .
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over a year ago
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?"
This place is full of them .... playing solo without their partners knowledge.
I don’t meet them .... that’s my personal preference but there are lots of people that do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer not to meet attached or married in general. I try not judge and do make some exceptions sometimes, it can be a bit of a turn on if the height of attraction is there . Most of the time though i think married or attached playing together or with permissions is far more of a turn on for me  |
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Can i put a fly in the ointment here.....just asking couples....those couples that play together are extremely lucky that their partner has simular wants and desires as they have...and both decided to dip the toes and try ....however..all couples here decide whether or not theyll meet attached men/women, which is fair enough, and some scold men in particular for playing without permission...however...I do wonder if all the couples that play here and scold others, if their partner was not into swinging...how many of them would go off and join the site as a guy/gal playing alone....I would guess a sizeable proportion....??? Your thoughts fabbers... |
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"Can i put a fly in the ointment here.....just asking couples....those couples that play together are extremely lucky that their partner has simular wants and desires as they have...and both decided to dip the toes and try ....however..all couples here decide whether or not theyll meet attached men/women, which is fair enough, and some scold men in particular for playing without permission...however...I do wonder if all the couples that play here and scold others, if their partner was not into swinging...how many of them would go off and join the site as a guy/gal playing alone....I would guess a sizeable proportion....??? Your thoughts fabbers..."
Ah yeah I'd say there is a lot here that play like that but wouldn't hold their hand up I think if we are honest with each other then I don't see any point in judging them like if this was a proper dating site then that will be different |
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By *ltered EgoMan
over a year ago
not a million miles from the airport. |
I’m here without wife’s knowledge.
I’ve found myself in a sexless marriage these last few years.
We’ve probably fucked, maybe 10 times in the last 6 or 7 years.
Only still in it for the kids.
If there’s no dinner being served at home, I’m eating out. |
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"If my partner and I weren't sexually compatible, we wouldn't be together. "
So...if everything else was absolutely perfect...and you wanted fun with others and he didn't....you'd end the relationship...? |
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"If my hubby wasn’t into the swinging lifestyle I’d definitely still be getting my itch scratched without his knowledge. Claire x "
Very honest answer ,don't think i would tho and hopefully never be in that situation . |
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"If my partner and I weren't sexually compatible, we wouldn't be together.
So...if everything else was absolutely perfect...and you wanted fun with others and he didn't....you'd end the relationship...?"
No such thing as "absolutely perfect", and definitely not if you are sexually incompatible, for me it's part and parcel of a relationship. |
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"Would never meet attached or married. In my opinion, the man deserves to get found out for being so disrespectful. "
That's not what I'm asking...and btw....I know plenty of women on here and other sites without their husbands permission....so it goes both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?"
so you want to know if there's cheaters on here? plenty but they should really look at the title of the site. it's called fabswingers not fabcheaters. no time for them no matter the reason behind them cheating. |
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?
This place is full of them .... playing solo without their partners knowledge.
I don’t meet them .... that’s my personal preference but there are lots of people that do. "
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?
so you want to know if there's cheaters on here? plenty but they should really look at the title of the site. it's called fabswingers not fabcheaters. no time for them no matter the reason behind them cheating. "
My question was ...do.you think there are a sizeable amount of ppl in as couples here who swing together...as they are both into it...but if one wasn't...how many would seek out fun without permission...males and females...I'd guess quite a lot..so it's always interesting when a couple who are.both into swinging denounce the married ppl cheating...but in reality...if their partner wasn't into it....a lot would be just like those they denounce....just thinking aloud...   |
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"If I meet a single guy, I don't be bothered to ask is he attached!! He's here for some reason or another and I'll be glad to help him out!!  "
Exactly this like I said a few posts up lol if the question do come up be honest and don't judge just as long as they keep personal life stuff at home I don't see any problems again this is not a dating site in the end of the day |
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?
so you want to know if there's cheaters on here? plenty but they should really look at the title of the site. it's called fabswingers not fabcheaters. no time for them no matter the reason behind them cheating.
My question was ...do.you think there are a sizeable amount of ppl in as couples here who swing together...as they are both into it...but if one wasn't...how many would seek out fun without permission...males and females...I'd guess quite a lot..so it's always interesting when a couple who are.both into swinging denounce the married ppl cheating...but in reality...if their partner wasn't into it....a lot would be just like those they denounce....just thinking aloud... "
i can't speak for other couples as their reasons for swinging are not our own but if one of us turned around in an hour and said i want to stop we would both honor the decision as we are a couple. a committed couple who do things together and not behind the other's back |
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?"
In reply to the original question I find most men don't care if you are attached or not. The ones that do fair play and I respect their decision.
The majority of single men on here are attached and playing away from home in my experience. In fairness most declare it, as I do.
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?"
Well I'm one.
I did tell OH about the site and suggested it as a potential rejuvenation of our flagging (almost non-existent) sex life.
She said it wasn't something that she was interested in.
I tried.
Also, I clearly state on my profile that I am married, unlike supposedly quite a few. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?
In reply to the original question I find most men don't care if you are attached or not. The ones that do fair play and I respect their decision.
The majority of single men on here are attached and playing away from home in my experience. In fairness most declare it, as I do.
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there are also women that play away without there hubby knowing, but they post it in profile that hubby don't know, my opinion: do whatever makes you happy,and the consequence that comes with it,nobody should be judged how they live there lifes |
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?"
Yes I am one of them. Alot of people here on the same boat I'd say. It is what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?
so you want to know if there's cheaters on here? plenty but they should really look at the title of the site. it's called fabswingers not fabcheaters. no time for them no matter the reason behind them cheating. "
you're still going on about the "it's a swinging site,very soon you'll be going around with stickers on your forehead with the words "it's a swingers site not singles and cheating site" or you should just register your own website,that should keep u isolated enough to yourself  |
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"Hi folks, this is a post to fabbers that are attached but their partner isn't aware.
Is there many on here? And are fabbers happy to meet someone that is attached like that?
Well I'm one.
I did tell OH about the site and suggested it as a potential rejuvenation of our flagging (almost non-existent) sex life.
She said it wasn't something that she was interested in.
I tried.
Also, I clearly state on my profile that I am married, unlike supposedly quite a few."
My question to you is,why are you bo5still together,it might be love i guess? |
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"It's just sex at the end of the day for me so someone's marital status means nothing to me. "
Absolutely means nothing, its not like you be exchanging contact details and calling each other,this what this site is for fulfilling sexual fantasies, it doesn't matter your marital status,just play safe. |
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"It's just sex at the end of the day for me so someone's marital status means nothing to me. Absolutely means nothing, its not like you be exchanging contact details and calling each other,this what this site is for fulfilling sexual fantasies, it doesn't matter your marital status,just play safe. "
Well said
Its only a bit of fun guys. Stay safe..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We wouldn’t meet attached guy or girl but make it clear on our profile,main bug bear is when people email anyway chancing the arm or not being upfront but that’s life on fab unfortunately. |
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Married people cheating are some of the most popular people on here.
There are enough people on here that don't care that it is not needed to lie about it. Sure you might lose out on 10 people, but the people who dont mind will respect you more.
"If there’s no dinner being served at home, I’m eating out. "
Or, you could make dinner at home and serve it yourself. |
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