Hi people could you tell me what me wrong with my profile ,have been on this now for 6 or 7 months and have never received a reply to a msg ,try not to take it personally, but not one reply ,lol,,what am I doin wrong folks . |
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"Hi people could you tell me what me wrong with my profile ,have been on this now for 6 or 7 months and have never received a reply to a msg ,try not to take it personally, but not one reply ,lol,,what am I doin wrong folks ."
You are in a sea of many. Maybe cut your ages a bit, your 41 and you’ll meet an eighteen year old? And maybe add a bit more about yourself. There’s been loads of these threads OP, get to a social or see if someone will meet for a coffee just to verify you. |
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From a female point of view, this is what I see when I look at your profile:
Forty something guy who doesn't live alone (means may be attached or still live with his parents) so can't accomodate, wants to meet women to be a "dom" with them outside on a blanket.
Nope, I'd walk as far away from that kind of scenario as I could. |
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"From a female point of view, this is what I see when I look at your profile:
Forty something guy who doesn't live alone (means may be attached or still live with his parents) so can't accomodate, wants to meet women to be a "dom" with them outside on a blanket.
Nope, I'd walk as far away from that kind of scenario as I could."
On a blanket  Bdsm picnics are all the rage  |
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Its very common for bdsm meets to happen in parks on blankets.
I deleted my fetish profile but when I had one I would see meets happen in parks all the time, and people tying each other up and stuff. Obviously not sex though. |
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"From a female point of view, this is what I see when I look at your profile:
Forty something guy who doesn't live alone (means may be attached or still live with his parents) so can't accomodate, wants to meet women to be a "dom" with them outside on a blanket.
Nope, I'd walk as far away from that kind of scenario as I could."
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"Hi people could you tell me what me wrong with my profile ,have been on this now for 6 or 7 months and have never received a reply to a msg ,try not to take it personally, but not one reply ,lol,,what am I doin wrong folks ."
Try be more specific with what your looking for scenario wise and partner wise.Make sure your respectful and make your messages stand out from the thousands women get on a daily basis.
Ask yourself why will they pick me over countless others?how can I be different?
also your living arrangements arent preferrable for alot of people and smokers tend to be less fortunate from my experince due to either health or just preferences in general...also spell check your about me sections and try add some more photos matebin different outfits to give an idea of your style,arrange a coffee meet to get verified it helps alot!!
There's alot of people here who will give advice if asked,hope your luck changes and best of luck OP |
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OP you’ve got to remember that you want women ( or men , whatever your preference) to look at your profile and want to have sex with you . We are all here to meet to have sex ( unless like me , not meeting at the moment ) , so ask yourself , what about your profile would make a woman on here , who is getting umpteen messages a day from some very hot / interesting/ witty men , want to have sex with you ??? Would your profile spark their interest ? Or would they just delete your incoming messages? Especially as there is no profile picture , it just reeks of couldn’t really be arsed to make an effort. I hope you will take this as constructive criticism. Pony |
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"From a female point of view, this is what I see when I look at your profile:
Forty something guy who doesn't live alone (means may be attached or still live with his parents) so can't accomodate, wants to meet women to be a "dom" with them outside on a blanket.
Nope, I'd walk as far away from that kind of scenario as I could."
Open to constructive criticism if anyone wants to tear me a new one 
In no means hijacking a post I hope |
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I just copied and pasted from the answer I gave on another post of the same topic . Maybe have a look at the profiles of men on here who have been meeting and make a comparison to your own profile and see what you can do to make women want to chat to you . Good luck  |
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"I just copied and pasted from the answer I gave on another post of the same topic . Maybe have a look at the profiles of men on here who have been meeting and make a comparison to your own profile and see what you can do to make women want to chat to you . Good luck "
Thankyou |
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"How do I change to ,can accommodate on my profile page cant find it"
Not everyone thinks automatically because a guy doesn't accommodate they are either attached or living with parents. Men do have other reasons for not accommodating. Don't change it to suit others.....its what works for you on here  |
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"How do I change to ,can accommodate on my profile page cant find it"
Click on account
Click on looking for
Can accommodate
Can not accommodate check boxes |
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The thing is, guys come on the forums day in & day out "looking for advice" 
So, here's my advice to all the studs out there that are "doing something wrong"...
1. DON'T BE LAZY. Write a sexy/interesting profile text that doesn't send the reader to sleep 
Instead, be upfront on the forums and openly speak your mind ...unless the topic is about poxy fecking soccer 
. Fabbers are first and foremost people 