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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nobody had the right.
To force you to be someone who you are not. You are in charge of your life, not someone else.
To be violent towards you. Beat you, sexually abusing you and bully you.
To speak to you with hatred. Challenge, humiliate, criticize, blame you for something you haven't done.
It's not your fault
That a father had problems and hit his children. That a disturbed priest harassed others. That a husband screamed constantly and a wife cheated.
You are not responsible that your adult child has gone astray. That the hatter spreads hatred and the boss steals from people.
You don't have to associate with the rudeness of colleagues. With the negativity of your partner. With a mother's d*unkenness.
It is not your fault that someone has problems. That his behavior is wrong. That he can't deal with his traumatic past.
I'm really sorry
That you were harmed. That those who were supposed to protect you have failed. That your trust was abused.
That fate can be cruel. That all of it happened to you. That no one stopped the harm.
But I also know
That your problems can be solved. That some people were in a similar situation and got out of it that you can do it too.
That what didn't kill you made you stronger, that you can learn from every horrifying experience.
Therefore, remember
That today is a new day. That you can start from the beginning. That I keep my fingers crossed for you and I know that you can make it.
Matt |
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"Nobody had the right.
To force you to be someone who you are not. You are in charge of your life, not someone else.
To be violent towards you. Beat you, sexually abusing you and bully you.
To speak to you with hatred. Challenge, humiliate, criticize, blame you for something you haven't done.
It's not your fault
That a father had problems and hit his children. That a disturbed priest harassed others. That a husband screamed constantly and a wife cheated.
You are not responsible that your adult child has gone astray. That the hatter spreads hatred and the boss steals from people.
You don't have to associate with the rudeness of colleagues. With the negativity of your partner. With a mother's d*unkenness.
It is not your fault that someone has problems. That his behavior is wrong. That he can't deal with his traumatic past.
I'm really sorry
That you were harmed. That those who were supposed to protect you have failed. That your trust was abused.
That fate can be cruel. That all of it happened to you. That no one stopped the harm.
But I also know
That your problems can be solved. That some people were in a similar situation and got out of it that you can do it too.
That what didn't kill you made you stronger, that you can learn from every horrifying experience.
Therefore, remember
That today is a new day. That you can start from the beginning. That I keep my fingers crossed for you and I know that you can make it.
Matt"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nobody had the right.
To force you to be someone who you are not. You are in charge of your life, not someone else.
To be violent towards you. Beat you, sexually abusing you and bully you.
To speak to you with hatred. Challenge, humiliate, criticize, blame you for something you haven't done.
It's not your fault
That a father had problems and hit his children. That a disturbed priest harassed others. That a husband screamed constantly and a wife cheated.
You are not responsible that your adult child has gone astray. That the hatter spreads hatred and the boss steals from people.
You don't have to associate with the rudeness of colleagues. With the negativity of your partner. With a mother's d*unkenness.
It is not your fault that someone has problems. That his behavior is wrong. That he can't deal with his traumatic past.
I'm really sorry
That you were harmed. That those who were supposed to protect you have failed. That your trust was abused.
That fate can be cruel. That all of it happened to you. That no one stopped the harm.
But I also know
That your problems can be solved. That some people were in a similar situation and got out of it that you can do it too.
That what didn't kill you made you stronger, that you can learn from every horrifying experience.
Therefore, remember
That today is a new day. That you can start from the beginning. That I keep my fingers crossed for you and I know that you can make it.
Matt
Who's Matt "
My Friend 
Its an open letter. Think and Do  |
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"Nobody had the right.
To force you to be someone who you are not. You are in charge of your life, not someone else.
To be violent towards you. Beat you, sexually abusing you and bully you.
To speak to you with hatred. Challenge, humiliate, criticize, blame you for something you haven't done.
It's not your fault
That a father had problems and hit his children. That a disturbed priest harassed others. That a husband screamed constantly and a wife cheated.
You are not responsible that your adult child has gone astray. That the hatter spreads hatred and the boss steals from people.
You don't have to associate with the rudeness of colleagues. With the negativity of your partner. With a mother's d*unkenness.
It is not your fault that someone has problems. That his behavior is wrong. That he can't deal with his traumatic past.
I'm really sorry
That you were harmed. That those who were supposed to protect you have failed. That your trust was abused.
That fate can be cruel. That all of it happened to you. That no one stopped the harm.
But I also know
That your problems can be solved. That some people were in a similar situation and got out of it that you can do it too.
That what didn't kill you made you stronger, that you can learn from every horrifying experience.
Therefore, remember
That today is a new day. That you can start from the beginning. That I keep my fingers crossed for you and I know that you can make it.
Matt
Who's Matt
My Friend
Its an open letter. Think and Do "
Fairly powerful letter going through tough times is he |
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"Nobody had the right.
To force you to be someone who you are not. You are in charge of your life, not someone else.
To be violent towards you. Beat you, sexually abusing you and bully you.
To speak to you with hatred. Challenge, humiliate, criticize, blame you for something you haven't done.
It's not your fault
That a father had problems and hit his children. That a disturbed priest harassed others. That a husband screamed constantly and a wife cheated.
You are not responsible that your adult child has gone astray. That the hatter spreads hatred and the boss steals from people.
You don't have to associate with the rudeness of colleagues. With the negativity of your partner. With a mother's d*unkenness.
It is not your fault that someone has problems. That his behavior is wrong. That he can't deal with his traumatic past.
I'm really sorry
That you were harmed. That those who were supposed to protect you have failed. That your trust was abused.
That fate can be cruel. That all of it happened to you. That no one stopped the harm.
But I also know
That your problems can be solved. That some people were in a similar situation and got out of it that you can do it too.
That what didn't kill you made you stronger, that you can learn from every horrifying experience.
Therefore, remember
That today is a new day. That you can start from the beginning. That I keep my fingers crossed for you and I know that you can make it.
Matt"
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