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WHAT TO DO?
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"I'd wait until she reads it I know if I get crazy amount of messages and there is a guy I want to type back I open most of the messages of the guys I dont want to respond to first (I know that sounds so bad) but I do and when I want to talk to that person I'll open the message and text back , hope that helps " Yeah I think lol thanks  | |||
Focus your energies on meeting others 
for the moment and in a few months,
fire a message over to her...
There's tons of sexy people to meet on FAB
so wouldn't get hung up on any one person | |||
"Simply shout "NEXT!" and move on
Focus your energies on meeting others
for the moment and in a few months,
fire a message over to her...
There's tons of sexy people to meet on FAB
so wouldn't get hung up on any one person "Interesting approach might go with it lol | |||
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"How many messages are we talking about that she has not read? And how long have you been doing this? Personally I think she may not be interested and it's time to move on" Like I don't literally hound her with messages just messages her when she is online then just leaves it it justs confuses me why she accepted a my friend request maybe it was a mistake don't know | |||
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"You have reached out to her and she has made no effort so thing it's time to just move on bet once she sees you have you will hear from her " | |||
"Has she heard you sing Tonk? "No love to show off my rhythm and blues lol | |||
"You have reached out to her and she has made no effort so thing it's time to just move on bet once she sees you have you will hear from her " Very true thank you | |||
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Move on and stop messaging the women if she wanted to reply to you she would of | |||
"Is it just me or does anyone else find it creepy that he says he cares about a women he thinks he exchanged messages with once
Move on and stop messaging the women if she wanted to reply to you she would of "This | |||
"Is it just me or does anyone else find it creepy that he says he cares about a women he thinks he exchanged messages with once
Move on and stop messaging the women if she wanted to reply to you she would of "Well what I meant by that is when a status gets put up saying they have been stood up it annoys me when people make the effort only to be messed about and just want to show im one of the good ones on here yeah care for her was probably wrong choice of words lol I assure you I'm no creep I can take a hint just this occasion confused me a bit is all but thanks for your input | |||
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While men don't get near as many messages, winks or friend requests as Fab women do and I perfectly understand your reluctantance to wait, please take the advice and move on.
What I am trying to say is that when someone wants and is interested to meet you, you will know straight away.
Winks, friend requests, face pics exchanged, Kik chats, phone numbers swapped and talk, coffee meet (if you can get one ) , love letters  , don't mean anything, as it could all change without notice.
True personal experience below on Fab, just few weeks ago.
I've met a woman for a SM play session (not too many on Fab, trust me).
No coffee meet beforehand.
She messaged me first, followed immediately after few Fab messages by a friend request, then by the normal introductory Kik chat with face pics exchanged.
Then the date and the hotel was set, all of this in one afternoon.
She even suggested the hotel she preferred, hotel that had no booking fees and was extremely discreet and clean, with reasonable price for the night, located half way between us.
She wasn't desperate to meet me and while she was just a bit older than me, she was very pretty.
She was just that kind of person who understands very well how Fab works and what she was looking for.
I even got very sick, the morning of the meet and we had to postpone at short notice for few days later, but she had no problems with it, when I thought I would never hear from her gain.
Good luck and have patience, but don't waste your time, there are plenty of new people on Fab all the time and one day the right person will meet you.
If it has happened to me, it will happen to you too.
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"A bit of a long answer, but just bare with me. Time for you to move on OP and maybe put a note on her profile, so next time you remember the whole situation. I normally block a profile like that too, not to waste her time by accident in the future !
While men don't get near as many messages, winks or friend requests as Fab women do and I perfectly understand your reluctantance to wait, please take the advice and move on.
What I am trying to say is that when someone wants and is interested to meet you, you will know straight away.
Winks, friend requests, face pics exchanged, Kik chats, phone numbers swapped and talk, coffee meet (if you can get one ) , love letters , don't mean anything, as it could all change without notice.
True personal experience below on Fab, just few weeks ago.
I've met a woman for a SM play session (not too many on Fab, trust me).
No coffee meet beforehand.
She messaged me first, followed immediately after few Fab messages by a friend request, then by the normal introductory Kik chat with face pics exchanged.
Then the date and the hotel was set, all of this in one afternoon.
She even suggested the hotel she preferred, hotel that had no booking fees and was extremely discreet and clean, with reasonable price for the night, located half way between us.
She wasn't desperate to meet me and while she was just a bit older than me, she was very pretty.
She was just that kind of person who understands very well how Fab works and what she was looking for.
I even got very sick, the morning of the meet and we had to postpone at short notice for few days later, but she had no problems with it, when I thought I would never hear from her gain.
Good luck and have patience, but don't waste your time, there are plenty of new people on Fab all the time and one day the right person will meet you.
If it has happened to me, it will happen to you too.
"Yeah definitely one of the best responses lol yeah your completely right tho but what I might do is just maybe keep her on my friends list and maybe she might spot my messages but just don't message her anymore unless she does respond I suppose | |||
"Has she heard you sing Tonk?
No love to show off my rhythm and blues lol"Her loss Tonk! Remember you're cool, you're cocky, you're bad  | |||
"Has she heard you sing Tonk?
No love to show off my rhythm and blues lol
Her loss Tonk!
Remember you're cool, you're cocky, you're bad "Ha ha love it Kaizer | |||
"Has she heard you sing Tonk?
No love to show off my rhythm and blues lol
Her loss Tonk!
Remember you're cool, you're cocky, you're bad "Lol although she might have a price everyone has a price for the million dollar man then again I'm not a millionaire yet lol | |||
"Unless she had read it , I always keep messaging until I get a reply or I am blocked . I have had long chats with many andbthen my last message us read but not replied to. Out if the blue . Then i will just leave it. Their loss " That's because you're a bit of a brat. Lol | |||
