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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am I a dickhead because I dont want to meet attached people ? I dont judge anyone and it's none of my business what anyone does but i personally have no interest meeting anyone that is attached, I know I will feel guilty after meeting and I dont want that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are completely free to meet whomever you wish on here. Your integrity is yours and you know your limits etc. I find it incredible that people would give you abuse ove this stance. As you stated it's your choice, no judgement on anyone else. Work away being yourself x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You are completely free to meet whomever you wish on here. Your integrity is yours and you know your limits etc. I find it incredible that people would give you abuse ove this stance. As you stated it's your choice, no judgement on anyone else. Work away being yourself x"
Exactly, know your own values and don't let others attempt to coerce you into actions that you are not comfortable with. |
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"Am I a dickhead because I dont want to meet attached people ? I dont judge anyone and it's none of my business what anyone does but i personally have no interest meeting anyone that is attached, I know I will feel guilty after meeting and I dont want that "
You have every right to say no, your choice. But how do you know that they are not single? |
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You have to be a bit tough. If you don’t want to meet, for any reason , you don’t want to meet. If you get hassle best to block. Some lady’s block very quickly but sounds like you might be better saying no and blocking when you’ve not happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No ur not a dickhead and ur not on ur own not meeting attached people I dont either and that goes for woman as well as men if there attached it's a definite no from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No ur not a dickhead and ur not on ur own not meeting attached people I dont either and that goes for woman as well as men if there attached it's a definite no from me "
Hi sorry to bombard this thread how do you do a search for people in Dublin? I'm searching and it just shows London?  |
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"No ur not a dickhead and ur not on ur own not meeting attached people I dont either and that goes for woman as well as men if there attached it's a definite no from me
Hi sorry to bombard this thread how do you do a search for people in Dublin? I'm searching and it just shows London? "
change your browse location to Ireland |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No ur not a dickhead and ur not on ur own not meeting attached people I dont either and that goes for woman as well as men if there attached it's a definite no from me
Hi sorry to bombard this thread how do you do a search for people in Dublin? I'm searching and it just shows London? change your browse location to Ireland "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Just to clear the air
Not all married men cant take a hint i chat to plenty that have set their boundaries and they are respected
There are lots of men here that dont take no for an answer not to mind the hint so lets not tar one section of men with the one brush
There are women here that cant take no for an answer again shall we burn them at the stake
Why not set ur filters so u decide who u talk to and eventualy meet besides forming a mob to burn the married man at the stake
Finally there are quiet a few who commented here men women and cpls that would meet a married person to suit their own wants and desires |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"My FAB philosophy has always been...
"Once the cards are on the table,
let's play strip poker!"  
...meaning as long as both parties
know the status of the other
That's the most important thing  "
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"Be up front and let people make an informed choice. "
Quite a few people on this site seem to miss the idea that it's about connecting with those who you want to meet, not just those you can.
Everyone has their boundaries/limits/standards and that's their prerogative, if a anyone can't deal with that then maybe they should be questioning whether this is the site/lifestyle for them. |
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On other hand....
Some women shout loud how they don't want to meet any attached men in their profiles but are more than happy to message attached guys and ask for single meets if they like the look of them... double standards for good looking attached guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be up front and let people make an informed choice.
Quite a few people on this site seem to miss the idea that it's about connecting with those who you want to meet, not just those you can.
Everyone has their boundaries/limits/standards and that's their prerogative, if a anyone can't deal with that then maybe they should be questioning whether this is the site/lifestyle for them. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have said that I would never meet anyone whose attached but have met guys from here and other site's who claimed to be single but actually weren't. I've learned that everyone has their own reason for doing what they are doing. I've learned not to judge anyone. Once both parties are honest with each other then that's all that matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I a dickhead because I dont want to meet attached people ? I dont judge anyone and it's none of my business what anyone does but i personally have no interest meeting anyone that is attached, I know I will feel guilty after meeting and I dont want that "
Nope. All is good with you. I dont meet married and attached too. Everybody has a choice. Its not my business why they are here. I dont judge them.
We all are adults and have to be responsible.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people are here for the same purpose, chew and split after the taste is gone (which is not my case)... And many will lie... but a=only a very little few would perhaps stay for longer with someone from here... And that is cool... But the otherwise is cool too... Everyone has a choice, so why should you care too much about other's opinion about your choices? |
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