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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago
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"So who on fab judge's looks over performance.Come on don't lie "
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea but there does need to be abit of attraction. Sometimes a persons personality is more attractive than their looks |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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The problem is there's no measurement for performance nor is there an accurate way to find out how the person will perform before you meet them. Also what is a good performance to one might not be to another.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks is okay. But I am more into the personality and brain over looks... But to be honest everyone have their own standards   Some extremely beautiful woman are a completely turn of at times, specially when I see no kindness or lack of brain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree, there has to be a physical attraction of sorts... But a playful and confident personality wins with me everytime, it's that playful inner minx quality and self confidence that takes playtime to the next level ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love this thread. I’m sitting here having my coffee and toast reading the comments and I have a rather large smile on my face and after each comment I have found myself saying something such as yeah yeah spoofer, yeah right, what bullshit, you’ll definitely get it saying that or what a good comment you made there, you’ve really covered yourself on all bases.
Of course looks comes down to it. Be honest with yourselves, no one is going to shag someone who they think is ugly, regardless of what great fun they are or what good company they are, unless of course they have a large bank account. So yep, it’s going to be looks every time for all. Although some guys probably will say you don’t look at the mantelpiece when your poking the fire but I do. For me, it’s 100% looks that’s going to seal the deal. It would be the the top thing if I was to play with someone. There’s got to be some kind of an attraction for me. That’s not being an arsehole or being shallow or anything else. It’s just being real. There’s women here that haven’t played with me coz I didn’t float their boat, that’s just life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So who on fab judge's looks over performance.Come on don't lie
They have to have the looks for me to judge their performance lol
Never judge a book by its cover Nancy "
What can I say Fredrick I am very shallow lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who on fab judge's looks over performance.Come on don't lie
They have to have the looks for me to judge their performance lol
Never judge a book by its cover Nancy
What can I say Fredrick I am very shallow lol"
Looks as if it’s only the two of us Nancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So who on fab judge's looks over performance.Come on don't lie
They have to have the looks for me to judge their performance lol
Never judge a book by its cover Nancy
What can I say Fredrick I am very shallow lol
Looks as if it’s only the two of us Nancy "
Only two that will admit it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who on fab judge's looks over performance.Come on don't lie
They have to have the looks for me to judge their performance lol
Never judge a book by its cover Nancy
What can I say Fredrick I am very shallow lol
Looks as if it’s only the two of us Nancy
Only two that will admit it "
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"So who on fab judge's looks over performance.Come on don't lie
They have to have the looks for me to judge their performance lol
Never judge a book by its cover Nancy
What can I say Fredrick I am very shallow lol"
Now that you are not, not at all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In this lifestyle it's always instant attraction as you don't often have time to get to know someone before you play with them. Looks, personality performance ...repeat if it's great ...Jilly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In this lifestyle it's always instant attraction as you don't often have time to get to know someone before you play with them. Looks, personality performance ...repeat if it's great ...Jilly "
hear hear  |
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One thing I've learnt... looks means nothing if there is no chemistry,no attraction and that comes from oh wait,a chemical balance in your brain... or something like that ...
No spark ... bad kisser ...performance will be shit ...
Spark ... bad kisser ... performance still shit ...
Spark ... great kisser ...performance will be amazing...
That's my two cents on the matter... |
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"So who on fab judge's looks over performance.Come on don't lie "
Well what I lack in looks I make up for with my personality if I'm honest my performance is very good if given the chance to show it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who on fab judge's looks over performance.Come on don't lie
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea but there does need to be abit of attraction. Sometimes a persons personality is more attractive than their looks "
Totally agree
Physical attraction is on the end... Sorry guys! I love beautiful minds first  Then sense of humour |
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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago
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"So who on fab judge's looks over performance.Come on don't lie
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea but there does need to be abit of attraction. Sometimes a persons personality is more attractive than their looks
Totally agree
Physical attraction is on the end... Sorry guys! I love beautiful minds first Then sense of humour "
Someone who can make you smile & laugh is worth their weight in gold |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks for sure play a big part for me but an over all package is pretty much what I go for of course. I find it very hard to play with person/persons that I just am not attracted to when i look into their eyes. In saying that I must explore more, i bet if i was blindfold and did not see whom I am being pleasured by and if it was unreal then i am guessing i might want that again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem is there's no measurement for performance nor is there an accurate way to find out how the person will perform before you meet them. Also what is a good performance to one might not be to another.
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And that sexy..is exactly it in a nutshell...well said...it's like some saying a certain soccer player is " Brilliant " but to another person he might be " only ok "... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One thing I've learnt... looks means nothing if there is no chemistry,no attraction and that comes from oh wait,a chemical balance in your brain... or something like that ...
No spark ... bad kisser ...performance will be shit ...
Spark ... bad kisser ... performance still shit ...
Spark ... great kisser ...performance will be amazing...
That's my two cents on the matter... "
No spark at meet for both...no fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love this thread. I’m sitting here having my coffee and toast reading the comments and I have a rather large smile on my face and after each comment I have found myself saying something such as yeah yeah spoofer, yeah right, what bullshit, you’ll definitely get it saying that or what a good comment you made there, you’ve really covered yourself on all bases.
Of course looks comes down to it. Be honest with yourselves, no one is going to shag someone who they think is ugly, regardless of what great fun they are or what good company they are, unless of course they have a large bank account. So yep, it’s going to be looks every time for all. Although some guys probably will say you don’t look at the mantelpiece when your poking the fire but I do. For me, it’s 100% looks that’s going to seal the deal. It would be the the top thing if I was to play with someone. There’s got to be some kind of an attraction for me. That’s not being an arsehole or being shallow or anything else. It’s just being real. There’s women here that haven’t played with me coz I didn’t float their boat, that’s just life. "
100% agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One thing I've learnt... looks means nothing if there is no chemistry,no attraction and that comes from oh wait,a chemical balance in your brain... or something like that ...
No spark ... bad kisser ...performance will be shit ...
Spark ... bad kisser ... performance still shit ...
Spark ... great kisser ...performance will be amazing...
That's my two cents on the matter...
No spark at meet for both...no fun"
This is true x |
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Looks are everything for us, we have each other already to spend a good time, when we look for fab fun it’s only for a night or so, we have fun, and then good bye. We’ve only repeated with a couple and bc both of them were fully bi (Which is fairly hard to find here apparently) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who on fab judge's looks over performance.Come on don't lie "
Looks are obviously of course the first thing that people notice..you obviously see the person before any conversation but for me tbh..it all depends on the situation ..a lady could be totally jaw dropping stunning but the second she opens her mouth and you discover that she's all about herself in everyway...huge turn off..cause l think it just adds extra pressure to the moment...and then you could meet a lady not as hot in the beauty department but she makes you laugh and relaxed and says and does Everything that you'd do ..it's bliss...pure bliss...I've often listened to smart arsed guys pass unkind comments in everyday life about ladies that wouldn't be miss World's ( and these guys are no oil paintings themselves )and then l'd say to them " you know nothing about those ladies..they could give you the ride of your life ..and you could be begging her for more "...each and everyone is different to what pushes their buttons...to answer the question .. prefer looks or performance ?....let's just say with the right lady ... performance everytime... |
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"In this lifestyle it's always instant attraction as you don't often have time to get to know someone before you play with them. Looks, personality performance ...repeat if it's great ...Jilly "
Agree ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's looks that catches your attention first but if there arseholes nothing going to get you horny  "
True ..the second they'd open their mouth you'd know if it was game over straight away... |
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"Looks is okay. But I am more into the personality and brain over looks... But to be honest everyone have their own standards Some extremely beautiful woman are a completely turn of at times, specially when I see no kindness or lack of brain"
Personally agree , personality over looks everytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks is okay. But I am more into the personality and brain over looks... But to be honest everyone have their own standards Some extremely beautiful woman are a completely turn of at times, specially when I see no kindness or lack of brain
Personally agree , personality over looks everytime"
Intelligence and personality are more important than looks. But to be honest, no matter how well a chat is going when it comes to a face pic there are just some definate no no's.
And the same when I send a face pic, I might not float their boot.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Physical attraction is always going to the first thing to appeal surely,but then it moves on to different levels,a look in the eye,a smile ,a certain warmth..next a simple brush of their arm against yours can send a shiver of excitement through your body...and then of course the kiss!..the kiss tells you all you need to know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to go for looks firstly but learned that they are not the most important thing to keep my attention though I'm obviously not talking bog beast  lol
Intelligence and gsoh turns me on much more. Passion and sexual attraction start in the mind and a man who can turn me on with words....well hes more than halfway there.
After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what some describe as handsome wouldn't be handsome to me.
Sexual chemistry is deeper than looks...for me anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not gonna lie looks will always come first with me then personality.
If his performance isn't great then I can always teach him. "
And if he doesn't perform after you've taught him? |
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"I used to go for looks firstly but learned that they are not the most important thing to keep my attention though I'm obviously not talking bog beast lol
Intelligence and gsoh turns me on much more. Passion and sexual attraction start in the mind and a man who can turn me on with words....well hes more than halfway there.
After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what some describe as handsome wouldn't be handsome to me.
Sexual chemistry is deeper than looks...for me anyway."
Bog beast....lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not gonna lie looks will always come first with me then personality.
If his performance isn't great then I can always teach him.
And if he doesn't perform after you've taught him?"
Then I'll use him for his breakfast making skills |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to go for looks firstly but learned that they are not the most important thing to keep my attention though I'm obviously not talking bog beast lol
Intelligence and gsoh turns me on much more. Passion and sexual attraction start in the mind and a man who can turn me on with words....well hes more than halfway there.
After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what some describe as handsome wouldn't be handsome to me.
Sexual chemistry is deeper than looks...for me anyway."
I never new you talked about me like that Phoenix, it's getting personal now. Thought I was just a beast.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not gonna lie looks will always come first with me then personality.
If his performance isn't great then I can always teach him.
And if he doesn't perform after you've taught him?
Then I'll use him for his breakfast making skills "
That's me fucked then!!!! Literally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to go for looks firstly but learned that they are not the most important thing to keep my attention though I'm obviously not talking bog beast lol
Intelligence and gsoh turns me on much more. Passion and sexual attraction start in the mind and a man who can turn me on with words....well hes more than halfway there.
After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what some describe as handsome wouldn't be handsome to me.
Sexual chemistry is deeper than looks...for me anyway.
I never new you talked about me like that Phoenix, it's getting personal now. Thought I was just a beast. "
Maybe a wolf in sheeps clothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to go for looks firstly but learned that they are not the most important thing to keep my attention though I'm obviously not talking bog beast lol
Intelligence and gsoh turns me on much more. Passion and sexual attraction start in the mind and a man who can turn me on with words....well hes more than halfway there.
After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what some describe as handsome wouldn't be handsome to me.
Sexual chemistry is deeper than looks...for me anyway.
I never new you talked about me like that Phoenix, it's getting personal now. Thought I was just a beast.
Maybe a wolf in sheeps clothing "
Let's go down to the the woods and play... I'll bring my ropes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to go for looks firstly but learned that they are not the most important thing to keep my attention though I'm obviously not talking bog beast lol
Intelligence and gsoh turns me on much more. Passion and sexual attraction start in the mind and a man who can turn me on with words....well hes more than halfway there.
After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what some describe as handsome wouldn't be handsome to me.
Sexual chemistry is deeper than looks...for me anyway.
I never new you talked about me like that Phoenix, it's getting personal now. Thought I was just a beast.
Maybe a wolf in sheeps clothing
Let's go down to the the woods and play... I'll bring my ropes "
Well.......ok then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to go for looks firstly but learned that they are not the most important thing to keep my attention though I'm obviously not talking bog beast lol
Intelligence and gsoh turns me on much more. Passion and sexual attraction start in the mind and a man who can turn me on with words....well hes more than halfway there.
After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what some describe as handsome wouldn't be handsome to me.
Sexual chemistry is deeper than looks...for me anyway."
Very well Said Phoenix...everyone sees different things in different people in different ways.. |
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