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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do you find lack of communication a massive turn off?
I get some many of these 2 or five words messages.
Isn't good communication the key?
What do you think guys?
In my opinion I prefer longer messages then only two or three words... It show kindness and sensitivity and that the person cares a bit more than just quick selfish shagging around (I know some people don't mind but we do) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i always send a nice long mail explaining all about myself . I dont think it matters to be honest . The ladies have a very big choice ..
How many pages long is it??"
Secretly some ladies read a lot of sensual books  I am pressure that there is a connection there  |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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"i always send a nice long mail explaining all about myself . I dont think it matters to be honest . The ladies have a very big choice ..
How many pages long is it??
Secretly some ladies read a lot of sensual books I am pressure that there is a connection there "
My first message is 237 pages long. Mills and Boon tried to steal it but I have copyright  |
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I'm not really known for my short messages  as anyone who has ever entered a dialogue with me will attest, and much prefer when someone sends longer messages as it feels like they genuinely like talking with you. Consistently short messages, to me, feel like someone is just checking in, and doing the minimum to keep the lines of communication open 'just in case', and I'll usually get bored very very quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not really known for my short messages as anyone who has ever entered a dialogue with me will attest, and much prefer when someone sends longer messages as it feels like they genuinely like talking with you. Consistently short messages, to me, feel like someone is just checking in, and doing the minimum to keep the lines of communication open 'just in case', and I'll usually get bored very very quickly. "
Have to agree,nothing gives the impression more quickly that you are just another orifice  |
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"Got a wink yesterday and found treasure map at the end of it, I may have to go for a hunt.
Never underestimate small seeds, big things can grow out of it."
That's what I've been saying about my penis as well.  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"At lsast ye get words last week I got
"?"
How do u reply to that 
They were obviously just wondering how you're still alive at your age. "
Thats easy plenty of sex with strange women |
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"At lsast ye get words last week I got
"?"
How do u reply to that
They were obviously just wondering how you're still alive at your age.
Thats easy plenty of sex with strange women "
You just have said women since they're all strange!  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"At lsast ye get words last week I got
"?"
How do u reply to that
They were obviously just wondering how you're still alive at your age.
Thats easy plenty of sex with strange women
You just have said women since they're all strange! "
U noticed that aswell we cant all be wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got a wink yesterday and found treasure map at the end of it, I may have to go for a hunt.
Never underestimate small seeds, big things can grow out of it."
I like this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got a wink yesterday and found treasure map at the end of it, I may have to go for a hunt.
Never underestimate small seeds, big things can grow out of it."
Just give it a frequent watering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most women and couples will say they want longer messages but I find out that they don't often reciprocate.
The replies I get are usually very short and usually just ask for more pics.
The challenge is that when you put a lot of time in a message I find that the possibility of a reply is only marginally better which has made me default to 3-6 sentences.
Everyone likes to see that others treat them with respect and genuinely but the fact that most people just never reply even with a polite decline incentivises others to make their messages shorter and shorter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you find lack of communication a massive turn off?
I get some many of these 2 or five words messages.
Isn't good communication the key?
What do you think guys?
In my opinion I prefer longer messages then only two or three words... It show kindness and sensitivity and that the person cares a bit more than just quick selfish shagging around (I know some people don't mind but we do)"
Personally, I prefer longer messages.
One word or "nice tits" does very little for me.
But I'm also not a fan of copy&paste messages..we are all different. Putting a little effort into it makes it more fun
Imo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most women and couples will say they want longer messages but I find out that they don't often reciprocate.
The replies I get are usually very short and usually just ask for more pics.
The challenge is that when you put a lot of time in a message I find that the possibility of a reply is only marginally better which has made me default to 3-6 sentences.
Everyone likes to see that others treat them with respect and genuinely but the fact that most people just never reply even with a polite decline incentivises others to make their messages shorter and shorter."
I know, better high probability then little to non. If short messages the chances are even lower and it shows that one gives no fck about the other person, other then all the person wants is a quick bang bang boom... Also you can know someone's character on the message depending on your judgmental skills... |
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"Why do you find lack of communication a massive turn off?
I get some many of these 2 or five words messages.
Isn't good communication the key?
What do you think guys?
In my opinion I prefer longer messages then only two or three words... It show kindness and sensitivity and that the person cares a bit more than just quick selfish shagging around (I know some people don't mind but we do)"
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Screw kindness and sensitivity
Short messages here usually show that the person is...
a. either not interested 
b. has nothing to say for themselves or
c. has 200 other messages and you're not
very high on their priority list 
...either way you should cut your losses
and spend time with sexy Fabbers who are
willing to converse properly with you 
Best shout "NEXT!" and move on!
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