I believe I my kinky side has come out since I've come on fab,and met up with fantastic swingers.
I am not satisfied with vanilla sex anymore,I need those kinky slaps,that chocking,maybe more slaps,pour some candle on me even ....  |
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I love when people think they know what they're on about but use it as a cover for abuse because they're sad and angry individuals.
I think there's very few people who understand what it truly means to practice S&M |
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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I love when people think they know what they're on about but use it as a cover for abuse because they're sad and angry individuals.
I think there's very few people who understand what it truly means to practice S&M "
Massive amount of kinky things to do outside of s&m |
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I love kink, I like to think of myself as a switch with probably a more natural dominant nature. I do switch sometimes not alot but it all depends on the scenarios. I only started exploring kink more and more when I join fab, i do love it with the right person/persons. |
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"I love when people think they know what they're on about but use it as a cover for abuse because they're sad and angry individuals.
I think there's very few people who understand what it truly means to practice S&M
Massive amount of kinky things to do outside of s&m"
I prefer m&m's reds a kinky fucker |
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Yeah, I would say that I am kinky. Straight as a regular guy and bi as a CD.
- Dom as a regular guy with a woman
- Sub with a woman + chastity cage
- Sissy clean up bitch with a couple + chastity cage
I am very versatile and can play whatever role is asked of me
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"I love when people think they know what they're on about but use it as a cover for abuse because they're sad and angry individuals.
I think there's very few people who understand what it truly means to practice S&M
Massive amount of kinky things to do outside of s&m
I prefer m&m's reds a kinky fucker"
S&M with M&Ms now that's kinky |
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over a year ago
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I adapt to whatever the situation demands..and after many years that can take on many forms with whatever gender..kink is in the eye of the beholder.. vanilla to some insane and extreme to others.. |
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I've tried a lot of stuff over the years.
Pain, bondage, dressing in fetish gear, at this stage I've honed in on what I like.
Using props like oil or blindfolds, orgasm teasing or denial, subtle escalating pain.
Watersports I adore.
I'd love to be surprised by something new I hadn't thought of though. |
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We wonder is there a subtle difference between kinky swingers who are a bit swinky and the fetish crowd who seem to be mad into jargon and spend a fortune on gear and outfits. We can be fairly kinky but see no need for leather, latex, toxic pvc, etc, and you can do loads with a bit of old bailer twine! |
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There’s a fair few who think they are kinky or into some streams of BDSM, however I’ve found they only talk the talk and unfortunately don’t walk the walk. Suppose they think it looks good written on a profile or a picture in a pair of handcuffs. A lot of people saw Fifty Shades and thought yeah I’d like a bit of that.  |
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I don't consider myself kinky at all.
But yet I have vanilla girlfriends who look into my toy chest with an expression of horrified fascination, or get 'ooo kinky bitch' nudges and winks if someone notices I'm wearing stockings and suspenders under a dress, or a nice basque/corset under a shirt on a night out (no point having it sit in a drawer or just to be worn for photos!), or on here will get messages from random strangers telling me I look or sound very kinky based presumably on wearing cuffs in one or two photos and having my fwb tied up in some others... It's all a matter of perspective I guess.
As for my affinity traits... I'm a Switch and am perfectly comfortable either taking the lead or having someone else do so, just depends on my mood |
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"There’s a fair few who think they are kinky or into some streams of BDSM, however I’ve found they only talk the talk and unfortunately don’t walk the walk. Suppose they think it looks good written on a profile or a picture in a pair of handcuffs. A lot of people saw Fifty Shades and thought yeah I’d like a bit of that. "
i would agree. a lot of posers jumped onto the BDSM bandwagon when those books came out and became big. |
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The diversity of views is interesting. Kink is much more than just SM, bondage etc, all of which and the degree are equally valid. It's interesting to watch since 50 shades that a lot of people are using kink on other dating sites. I do think there are a lot of people who talk the talk and don't have any real understanding. As a domme I think the one thing that really turns me off is those who say they are sub and into body worship!
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Kinky is subjective and what is one persons kink is anothers vanilla. Am I kinky compared to my nonfab friends? More than likely. Am I kinkier than others on here? Possibly not. But why label it. Just be your own kinky self and enjoy. Lilred
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"Kinky is subjective and what is one persons kink is anothers vanilla. Am I kinky compared to my nonfab friends? More than likely. Am I kinkier than others on here? Possibly not. But why label it. Just be your own kinky self and enjoy. Lilred
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Top that
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I had thought I was kinky.
Since joining Fab,I feel just normal.
Anal/spanking/bondage all seem like part of normal sex to many here.
So now I think kinky is people into scat/watersports/sounding/candles/rope play/etc that are beyond my boundaries.
Oh how Fab changes you.
A Grafenburg wheel is cheaper if you buy it in a pastry shop, rather than a sex shop  |
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Kinky, but oddly evolving toward vanilla, which is bass ackwards but the 50 shades of ick crowd has ruined it for me. Read The Story of O or The Beauty Series or at least see 9 1/2 Weeks. Much to the surprise of many, I am a sub - with the caveat that being I'm old - submission in my day didn't automatically mean degradation (that's a different fetish) and porn has made most doms think that's what submission is. It was easier when I was 20. |
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I guess that most people who have partners have some degree of kinkiness that we are not aware of, but they don't share anywhere this information with others, since it is pointless to share it and private(pure common sense), because it is a primitive and super normal... |
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"Kinky, but oddly evolving toward vanilla, which is bass ackwards but the 50 shades of ick crowd has ruined it for me. Read The Story of O or The Beauty Series or at least see 9 1/2 Weeks. Much to the surprise of many, I am a sub - with the caveat that being I'm old - submission in my day didn't automatically mean degradation (that's a different fetish) and porn has made most doms think that's what submission is. It was easier when I was 20. "
Bass Ackwards
Love that
My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday is another good read, along with Xaviera Hollanders books.
Yes, 9 1/2 weeks and Wild Orchid haven't really been topped due to comic book movies 
Xconfessions looks interesting though |
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Bass Ackwards
Love that
My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday is another good read, along with Xaviera Hollanders books.
Yes, 9 1/2 weeks and Wild Orchid haven't really been topped due to comic book movies
Xconfessions looks interesting though"
Thanks for the book recommendations. I've heard of Secret Garden, but not the others.
Have to say I thought Wild Orchid was a pretty ridiculous movie until Showgirls. |
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"We wonder is there a subtle difference between kinky swingers who are a bit swinky and the fetish crowd who seem to be mad into jargon and spend a fortune on gear and outfits. We can be fairly kinky but see no need for leather, latex, toxic pvc, etc, and you can do loads with a bit of old bailer twine!"
Can't bate the aul baling twine!! |
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exible is a good description. 