Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!! |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!"
In my experience the main cut off point is 50 |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!"
I wonder how many of us in our forties will still be in the lifestyle in 15-20 years time and how limited our compatible meets will be!! |
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Been in ‘the scene’ for 20 years now and find that the older you get the more difficult it is to get meets. Of course all The fakes and messers don’t help the genuine guys.  |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!"
I've been on the scene, on and off since 2002,and have realistic expectations of meeting women. Fab is one way, and personally, I meet just enough through this site even though I'm outside most women's age filters, but I also meet socially with lots of women, and whole I don't want to have sex with them all, a small few grab my attention. I have found a great way to meet beautiful, lively women is through Meetup groups,.. They're all over the country. Find them online. |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!
I wonder how many of us in our forties will still be in the lifestyle in 15-20 years time and how limited our compatible meets will be!! "
I've rarely met any new playmates in the past few years, because I've already got some truly amazing ones whom I adore, and as long as we're all still happy, I'll keep playing with them and enjoying their friendship as long as I can If the time comes that even those who know me a long time and have enjoyed my company in the past don't want to play anymore, or I start to feel I have to lie about my age or recycle old pics to get new meets, I'll know it's time to hang up the handcuffs  |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!"
And you think you're old lol. Over 70 here and still in working condition
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We've been on the scene for about 15 years and are now 50 & 51. We've never been ones for gathering notches on the bedpost and I don't think it's got any harder to find people because of age, the scene has changed and technology has destroyed many people's ability to communicate, that's more of an issue. If you're over 50 and want to get lots of one off meets and get invited to KK parties (well, silver kittens really) it might be a different story. |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!And you think you're old lol. Over 70 here and still in working condition"
Good man, long may you last and be active |
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There is a site called senior swingers but it's rubbish (don't block me admin I'm not promoting it!) , Just a front for a larger operation and nobody much on it from Ireland, stick with Fab! |
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"I’m still looking for a gummy gobble or even someone to spoil me with their pension 
Have zimmerframe, will travel  "
Still have my own teeth, can you overlook it? |
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"I’m still looking for a gummy gobble or even someone to spoil me with their pension
Have zimmerframe, will travel
Still have my own teeth, can you overlook it?"
Can you still sluuuuurp?  |
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"I’m still looking for a gummy gobble or even someone to spoil me with their pension
Have zimmerframe, will travel
Still have my own teeth, can you overlook it?
Can you still sluuuuurp? "
Oh definitely |
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"I’m still looking for a gummy gobble or even someone to spoil me with their pension
Have zimmerframe, will travel
Still have my own teeth, can you overlook it?
Can you still sluuuuurp?
Oh definitely"
Grab your zimmerframe, you’ve pulled!
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"I’m still looking for a gummy gobble or even someone to spoil me with their pension
Have zimmerframe, will travel
Still have my own teeth, can you overlook it?
Can you still sluuuuurp?
Oh definitely
Grab your zimmerframe, you’ve pulled!
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Ankles and wrists lashed to the zimmerframe, kinky or what?! |
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"I’m still looking for a gummy gobble or even someone to spoil me with their pension
Have zimmerframe, will travel
Still have my own teeth, can you overlook it?
Can you still sluuuuurp?
Oh definitely
Grab your zimmerframe, you’ve pulled!
Ankles and wrists lashed to the zimmerframe, kinky or what?!"
Now you're talking!! |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!"
Lots of ladies here are interested in charming, experienced, well read/travelled over 50s. |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!
Lots of ladies here are interested in charming, experienced, well read/travelled over 50s. "
Send some this so lol |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!
Lots of ladies here are interested in charming, experienced, well read/travelled over 50s.
Send some this so lol"
Your charm, wit and patience will pay dividends given time |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!
Lots of ladies here are interested in charming, experienced, well read/travelled over 50s.
Send some this so lol
Your charm, wit and patience will pay dividends given time "
How can it? Age restrictions prevent winking and messaging |
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"Can it be coincidence that a load of "49 year olds" have looked at this profile in the last 10 minutes? 
But do any of them still have a pulse!? 
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Yeah they're looking at us too. If someone obviously older stopped counting at 49 it must be a sign of not having a pulse that's getting blood to all parts! |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!"
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I have often wondered about this
On the UK site there are Couples. Females and Males who are very active well into their 60,s. Even 70,s.
I know there’s a vast difference in population size but that doesn’t really explain it.
Do us Irish stop having fun when we reach a certain age.
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I'm 60 next week...& yes after 50 harder to get meets...am on & off the scene since 2002 ... I find people in the UK more welcoming & less agist so I attend parties & clubs there...
Ireland is no country for her y older men |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!
Lots of ladies here are interested in charming, experienced, well read/travelled over 50s.
Send some this so lol
Your charm, wit and patience will pay dividends given time
How can it? Age restrictions prevent winking and messaging"
Don't waste your time winking and go easy on the messaging too. Be active on the forum and let people see your wit and charm |
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So because someone has an upper and lower age limit,they are discriminating?
Wise up.
Fab isn't all about you.
Concentrate on those that are seeking your age instead of criticising those that aren't.
There's someone on fab for everyone,not everyone for someone. |
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"So because someone has an upper and lower age limit,they are discriminating?
Wise up.
Fab isn't all about you.
Concentrate on those that are seeking your age instead of criticising those that aren't.
There's someone on fab for everyone,not everyone for someone."
You clearly dont understand the thoughts and meaning behind this forum. No one is saying "its about me" and there is no critism of anyone. I started this discussion to highlight the apperant thinking that over 50s stop having or lose interest in sex. Yes, hopefully, there is someone for everyone on here. Happy fabing. |
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"So because someone has an upper and lower age limit,they are discriminating?
Wise up.
Fab isn't all about you.
Concentrate on those that are seeking your age instead of criticising those that aren't.
There's someone on fab for everyone,not everyone for someone.
You clearly dont understand the thoughts and meaning behind this forum. No one is saying "its about me" and there is no critism of anyone. I started this discussion to highlight the apperant thinking that over 50s stop having or lose interest in sex. Yes, hopefully, there is someone for everyone on here. Happy fabing."
Because someone has an upper age limit,it doesn't mean they don't believe people above that age aren't interested in sex,it simply means they aren't interested in sex with someone beyond that age.There is a difference.
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So much ageist nonsense on here. Maybe it's a heterosexual thing? I am inundated with offers from guys in their 20s up. I had fun with a beautiful lad in his 30s yesterday evening. I think maybe between men there is less bigotry of the kind found in some of the resonses here. |
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You're very touchy. Some of the comments are bigoted; if you can't see that, you need to go on a course. More than one, actually. There's a basic level one on being civil. |
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I know people who lie blatantly about their age. I’m no liar but a good shag. Can be difficult to start a conversation due to age restrictions but once I do, (no small ask!) I don’t have that many issues. I’m happy enough with all my bits and appearance to attract others. |
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"Gotta love karma, anyone (younger) being ageist on here about over-fifties has got a shock coming their way down the line."
What goes around.....
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"You're very touchy. Some of the comments are bigoted; if you can't see that, you need to go on a course. More than one, actually. There's a basic level one on being civil."
Not a bit touchy. You dont understand my thoughts bebind this, we are coming from different angles |
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"Hello fabbers. I am over 60 but well able to perform and give pleasure. The majority of profiles here say they are not looking for anyone over 55. Many have a cut off of 40. Am I on the wrong site? Is there a fabswinger for over 55s? Or maybe the majority on here are just discriminating. Older can be bolder !!!!!!!!!!"
Don’t let it worry you - there’s more to life than a swinging site. Maybe try one of the other sites such as the one involving piscatorial activities lol.
We all have preferences- so it would be silly to criticise others having the same. Besides we’re having as much fun here in our fifties as we did in our forties- maybe more so in fact as we’re more savvy with rooting out the fantasists and swingers wedged up their own arses. |
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I am well over 50 and have had great meets, chat and craic here. Quiet at the moment but that is purely my choice. The fun you get out of Fab normally reflects effort, wit, patience and cop on. Guys with misconceived over expectations and impatience will crash and burn. |
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Under 50 for us pref mid 30s at the end of the day it’s fulfilling our fantasies and it doesn’t include older than us but horses for courses some pref older some younger |
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Ah but the younger guys , they are ......... younger 
Debs x