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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havent had bad sex in a good while...
For me it stopped when I started being a bit more selective with the people I sleep with..
I now make sure that I can have a laugh and a conversation with them and I have found that has worked so far.... maybe just dont ask them.
As for bad sex it was always when it was a d*unken pick up or when I was younger sleeping with someone I didnt really fancy just to get my rocks off
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Bad sex to me is when it seems doesn't matter what you do or how much effort you put, the other one seems not enjoying it at all...
I remeber being with a partner in bed, being very excited, trying to "show it to her", and being told : "do what you want to do"... My answer was "i want to make you cum"... Her reply was "you cannot tonight"... So here it is "what bad sex is"... Someone just letting you do what you want...
Worst sex ever... Faking to cum (yes.. A man faking) to stop it... |
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"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it.. "
That,bad kisser and it's over in 5min ...
No teasing...no foreplay... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it.. "
Sounds like my ex husband |
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By *rezMan
over a year ago
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Since ive commented...
To me bad sex is when there is no passion, no kissing , eye contact, no lauch... I do ike to enjoy sex not to take it seriously as a Olymlics. Bad sex is when the hygiene is poor. Bad sex is where there is no devotion. Both parties should be involed equally in sex...where i want to dine in not just go to drive through...   |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it..
At least that's over in 3 minutes.  "
Sounds like the 15yrs I was married  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it seems to have been defined by marriage 
 that's one reason I never got married .  "
I don't blame the institution for our fundamental incompatibility |
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I think I have said this before, I cant remember having bad sex where I havnt been pleased and really enjoyed myself. I suppose a girl whose very shy, awkwardly shy can make things a bit difficult. |
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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it..
At least that's over in 3 minutes.
Sounds like the 15yrs I was married "
If you were married 15 years and you had sex once a week @ 3minutes a go, that sums up to 39 hours of bad sex. |
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For me, bad sex is when the person you're with seems to be following a playlist in their head rather than actually living in the moment and going with the flow... There's a distinct feeling of 'x, y, and z loved this move, so I'm going to try it on this one now', regardless of how you or your body is responding. The sexual version of painting by numbers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, bad sex is when the person you're with seems to be following a playlist in their head rather than actually living in the moment and going with the flow... There's a distinct feeling of 'x, y, and z loved this move, so I'm going to try it on this one now', regardless of how you or your body is responding. The sexual version of painting by numbers. "
Inexperience or ignorance right there! 
If it’s bad, when do people just draw the line and say enough is enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, bad sex is when the person you're with seems to be following a playlist in their head rather than actually living in the moment and going with the flow... There's a distinct feeling of 'x, y, and z loved this move, so I'm going to try it on this one now', regardless of how you or your body is responding. The sexual version of painting by numbers. "
Totally agree, am always skeptical of people claiming to be unequivocally "great in bed", everyone is different in their tastes and even their mood at the time,hence why connection and the ability to read another's reactions and respond is so crucial. |
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"A lack of imagination and sticking to one way"
Bad sex is when you dont fancy them,
There is no intimate connection,
She doesn't turn me on,
I can tell she's only going through the motions.
Not worth it... Ever.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, bad sex is when she just lies there and does nothing to contribute . No movement, no words, nothing, just dead fish eyes . Happened to me once on here and the obvious happened. I didnt even feel embarrassed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure most of us have experienced bad sex at some stage in their lifes. What defines bad sex for you an"
The very definition for me is: "when my partner is not satisfied". Which rarely happens, given my superior oral skills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it..
I’m always careful to give plenty of good heed to my chosen partner  "
Agree- I always heed what they tell me |
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Only kidding ,we all have our off moments I suppose but for me it would be no satisfaction ,like when they fall asleep and you reach for the toys in the top drawer ! 