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"Guys just wondering considering we outnumber the ladies how low do we drop out standards to get a shag"
Personally I'm quality over quantity mate doesn't matter how many there are plus I'm here to make friends too not just a shag |
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I did it once about 10yrs ago. It was a big mistake.
I wasn't desperate. I was curious for a particular activity.
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Don't do it. You'll only feel bad about yourself.
Just have a wank and move on.
Keep your dignity. Your worth it. |
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"I did it once about 10yrs ago. It was a big mistake.
I wasn't desperate. I was curious for a particular activity.
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Don't do it. You'll only feel bad about yourself.
Just have a wank and move on.
Keep your dignity. Your worth it."
Exactly that plus the fact if your not into her she won't get the benefits of a guy who is crazy for her,and both of you deserve that...  |
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I don't think the men on here drop their standards... I think they have none to begin with.
But lets be honest, the women on here are of higher quality than the men. Whatever standard youre talking about the women on here meet it. The only reason for not meeting is if you just dont get along really. |
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over a year ago
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"If you're a 7 in looks, your pool of women is 5-9. So to drop your standards you have to go at least 3 points below."
At least that's what Barney Stinson taught me
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun |
"Guys just wondering considering we outnumber the ladies how low do we drop out standards to get a shag
Personally I'm quality over quantity mate doesn't matter how many there are plus I'm here to make friends too not just a shag"
Definitely. Don't drop my standards at all, and I meet who I'm attracted to, and have a good connection with. Fab is far better when you're looking for friends (and fwbs) than random one night stands. One night stands just were never for me. |
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I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off? |
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"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?"
Someone who drinks instant coffee, liverpool supporters, people who look at me strangly if I call them mugles, someone who doesnt know why the number 42 is so important....
All standards I might drop for the right person |
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"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?"
That's a good question. I speak for myself, and prefer to meet people I get on with, or fancy. What defines that? Well, looks will attract me(my idea of attractive may not be everybodie's) lively, intelligent, good conversation, will hold me. So, if those qualities are missing, then I'd be bored. And what's the point of having sex with someone boring. |
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"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?
Someone who drinks instant coffee, liverpool supporters, people who look at me strangly if I call them mugles, someone who doesnt know why the number 42 is so important....
All standards I might drop for the right person"
I'll admit to drinking the occasional Gold Blend  But I won't compromise on tea! |
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"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?
Someone who drinks instant coffee, liverpool supporters, people who look at me strangly if I call them mugles, someone who doesnt know why the number 42 is so important....
All standards I might drop for the right person
I'll admit to drinking the occasional Gold Blend But I won't compromise on tea! "
Yep, my standards are much lower on here but won’t accept anything other than Yorkshire Tea |
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"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?
That's a good question. I speak for myself, and prefer to meet people I get on with, or fancy. What defines that? Well, looks will attract me(my idea of attractive may not be everybodie's) lively, intelligent, good conversation, will hold me. So, if those qualities are missing, then I'd be bored. And what's the point of having sex with someone boring. "
I completely agree, and you bring up an interesting point there. There is no 'standard' for physical attraction. We all have various traits we may lean towards when choosing a sexual or romantic partner, which others may not even consider... whether that's boob size, eye/hair colour, beards, build, height, ink, etc.. And what one person may find wildly attractive, another might feel just the opposite about. You can't judge someone's choices based on your own standards of physical attraction and say they have dropped theirs... The people they have met may be their idea of perfection... Just not yours!  |
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"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?
Someone who drinks instant coffee, liverpool supporters, people who look at me strangly if I call them mugles, someone who doesnt know why the number 42 is so important....
All standards I might drop for the right person"
I know the answer to the meaning of life.
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On any site where the main basis is sex, you should just approach who you fancy, pretty similar to real life. If I'm out will I approach a woman who I dont fancy? Of course not but thats just me. There is men, no doubt who would hop up on a cracked plate |
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"why would anyone drop their standards and if you do drop them for the ride you need to look at yourself and think "
the power of horniness overcomes them and the lack of sex messes with their brain
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I don’t have standards, insofar as beauty or attractiveness is not a standard that can be measured and have a numerical value assigned to it. It’s not a livestock mart guys we aren’t grading Cattle!!!
What attracts me to someone could be completely different than what attracts another guy to the same lady. You generally get a good feel from messaging someone if there is a connection and they are either for you or not. Then there is the all important chemistry when you do actually meet, the first kiss is very telling. |
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"why would anyone drop their standards and if you do drop them for the ride you need to look at yourself and think "
Why?. The horn . Alcohol. Opportunity. Did I say The Horn? |
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