Have had messages over the years from people worried about getting caught using their reason as being their occupation surely it does not matter wheathef you are a nurse Garda unemployed or a doctor one couple were so obsessed because she was a teacher as if it would be ok if she did anything else can’t get my head around it  |
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By *c90Man
over a year ago
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I can understand it tbh. Teachers jobs are reliant on having the respect and trust of their students - if you found out your geography teacher liked to be tied up and suck as many cocks as possible it might lead a student to make a move/ share pics/ etc.
Whether you agree or not their is an expectation in certain jobs that you have to be squeeky clean. |
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By *c90Man
over a year ago
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"Just caus you pick a profession is hardly going to change what you like to do in or out of bed ! "
Definitely not,but it does effect the level of discretion required,as well as the chances of getting reputational damage from your activities |
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over a year ago
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"Just caus you pick a profession is hardly going to change what you like to do in or out of bed !
Definitely not,but it does effect the level of discretion required,as well as the chances of getting reputational damage from your activities"
Yes totally agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its up to the person alone how discreet or otherwise they are on here. What ever their reasons but yes people that work in enviorments with children or public service probably do need to be a little more careful so I can understand it.
If you dont like their approch or their reasoning just move onto someone else |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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I can totally see their point on this. Absolutely there are some professions where people would need to be more careful. You don't have to agree with it but you do have to respect each persons level of privacy. |
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"I can totally see their point on this. Absolutely there are some professions where people would need to be more careful. You don't have to agree with it but you do have to respect each persons level of privacy. "
Absolutely.
Respecting boundaries is lacking with alot of people. |
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"I can totally see their point on this. Absolutely there are some professions where people would need to be more careful. You don't have to agree with it but you do have to respect each persons level of privacy. "
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By *c90Man
over a year ago
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"Us gardeners need to be extra discreet as if word got out that we shag our customers we could be overwhelmed with calls from frisky bored housewives  "
Thought they would be delighted to know you had been watering bushes? |
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over a year ago
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"Us gardeners need to be extra discreet as if word got out that we shag our customers we could be overwhelmed with calls from frisky bored housewives "
Been overdoing the porn again??  |
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By *c90Man
over a year ago
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"Us gardeners need to be extra discreet as if word got out that we shag our customers we could be overwhelmed with calls from frisky bored housewives
Been overdoing the porn again?? "
Is that possible! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can someone give us the list of what jobs/professions are suitable to reveal on a swingers site and what jobs are unsuitable???
In the vast majority of occasions I see this status “can’t show my face because of my job” the same moron has the cheek to come off with “no face pic.... instant delete!”..... it’s pure and utter bullshit from creeps who are either fake or are looking to see if they know anyone on the site don’t try can talk about them. They’re cunts |
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"Us gardeners need to be extra discreet as if word got out that we shag our customers we could be overwhelmed with calls from frisky bored housewives
Thought they would be delighted to know you had been watering bushes? "
#chemicalfreetoilets |
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"Us gardeners need to be extra discreet as if word got out that we shag our customers we could be overwhelmed with calls from frisky bored housewives
Been overdoing the porn again?? "
I can dream with the best of them!
#justbecauseitneverhappeneddoesntmeaniycouldnthappeninthefuture |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Us gardeners need to be extra discreet as if word got out that we shag our customers we could be overwhelmed with calls from frisky bored housewives
Been overdoing the porn again??
I can dream with the best of them!
#justbecauseitneverhappeneddoesntmeaniycouldnthappeninthefuture "
Do you have a digger? I could do with some landscaping.  |
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"Us gardeners need to be extra discreet as if word got out that we shag our customers we could be overwhelmed with calls from frisky bored housewives
Been overdoing the porn again??
I can dream with the best of them!
#justbecauseitneverhappeneddoesntmeaniycouldnthappeninthefuture
Do you have a digger? I could do with some landscaping. "
I've 3 diggers if there any good to you lol I can start tracking now  |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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The example given in an earlier post regarding teachers is spot on.
Not that it's right, but when I was back in school if a video or a pic of a teacher made its way to us we would have destroyed him or her.
Again, not saying it's right, but I know well it would have happened. |
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"Us gardeners need to be extra discreet as if word got out that we shag our customers we could be overwhelmed with calls from frisky bored housewives
Been overdoing the porn again??
I can dream with the best of them!
#justbecauseitneverhappeneddoesntmeaniycouldnthappeninthefuture
Do you have a digger? I could do with some landscaping. "
I can get one! |
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"The example given in an earlier post regarding teachers is spot on.
Not that it's right, but when I was back in school if a video or a pic of a teacher made its way to us we would have destroyed him or her.
Again, not saying it's right, but I know well it would have happened."
John McGahern got fired from his teaching job partly for writing a book that his bosses didn't like and partly for getting married in a registry office. Mind you, that was back in '65. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The example given in an earlier post regarding teachers is spot on.
Not that it's right, but when I was back in school if a video or a pic of a teacher made its way to us we would have destroyed him or her.
Again, not saying it's right, but I know well it would have happened."
As a parent,I can assure you that it would still happen |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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"The example given in an earlier post regarding teachers is spot on.
Not that it's right, but when I was back in school if a video or a pic of a teacher made its way to us we would have destroyed him or her.
Again, not saying it's right, but I know well it would have happened.
As a parent,I can assure you that it would still happen"
I'm sure it would be worse now.
We didn't have the option of spreading it around social media back then.
At least back in my school time, it would have only been passed around.
A teacher's life could soon be made a misery if something like that ever got out. |
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Totally respect people’s privacty and have no issues with that but still think everyone occupation is important not just teachers no offense to teachers to us no more important than company directors office workers factory employees etc just our opinion |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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"Totally respect people’s privacty and have no issues with that but still think everyone occupation is important not just teachers no offense to teachers to us no more important than company directors office workers factory employees etc just our opinion"
Yes of course,
I was using teachers as an example.
It's up to everyone how discreet they want to be and regardless of occupation. And depending on the people you work with, things could get nasty for anyone who has had pics or vids leaked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have had messages over the years from people worried about getting caught using their reason as being their occupation surely it does not matter wheathef you are a nurse Garda unemployed or a doctor one couple were so obsessed because she was a teacher as if it would be ok if she did anything else can’t get my head around it "
honestly i never understood what people do for a living has to do with people they meet for sex. plenty of people have messaged us saying their this that and the other and so it demands discretion..... cool we're here to have sex with other people not bloody marry them  |
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"Have had messages over the years from people worried about getting caught using their reason as being their occupation surely it does not matter wheathef you are a nurse Garda unemployed or a doctor one couple were so obsessed because she was a teacher as if it would be ok if she did anything else can’t get my head around it
honestly i never understood what people do for a living has to do with people they meet for sex. plenty of people have messaged us saying their this that and the other and so it demands discretion..... cool we're here to have sex with other people not bloody marry them "
id agree we are here to have some hot kinky good sex what we all do for a living shouldn’t matter once your sexual attracted profession doesn’t come into it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Us gardeners need to be extra discreet as if word got out that we shag our customers we could be overwhelmed with calls from frisky bored housewives
Been overdoing the porn again??
I can dream with the best of them!
#justbecauseitneverhappeneddoesntmeaniycouldnthappeninthefuture
Do you have a digger? I could do with some landscaping. "
DH landscaping, is that the new name for re locating the local ATM machine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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discretion is a must as the "lifestyle" is viewed by Irish society ( fam8k, friends etc ) as a kink, a flawed personality, a perversion... hence the reason for user names, non face profile pics, the lack of contact information.
if it were possible to be open about it the general secrecy would not exist.
so regardless of the profession, occupation, imagined position in society, none of us want our little secret to be general knowledge.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbh anyone is at risk of abuse whatever their job, it can be used to get people to do things they don’t want(the word I want to use is not allowed) people not everyone understands the lifestyle and Male assumptions about everything being seedy and sordid and none of us have morals etc I don’t have any pics and always meet blind, if you don’t like it do one |
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All occuptins are equally valued and valuable, however in the real world or parochial, narrow minded Ireland (North and South) its a little silly to say that each needs the same level of discretion, I don't think anyone is going to give much of a toss if a plasterer is on a swingers site, but if that same person was in a profession dealing with the public or in a position of trust like a teacher, law enforcement, doctor, nurse, politician.. This is going to receive much more attention and will most likely have a very negative impact on that person's career and indeed life. Its each person's division on how much they value their privacy, and NO ONE has the right to question or judge that |
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"All occuptins are equally valued and valuable, however in the real world or parochial, narrow minded Ireland (North and South) its a little silly to say that each needs the same level of discretion, I don't think anyone is going to give much of a toss if a plasterer is on a swingers site, but if that same person was in a profession dealing with the public or in a position of trust like a teacher, law enforcement, doctor, nurse, politician.. This is going to receive much more attention and will most likely have a very negative impact on that person's career and indeed life. Its each person's division on how much they value their privacy, and NO ONE has the right to question or judge that"
Hit the nail on the head |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think that's up to the person to decide for themselves... Doesn't matter what you work at, it's what your comfortable with... But it's unfair to hold yourself to one standard and expect another... a lack of face pic is more limiting for guys, we've a limited repertoire... |
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"All occuptins are equally valued and valuable, however in the real world or parochial, narrow minded Ireland (North and South) its a little silly to say that each needs the same level of discretion, I don't think anyone is going to give much of a toss if a plasterer is on a swingers site, but if that same person was in a profession dealing with the public or in a position of trust like a teacher, law enforcement, doctor, nurse, politician.. This is going to receive much more attention and will most likely have a very negative impact on that person's career and indeed life. Its each person's division on how much they value their privacy, and NO ONE has the right to question or judge that"
True, you rarely see news articles about local plumber (no disrespect to plumbers) caught in the act. Then there's that video that went around recently with the doctor and nurse... |
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