They should just take it on the chin, some girls into them, some not. They will hit an age when they are older and most peoples pages will filther them out by default, so they should count themselves lucky. |
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Don’t think it’s fair tarring them all with the one brush. There’s a few gems out there that know how to have a conversation, are thoughtful, know how to please and can keep their mouth shut when meeting others. Find they are more honest about why they are here. |
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"Little to no conversation skills, love showing off their erections, usually have a mate who wants an older woman too  "
But sure why would you want them talking. When you can't talk back because your mouth is full of there erection. |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
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Think too many guys join, thinking it's going to be hookup central here.
They don't bother trying to have proper chats or banter with people, and instead think that all the ladies just want random sex requests without any chemistry or getting to know them first.
I know there's people who like that, but call me old fashioned if you will, I do enjoy kinky passionate sex and foreplay with people I genuinely like as a person far more than random hookups. |
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"Cos they're crap in bed "
brainy go easy there we are not all crap in bed but there is young inexperienced ppl who don’t know how to please a woman and are just about them selfs that goes for both male and female  |
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"Why is the perception of young single males so negative...."
Try not to take it personally. You're trying to break a stereotype. Many young males sign up here and act like they've just discovered Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory. They get over-excited and lose the art of conversation.. They forget they're talking to real women and not a porn character or sex-line worker.. But most of all they forget that it's about mutual pleasure, and just throw random dick pics and filth at people who have either not asked for it, or have expressly stated that they don't want it, in order to satisfy their own urges. It's that kind of aggression and lack of consideration for the other person that puts folk off. Why would anyone put themself in a vulnerable position with someone who has demonstrated that they have impulse/urge control issues?
So again... you are battling a stereotype. But patience and respect does pay off. Use your words and use them wisely   |
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"Why is the perception of young single males so negative....
Try not to take it personally. You're trying to break a stereotype. Many young males sign up here and act like they've just discovered Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory. They get over-excited and lose the art of conversation.. They forget they're talking to real women and not a porn character or sex-line worker.. But most of all they forget that it's about mutual pleasure, and just throw random dick pics and filth at people who have either not asked for it, or have expressly stated that they don't want it, in order to satisfy their own urges. It's that kind of aggression and lack of consideration for the other person that puts folk off. Why would anyone put themself in a vulnerable position with someone who has demonstrated that they have impulse/urge control issues?
So again... you are battling a stereotype. But patience and respect does pay off. Use your words and use them wisely "
well said |
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"Don’t think it’s fair tarring them all with the one brush. There’s a few gems out there that know how to have a conversation, are thoughtful, know how to please and can keep their mouth shut when meeting others. Find they are more honest about why they are here. "
well said miss car what do we class as young |
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"Cos they're crap in bed brainy go easy there we are not all crap in bed but there is young inexperienced ppl who don’t know how to please a woman and are just about them selfs that goes for both male and female "
Tongue was in cheek Sir. |
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"Why is the perception of young single males so negative...."
i wouldn't say all people have a negative opinion of them but unfortunately the one's Dee has dealt with has soured our opinion of them. Selfish, immature and a bit obsessive has been the experience she has had in the past from one but then again this can be across the board for guys of all ages.
However we can't and won't tar all of them with the same brush as a couple of them are gentlemen. Many couples and women look for young single men so not everyone's opinion is a negative one towards them. |
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"Why is the perception of young single males so negative...."
Not from us, we love meeting with younger guys.
However...
HappyPanda has hit the nail on the head
"Think too many guys join, thinking it's going to be hookup central here.
They don't bother trying to have proper chats or banter with people, and instead think that all the ladies just want random sex requests without any chemistry or getting to know them first"
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"Think too many guys join, thinking it's going to be hookup central here.
They don't bother trying to have proper chats or banter with people, and instead think that all the ladies just want random sex requests without any chemistry or getting to know them first.
I know there's people who like that, but call me old fashioned if you will, I do enjoy kinky passionate sex and foreplay with people I genuinely like as a person far more than random hookups."
wise words from one so young lol |
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"Why is the perception of young single males so negative....
Try not to take it personally. You're trying to break a stereotype. Many young males sign up here and act like they've just discovered Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory. They get over-excited and lose the art of conversation.. They forget they're talking to real women and not a porn character or sex-line worker.. But most of all they forget that it's about mutual pleasure, and just throw random dick pics and filth at people who have either not asked for it, or have expressly stated that they don't want it, in order to satisfy their own urges. It's that kind of aggression and lack of consideration for the other person that puts folk off. Why would anyone put themself in a vulnerable position with someone who has demonstrated that they have impulse/urge control issues?
So again... you are battling a stereotype. But patience and respect does pay off. Use your words and use them wisely "
Well said...this is much better put than my own input to the thread |
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"Little to no conversation skills, love showing off their erections, usually have a mate who wants an older woman too But sure why would you want them talking. When you can't talk back because your mouth is full of there erection."
Unlikely  |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Think too many guys join, thinking it's going to be hookup central here.
They don't bother trying to have proper chats or banter with people, and instead think that all the ladies just want random sex requests without any chemistry or getting to know them first.
I know there's people who like that, but call me old fashioned if you will, I do enjoy kinky passionate sex and foreplay with people I genuinely like as a person far more than random hookups."
So true. We had our first mmf in about 8 months during the week. The amount of messages we have gotten since by single lads saying things like i will be quicker off the mark or i hope i am next in line for the next one.
A lot of guys here think its a free for all and the ladies will fuck anyone once you put in a request.
Also, plenty of young single lads are great in bed or at least i have seen them in action so thats a myth |
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"Think too many guys join, thinking it's going to be hookup central here.
They don't bother trying to have proper chats or banter with people, and instead think that all the ladies just want random sex requests without any chemistry or getting to know them first.
I know there's people who like that, but call me old fashioned if you will, I do enjoy kinky passionate sex and foreplay with people I genuinely like as a person far more than random hookups.So true. We had our first mmf in about 8 months during the week. The amount of messages we have gotten since by single lads saying things like i will be quicker off the mark or i hope i am next in line for the next one.
A lot of guys here think its a free for all and the ladies will fuck anyone once you put in a request.
Also, plenty of young single lads are great in bed or at least i have seen them in action so thats a myth "
what about the aul silver fox's |
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"Why is the perception of young single males so negative....
Try not to take it personally. You're trying to break a stereotype. Many young males sign up here and act like they've just discovered Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory. They get over-excited and lose the art of conversation.. They forget they're talking to real women and not a porn character or sex-line worker.. But most of all they forget that it's about mutual pleasure, and just throw random dick pics and filth at people who have either not asked for it, or have expressly stated that they don't want it, in order to satisfy their own urges. It's that kind of aggression and lack of consideration for the other person that puts folk off. Why would anyone put themself in a vulnerable position with someone who has demonstrated that they have impulse/urge control issues?
So again... you are battling a stereotype. But patience and respect does pay off. Use your words and use them wisely "
This,plus it's pretty difficult to feel sexually attracted to someone who is behaving like your bratty teenager  |
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"Why is the perception of young single males so negative....
Try not to take it personally. You're trying to break a stereotype. Many young males sign up here and act like they've just discovered Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory. They get over-excited and lose the art of conversation.. They forget they're talking to real women and not a porn character or sex-line worker.. But most of all they forget that it's about mutual pleasure, and just throw random dick pics and filth at people who have either not asked for it, or have expressly stated that they don't want it, in order to satisfy their own urges. It's that kind of aggression and lack of consideration for the other person that puts folk off. Why would anyone put themself in a vulnerable position with someone who has demonstrated that they have impulse/urge control issues?
So again... you are battling a stereotype. But patience and respect does pay off. Use your words and use them wisely
This,plus it's pretty difficult to feel sexually attracted to someone who is behaving like your bratty teenager "
jesus, that's one lovely profile pic. |
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"Why is the perception of young single males so negative....
Try not to take it personally. You're trying to break a stereotype. Many young males sign up here and act like they've just discovered Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory. They get over-excited and lose the art of conversation.. They forget they're talking to real women and not a porn character or sex-line worker.. But most of all they forget that it's about mutual pleasure, and just throw random dick pics and filth at people who have either not asked for it, or have expressly stated that they don't want it, in order to satisfy their own urges. It's that kind of aggression and lack of consideration for the other person that puts folk off. Why would anyone put themself in a vulnerable position with someone who has demonstrated that they have impulse/urge control issues?
So again... you are battling a stereotype. But patience and respect does pay off. Use your words and use them wisely
This,plus it's pretty difficult to feel sexually attracted to someone who is behaving like your bratty teenager jesus, that's one lovely profile pic."
Uh, thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why is the perception of young single males so negative....
Try not to take it personally. You're trying to break a stereotype. Many young males sign up here and act like they've just discovered Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory. They get over-excited and lose the art of conversation.. They forget they're talking to real women and not a porn character or sex-line worker.. But most of all they forget that it's about mutual pleasure, and just throw random dick pics and filth at people who have either not asked for it, or have expressly stated that they don't want it, in order to satisfy their own urges. It's that kind of aggression and lack of consideration for the other person that puts folk off. Why would anyone put themself in a vulnerable position with someone who has demonstrated that they have impulse/urge control issues?
So again... you are battling a stereotype. But patience and respect does pay off. Use your words and use them wisely
This,plus it's pretty difficult to feel sexually attracted to someone who is behaving like your bratty teenager jesus, that's one lovely profile pic.
Uh, thanks"
I agree pics are great. |
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