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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts?"

Are you mad?

I did not meet for long time and it means am I fake?

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By *asterIrelandMan over a year ago

Tipperary

Look at your verification dates and see how many times you should have deleted your profile

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By *P_80Man over a year ago

Waterford

No.

Your basically saying that people should feel under pressure to meet someone just to stay on the site.

It could take any amount of time before a person makes a connection.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oppps 8 months and sure I still havent had a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

When you see people over a year an no meets, I'm asking for thoughts!! Hence the question mark!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Look at your verification dates and see how many times you should have deleted your profile

When people delete their accounts their veri also goes, keep up

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By *P_80Man over a year ago

Waterford

"When you see people over a year an no meets, I'm asking for thoughts!! Hence the question mark!! "

But you said 4 months.

There might be a case if the account is inactive for an extended period of time, say 2 or 3 years.

But to suggest someone is fake because they haven't chose to meet another person is ridiculous.

No one should be under pressure to meet anyone if they don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you see people over a year an no meets, I'm asking for thoughts!! Hence the question mark!! "

Not really alot of the fale profiles have verifications anyway.

And for those of us that choose to keep who and when meet to ourselves it would not be welcome.

Also as I think GP saod abkve you dont want to pressure people into meets of they are not.ready

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you see people over a year an no meets, I'm asking for thoughts!! Hence the question mark!!

But you said 4 months.

There might be a case if the account is inactive for an extended period of time, say 2 or 3 years.

But to suggest someone is fake because they haven't chose to meet another person is ridiculous.

No one should be under pressure to meet anyone if they don't want to."

Totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Are yas for real here I'm asking for thoughts!!!!!! I threw out 4 months as a starter for conversation

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By *m389Man over a year ago

Bromley

A lot of ppl are on for forums too, chit chat and such.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Couples profiles no meets over a year on line, couples profiles only male have available over a year no meets etc...

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By *rutus83Man over a year ago

naas

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts?"

Most men have to wait longer that 4 months to get talking to some profiles never mind verified by them it wouldnt be right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couples profiles no meets over a year on line, couples profiles only male have available over a year no meets etc..."

OP please don't shout

We aren't deaf

The reason they are here is they want keep their veris or a Mrs lost the interest but a Mr is still hoping she will say "YES, lets back to the game".

It is annoying if you are looking for someone and people waste your time but use any video app to validate with whom you have a pleasure to chat. It is simple!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts?"

Well it took you almost 4 years between your 1st and 2nd verification.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts?

Well it took you almost 4 years between your 1st and 2nd verification.

was looking at that myself guessing a lot left

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By *easingTimMan over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts?

Well it took you almost 4 years between your 1st and 2nd verification.

was looking at that myself guessing a lot left

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Sherlock Holmes & Watson are on the case tonight!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol I'm only asking for people's thoughts on the matter. Should profiles over a year with no meets be left alone, how many times have you heard people saying this profile said they know me and are going to tell others I'm on here. They are either pic collectors or just nosey bastards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol I'm only asking for people's thoughts on the matter. Should profiles over a year with no meets be left alone, how many times have you heard people saying this profile said they know me and are going to tell others I'm on here. They are either pic collectors or just nosey bastards

Which were you ??

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By *avidc2019Man over a year ago

dublin

Definitely not I’ve had 1 social since I’ve joined and have been trying and put effort in but most men due to ratio to women mean it takes a lot more time to get a meet

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'd say most fake profiles are deleted before 4 month by those running the profiles just to set up a new one.

If you have an issue with those not having had a meet for four month, just stay away from them which is easy enough to do so.

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By *avidc2019Man over a year ago

dublin

"I'd say most fake profiles are deleted before 4 month by those running the profiles just to set up a new one.

If you have an issue with those not having had a meet for four month, just stay away from them which is easy enough to do so. "
very true

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By *easingTimMan over a year ago

Loughlinstown

". If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. "

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...Am just glad you weren't around to give me "a pep talk"

the first few months I was on Fab

...Live and let live Op

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By *avidc2019Man over a year ago

dublin

"Oppps 8 months and sure I still havent had a meet

"
really

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ha my first and 2nd on my profile are people that are still on here there have been others inbetween if you look at my veris and not the ones posted. Good night and god bless, I asked people's opinions on what they thought and I knew it would turn into this! I don't know why I bothered, happy fabbing/catfishing x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve met someone that was here without being verified over a year. Turned out to be a really great meet and still keep in touch. Some don’t take this site too seriously and set up profiles and forget about them, use them to perve and don’t have any intention of going any further. Some are fake but you should easily know the difference from trying to converse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ha my first and 2nd on my profile are people that are still on here there have been others inbetween if you look at my veris and not the ones posted. Good night and god bless, I asked people's opinions on what they thought and I knew it would turn into this! I don't know why I bothered, happy fabbing/catfishing x"

Oh poor Mikey

Dont forget your toys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’ve met someone that was here without being verified over a year. Turned out to be a really great meet and still keep in touch. Some don’t take this site too seriously and set up profiles and forget about them, use them to perve and don’t have any intention of going any further. Some are fake but you should easily know the difference from trying to converse. "

This is what I wanted to hear, someone with a sensible thing to say, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh poor Mikey

Dont forget your toys!

I'm sure you won't forget yours

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Are yas for real here I'm asking for thoughts!!!!!! I threw out 4 months as a starter for conversation"

I think you got there a good few thoughts, but no point in taking it personal, when people don't like the idea. You put out there a valid question but in this case most people don't seem like the stipulation for various but also valid reasons. It's still worth asking to hear why they oppose it. Isn't that what the forum is for?

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By *ohndunboyneMan over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I understand the reasoning of the question.

However, it would be impossible and unfair, for the following reasons, plus others.

1. Hidden profiles

2. Users who don't rely/need/want veris

3. Paying members have annual subscriptions so would demand refund and could probably take Fab to court if they were written off, as veris are not stipulated.

There are other reasons, some stated above.

I know that you were just asking a question and hope that you accept mine as a reasoned response to promote further discussion. Or you can check my profile and make what you want of my veri status.

I'm just a happy Fabber

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By *ustin-SiderMan over a year ago

Belfast

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts?"

Why specifically 4 months?

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By *ohng69Man over a year ago

athenry

You asked for opinions and got them but don't like what you got. I think you've a bit of growing up to do.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

What about the folk who just meet 1 or 2 people regularly? Should they ask their meets for a re-veri every 4 months just to keep their account active?

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I think anyone with that totally bullshit privacy warning and legal crap to universities etc on their profile should be banned for life for their own safety as being the gullible on the internet is dangerous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got a suggestion,if you don't like the look of profiles with infrequent or no veris, don't interact with them.

Problem solved,have a great day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I threw out four months for a start of conversation to see what people thought, yes 4 months isnt long enough, it was a starting point for conversation. I didn't take it personal, people that took it personal were the ones that went to my profile to go through my veris, it's my own fault I forgot about the point scoring comedians

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've got a suggestion,if you don't like the look of profiles with infrequent or no veris, don't interact with them.

Problem solved,have a great day!"

But what if they are really hot.

Or really close.

Or I am just really really horny?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've got a suggestion,if you don't like the look of profiles with infrequent or no veris, don't interact with them.

Problem solved,have a great day!

But what if they are really hot.

Or really close.

Or I am just really really horny?"

haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think anyone with that totally bullshit privacy warning and legal crap to universities etc on their profile should be banned for life for their own safety as being the gullible on the internet is dangerous"

Here's another point scorer what has that got to do with the question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've got a suggestion,if you don't like the look of profiles with infrequent or no veris, don't interact with them.

Problem solved,have a great day!

But what if they are really hot.

Or really close.

Or I am just really really horny?"

Then you've only got yourself to blame

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By *ortadowncplCouple over a year ago

Portadown

You are basically saying, "Have sex with someone here or you are out".

That goes against the very core of swinging, which is that there is zero pressure to do anything you are not 100% comfortable with.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

Here's another point scorer what has that got to do with the question

I think he was just making a point that wanting profiles deleted or banned for spurious reasons was a bit daft

By the way OP... I've read the full thread and didn't think anyone was point scoring. You asked a question, people gave their answers, but you seem to have taken umbrage with anyone who doesn't agree with yours. Spirited debate and interaction are the lifeblood of the forums, but know the difference between competently arguing an opinion and name-calling when you don't get your way. Not everyone who disagrees with you is catfishing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you see people over a year an no meets, I'm asking for thoughts!! Hence the question mark!! "

Here's my thoughts,if that's how you feel about them,don't message them.

There,now I'm your fab coach

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Here's another point scorer what has that got to do with the question

I think he was just making a point that wanting profiles deleted or banned for spurious reasons was a bit daft

I was asking a question of how to get rid of fake profiles, I started it with a suggestion and wanted to see what others thought but the forum does what it does best goodie two shoes people picking up on the wrong things, like 4 months (starting point for conversation) and going off point not picking my profile to death. What I mean about point scorer is when men comment on here in order to get another females attention by trying to be funny. I'm on here over 7 years and I kinda went away from the forums for these reasons. If a female had of been the OP I'm pretty much sure every male would have been on side, it's hilarious.

I won't waste anymore energy on it so.

The forum reminds me of when you go to see a comedian and ya know when someone comes in late at the front and the comedian slaughters that person for the night. On here it's the audience that slaughter the OP

Good look peeps

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Here's another point scorer what has that got to do with the question

I was just pointing out that everyone has something that they would like removed from the site yours is people who don't meet mine is gullible people for their own safety someone else's could be people under 5'9 or people over 5'9. So I think I'm saying the site isn't here just to suit what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You keep talking about your ‘question’ OP. But it wasn’t a question. It was an opinion and you framed it in such a way that when people inevitably disagreed with you (cos it’s a ridiculous point) you could start banging on about mob mentality, white knights blah blah. You’re not as clever as you think, basically.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haven't met for over a year and some dont meet but enjoy the banter use the site as u feel but do believe it shouldn't be free make it pay only maybe a discounted trial month

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

I dont bother with veris anymore, my last meet was about a month ago should I ask for a veri just to stay in the club?

My meets are my business, nobody elses!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Here's another point scorer what has that got to do with the question

So you want fake profiles? I was asking what would people suggest but yet again you go off point instead of giving your thoughts you take the easy way out and try to be funny. Don't get me wrong I think I'm fucking hilarious but I know when to be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You keep talking about your ‘question’ OP. But it wasn’t a question. It was an opinion and you framed it in such a way that when people inevitably disagreed with you (cos it’s a ridiculous point) you could start banging on about mob mentality, white knights blah blah. You’re not as clever as you think, basically. "

I can add childish to this: "you aren't agree with me, so you don't belong to my team" approach.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m sure this has been said above but would mandatory photo verification not solve the main problems? Guys pretending to be couples and women etc.

I think it’s unavoidable that you’re going to have crazies but it’s easy enough to spot people early on I think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here's another point scorer what has that got to do with the question

OP, people answered you already: avoid the profiles with no activity, use video chat to verify with whom you have a pleasure to chat, go more often to meet&greets events - guarantee you will meet interesting people without wasting your time.

Have a lovely day OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I won't waste anymore energy on it so.

Good look peeps "

I dont mind fake profiles they tend to not bother me unless I goessaging them.....

Its the whiney worlds against me posters that tend to irk

Imagine the cheek of someone coming on a forum and trying to make people laugh, especially those you want to sleep with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I won't waste anymore energy on it so.

Good look peeps

I dont mind fake profiles they tend to not bother me unless I goessaging them.....

Its the whiney worlds against me posters that tend to irk

Imagine the cheek of someone coming on a forum and trying to make people laugh, especially those you want to sleep with."

My god I ask people's opinions on how to out fake profiles and this is what I get back. I don't get 1 suggestion back only how inconsiderate I am and That the world's against me.

I'm starting to think I should of posted looking for a wank buddy what

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I won't waste anymore energy on it so.

Good look peeps

I dont mind fake profiles they tend to not bother me unless I goessaging them.....

Its the whiney worlds against me posters that tend to irk

Imagine the cheek of someone coming on a forum and trying to make people laugh, especially those you want to sleep with.

My god I ask people's opinions on how to out fake profiles and this is what I get back. I don't get 1 suggestion back only how inconsiderate I am and That the world's against me.

I'm starting to think I should of posted looking for a wank buddy what

Nope, ypu specifically askes if fab profiles should be deleted if they have no veri after 4 months, here I have helpfully copied your OP in case you forgot:

By 69mikey69 OP Man

11 hours ago

dublin

Should Fab profiles be deleted if......

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts"

So one specific measure to get rid of fakes and thoughts on that measure.

We gave our thoughts and reasons why, you didnt like them and started moaning about others posts and behaviour.

Prehaps you wored your OP poorly but thats on you.

And the forum like the fake profiles of you dont like it feel free not to use it

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

I won't waste anymore energy on it so.

Good look peeps

I dont mind fake profiles they tend to not bother me unless I goessaging them.....

Its the whiney worlds against me posters that tend to irk

Imagine the cheek of someone coming on a forum and trying to make people laugh, especially those you want to sleep with.

My god I ask people's opinions on how to out fake profiles and this is what I get back. I don't get 1 suggestion back only how inconsiderate I am and That the world's against me.

I'm starting to think I should of posted looking for a wank buddy what

U mean u havent one already ffs off with the profile

U posted an opinion then asked for thoughts when it was pointed out the thoughts others had on ur opinon u threw the toys out. Now we know ur easily rise by just replying in oppisition to ur view we will and if theres a score to be got well why not

Its the joys of braving an open forum opinions are like arse holes we all have them some we have to accept as others and we wont change them, others (sometimes even our own)change with new information we recive

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I won't waste anymore energy on it so.

Good look peeps

I dont mind fake profiles they tend to not bother me unless I goessaging them.....

Its the whiney worlds against me posters that tend to irk

Imagine the cheek of someone coming on a forum and trying to make people laugh, especially those you want to sleep with.

My god I ask people's opinions on how to out fake profiles and this is what I get back. I don't get 1 suggestion back only how inconsiderate I am and That the world's against me.

I'm starting to think I should of posted looking for a wank buddy what

Nope, ypu specifically askes if fab profiles should be deleted if they have no veri after 4 months, here I have helpfully copied your OP in case you forgot:

By 69mikey69 OP Man

11 hours ago

dublin

Should Fab profiles be deleted if......

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts"

So one specific measure to get rid of fakes and thoughts on that measure.

We gave our thoughts and reasons why, you didnt like them and started moaning about others posts and behaviour.

Prehaps you wored your OP poorly but thats on you.

And the forum like the fake profiles of you dont like it feel free not to use it

I give up.

I'm asking for thoughts? On how to get rid of fake profiles, I haven't received 1.

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By *marrisWoman over a year ago

Cork

"Oppps 8 months and sure I still havent had a meet

Honey,I will meet you...if you not scared of some extra weight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I give up.

I'm asking for thoughts? On how to get rid of fake profiles, I haven't received 1."

Maybe word iy better next time and dont be an ass to people who post

But just to keep you happy:

1. Make Fab a fully subscription site

2. Ensure all profiles require a phone number and email to join. Only allow one profile per number and email.

3. Stricter photo veris and no use of site until complete.

4. Have a fab mod cam veri a requirment to join.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I won't waste anymore energy on it so.

Good look peeps

I dont mind fake profiles they tend to not bother me unless I goessaging them.....

Its the whiney worlds against me posters that tend to irk

Imagine the cheek of someone coming on a forum and trying to make people laugh, especially those you want to sleep with.

My god I ask people's opinions on how to out fake profiles and this is what I get back. I don't get 1 suggestion back only how inconsiderate I am and That the world's against me.

I'm starting to think I should of posted looking for a wank buddy what

U mean u havent one already ffs off with the profile

Really!! So that's your thought on how to out fake profiles is to talk about me.

Like I said early on in the post yeah four months wasn't Kong enough but I was hoping to get back other people's ideas and not this crap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I give up.

I'm asking for thoughts? On how to get rid of fake profiles, I haven't received 1.

Maybe word iy better next time and dont be an ass to people who post

But just to keep you happy:

1. Make Fab a fully subscription site

2. Ensure all profiles require a phone number and email to join. Only allow one profile per number and email.

3. Stricter photo veris and no use of site until complete.

4. Have a fab mod cam veri a requirment to join.

I wasn't an ass to anyone read back over the posts

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By *oversex69Man over a year ago

North

Look their are a lot of " Verified" Meets which never occured so as the people get kudos, so a time limit is not gonna work, if your blocked 10 times in two months by anyone may work better to stop pests

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What is wrong with this person . He doesn’t know when to zip it. He tried 2 or 3 times saying that’s me out of this, good luck peeps, happy fabbing blah blah blah then 2 posts later he’s back again all upset that people think what he’s saying is nonsense. Am important lesson in life; listen more and know when to keep yer mouth shut. Talk about putting your foot on it. Yes fellah, we know it’s a forum and yes you asked a question , so try listening to the answers instead of endless self justification and passive aggressive sarcasm. That’s me out ( yes, really- I’m

Not coming back to this rather silly thread)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In regards fake profiles. Would it be an advantage if no one was allowed on fab unless they are photo verified by admin. It would at least prove that they are a man woman or a genuine couple. Fake personalities are harder to fix though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What is wrong with this person . He doesn’t know when to zip it. He tried 2 or 3 times saying that’s me out of this, good luck peeps, happy fabbing blah blah blah then 2 posts later he’s back again all upset that people think what he’s saying is nonsense. Am important lesson in life; listen more and know when to keep yer mouth shut. Talk about putting your foot on it. Yes fellah, we know it’s a forum and yes you asked a question , so try listening to the answers instead of endless self justification and passive aggressive sarcasm. That’s me out ( yes, really- I’m

Not coming back to this rather silly thread)"

Point scorer, again off topic of how to try stop fakes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In regards fake profiles. Would it be an advantage if no one was allowed on fab unless they are photo verified by admin. It would at least prove that they are a man woman or a genuine couple. Fake personalities are harder to fix though.

This is what I was looking for thank you. But brace yourself for the backlash from the people with no access to a camera

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By *ohng69Man over a year ago

athenry

OP you made a suggestion and asked for people's opinions, looking through the thread again it seems that most people gave their opinions but disagreed with your suggestion for very genuine reasons without reverting to piss taking or trying to be funny, however for some reason you have taken offence to constructive feedback and some very sensible reasons for disagreeing with you. I think you are a bit too sensitive for here and maybe fab should delete your profile instead

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By *abraham_LincolnWoman over a year ago

City Centre

If you can't spot the fakes by now you must be very gullible indeed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you can't spot the fakes by now you must be very gullible indeed."

I tried looking in the dictionary for that,I couldn't find it

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By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

I personally think they should delete any woman that doesn't meet me.

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"If you can't spot the fakes by now you must be very gullible indeed."

I've never been caught out by a fake on fab and I'm around here donkeys years.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman over a year ago

Magical Forrest

They are getting better and better at being fake ... but can still sniff one out

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"OP you made a suggestion and asked for people's opinions, looking through the thread again it seems that most people gave their opinions but disagreed with your suggestion for very genuine reasons without reverting to piss taking or trying to be funny, however for some reason you have taken offence to constructive feedback and some very sensible reasons for disagreeing with you. I think you are a bit too sensitive for here and maybe fab should delete your profile instead"

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By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

"They are getting better and better at being fake ... but can still sniff one out

Its easier for women to spot them than men, and women still get caught.

A man has no real reason not to go on cam or show photos. But a woman can refuse all and any photos and video and still be 100% real.

I got talking to someone, no photos, no veris, kik had a photo of an album cover. They were poking fun at me, and asking for photos, by all accounts a fake.

But they asked to meet and I had nothing to do so an hour later I was sitting down a dark laneway in the middle of a rough area beside a field that was pitch black.

Knock on the window look up a pretty blonde girl looking at me, hops in the car, hugs me, and we are driving off to her house which is actually a fair bit away.

My point is, sure I could have dismissed her and not met, and kept myself safe from never having my time wasted, but you just can never tell and I had the time to waste.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Somebody accused me recently of being a fake profile. His reasoning behind this was I wasn't charmed by his six times in the row wanna fuck one line messages and wouldn't meet him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Somebody accused me recently of being a fake profile. His reasoning behind this was I wasn't charmed by his six times in the row wanna fuck one line messages and wouldn't meet him. "

Sometimes my eyes hurt from all the rolling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think some guys when turned down always accuse us of being fake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't agree with the verification date for the profile to be deleted , but i would agree on a log in time , if you haven't been online for like 4 or 5 month the account goes into "suspended" and you can re activate it if you come back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Somebody accused me recently of being a fake profile. His reasoning behind this was I wasn't charmed by his six times in the row wanna fuck one line messages and wouldn't meet him.

Sometimes my eyes hurt from all the rolling"

I could represent Ireland for eye rolling after my time on here

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By *squaredCouple over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

Ive been meeting people but no verifications, we go 2 clubs with same people hence we are busy despite no recent verifications.

Not active in 4 months (log on) should be through

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By *rbean69Man over a year ago

Stroud

It has taken me about 3 years to get my first verification. In that time I have met dozens of Fab members when out dogging, but I have never arranged a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And lose money not a chance.Now it would make more sense to delete account details of someone who has not been on for a long time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts?

Not having a verify for 4 month should get your account banned ? Well look at yours , you have gaps of over 4 month and then got another one so after the first 4 month gap by your standards your account should have been gone "
I'm not asking for my profile to be picked to peices but unfortunately that is what is being done. I was looking for ideas and a few were throwing up like being photo verified. I know how hard it is here to get meets believe me but when I asked the question of how we get rid of the fakes I'm asking it on your behalf also because it is the fake profiles that are ruining it for the genuine people that are starting. A few people took offense to what I said but I didn't mean any harm I was looking for ideas to be thrown around.

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By *ohndunboyneMan over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"If they aren't meet verified by 4 months. If you haven't met anyone in 4 months let's be honest it ain't going to happen for you. It would get rid of fake profiles, thoughts?

Not having a verify for 4 month should get your account banned ? Well look at yours , you have gaps of over 4 month and then got another one so after the first 4 month gap by your standards your account should have been gone I'm not asking for my profile to be picked to peices but unfortunately that is what is being done. I was looking for ideas and a few were throwing up like being photo verified. I know how hard it is here to get meets believe me but when I asked the question of how we get rid of the fakes I'm asking it on your behalf also because it is the fake profiles that are ruining it for the genuine people that are starting. A few people took offense to what I said but I didn't mean any harm I was looking for ideas to be thrown around. "

I gave what I thought was a considered response as to why it wouldn't work but, when I checked in earlier, you had replied to every other response that you thought was negative towards your suggestion.

As such, I haven't bothered to read through the the last 6hrs responses to see if you actually bothered your arse.

Give it up as a poison thread.

Nobody agrees with your original post, though many agree with your original concept. Be happy in the knowledge that most genuine Fabbers hate fake profiles and non-meeting(ever) members.

That should be enough.

If you still feel the need to respond/ justify your original intention further, I think you only further alienate yourself from the Fab community and add yourself to even more Blocks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Iam here 3 years and not even a hope of a meet, so no op your talking bollix

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well how dare the op come on here and ask a question and then have the cheek to disagree with the experts.Those guys on the forums are specially picked to give there expert opinion on everything and should not be disagreed with.

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By *abraham_LincolnWoman over a year ago

City Centre

" it is the fake profiles that are ruining it for the genuine people that are starting "

Can you explain this statement OP?

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By *ohng69Man over a year ago

athenry

"A few people took offense to what I said" I think it was you who took offence to the genuine replies you got, just because most people disagreed with your suggestion doesn't mean they are all wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""A few people took offense to what I said" I think it was you who took offence to the genuine replies you got, just because most people disagreed with your suggestion doesn't mean they are all wrong "
We all know if a woman started this thread all the men would be tripping over eachother to say how right she was.

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

""A few people took offense to what I said" I think it was you who took offence to the genuine replies you got, just because most people disagreed with your suggestion doesn't mean they are all wrong We all know if a woman started this thread all the men would be tripping over eachother to say how right she was."

You'd never be caught out by a 4 month rule....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a knob

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""A few people took offense to what I said" I think it was you who took offence to the genuine replies you got, just because most people disagreed with your suggestion doesn't mean they are all wrong We all know if a woman started this thread all the men would be tripping over eachother to say how right she was.

You'd never be caught out by a 4 month rule....

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Noway hosay.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""A few people took offense to what I said" I think it was you who took offence to the genuine replies you got, just because most people disagreed with your suggestion doesn't mean they are all wrong We all know if a woman started this thread all the men would be tripping over eachother to say how right she was."

Wrong

Maybe some men,but certainly not all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""A few people took offense to what I said" I think it was you who took offence to the genuine replies you got, just because most people disagreed with your suggestion doesn't mean they are all wrong We all know if a woman started this thread all the men would be tripping over eachother to say how right she was.

Wrong

Maybe some men,but certainly not all."
No perhaps not all but certainly most of them would. Because they think it's a way of getting what they want.Its funny to watch some of them fetching the stick when it's throwing to please the ladies.

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