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By *ex1981Man
over a year ago
right up your street , the wild Atlantic way , corby UK |
Don't think I treat singles or couples any different. Male or female.
Manners cost nothing.
Chats are just chats.
Connection with a couples same as singles when the chemistry is there.
Why disrespect anyone or treat anyone different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I treat everyone the same , respect costs nothing , and in the matter of the thread why treat a single woman different than treat a woman in a couple ? Sorry misscar but don't get your point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single girls are more likely to get abusive messages"
I think that if you give abusive messages to someone and the recipient forwards it to admin, that person should be banned for life, like have their.....ah can't think of the word for it, it's the name of their Internet ID hahaha, stupid brain!!!
Anyways, they should have, that thing blocked by the site
IP ADDRESS!!! YES, suck it brain!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is normal enough to interact with a couple on here differently to a single female.
If I am chatting to a woman from a couple I try to remember that her partner could be present and replying.
It only makes that the conversation will be a little different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Discuss "
You would imagine rooted somewhere deep within the male psyche there is a subconcious caveman undertones to dominate an unattached lady both physically and mentally to impress her and show oneself as an alpha male. 
Whereby a woman already part of a couple who is inviting you to share in or enhance an existing experience probably doesnt elicit the same behaviour subconciously in men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it is normal enough to interact with a couple on here differently to a single female.
If I am chatting to a woman from a couple I try to remember that her partner could be present and replying.
It only makes that the conversation will be a little different"
Why isn't it the same result your looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single girls are more likely to get abusive messages
I think that if you give abusive messages to someone and the recipient forwards it to admin, that person should be banned for life, like have their.....ah can't think of the word for it, it's the name of their Internet ID hahaha, stupid brain!!!
Anyways, they should have, that thing blocked by the site
IP ADDRESS!!! YES, suck it brain!!! "
You know u can reset your IP address though right ? |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"Discuss
You would imagine rooted somewhere deep within the male psyche there is a subconcious caveman undertones to dominate an unattached lady both physically and mentally to impress her and show oneself as an alpha male.
Whereby a woman already part of a couple who is inviting you to share in or enhance an existing experience probably doesnt elicit the same behaviour subconciously in men. "
Love this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it is normal enough to interact with a couple on here differently to a single female.
If I am chatting to a woman from a couple I try to remember that her partner could be present and replying.
It only makes that the conversation will be a little different Why isn't it the same result your looking for. "
Same result but different strategy! You will often see in couple profiles that they specifically reference the fact it’s a couples account and messages should be addressed to both and will be read by both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Discuss
You would imagine rooted somewhere deep within the male psyche there is a subconcious caveman undertones to dominate an unattached lady both physically and mentally to impress her and show oneself as an alpha male.
Whereby a woman already part of a couple who is inviting you to share in or enhance an existing experience probably doesnt elicit the same behaviour subconciously in men. "
Also this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it is normal enough to interact with a couple on here differently to a single female.
If I am chatting to a woman from a couple I try to remember that her partner could be present and replying.
It only makes that the conversation will be a little different Why isn't it the same result your looking for.
Same result but different strategy! You will often see in couple profiles that they specifically reference the fact it’s a couples account and messages should be addressed to both and will be read by both."
And some people you get comfotable enough with to chat to as normal. But its a bit disrespectful to chat to a couples profile like a single person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single girls are more likely to get abusive messages"
I dont think this is 100% right. Ive been on here as a couples profile and a single profile same level as abuse on both profiles. Some couples are idiots some males are idiots and some females are idiots. But there are a lot of nice people to who treat you as a person not a profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single girls are more likely to get abusive messages
I dont think this is 100% right. Ive been on here as a couples profile and a single profile same level as abuse on both profiles. Some couples are idiots some males are idiots and some females are idiots. But there are a lot of nice people to who treat you as a person not a profile. "
And funny how people are more likely to remember the idiots than the nice people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single girls are more likely to get abusive messages
I dont think this is 100% right. Ive been on here as a couples profile and a single profile same level as abuse on both profiles. Some couples are idiots some males are idiots and some females are idiots. But there are a lot of nice people to who treat you as a person not a profile.
And funny how people are more likely to remember the idiots than the nice people "
Idiots get the block button. You don't have to deal with them again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single girls are more likely to get abusive messages
I think that if you give abusive messages to someone and the recipient forwards it to admin, that person should be banned for life, like have their.....ah can't think of the word for it, it's the name of their Internet ID hahaha, stupid brain!!!
Anyways, they should have, that thing blocked by the site
IP ADDRESS!!! YES, suck it brain!!!
You know u can reset your IP address though right ?"
And they say you don't learn anything on Fab.....thanks Nuru  |
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"Discuss
You would imagine rooted somewhere deep within the male psyche there is a subconcious caveman undertones to dominate an unattached lady both physically and mentally to impress her and show oneself as an alpha male.
Whereby a woman already part of a couple who is inviting you to share in or enhance an existing experience probably doesnt elicit the same behaviour subconciously in men. "
This
As someone who has been both half of a couple and a single, there is a difference in how you are approached by single men.
However, I would also like to point out that as single or attached women we also treat men differently. As part of a couple, a single male was just someone invited to join us to fulfil a particular fantasy or role, and my partner's pleasure (and obviously my own) from the interaction was the priority. As a single female, however, that pleasure priority goes to the man you are meeting. He is your sole focus, and therefore the dynamic between two singles meeting is completely different. Preferences as an attached female are more likely to be driven by physical appearance and/or even endowment, as you don't have the need to actually connect with him... you already have your connection. The exception to this of course being polyamory in it's truest form, where emotional connection and love are shared by all parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Discuss
You would imagine rooted somewhere deep within the male psyche there is a subconcious caveman undertones to dominate an unattached lady both physically and mentally to impress her and show oneself as an alpha male.
Whereby a woman already part of a couple who is inviting you to share in or enhance an existing experience probably doesnt elicit the same behaviour subconciously in men.
This
As someone who has been both half of a couple and a single, there is a difference in how you are approached by single men.
However, I would also like to point out that as single or attached women we also treat men differently. As part of a couple, a single male was just someone invited to join us to fulfil a particular fantasy or role, and my partner's pleasure (and obviously my own) from the interaction was the priority. As a single female, however, that pleasure priority goes to the man you are meeting. He is your sole focus, and therefore the dynamic between two singles meeting is completely different. Preferences as an attached female are more likely to be driven by physical appearance and/or even endowment, as you don't have the need to actually connect with him... you already have your connection. The exception to this of course being polyamory in it's truest form, where emotional connection and love are shared by all parties."
Very insightful PlayD8, me likey and lighty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Discuss
You would imagine rooted somewhere deep within the male psyche there is a subconcious caveman undertones to dominate an unattached lady both physically and mentally to impress her and show oneself as an alpha male.
Whereby a woman already part of a couple who is inviting you to share in or enhance an existing experience probably doesnt elicit the same behaviour subconciously in men. "
This
Some men do .not all men though |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Discuss
You would imagine rooted somewhere deep within the male psyche there is a subconcious caveman undertones to dominate an unattached lady both physically and mentally to impress her and show oneself as an alpha male.
Whereby a woman already part of a couple who is inviting you to share in or enhance an existing experience probably doesnt elicit the same behaviour subconciously in men. "
I don't think I'd be impressed if someone tries to dominate me physically and mentally.
Anyhow otherwise I agree the potential mate element is more prevalent in a one on one meet. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Discuss
You would imagine rooted somewhere deep within the male psyche there is a subconcious caveman undertones to dominate an unattached lady both physically and mentally to impress her and show oneself as an alpha male.
Whereby a woman already part of a couple who is inviting you to share in or enhance an existing experience probably doesnt elicit the same behaviour subconciously in men.
This
As someone who has been both half of a couple and a single, there is a difference in how you are approached by single men.
However, I would also like to point out that as single or attached women we also treat men differently. As part of a couple, a single male was just someone invited to join us to fulfil a particular fantasy or role, and my partner's pleasure (and obviously my own) from the interaction was the priority. As a single female, however, that pleasure priority goes to the man you are meeting. He is your sole focus, and therefore the dynamic between two singles meeting is completely different. Preferences as an attached female are more likely to be driven by physical appearance and/or even endowment, as you don't have the need to actually connect with him... you already have your connection. The exception to this of course being polyamory in it's truest form, where emotional connection and love are shared by all parties."
Love this x |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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They are far more respectful to females in couples when messaging. Fact. I've been previously contacted on a couples profile and my singles profile by the same men and couples, nice and polite when declining on the couples profile, a barrage of abuse, trying to change my mind and why nots on my single profile. Go figure. |
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"They are far more respectful to females in couples when messaging. Fact. I've been previously contacted on a couples profile and my singles profile by the same men and couples, nice and polite when declining on the couples profile, a barrage of abuse, trying to change my mind and why nots on my single profile. Go figure. "
In some cases (not all) I think these particular guys equate single women with gagging and desperate, and take it as a personal insult that even a desperate single woman is turning them down. It's an insult to their manhood, so they get testy. Whereas they can shrug it off with an attached female and say 'ah sure she's getting plenty at home'. It's not a very enlightened outlook, but it does explain the difference in behaviour. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"They are far more respectful to females in couples when messaging. Fact. I've been previously contacted on a couples profile and my singles profile by the same men and couples, nice and polite when declining on the couples profile, a barrage of abuse, trying to change my mind and why nots on my single profile. Go figure.
In some cases (not all) I think these particular guys equate single women with gagging and desperate, and take it as a personal insult that even a desperate single woman is turning them down. It's an insult to their manhood, so they get testy. Whereas they can shrug it off with an attached female and say 'ah sure she's getting plenty at home'. It's not a very enlightened outlook, but it does explain the difference in behaviour. "
I think also with a MF profile they know another man will probably be reading and/or responding to messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't see the difference between single females and female half of couples?
They're still people at the end of the day and deserve the same amount of respect |
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I agree the caveman in me wants to dominate a single woman.
But when I meet a couple it wants to dominate the man and the woman.
I'm just kidding, there is no caveman inside me. I was also kidding about sucking guys off to be with their woman, no need to message me about it.
The simple fact is, if a guy behaves differently infront of different people then they just haven't got comfortable with who they really are. It's bullshit kids stuff that we all should have gotten over when we were 17. Being one person infront of the lads and another infront of the girls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been in the life style as both a single girl and a couple , have to say I do prefer being part of a couple found it so much easier , that may have been because my last ex had me spoiled and all ways looked after me so it just felt safer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Discuss
Whereas single women and couples all treat single guys equally ie as dirt. "
Not at all I normally treat people exactly how they treat me . Just wondering what others thought as I’d been here as both two. just found the conversation less intrusive and pushy when I was part of a couple. |
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Interesting, but I cant say I've ever treated anyone differently by virtue of the fact they're single or part of a couple.
A good person is a good person...
An asshole is an asshole, whether they are part of a couple or not...
Well, I'd like to think I did...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think men are abusive to single women. Few episodes from my live just prove it.
And yes, I totally agree: good person will be always good and asshole wouldn't change at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think men are abusive to single women. Few episodes from my live just prove it.
And yes, I totally agree: good person will be always good and asshole wouldn't change at all. "
it's all about respect opportunity and both hand imo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We still get a few single guys messaging then taking the hump when it’s politely pointed out that it states on our profile that we aren’t looking for single guys. Had one guy tell me he was gonna create another profile to set up a meet then beat me up as he was some big “gangster” from Limerick |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We still get a few single guys messaging then taking the hump when it’s politely pointed out that it states on our profile that we aren’t looking for single guys. Had one guy tell me he was gonna create another profile to set up a meet then beat me up as he was some big “gangster” from Limerick "
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"Discuss
Whereas single women and couples all treat single guys equally ie as dirt.
Not at all I normally treat people exactly how they treat me . Just wondering what others thought as I’d been here as both two. just found the conversation less intrusive and pushy when I was part of a couple. "
I'd say a higher percentage of single guys get short shrift in comparison to the single female v couple comparison in the original post. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I treat everyone the same. Probably doesn't help that I'm a bit of a cunt though. "
Never found you to be that in the past. Admire how you spoke your mind even if wasn’t what people wanted to hear |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Treating them differently doesn't necessarily equate to disrespecting one over the other as many seem to think in this thread. I'd treat them differently as they are different, one is single and the other isn't. One's approach towards each would be different. As one early mentioned you have to consider the male in the couple. Many factors come to mind with this. |
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