"How do you know they are pic collectors or fakes and just didnt get bored by you?
Not saying thats what happens you, just wondering if thats what happens me.
No agenda here, honest question."
I was thinking along those lines as well.
Surely pics from a porn site would be more interesting for "pic collectors"? |
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"How do you know they are pic collectors or fakes and just didnt get bored by you?
Not saying thats what happens you, just wondering if thats what happens me.
No agenda here, honest question."
This is what I just assume too tbh |
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Same this happens to me all the time why it so difficult to deal with rejection.
A person will have no pics whatsoever and ask to meet you when you ask for their pics they send it and when you don't find them attractive they get pissed off and call you a timewaster and faker. If you had pictures in the first place I would have ignored your message because I am not interested. |
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Someone needs to explain this timewaster concept to me cos I don't get it.
So you expect us to meet everyone who messages us even if we are not attracted to them.
If I send someone a message and they don't reply I don't call them a timewaster or a faker I simply understand that I am not their type or they aren't interested in me. |
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"Someone needs to explain this timewaster concept to me cos I don't get it."
No but if you send messages, move to kik, exchange pics, videos, then obviously they should stop if they dont want to meet.
People can drag it out for like 2 or 3 months with you asking to meet once a week or so before they ghost you, never to be seen again.
Some people have this happen to them enough times that they believe the people never had an intention to begin with to meet. Specially true with single males. |
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"How do you know they are pic collectors or fakes and just didnt get bored by you?
Not saying thats what happens you, just wondering if thats what happens me.
No agenda here, honest question.
I was thinking along those lines as well.
Surely pics from a porn site would be more interesting for "pic collectors"? "
Amateurs' pics are more attractive to them. They are more real than those from the porn sites  |
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"Don't feed the bears.
It's that simple really.
That's why my pics are hidden for public and I do not exchange them.
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I've a bunch of public pics anyone is welcome to look at... They're nothing spectacular, but give a little insight into me, physically and my tastes. I've a few friend-only face pics which I share with those I feel comfortable sharing with, and I rarely accept friend requests from people I haven't already met and stayed in contact with. Pic hunters tire of me very quickly  |
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"Someone needs to explain this timewaster concept to me cos I don't get it.
No but if you send messages, move to kik, exchange pics, videos, then obviously they should stop if they dont want to meet.
People can drag it out for like 2 or 3 months with you asking to meet once a week or so before they ghost you, never to be seen again.
Some people have this happen to them enough times that they believe the people never had an intention to begin with to meet. Specially true with single males."
Oh thanks I get it now
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There is nothing I hate more then someone constantly asking for pics and videos .
I’ve a couple of recent ones on my profile and will send a face pic if I think we are going to meet . I won’t send anymore and if someone is being pushy about it I just move on . |
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