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over a year ago
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"Pre meet communication... How much? How often? And where (here, messaging apps, phone)?
What's your preference? "
Loads... I like talking shite 
Im too cheap for a site supporter pass so kik or whatsapp are easier to use |
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Very hard to answer as it takes a while to get to know whether you both have similar tastes that would spark an interest. I find that conversations that fizzle out quickly are normally not worth taking weeks of talking round in circles. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On here mostly. I tend to get a good inclination of what people are like after 5 to 6 messages and if I like them I might suggest meeting for coffee."
Concise plan  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pre meet communication... How much? How often? And where (here, messaging apps, phone)?
What's your preference?
Loads... I like talking shite
Im too cheap for a site supporter pass so kik or whatsapp are easier to use"
Your tightness preventing possible meets again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pre meet communication... How much? How often? And where (here, messaging apps, phone)?
What's your preference?
Loads... I like talking shite
Im too cheap for a site supporter pass so kik or whatsapp are easier to use
Your tightness preventing possible meets again "
Ouch |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"More than my last meet yesterday. 4 messages and she offered to meet. So off I went only to find she was a time wasting no show ( again)"
Bad form regardless of time texting.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pre meet communication... How much? How often? And where (here, messaging apps, phone)?
What's your preference? "
Mostly here or they suggest Kik. You know how it’s going after a couple of messages. Or you reply to their mail and they haven’t a clue what you are talking about coz a) their not site supporters and can’t read the previous one they sent you or b) they don’t give an arse!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pre meet communication... How much? How often? And where (here, messaging apps, phone)?
What's your preference? "
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Lots of chatting, only if I can,here or app.
I have busy private life and I know am not all people cup of tea. If we click when chatting, then social meet. If not? It happens. Some day will be another person |
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If there's a mutual interest, probably a week or two of chatting regularly before arranging a coffee. A little perseverance and consistency is usually a good sign I tend to keep my chats to here though and only use kik as an emergency contact tool just in case something goes wrong on the day and I'm running late or need to change venues. I find apps like kik or WhatsApp a little intrusive and inconvenient at times. |
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preferences
kinks 
& fantasies 
before sharing a bed...
...but sometimes coffee, chat, chemistry & "fancy moving on?" is enough 