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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to offer to meet lads for coffee for them to get verfied got cancelled by one lad 3 times so don't bother any more but good luck with the search  "
He must not have been well in the head to cancel on you lolly  |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"I used to offer to meet lads for coffee for them to get verfied got cancelled by one lad 3 times so don't bother any more but good luck with the search
He must not have been well in the head to cancel on you lolly "
Awe cheers his loss  |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Jaysus Lolly. I would drive from here to meet you.. You are a cracker.. I do agree with OP. It's near impossible to get a veri. "
Some lads think when I said coffee it ment ride but coffee meet is still a meet verfie  |
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"I used to offer to meet lads for coffee for them to get verfied got cancelled by one lad 3 times so don't bother any more but good luck with the search "
that was a lovely thing to do fair play pity you don’t anymore  |
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There's definitely a misconception that we women can click our fingers and have a line of men at our door... Reality I'd say is AT LEAST 50% of guys flake on or cancel planned meets, if not outright ghost you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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honestly I’d love to organise a social meet just to help a few get meet veri’d but it does always help, I’ve notice some people have a string of meet veri’s but never actually meet up, probably a few fake profiles to make the original look a little better |
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"I used to offer to meet lads for coffee for them to get verfied got cancelled by one lad 3 times so don't bother any more but good luck with the search
He must not have been well in the head to cancel on you lolly
Awe cheers his loss "
And many others now as well |
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"honestly I’d love to organise a social meet just to help a few get meet veri’d but it does always help, I’ve notice some people have a string of meet veri’s but never actually meet up, probably a few fake profiles to make the original look a little better "
i only meet new guys that dont have verifications not for fun just socials so u wrong there about the verifications |
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"I ran an experiment a few weeks ago and organised 7 coffee meets over a weekend to give lads their first verification. 2 showed up. Lol"
You would have been sick of coffee if they all did show up.
Think positive.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"honestly I’d love to organise a social meet just to help a few get meet veri’d but it does always help, I’ve notice some people have a string of meet veri’s but never actually meet up, probably a few fake profiles to make the original look a little better i only meet new guys that dont have verifications not for fun just socials so u wrong there about the verifications "
Well I’d be more than happy to meet someone as sexy as yourself  |
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I've helped people out with coffee meets in the past so that they could get verified, but it often blew up in my face. While some were just happy to get their first veri and take it from there, others (despite being told otherwise) took it as an indication of interest and started pestering for further meets. Then there are the serial Unlosers, who keep coming back on new profiles and asking to be reverified over and over again. If I can barely remember someone from a 20 minute conversation 5 years ago, I'm unlikely to reverify at this stage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems like so many nice and helpful ladies here who are actually willing to help an unverified guy! Hats off to you!
Have you got any advice for us in terms of getting that first meet? |
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By *ordalsMan
over a year ago
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"I've helped people out with coffee meets in the past so that they could get verified, but it often blew up in my face. While some were just happy to get their first veri and take it from there, others (despite being told otherwise) took it as an indication of interest and started pestering for further meets. Then there are the serial Unlosers, who keep coming back on new profiles and asking to be reverified over and over again. If I can barely remember someone from a 20 minute conversation 5 years ago, I'm unlikely to reverify at this stage."
Kudos to you for helping single men (we, the pariah of Fabswingers) verify. I for one would definitely welcome a nice, pleasant social meet and get that coveted green tick... Too bad coffee is shite almost everywhere  |
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By *isspafWoman
over a year ago
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"There's definitely a misconception that we women can click our fingers and have a line of men at our door... Reality I'd say is AT LEAST 50% of guys flake on or cancel planned meets, if not outright ghost you. "
Sooooo true!
I posted a status about this last weekend. In one week, 5 meets bailed/flaked on me. 3 were fun meets from guys I'd met before.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to offer to meet lads for coffee for them to get verfied got cancelled by one lad 3 times so don't bother any more but good luck with the search "
Ms Lolly unfortunately your filters are set so I cant request a coffee meet ... but rest assured I would turn up if for no other reason than to meet the person behind the great photos...100 out of 100 for time, effort & thought put in your photos...now about that coffee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Used to meet unverified here a long time ago. Met for a quick coffee and chat.they blank you when they get the vert for months.come crawling back when they cant get a meet and horny.now didnt join fab to help lads improve their profile.who has time for that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Still haven’t been able to get veri’d yet, but if one of you lovely fabbers would care to join my for a coffee somewhere I’m be gladly able to tell you when I will be free |
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