Yup.. Been there, done that and know plenty of others who have done it too  Having said that, it was with someone I trusted 100% to have my back, to put my safety before his own desires and who knew me intimately, not just in body, but in mind.
It can work wonderfully well as long as both parties are honest with each other and communicate. Where it tends to go wrong is that one party (usually the male) only sees the other as a stepping stone to getting party invites or that long-dreamed of mff, and the other party thinks they're in it as equals. I've had guys suggest setting up a couple profile to me after having met just once or twice... Major red flag!! Right up there with 'I can't wait to read my veri'. If the invites and veri are more important than the meet, you're not for me |
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Of course ppl get together and play as couples... once there is 100 percent trust and a good dynamic develops then why not. Have been playing together as a FWB couple for a short while now... and loving it. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Yup.. Been there, done that and know plenty of others who have done it too Having said that, it was with someone I trusted 100% to have my back, to put my safety before his own desires and who knew me intimately, not just in body, but in mind.
It can work wonderfully well as long as both parties are honest with each other and communicate. Where it tends to go wrong is that one party (usually the male) only sees the other as a stepping stone to getting party invites or that long-dreamed of mff, and the other party thinks they're in it as equals. I've had guys suggest setting up a couple profile to me after having met just once or twice... Major red flag!! Right up there with 'I can't wait to read my veri'. If the invites and veri are more important than the meet, you're not for me "
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"Yup.. Been there, done that and know plenty of others who have done it too Having said that, it was with someone I trusted 100% to have my back, to put my safety before his own desires and who knew me intimately, not just in body, but in mind.
It can work wonderfully well as long as both parties are honest with each other and communicate. Where it tends to go wrong is that one party (usually the male) only sees the other as a stepping stone to getting party invites or that long-dreamed of mff, and the other party thinks they're in it as equals. I've had guys suggest setting up a couple profile to me after having met just once or twice... Major red flag!! Right up there with 'I can't wait to read my veri'. If the invites and veri are more important than the meet, you're not for me "
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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Seems to be plenty...as long as the expectations are the same...problems could arise if one develops feelings and the other dosent....other then that its a win win i would think.. |
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