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over a year ago
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"Interview a lady for a position today
Just sent me her pics through fab not knowing who I was and looking fir a pic in return !
What to do
What to do"
Disguise yourself with a fake moustache and glasses? ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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It's a non-runner either way OP. If you're really an employer you know this. If you send her your pic, she knows who you are and you leave yourself open. If you offer her the job, she may suspect its for the wrong reasons and can always hold that over you. If you don't offer her the job, she may assume it's for the wrong reasons and accuse you of discrimination. |
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" this sounds like the beginning of a porno, go bash one out lad and stop dreaming "
That was my initial reaction too... And it probably is a fantasy. But when you think about the way most members tend to chat to people within their own geographical areas (as its more likely that you can meet them), it does increase the chances of you stumbling across someone you've met professionally, or even interviewed. It might not be as unlikely as you might think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" this sounds like the beginning of a porno, go bash one out lad and stop dreaming
That was my initial reaction too... And it probably is a fantasy. But when you think about the way most members tend to chat to people within their own geographical areas (as its more likely that you can meet them), it does increase the chances of you stumbling across someone you've met professionally, or even interviewed. It might not be as unlikely as you might think. "
Thats true, and only the Op himself knows if it happened or not . If it did i would agree with what has being said above - be careful as its a tricky situation |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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" this sounds like the beginning of a porno, go bash one out lad and stop dreaming
That was my initial reaction too... And it probably is a fantasy. But when you think about the way most members tend to chat to people within their own geographical areas (as its more likely that you can meet them), it does increase the chances of you stumbling across someone you've met professionally, or even interviewed. It might not be as unlikely as you might think. "
I think the likelihood of a female sending pics to a profile like the OPs is slim at best, especially in advance of him sending his,,, nah this belongs in the story section ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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" this sounds like the beginning of a porno, go bash one out lad and stop dreaming
That was my initial reaction too... And it probably is a fantasy. But when you think about the way most members tend to chat to people within their own geographical areas (as its more likely that you can meet them), it does increase the chances of you stumbling across someone you've met professionally, or even interviewed. It might not be as unlikely as you might think.
I think the likelihood of a female sending pics to a profile like the OPs is slim at best, especially in advance of him sending his,,, nah this belongs in the story section "
Why not? If he met her age preferences, etc., sent a decent first message and attached some good private photos it might get a conversation going. He might be a hidden hottie! ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
where the wild roses grow |
" this sounds like the beginning of a porno, go bash one out lad and stop dreaming
That was my initial reaction too... And it probably is a fantasy. But when you think about the way most members tend to chat to people within their own geographical areas (as its more likely that you can meet them), it does increase the chances of you stumbling across someone you've met professionally, or even interviewed. It might not be as unlikely as you might think.
I think the likelihood of a female sending pics to a profile like the OPs is slim at best, especially in advance of him sending his,,, nah this belongs in the story section
Why not? If he met her age preferences, etc., sent a decent first message and attached some good private photos it might get a conversation going. He might be a hidden hottie! "
According to the op
He hasn't sent pics yet |
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" this sounds like the beginning of a porno, go bash one out lad and stop dreaming
That was my initial reaction too... And it probably is a fantasy. But when you think about the way most members tend to chat to people within their own geographical areas (as its more likely that you can meet them), it does increase the chances of you stumbling across someone you've met professionally, or even interviewed. It might not be as unlikely as you might think.
I think the likelihood of a female sending pics to a profile like the OPs is slim at best, especially in advance of him sending his,,, nah this belongs in the story section
Why not? If he met her age preferences, etc., sent a decent first message and attached some good private photos it might get a conversation going. He might be a hidden hottie!
According to the op
He hasn't sent pics yet"
I assumed he meant a face pic. It's unlikely she would recognise a bare torso unless he interviewed her half naked ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
where the wild roses grow |
" this sounds like the beginning of a porno, go bash one out lad and stop dreaming
That was my initial reaction too... And it probably is a fantasy. But when you think about the way most members tend to chat to people within their own geographical areas (as its more likely that you can meet them), it does increase the chances of you stumbling across someone you've met professionally, or even interviewed. It might not be as unlikely as you might think.
I think the likelihood of a female sending pics to a profile like the OPs is slim at best, especially in advance of him sending his,,, nah this belongs in the story section
Why not? If he met her age preferences, etc., sent a decent first message and attached some good private photos it might get a conversation going. He might be a hidden hottie!
According to the op
He hasn't sent pics yet"
Having said that I'm sure he's an Adonis ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a non-runner either way OP. If you're really an employer you know this. If you send her your pic, she knows who you are and you leave yourself open. If you offer her the job, she may suspect its for the wrong reasons and can always hold that over you. If you don't offer her the job, she may assume it's for the wrong reasons and accuse you of discrimination. "
Mm very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a non-runner either way OP. If you're really an employer you know this. If you send her your pic, she knows who you are and you leave yourself open. If you offer her the job, she may suspect its for the wrong reasons and can always hold that over you. If you don't offer her the job, she may assume it's for the wrong reasons and accuse you of discrimination. "
Sound advice there. You want absolutely no connection to this woman if you value your job. Be nice and just say thank you for the pics they're lovely but just not for you.
Oh and if she does get the job...don't go there !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interview a lady for a position today
Just sent me her pics through fab not knowing who I was and looking fir a pic in return !
What to do
What to do"
my god what are the odds on that ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interview a lady for a position today
Just sent me her pics through fab not knowing who I was and looking fir a pic in return !
What to do
What to do
my god what are the odds on that "
A little to many I think ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I assumed he meant a face pic. It's unlikely she would recognise a bare torso unless he interviewed her half naked "
Wait... am I ment to have a top om interviewing people...ffs O thought that was only when I was tje interviewee |
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