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over a year ago
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But what does women really wants,you cant compliment them you can't say Hi" you can't say they're beautiful you can't say pleasantry comments you can't say pleasuring what is going on  |
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Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings. |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings. "
Whore?
I just want dinner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings. "
It's simple really, they don't care! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings. "
Key word TRUST 
Oh my dear I have to agree with you. Matured men behave sometimes worse than teenagers. I can even go further and say more respect given from teenagers and younger people than matured men. Mid 40's crisis maybe?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings.
Key word TRUST
Oh my dear I have to agree with you. Matured men behave sometimes worse than teenagers. I can even go further and say more respect given from teenagers and younger people than matured men. Mid 40's crisis maybe? "
I am so with you on that one!
That's why I've over 40s blocked completely. The amount of childish comments and abuse they come up with is impossible to process. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings. "
this exactly what is wrong,you said all this wants,but it as to start from somewhere,men can't give all the stuff you mentioned when women already said "men should stop sending her, you look amazing you look gorgeous you etc" you already short the door before a man can even say hello,we men are human also we need love |
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings.
Whore?
I just want dinner "
To all fairness I have had quite a few fab meets where cooking a nice dinner was part of a meet |
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings. this exactly what is wrong,you said all this wants,but it as to start from somewhere,men can't give all the stuff you mentioned when women already said "men should stop sending her, you look amazing you look gorgeous you etc" you already short the door before a man can even say hello,we men are human also we need love "
Here you go- you literally just ignored everything I said and are still sitting there scratching your box in wonder.
I dont want random people to say that I'm beautiful or sexy. I don't care what they think of how I look, as much as most women don't.
Compliment a woman on her wit and sense of humour, compliment her character, not the shape of her ass and tits. Do you really need someone to spell it out for you? |
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I've had enough life experience to know that the vast majority of the men on fab telling me how stunning I am wouldn't look twice at me in the street, it's easy to dismiss such obviously over the top words. I'd much rather be approached because something written on our profile or an exchange on the forums sparks an interest, we are much more likely to establish a connection that way. Someone pays me a compliment out of the blue, I just say thanks and that's that conversation over. |
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"I've had enough life experience to know that the vast majority of the men on fab telling me how stunning I am wouldn't look twice at me in the street, it's easy to dismiss such obviously over the top words. I'd much rather be approached because something written on our profile or an exchange on the forums sparks an interest, we are much more likely to establish a connection that way. Someone pays me a compliment out of the blue, I just say thanks and that's that conversation over. "
The whole argument about how you react to someone on the street is flawed and used on fab too much.
We dont walk around with our bits out in public. I dont think its that guys wouldnt look at you twice just we are subtler about it in day to day life.
If I was half as pervy in work as I am here Id be fired
Saying that I agree woth you about prefering to get a mail about something O have said than my pics |
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"I've had enough life experience to know that the vast majority of the men on fab telling me how stunning I am wouldn't look twice at me in the street, it's easy to dismiss such obviously over the top words. I'd much rather be approached because something written on our profile or an exchange on the forums sparks an interest, we are much more likely to establish a connection that way. Someone pays me a compliment out of the blue, I just say thanks and that's that conversation over.
The whole argument about how you react to someone on the street is flawed and used on fab too much.
We dont walk around with our bits out in public. I dont think its that guys wouldnt look at you twice just we are subtler about it in day to day life.
If I was half as pervy in work as I am here Id be fired
Saying that I agree woth you about prefering to get a mail about something O have said than my pics"
I disagree with the "subtle" part . |
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"I've had enough life experience to know that the vast majority of the men on fab telling me how stunning I am wouldn't look twice at me in the street, it's easy to dismiss such obviously over the top words. I'd much rather be approached because something written on our profile or an exchange on the forums sparks an interest, we are much more likely to establish a connection that way. Someone pays me a compliment out of the blue, I just say thanks and that's that conversation over. "
Well as you have the body of a 25 year old, I would say you are stunning on the street and in fab xx |
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I don't need smoke blown up my ass by someone who is pasting the same smoke to every mailbox online, and my bullshit detector is far too sensitive to be flattered by someone who messages me saying how amazing I am based on the 20 seconds it took to scroll through my public photos. Empty compliments from strangers are worth no more than a fab on a photo... A fleeting thing that only took the giver a nanosecond to do and has absolutely no reflection or bearing on your true worth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I actually don’t envy men on here at all. Looks like most like myself included don’t really bother starting the conversation. So men are left to the task of mind reading. They either do as OP has suggested and give a blanket compliment or they do as others suggest and use something from the profile. As a women I know my mood will change from one week to the next and totally depends on whether I like the profile sending it if I reply or not. Agree with missus but that trust is gained over time and most men on fab if it’s a first mail they only care about one thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they should just turn fab into Bumble and not let any men message first, put us out of our misery 
But where would we send our dick pics? "
To other men, they're the ones really interested in them!! |
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"I've had enough life experience to know that the vast majority of the men on fab telling me how stunning I am wouldn't look twice at me in the street, it's easy to dismiss such obviously over the top words. I'd much rather be approached because something written on our profile or an exchange on the forums sparks an interest, we are much more likely to establish a connection that way. Someone pays me a compliment out of the blue, I just say thanks and that's that conversation over.
The whole argument about how you react to someone on the street is flawed and used on fab too much.
We dont walk around with our bits out in public. I dont think its that guys wouldnt look at you twice just we are subtler about it in day to day life.
If I was half as pervy in work as I am here Id be fired
Saying that I agree woth you about prefering to get a mail about something O have said than my pics
I disagree with the "subtle" part . "
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"Maybe they should just turn fab into Bumble and not let any men message first, put us out of our misery "
I've pretty much done that for myself... Unless I'm taking part in a Forum discussion/challenge, my filters are on and I can't be contacted. I'm a proactive person. If someone catches my eye, I'll read their profile, and if it sounds like we're on the same page I'll drop them a mail myself. If I'm unsure from their profile whether I'm what they're looking for, I might find a more subtle way of getting their attention and sussing things out. It's worked pretty well for me so far  |
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"But what does women really wants,you cant compliment them you can't say Hi" you can't say they're beautiful you can't say pleasantry comments you can't say pleasuring what is going on "
women are complicated creatures pal. The easy peasy approach doesn't work with them. What you say to a woman in a pub club to get interacting with her more then likely wont work on here. Some have notions, want to be treated a special way, like a queen. Its bloody sex you're looking for, not to walk her down the aisle. To sum up, in huge amount of cases, men just see sex way differently to women. Myself for eg, I need physical attraction and a bubbly personality. Very straightforward. I put a post up on a diff thread recently about different things that put alot of women off on here, small petty things and its only the half of it |
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"Maybe they should just turn fab into Bumble and not let any men message first, put us out of our misery "
So what your suggesting is.......
Fumble
I like it |
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"Maybe they should just turn fab into Bumble and not let any men message first, put us out of our misery
I've pretty much done that for myself... Unless I'm taking part in a Forum discussion/challenge, my filters are on and I can't be contacted. I'm a proactive person. If someone catches my eye, I'll read their profile, and if it sounds like we're on the same page I'll drop them a mail myself. If I'm unsure from their profile whether I'm what they're looking for, I might find a more subtle way of getting their attention and sussing things out. It's worked pretty well for me so far "
you’re in the minority so..you need to get out and spread the word to the other ladies on this site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't need smoke blown up my ass by someone who is pasting the same smoke to every mailbox online, and my bullshit detector is far too sensitive to be flattered by someone who messages me saying how amazing I am based on the 20 seconds it took to scroll through my public photos. Empty compliments from strangers are worth no more than a fab on a photo... A fleeting thing that only took the giver a nanosecond to do and has absolutely no reflection or bearing on your true worth "
English please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings. this exactly what is wrong,you said all this wants,but it as to start from somewhere,men can't give all the stuff you mentioned when women already said "men should stop sending her, you look amazing you look gorgeous you etc" you already short the door before a man can even say hello,we men are human also we need love
Here you go- you literally just ignored everything I said and are still sitting there scratching your box in wonder.
I dont want random people to say that I'm beautiful or sexy. I don't care what they think of how I look, as much as most women don't.
Compliment a woman on her wit and sense of humour, compliment her character, not the shape of her ass and tits. Do you really need someone to spell it out for you? "
jeez i don't know what your character's are had only seen you lingerie pictures how would i compliment you on your character's when i haven't meet you,you haven't even said hello in return,i don't have to spell it out to you I guess? |
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings. this exactly what is wrong,you said all this wants,but it as to start from somewhere,men can't give all the stuff you mentioned when women already said "men should stop sending her, you look amazing you look gorgeous you etc" you already short the door before a man can even say hello,we men are human also we need love
Here you go- you literally just ignored everything I said and are still sitting there scratching your box in wonder.
I dont want random people to say that I'm beautiful or sexy. I don't care what they think of how I look, as much as most women don't.
Compliment a woman on her wit and sense of humour, compliment her character, not the shape of her ass and tits. Do you really need someone to spell it out for you? jeez i don't know what your character's are had only seen you lingerie pictures how would i compliment you on your character's when i haven't meet you,you haven't even said hello in return,i don't have to spell it out to you I guess?"
Ever tried reading actual profiles? It helps.. |
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings. this exactly what is wrong,you said all this wants,but it as to start from somewhere,men can't give all the stuff you mentioned when women already said "men should stop sending her, you look amazing you look gorgeous you etc" you already short the door before a man can even say hello,we men are human also we need love
Here you go- you literally just ignored everything I said and are still sitting there scratching your box in wonder.
I dont want random people to say that I'm beautiful or sexy. I don't care what they think of how I look, as much as most women don't.
Compliment a woman on her wit and sense of humour, compliment her character, not the shape of her ass and tits. Do you really need someone to spell it out for you? jeez i don't know what your character's are had only seen you lingerie pictures how would i compliment you on your character's when i haven't meet you,you haven't even said hello in return,i don't have to spell it out to you I guess?
Ever tried reading actual profiles? It helps.. "
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either! |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!"
most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart. "
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers |
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over a year ago
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart. "
Be attractive to the other person, don’t be an annoying twat. It’s really that simple |
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"I've had enough life experience to know that the vast majority of the men on fab telling me how stunning I am wouldn't look twice at me in the street, it's easy to dismiss such obviously over the top words. I'd much rather be approached because something written on our profile or an exchange on the forums sparks an interest, we are much more likely to establish a connection that way. Someone pays me a compliment out of the blue, I just say thanks and that's that conversation over. "
i think iwouldlook twice  , infact i have a neck problem from lookai g at women to much |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Be attractive to the other person, don’t be an annoying twat. It’s really that simple "
yes twat.. plenty around |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Be attractive to the other person, don’t be an annoying twat. It’s really that simple "
its not that simple and most know it. |
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It's not about giving girls what they want, it's about being yourself, letting girls know you're interested then leaving them alone.
Manipulating people is dead easy. Faking a good first impression is dead easy. But you will break their hearts, you will make them cry. People will blame themselves for you being cruel hearted.
Everyone should have learned when they were 15/16 that telling lies to get a bf/gf. It really hurts people.
So just be yourself, I get blocked by girls all the time for being myself, but I also get people who click better with me, like what i am offering contacting me all the time too. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Be attractive to the other person, don’t be an annoying twat. It’s really that simple "
we aren't on a date yet, we've just only sees a sneak peek of picture,and give a simple compliment,that wasn't even the point,why post men should stop saying "you look amazing or you look gorgeous, or I just wanted to say your pictures are beautiful" I'm not talking about been attractive to anyone,you don't have to be attractive to say "Hello" |
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"It's not about giving girls what they want, it's about being yourself, letting girls know you're interested then leaving them alone.
Manipulating people is dead easy. Faking a good first impression is dead easy. But you will break their hearts, you will make them cry. People will blame themselves for you being cruel hearted.
Everyone should have learned when they were 15/16 that telling lies to get a bf/gf. It really hurts people.
So just be yourself, I get blocked by girls all the time for being myself, but I also get people who click better with me, like what i am offering contacting me all the time too."
what as telling lies got to do with, asking people to stop giving you compliments?? |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers "
women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal. "
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? |
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings. "
This right here. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal. "
Tinder is more for realtionships and is what I use that for fab and nights out for casual encounters |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Tinder is more for realtionships and is what I use that for fab and nights out for casual encounters "
tinder Is more for relationships? What? |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? "
most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately. |
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"Maybe they should just turn fab into Bumble and not let any men message first, put us out of our misery "
I wonder how many first messages from women on Bumble. Are Hi lol |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? "
what about at the club or in the pub are women not cautious in picking up men in those places |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately. "
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. |
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"Women want to be made feel special, women want for someone to actually listen, women want to interact to men who don't complain about how they don't know what women want.
To make a woman want to feel like a whore she may be deep down inside you have to treat her like a lady and show that you actually care for her wants and needs. All the best things come from trust and trust is earned, not given.
Can't believe so many grown up men are still so puzzled by how to interact with other human beings.
This right here."
It's not puzzling at all, they simply lack empathy. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately.
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. "
very difficult to get a 100 % true reflection of somebody through a screen. Meeting somebody, whether male or female, you're taking a risk. The difference is men dont nit pick with a fine toothcomb in most scenarios. |
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"what as telling lies got to do with, asking people to stop giving you compliments?? "
Because when you change who you are to give a girl what you think she wants to get sex out of her, you're basically selling her a crock load of shit.
I just find the attitude of offering people what you think they want to get something out of them pathetic. I find the kik groups where they help each other tailor their approaches to women pathetic.
Compliment them if you want, if they dont want, leave them alone. Eventually you will find a girl that says "thanks handsome" back to you.
Anyway no point following my advice, im probably the most blocked guy on fab by single girls. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? what about at the club or in the pub are women not cautious in picking up men in those places"
It tends to be easier to read a person in a social setting, however given the amount of offers women get here, they are hardly going to meet them all for coffee just in case. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately.
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. very difficult to get a 100 % true reflection of somebody through a screen. Meeting somebody, whether male or female, you're taking a risk. The difference is men dont nit pick with a fine toothcomb in most scenarios. "
Probably because they are less cautious... |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? what about at the club or in the pub are women not cautious in picking up men in those places
It tends to be easier to read a person in a social setting, however given the amount of offers women get here, they are hardly going to meet them all for coffee just in case. I'm wasn't talking about meeting,I was talking about "complimentaries" "
No, you asked there about women being cautious in a club or a pub vs online. |
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"It tends to be easier to read a person in a social setting, however given the amount of offers women get here, they are hardly going to meet them all for coffee just in case. "
Couldn't have put it better! |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately.
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. very difficult to get a 100 % true reflection of somebody through a screen. Meeting somebody, whether male or female, you're taking a risk. The difference is men dont nit pick with a fine toothcomb in most scenarios.
Probably because they are less cautious... "
there is no need to be cautious when meeting somebody with plenty of other people around you. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately.
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. very difficult to get a 100 % true reflection of somebody through a screen. Meeting somebody, whether male or female, you're taking a risk. The difference is men dont nit pick with a fine toothcomb in most scenarios.
Probably because they are less cautious... there is no need to be cautious when meeting somebody with plenty of other people around you. "
And as I already pointed out above, with all the offers women get, they are hardly going to simply meet everyone who asks, so they do their ing out online.
It's not rocket science guys. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately.
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. very difficult to get a 100 % true reflection of somebody through a screen. Meeting somebody, whether male or female, you're taking a risk. The difference is men dont nit pick with a fine toothcomb in most scenarios.
Probably because they are less cautious... there is no need to be cautious when meeting somebody with plenty of other people around you.
And as I already pointed out above, with all the offers women get, they are hardly going to simply meet everyone who asks, so they do their ing out online.
It's not rocket science guys. "
I dont expect her to meet every guy for coffee but as I also said, men have a far more straightforward approach then women and it's nothing to do with meeting every woman who mails them for coffee. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately.
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. very difficult to get a 100 % true reflection of somebody through a screen. Meeting somebody, whether male or female, you're taking a risk. The difference is men dont nit pick with a fine toothcomb in most scenarios.
Probably because they are less cautious... there is no need to be cautious when meeting somebody with plenty of other people around you.
And as I already pointed out above, with all the offers women get, they are hardly going to simply meet everyone who asks, so they do their ing out online.
It's not rocket science guys. I dont expect her to meet every guy for coffee but as I also said, men have a far more straightforward approach then women and it's nothing to do with meeting every woman who mails them for coffee. "
Do you get many of those? |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately.
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. very difficult to get a 100 % true reflection of somebody through a screen. Meeting somebody, whether male or female, you're taking a risk. The difference is men dont nit pick with a fine toothcomb in most scenarios.
Probably because they are less cautious... there is no need to be cautious when meeting somebody with plenty of other people around you.
And as I already pointed out above, with all the offers women get, they are hardly going to simply meet everyone who asks, so they do their ing out online.
It's not rocket science guys. I dont expect her to meet every guy for coffee but as I also said, men have a far more straightforward approach then women and it's nothing to do with meeting every woman who mails them for coffee.
Do you get many of those? "
most women judge on petty little things where as men wouldn't bat an eyelid. Do I get coffee offers? No and thank God as I dont drink coffee. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately.
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. very difficult to get a 100 % true reflection of somebody through a screen. Meeting somebody, whether male or female, you're taking a risk. The difference is men dont nit pick with a fine toothcomb in most scenarios.
Probably because they are less cautious... there is no need to be cautious when meeting somebody with plenty of other people around you.
And as I already pointed out above, with all the offers women get, they are hardly going to simply meet everyone who asks, so they do their ing out online.
It's not rocket science guys. I dont expect her to meet every guy for coffee but as I also said, men have a far more straightforward approach then women and it's nothing to do with meeting every woman who mails them for coffee.
Do you get many of those? most women judge on petty little things where as men wouldn't bat an eyelid. Do I get coffee offers? No and thank God as I dont drink coffee."
So if you don't get any offers, how can you criticise those who do for being selective? |
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Ever wonder why so many “bi” men on fab?. They’re not really bi ; they just want sucked off in the next few days/weeks not 6 months . Women blab on about being treated politely, respectfully , nicely. So you do that , they ignore you and the next thing they get a veri from a guy who looks and sounds like a complete w@nker. No - women like bad boys, a bit of rough despite all their rantings and ravings about men just treating them as sex objects and how they wish they could meet a nice guy. Complete b0llocks. |
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"When it comes to who’s cock your goin to put in your mouth is anything really petty? "
Apparently not, you're supposed to just open up without question |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal. "
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately.
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. very difficult to get a 100 % true reflection of somebody through a screen. Meeting somebody, whether male or female, you're taking a risk. The difference is men dont nit pick with a fine toothcomb in most scenarios.
Probably because they are less cautious... there is no need to be cautious when meeting somebody with plenty of other people around you.
And as I already pointed out above, with all the offers women get, they are hardly going to simply meet everyone who asks, so they do their ing out online.
It's not rocket science guys. I dont expect her to meet every guy for coffee but as I also said, men have a far more straightforward approach then women and it's nothing to do with meeting every woman who mails them for coffee.
Do you get many of those? most women judge on petty little things where as men wouldn't bat an eyelid. Do I get coffee offers? No and thank God as I dont drink coffee.
So if you don't get any offers, how can you criticise those who do for being selective? "
you could ask the same question to alot of men I'd say. Very few women send an introductory mail on here. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Women tend to be more cautious about picking up total strangers on the Internet - why might that be? most women I find meet in a social setting first with plenty of other people around. You're not locked in a room one on one immediately.
No, but it seems sensible to out the non-runners online before bothering with a social meet. very difficult to get a 100 % true reflection of somebody through a screen. Meeting somebody, whether male or female, you're taking a risk. The difference is men dont nit pick with a fine toothcomb in most scenarios.
Probably because they are less cautious... there is no need to be cautious when meeting somebody with plenty of other people around you.
And as I already pointed out above, with all the offers women get, they are hardly going to simply meet everyone who asks, so they do their ing out online.
It's not rocket science guys. I dont expect her to meet every guy for coffee but as I also said, men have a far more straightforward approach then women and it's nothing to do with meeting every woman who mails them for coffee.
Do you get many of those? most women judge on petty little things where as men wouldn't bat an eyelid. Do I get coffee offers? No and thank God as I dont drink coffee.
So if you don't get any offers, how can you criticise those who do for being selective? you could ask the same question to alot of men I'd say. Very few women send an introductory mail on here."
I could but I'm asking you, since you're the one with apparently the biggest bee in your bonnet about the matter. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Omg am cracking up here "
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Tinder is more for realtionships and is what I use that for fab and nights out for casual encounters tinder Is more for relationships? What?"
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"most women judge on petty little things where as men wouldn't bat an eyelid."
Ahhh, but love is blind... You compromise on the little things over time for a lifetime of love with your partner, and may even come to find those things adorable in him or her... But you don't have that blindness with someone you chat with online do you?
It's the difference between being called babe by a complete stranger and by someone you love |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Omg am cracking up here what is cracking you up? "
The whole discussion is a loosing battle .. Women are outnumbered on this site so I don’t blame them for having strong filters to help. You should get a hold of a woman’s fab profile and you will see how they get bombarded with mails 100s (I have actually done this with a fem friend on fab) Woman have the power of choice on this site. Guys we just get what we can and we can’t help it because it’s the same in the real world. My advice is just get your head down, keep sending your mail and you will get lucky. I send mails alot and most times I get a “read and delete” fine no problem I move on.. and sometimes I don’t even go looking and I get a mail. So just be your self and pay attention to what they want.. and remember to put yourself in women’s shoes because we men can be beasts when we are horny |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Omg am cracking up here what is cracking you up?
The whole discussion is a loosing battle .. Women are outnumbered on this site so I don’t blame them for having strong filters to help. You should get a hold of a woman’s fab profile and you will see how they get bombarded with mails 100s (I have actually done this with a fem friend on fab) Woman have the power of choice on this site. Guys we just get what we can and we can’t help it because it’s the same in the real world. My advice is just get your head down, keep sending your mail and you will get lucky. I send mails alot and most times I get a “read and delete” fine no problem I move on.. and sometimes I don’t even go looking and I get a mail. So just be your self and pay attention to what they want.. and remember to put yourself in women’s shoes because we men can be beasts when we are horny "
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Omg am cracking up here what is cracking you up?
The whole discussion is a loosing battle .. Women are outnumbered on this site so I don’t blame them for having strong filters to help. You should get a hold of a woman’s fab profile and you will see how they get bombarded with mails 100s (I have actually done this with a fem friend on fab) Woman have the power of choice on this site. Guys we just get what we can and we can’t help it because it’s the same in the real world. My advice is just get your head down, keep sending your mail and you will get lucky. I send mails alot and most times I get a “read and delete” fine no problem I move on.. and sometimes I don’t even go looking and I get a mail. So just be your self and pay attention to what they want.. and remember to put yourself in women’s shoes because we men can be beasts when we are horny the post about women not wanting to be complimented northing to with meeting or sending msg."
Samething bro.  have u never head the word woman prerogative??
At the end of the day it’s their body their choice.
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Omg am cracking up here what is cracking you up?
The whole discussion is a loosing battle .. Women are outnumbered on this site so I don’t blame them for having strong filters to help. You should get a hold of a woman’s fab profile and you will see how they get bombarded with mails 100s (I have actually done this with a fem friend on fab) Woman have the power of choice on this site. Guys we just get what we can and we can’t help it because it’s the same in the real world. My advice is just get your head down, keep sending your mail and you will get lucky. I send mails alot and most times I get a “read and delete” fine no problem I move on.. and sometimes I don’t even go looking and I get a mail. So just be your self and pay attention to what they want.. and remember to put yourself in women’s shoes because we men can be beasts when we are horny "
Actually it's much better in the real world, where the global ratio is almost level at 102M per 100F.
Ireland however has more F than M, with 97.8M for every 100F.
So yes, women on Fab will likely feel that little bit more selective, as the ratio here is much more in their favour than in the "real" world.
However, regardless of ratio, every individual has what we refer to as personal choice/ preference and nobody should have any issues with that. |
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Omg am cracking up here what is cracking you up?
The whole discussion is a loosing battle .. Women are outnumbered on this site so I don’t blame them for having strong filters to help. You should get a hold of a woman’s fab profile and you will see how they get bombarded with mails 100s (I have actually done this with a fem friend on fab) Woman have the power of choice on this site. Guys we just get what we can and we can’t help it because it’s the same in the real world. My advice is just get your head down, keep sending your mail and you will get lucky. I send mails alot and most times I get a “read and delete” fine no problem I move on.. and sometimes I don’t even go looking and I get a mail. So just be your self and pay attention to what they want.. and remember to put yourself in women’s shoes because we men can be beasts when we are horny
Actually it's much better in the real world, where the global ratio is almost level at 102M per 100F.
Ireland however has more F than M, with 97.8M for every 100F.
So yes, women on Fab will likely feel that little bit more selective, as the ratio here is much more in their favour than in the "real" world.
However, regardless of ratio, every individual has what we refer to as personal choice/ preference and nobody should have any issues with that."
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Omg am cracking up here what is cracking you up?
The whole discussion is a loosing battle .. Women are outnumbered on this site so I don’t blame them for having strong filters to help. You should get a hold of a woman’s fab profile and you will see how they get bombarded with mails 100s (I have actually done this with a fem friend on fab) Woman have the power of choice on this site. Guys we just get what we can and we can’t help it because it’s the same in the real world. My advice is just get your head down, keep sending your mail and you will get lucky. I send mails alot and most times I get a “read and delete” fine no problem I move on.. and sometimes I don’t even go looking and I get a mail. So just be your self and pay attention to what they want.. and remember to put yourself in women’s shoes because we men can be beasts when we are horny "
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"I find it very strange that grown men need tips on how to speak to women
It’s the kinda thing if you have to ask you will never know.
Fun fact, women are actually all different and don’t all like the same thing either!most women in my exp on here are not straightforward. It would be easier get blood out of a stone. You take a man's approach to getting sex or wanting sex and a woman's, the 2 are worlds apart.
Could it just be you're not what they're looking for so you've precieved them to be difficult or awkward?
This isn't exactly dial a ride snickers women on here are difficult in large majorities. As I said compare a mans approach to a womans and u have your answer. Women judge on a bit of text speak, a bit of spelling error, location (even though you drive), very few are willing to take a chance on new people, instead telling them "go to a meet and greet". as I said before I use here for a bit of spare time fun on the forums but tinder is streets ahead for some casual fun. On here it's like you're preparing for a marriage proposal.
Omg am cracking up here what is cracking you up?
The whole discussion is a loosing battle .. Women are outnumbered on this site so I don’t blame them for having strong filters to help. You should get a hold of a woman’s fab profile and you will see how they get bombarded with mails 100s (I have actually done this with a fem friend on fab) Woman have the power of choice on this site. Guys we just get what we can and we can’t help it because it’s the same in the real world. My advice is just get your head down, keep sending your mail and you will get lucky. I send mails alot and most times I get a “read and delete” fine no problem I move on.. and sometimes I don’t even go looking and I get a mail. So just be your self and pay attention to what they want.. and remember to put yourself in women’s shoes because we men can be beasts when we are horny the post about women not wanting to be complimented northing to with meeting or sending msg.
Samething bro. have u never head the word woman prerogative??
At the end of the day it’s their body their choice.
What is it you want to change? "
Absolutely nothing, have a nice day |
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"I've had enough life experience to know that the vast majority of the men on fab telling me how stunning I am wouldn't look twice at me in the street, it's easy to dismiss such obviously over the top words. I'd much rather be approached because something written on our profile or an exchange on the forums sparks an interest, we are much more likely to establish a connection that way. Someone pays me a compliment out of the blue, I just say thanks and that's that conversation over. "
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