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Are you attracted to many on here or is it a case of scrapping the bottom of the barrel looking for that attraction? It's mostly aimed at men I suppose as with the choice women have, if they cant find people, there must be something wrong. also if you're attracted to people, do they reply to you? |
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I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select people |
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"Only message those that I am attracted to and never profiles that state I am not their preference. Easiest option really.do you find you're attracted to many on here?"
Not to loads no, see a pic a read a profile and take it from there really. |
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"I often wonder if a guy is messaging because he’s genuinely interested or because of the numbers game. "
Some of us actually enjoy the chat as well, it doesn’t have to lead to anything more..... well ok.... but you know what i mean, i find attitude a far greater attraction than what i can see on the profiles so i need to say hello anyway  |
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"Are you attracted to many on here or is it a case of scrapping the bottom of the barrel looking for that attraction? It's mostly aimed at men I suppose as with the choice women have, if they cant find people, there must be something wrong. also if you're attracted to people, do they reply to you?"
God I Hope the guys that do message me don’t think I’m the bottom of barrel! I only reply to my type of person then hope when swap pictures there is an attraction! I’d never meet someone I didn’t fancy and I’d hope the guy I’m meeting fancied me back not just cos he needed his hole  |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select people"
body pics? |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?"
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive would |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive would"
I mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk? |
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Attraction starts with the visuals as in profile pics and how a profile reads and either builds or diminishes from there. Their are loads of girls I am attracted to on here and I only message when a profile looks a read well and am genuinely interested. Lots get deleted straight off or no response others can be a few messages back and forth but not really going anywhere and getting breadcrum responses and a handful I have been chatting and having flirty banter with for a few weeks and will continue too till we hopefully get a meet as the distance issue comes into play a lot also. Your never going to be everyone's cup of tea whether your attracted to them or not but in answer to your question lots of hot ladies here I am attracted too  |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?"
Id talk to anyone...even you 
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat with |
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"Attraction starts with the visuals as in profile pics and how a profile reads and either builds or diminishes from there. Their are loads of girls I am attracted to on here and I only message when a profile looks a read well and am genuinely interested. Lots get deleted straight off or no response others can be a few messages back and forth but not really going anywhere and getting breadcrum responses and a handful I have been chatting and having flirty banter with for a few weeks and will continue too till we hopefully get a meet as the distance issue comes into play a lot also. Your never going to be everyone's cup of tea whether your attracted to them or not but in answer to your question lots of hot ladies here I am attracted too "
Their-there, balls that's me blacklisted by about 5 girls already  |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat with"
I dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting. |
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"I often wonder if a guy is messaging because he’s genuinely interested or because of the numbers game. "
I wonder same with majority of messages I get and that's not many |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting. "
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting people |
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over a year ago
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive would"
This |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting people"
through a screen? whatever floats your boat  |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat "
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level. |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level."
Agreed... you can get a fair idea of what people are like from their interactions on the forum |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level."
forum posts are totally different then talking to someone privately who you have no interest in meeting. |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level.
Agreed... you can get a fair idea of what people are like from their interactions on the forum"
that's actually untrue as people have stated here in the past from meeting the said people at meet and greetd etc. |
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Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat "
I dont see how conversing woth someone through a screen affects how interesting a conversation is.
I prefer to text my "real life" friends than chat on the phone too.
As you have said many times if you have other means of social interaction and meeting people for causual sex then fab can be used to talk on forums etc....
I have had some really stimulating(not that way ye pervs) conversations on here or with people from here on other apps |
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Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
I dont see how conversing woth someone through a screen affects how interesting a conversation is.
I prefer to text my "real life" friends than chat on the phone too.
As you have said many times if you have other means of social interaction and meeting people for causual sex then fab can be used to talk on forums etc....
I have had some really stimulating(not that way ye pervs) conversations on here or with people from here on other apps"
I just have my real life friends as friends. I just dont understand why somebody would sign up here looking for fun, but chat to people privately that they dont want to meet. Is it like a pen pal scenario? |
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Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
I dont see how conversing woth someone through a screen affects how interesting a conversation is.
I prefer to text my "real life" friends than chat on the phone too.
As you have said many times if you have other means of social interaction and meeting people for causual sex then fab can be used to talk on forums etc....
I have had some really stimulating(not that way ye pervs) conversations on here or with people from here on other appsI just have my real life friends as friends. I just dont understand why somebody would sign up here looking for fun, but chat to people privately that they dont want to meet. Is it like a pen pal scenario?"
Don't see what the big deal is if people want to chat away here leave them to it. Not all of us are graced with loads of friends etc so can be a nice distraction to chat here to people that you might never meet. What harm is it doing? |
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I’m a chatter. I chat here and elsewhere with loads of people I’m not going to meet for a variety of reasons, no physical attraction, distance, whatever, but I enjoy chatting with them cos they are interesting or funny or kind or sweet or a combination of all four. I like that I have virtual friends who are a little different and far more open than a lot of my real life pals  |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level.
Agreed... you can get a fair idea of what people are like from their interactions on the forumthat's actually untrue as people have stated here in the past from meeting the said people at meet and greetd etc. "
Maybe i should clarify... I was referring to how you can tell exactly who you don't want to interact with from peoples conduct in the forums. Handy way to guage for block list |
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Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
I dont see how conversing woth someone through a screen affects how interesting a conversation is.
I prefer to text my "real life" friends than chat on the phone too.
As you have said many times if you have other means of social interaction and meeting people for causual sex then fab can be used to talk on forums etc....
I have had some really stimulating(not that way ye pervs) conversations on here or with people from here on other appsI just have my real life friends as friends. I just dont understand why somebody would sign up here looking for fun, but chat to people privately that they dont want to meet. Is it like a pen pal scenario?
Don't see what the big deal is if people want to chat away here leave them to it. Not all of us are graced with loads of friends etc so can be a nice distraction to chat here to people that you might never meet. What harm is it doing? "
I never said it was doing any harm. Talking on forums is diff. That's what they're for. |
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I only ever message if i feel some sort of attraction or possible attraction from the pics on their profile, or on the odd occasion I’ll message if what’s in their bio interests me. |
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Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
I dont see how conversing woth someone through a screen affects how interesting a conversation is.
I prefer to text my "real life" friends than chat on the phone too.
As you have said many times if you have other means of social interaction and meeting people for causual sex then fab can be used to talk on forums etc....
I have had some really stimulating(not that way ye pervs) conversations on here or with people from here on other appsI just have my real life friends as friends. I just dont understand why somebody would sign up here looking for fun, but chat to people privately that they dont want to meet. Is it like a pen pal scenario?"
Simply because they can. Maybe some ppl just like the one one chats. Forums are not the easiest of places to converse with such big characters trolls etc. While the site is initially a swing site ppl use it in whatever why it's suits them too and I dont see the problem.. |
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"I dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting. "
That's because you only have your own perspective to look from. By chatting to people I will probably never get to meet about a multitude of subjects, I get a range of insights into all manner of life experiences and perspectives. Each person I chat with either online or offline broadens my horizons just that little bit more, and every day teaches me something new. If a Forum topic piques my interest I'll most likely chat with the person in pm about it rather than hijack their thread with my own posts and opinions and maybe risk putting others off expressing theirs  |
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"I dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
That's because you only have your own perspective to look from. By chatting to people I will probably never get to meet about a multitude of subjects, I get a range of insights into all manner of life experiences and perspectives. Each person I chat with either online or offline broadens my horizons just that little bit more, and every day teaches me something new. If a Forum topic piques my interest I'll most likely chat with the person in pm about it rather than hijack their thread with my own posts and opinions and maybe risk putting others off expressing theirs "
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level.
Agreed... you can get a fair idea of what people are like from their interactions on the forumthat's actually untrue as people have stated here in the past from meeting the said people at meet and greetd etc.
Maybe i should clarify... I was referring to how you can tell exactly who you don't want to interact with from peoples conduct in the forums. Handy way to guage for block list"
I dont agree. Some people can be downright nasty to others alrite but some just portray different spectrums on the forum and give their point of view. Might be different in large numbers but they could be lovely in person. I would never judge somebody from the forums. |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level.forum posts are totally different then talking to someone privately who you have no interest in meeting. "
Cant see the difference in chatting privately here or on forums.surely the person is going to the same in both. |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level.forum posts are totally different then talking to someone privately who you have no interest in meeting.
Cant see the difference in chatting privately here or on forums.surely the person is going to the same in both."
a forum is just that, where threads are put up and the topic is commented on. That's what a forum is. If a man signs up here for casual sex, why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Can only be a penpal type scenario. |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level.forum posts are totally different then talking to someone privately who you have no interest in meeting.
Cant see the difference in chatting privately here or on forums.surely the person is going to the same in both.a forum is just that, where threads are put up and the topic is commented on. That's what a forum is. If a man signs up here for casual sex, why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Can only be a penpal type scenario. "
But what ur actally doing is chatting on forums believe it or believe it not.ur engaging in different topics with many people.that is a interaction in itself forums or no forums. |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level.forum posts are totally different then talking to someone privately who you have no interest in meeting.
Cant see the difference in chatting privately here or on forums.surely the person is going to the same in both.a forum is just that, where threads are put up and the topic is commented on. That's what a forum is. If a man signs up here for casual sex, why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Can only be a penpal type scenario.
But what ur actally doing is chatting on forums believe it or believe it not.ur engaging in different topics with many people.that is a interaction in itself forums or no forums. "
lol that's what a forum is for. That's the idea of a forum. |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level.forum posts are totally different then talking to someone privately who you have no interest in meeting.
Cant see the difference in chatting privately here or on forums.surely the person is going to the same in both.a forum is just that, where threads are put up and the topic is commented on. That's what a forum is. If a man signs up here for casual sex, why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Can only be a penpal type scenario.
But what ur actally doing is chatting on forums believe it or believe it not.ur engaging in different topics with many people.that is a interaction in itself forums or no forums. lol that's what a forum is for. That's the idea of a forum."
So I make my point again chatting here on forums or privately is no different.
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level.forum posts are totally different then talking to someone privately who you have no interest in meeting.
Cant see the difference in chatting privately here or on forums.surely the person is going to the same in both.a forum is just that, where threads are put up and the topic is commented on. That's what a forum is. If a man signs up here for casual sex, why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Can only be a penpal type scenario.
But what ur actally doing is chatting on forums believe it or believe it not.ur engaging in different topics with many people.that is a interaction in itself forums or no forums. lol that's what a forum is for. That's the idea of a forum.
So I make my point again chatting here on forums or privately is no different.
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its very different when your intention is to meet people for casual sex. Forums are where topics are commented on, private mail is where you talk to people who you hopefully get on with and have some sexual fun. |
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"I message people at the start not because I am attracted to them but because they imterest me ot r have said something funny/insightful on the forum/updates or profiles.
Very few people have face pics up which is what confirms an attraction for me. So I have to use other means to select peoplebody pics?
A body piv will rarely put me off.. but a face I dont find attractive wouldI mean if she has body pics up and you don't like, would you still talk?
Id talk to anyone...even you
As I said if they posted something that caught my attention and I think we would have an interesting chat Id message attraction or not.
Dosent mean i want to meet everyone I chat withI dont get why anyone would chat privately on here with somebody they have no interest in meeting.
Not sure what to tell you I like interacting with interesting peoplethrough a screen? whatever floats your boat
Is posting on numerous forum threads not interacting with people at some level.forum posts are totally different then talking to someone privately who you have no interest in meeting.
Cant see the difference in chatting privately here or on forums.surely the person is going to the same in both.a forum is just that, where threads are put up and the topic is commented on. That's what a forum is. If a man signs up here for casual sex, why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Can only be a penpal type scenario.
But what ur actally doing is chatting on forums believe it or believe it not.ur engaging in different topics with many people.that is a interaction in itself forums or no forums. lol that's what a forum is for. That's the idea of a forum.
So I make my point again chatting here on forums or privately is no different.
its very different when your intention is to meet people for casual sex. Forums are where topics are commented on, private mail is where you talk to people who you hopefully get on with and have some sexual fun."
people you're interested in having fun with unless of course you like the anonymous penpal type scenario |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail."
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them. |
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"Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them."
that applies to everyone but again you'll only chat to them privately if something attracts you to them in the first place. If you think " I'm not into this person at all" and you're interested in casual sex, why privately chat to them. The only reason many wont post on forums is they're afraid give their opinion incase, God forbid it caused confrontation.
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"U will see alot of guys who have on there profiles not fussed on looks age etc so to me they dont care who they fuck.
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"Tbf I do wonder how many lads who message are actually attracted to me or is it on occasion a “ten to two” call up scenario iykwim  "
Mrs Bash, have you seen yourself?
I'd eat you like my momma made it any time of the day |
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over a year ago
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"Tbf I do wonder how many lads who message are actually attracted to me or is it on occasion a “ten to two” call up scenario iykwim
Mrs Bash, have you seen yourself?
I'd eat you like my momma made it any time of the day "
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"Are you attracted to many on here or is it a case of scrapping the bottom of the barrel looking for that attraction? It's mostly aimed at men I suppose as with the choice women have, if they cant find people, there must be something wrong. also if you're attracted to people, do they reply to you?"
far from scrapping the bottom of the barrel in my opinion considering i met my other half on here and plan on marrying her next year. |
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"Tbf I do wonder how many lads who message are actually attracted to me or is it on occasion a “ten to two” call up scenario iykwim
Mrs Bash, have you seen yourself?
I'd eat you like my momma made it any time of the day "
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail."
He does it because he likes to interact with people and just vecause its a swinging site he can do that with out planning on sticking his dick into the other person.
He has also explained thidls numerous times now.
He is also very much enjoying speaking in the third person |
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"Are you attracted to many on here or is it a case of scrapping the bottom of the barrel looking for that attraction? It's mostly aimed at men I suppose as with the choice women have, if they cant find people, there must be something wrong. also if you're attracted to people, do they reply to you?
far from scrapping the bottom of the barrel in my opinion considering i met my other half on here and plan on marrying her next year. "
send my invite through here |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
He does it because he likes to interact with people and just vecause its a swinging site he can do that with out planning on sticking his dick into the other person.
He has also explained thidls numerous times now.
He is also very much enjoying speaking in the third person"
do you like interacting with people in the pub, outta curiosity? |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
He does it because he likes to interact with people and just vecause its a swinging site he can do that with out planning on sticking his dick into the other person.
He has also explained thidls numerous times now.
He is also very much enjoying speaking in the third persondo you like interacting with people in the pub, outta curiosity?"
Not a big fan of pubs/clubs but I have no issue interacting woth people in work, sports teams I play/coach on, charities I am involved in. Basically I am a functioning member of sociaty |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
He does it because he likes to interact with people and just vecause its a swinging site he can do that with out planning on sticking his dick into the other person.
He has also explained thidls numerous times now.
He is also very much enjoying speaking in the third persondo you like interacting with people in the pub, outta curiosity?
Not a big fan of pubs/clubs but I have no issue interacting woth people in work, sports teams I play/coach on, charities I am involved in. Basically I am a functioning member of sociaty"
u play/coach sport. Fair play to ya. |
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"Are you attracted to many on here or is it a case of scrapping the bottom of the barrel looking for that attraction? It's mostly aimed at men I suppose as with the choice women have, if they cant find people, there must be something wrong. also if you're attracted to people, do they reply to you?
far from scrapping the bottom of the barrel in my opinion considering i met my other half on here and plan on marrying her next year. send my invite through here "
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"Are you attracted to many on here or is it a case of scrapping the bottom of the barrel looking for that attraction? It's mostly aimed at men I suppose as with the choice women have, if they cant find people, there must be something wrong. also if you're attracted to people, do they reply to you?
far from scrapping the bottom of the barrel in my opinion considering i met my other half on here and plan on marrying her next year. send my invite through here
meh"
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"Tbf I do wonder how many lads who message are actually attracted to me or is it on occasion a “ten to two” call up scenario iykwim
Mrs Bash, have you seen yourself?
I'd eat you like my momma made it any time of the day "
Aww, thank you, you’re so sweet and gorgeous |
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I’d say the chance that someone I’m interested in on here shared the same level of interest is slim. Then where interests are concerned it drops again. Just because there is a favourable ratio doesn’t mean we all have the same likes, dislikes, wants from a meet. |
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"Are you attracted to many on here or is it a case of scrapping the bottom of the barrel looking for that attraction? It's mostly aimed at men I suppose as with the choice women have, if they cant find people, there must be something wrong. also if you're attracted to people, do they reply to you?"
I do not send message first but reply if found person interesting...
I agree there is something wrong...with me I guess
No moaning just saying
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"Are you attracted to many on here or is it a case of scrapping the bottom of the barrel looking for that attraction? It's mostly aimed at men I suppose as with the choice women have, if they cant find people, there must be something wrong. also if you're attracted to people, do they reply to you?
I do not send message first but reply if found person interesting...
I agree there is something wrong...with me I guess
No moaning just saying
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I'm same smokey I never send a first message and I reply to any I get whether it's to chat or say I'm not interested. |
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"I’d say the chance that someone I’m interested in on here shared the same level of interest is slim. Then where interests are concerned it drops again. Just because there is a favourable ratio doesn’t mean we all have the same likes, dislikes, wants from a meet. "
women are alot fussier and I dont mean looks at all.
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I always wonder about the guys that message with something like “omg you are so hot” or they noticed my profile , when I have no pictures on public display , so I guess it’s the same message goes out to everyone to see who bites |
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"I’d say the chance that someone I’m interested in on here shared the same level of interest is slim. Then where interests are concerned it drops again. Just because there is a favourable ratio doesn’t mean we all have the same likes, dislikes, wants from a meet. women are alot fussier and I dont mean looks at all."
Okay! I'm fussy woman. Full stop  This explains everything |
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"I always wonder about the guys that message with something like “omg you are so hot” or they noticed my profile , when I have no pictures on public display , so I guess it’s the same message goes out to everyone to see who bites "
Yes. Its a copy/ paste template message sent everyday... Ha! I even noticed few just sent me the same message few weeks after the 1st one... |
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"I always wonder about the guys that message with something like “omg you are so hot” or they noticed my profile , when I have no pictures on public display , so I guess it’s the same message goes out to everyone to see who bites
Yes. Its a copy/ paste template message sent everyday... Ha! I even noticed few just sent me the same message few weeks after the 1st one... "
And guys sending the same message and pictures for years |
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I think you can pick the ones out of mails that are even half interested from the copy and paste mails.
As far as chatting in pm with people you are not interested in... My opinion for what it's worth, if you use this site for more than a "sex site" and you are interested in the lifestyle and everything that comes with it then what is the harm in chatting to people whether it will lead to play or not. We have made lots of friends here... Male, female, couples, tv/ts... We won't have interest in all of them or them us but a polite conversation isn't going to harm anyone and it makes the social part of this crazy fabworld alot more fun.
Also as far as people being different on forums than pms.... Everyone is entitled to their opinions and I enjoy reading the forums and various debates.... But if someone is constantly going around the forums trying to shit stir it would definitely turn me off no matter what they are like in person/pm
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them."
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? "
sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers. |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers. "
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? |
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I have never messaged anyone I didn't think I would have fun with. Don't see the point of it otherwise. Mutual attraction makes everything a lot more fun. |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? "
I'm on a gaa forum site also, thats what forums are for. If I'm interested in somebody, it might not always go somewhere but if I have an interest, I'll privately mail them. |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? "
airs and graces meaning parties, meets and greets, making friends etc |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? airs and graces meaning parties, meets and greets, making friends etc"
Ah, ok. Understand now |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? airs and graces meaning parties, meets and greets, making friends etc
Ah, ok. Understand now "
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? airs and graces meaning parties, meets and greets, making friends etc
Ah, ok. Understand now basically when I signed up it was sex and sex only. "
But you got drawn in by the forums?
I fell into this trap 3yrs ago I think and still haven't found a way out, as most here know.
I often think it's the reason a lot of leavers return and feck all to do with sex. Who knew? |
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Lots of people scrape the barrel definitely. Women are lucky on here. I have friends and acquaintances and some people who just want sex and don't care once they get it. One guy I chatted about this with said what he looks for when horny verses what he looks for dating women are very different things even just from a physical attraction stand point. |
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"Lots of people scrape the barrel definitely. Women are lucky on here. I have friends and acquaintances and some people who just want sex and don't care once they get it. One guy I chatted about this with said what he looks for when horny verses what he looks for dating women are very different things even just from a physical attraction stand point. "
Add the alcohol factor to that too |
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"One guy I chatted about this with said what he looks for when horny verses what he looks for dating women are very different things even just from a physical attraction stand point. "
probably lowers the looks standards.
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? airs and graces meaning parties, meets and greets, making friends etc
Ah, ok. Understand now basically when I signed up it was sex and sex only. "
No the site was never sex only snickers.... I've been around awhile too you know and others too will tell the same... The Irish swing is alot about community |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? airs and graces meaning parties, meets and greets, making friends etc
Ah, ok. Understand now basically when I signed up it was sex and sex only.
No the site was never sex only snickers.... I've been around awhile too you know and others too will tell the same... The Irish swing is alot about community "
and alot also sign up her and want just sex. They don't give 2 hoots about swinging. |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? airs and graces meaning parties, meets and greets, making friends etc
Ah, ok. Understand now basically when I signed up it was sex and sex only.
No the site was never sex only snickers.... I've been around awhile too you know and others too will tell the same... The Irish swing is alot about community and alot also sign up her and want just sex. They don't give 2 hoots about swinging. "
Why join a swing site though? Join something more tailored for singles to have sex on? I joined here because I had an interest in swinging so a swing site seemed the logical place to go |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? airs and graces meaning parties, meets and greets, making friends etc
Ah, ok. Understand now basically when I signed up it was sex and sex only.
No the site was never sex only snickers.... I've been around awhile too you know and others too will tell the same... The Irish swing is alot about community and alot also sign up her and want just sex. They don't give 2 hoots about swinging.
Why join a swing site though? Join something more tailored for singles to have sex on? I joined here because I had an interest in swinging so a swing site seemed the logical place to go"
because as many are told, it's a free site where you pick up no strings fun. In reality it makes sense as you shouldn't have to go too parties and meet and greets to be successful. |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? airs and graces meaning parties, meets and greets, making friends etc
Ah, ok. Understand now basically when I signed up it was sex and sex only.
No the site was never sex only snickers.... I've been around awhile too you know and others too will tell the same... The Irish swing is alot about community and alot also sign up her and want just sex. They don't give 2 hoots about swinging.
Why join a swing site though? Join something more tailored for singles to have sex on? I joined here because I had an interest in swinging so a swing site seemed the logical place to gobecause as many are told, it's a free site where you pick up no strings fun. In reality it makes sense as you shouldn't have to go too parties and meet and greets to be successful. "
Parties are great though, especially for someone interested in sex, as that's where alot takes place and there's multiple people and partners to explore.
Ya if you don't want to go to them don't but don't bash them. I just think if you don't try to get involved on some level you'll not go far and whinging on the forums casts a negative light on your from potential meets
Just my two cents |
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"why would he chat to somebody he has no interest in that regard? Should of added, In private mail.
Some people prefer interacting with others on private mail for many reasons
Threads being hijacked
Posts being taking up the wrong way
Not every one is comfortable posting on forums
Some people like to get to k how someone a little before they jump in to bed with them.
Fully agree with this and Hotsy Totsy's previous post.
Penpal scenario? No, it's just chatting. Doesn't have to go any further than the topic of the PM at all, so no requirement for each to continue chatting.
Or they may wander off, waxing lyrically with each other about various topics and they don't need to be interested in jumping into bed together to do so.
Lordy this adult world is amazing, isn't it? sounds like me chatting to friends about everyday topics . Upforfun hit the nail for me. I viewed it originally as a site for sex. Not interested in the other airs and Grace's it offers.
Then are you not contradicting your view by engaging in the forums, chatting/ discussing topics with others, rather than sticking to direct messaging? airs and graces meaning parties, meets and greets, making friends etc
Ah, ok. Understand now basically when I signed up it was sex and sex only.
No the site was never sex only snickers.... I've been around awhile too you know and others too will tell the same... The Irish swing is alot about community and alot also sign up her and want just sex. They don't give 2 hoots about swinging.
Why join a swing site though? Join something more tailored for singles to have sex on? I joined here because I had an interest in swinging so a swing site seemed the logical place to gobecause as many are told, it's a free site where you pick up no strings fun. In reality it makes sense as you shouldn't have to go too parties and meet and greets to be successful.
Parties are great though, especially for someone interested in sex, as that's where alot takes place and there's multiple people and partners to explore.
Ya if you don't want to go to them don't but don't bash them. I just think if you don't try to get involved on some level you'll not go far and whinging on the forums casts a negative light on your from potential meets
Just my two cents "
there has been plenty of people over time on here openly admitted to never wanting too attend a meet and greet nor never will and were successful but the vast array of new lads signing up now are told most of the time "attend a meet and greet". Very few women want to take the one to one chance. |
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