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When "just Fab friends" is not enough anymore
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Share your story about a Fab friend that in time wanted more than "just filthy play".
Tell us about that time, when "just Fab friends" wasn't enough anymore.
Someone that you like and enjoy playing together, but who wants a bit more from your Fab "relationship"  ! |
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"Don’t really think that’s considering the other persons feelings. Especially if they’re still on the site. "
I am sure that it can be told, not in a "kiss and tell" manner and without hurting anyone's feelings.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t really think that’s considering the other persons feelings. Especially if they’re still on the site.
I am sure that it can be told, not in a "kiss and tell" manner and without hurting anyone's feelings.
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Look forward to reading how you do it so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look forward to reading how you do it so
Or you can be the first one to share ! "
Rather not considering it’s a public forum and I’m not a heartless bitch |
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"Sounds like your looking for a story. Who knows where this story will end up? I'd want total discretion from anyone I meet here. So, I'll not kiss and tell. "
The story ends up here in this private forum, for the other Fab users to read, as everything else on this forum. |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Sounds like your looking for a story. Who knows where this story will end up? I'd want total discretion from anyone I meet here. So, I'll not kiss and tell.
The story ends up here in this private forum, for the other Fab users to read, as everything else on this forum."
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Ah come on we’ve all had stories to tell on this forum . Why is everyone being so hard on the op ? I’ve seen loads of people sharing stories on here , that doesn’t mean they’re nasty or bitchy stories , usually they’re funny and ironic . |
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"Ah come on we’ve all had stories to tell on this forum . Why is everyone being so hard on the op ? I’ve seen loads of people sharing stories on here , that doesn’t mean they’re nasty or bitchy stories , usually they’re funny and ironic . "
That's exactly, what my initial intentions were with my post , thank you Pony !
I was chatting to someone, few days ago on Fab and I was told that after few play meets, one of them realised that the "play" wasn't enough anymore.
The problem is that one of them is married with kids.
So they have to deal with that aspect of their Fab relationship now, as well.
While they have an amazing strong relationship still, what started as NSA fun, ended up to be a much more complex relationship.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with both sides:
Wouldn't want to write a story about someone developing more feelings than me and have them recognize themselves in it. That just wouldn't be nice.
But yes, for somewhat sharing experiences it would be quite insightful.
Long long time ago I used to have a fwb, not fab related, we were seeing each other for a few years, I had feelings for him, but didn't want to ruin our friendship so never said anything. Eventually we parted ways anyway, met a year later for a drink and he admitted that that whole time he was mad in love with me and never said a word in case I would get scared and run away from him.
Looking back now - think we both done a right thing by not saying anything to each other as our both future goals were completely different and we would have just complicated our own lives for no good purpose. |
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"Ah come on we’ve all had stories to tell on this forum . Why is everyone being so hard on the op ? I’ve seen loads of people sharing stories on here , that doesn’t mean they’re nasty or bitchy stories , usually they’re funny and ironic . "
Didn’t think was being hard on him at all I thought he might of had a story to tell about himself maybe. Did say welcomed hearing it |
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"Ah come on we’ve all had stories to tell on this forum . Why is everyone being so hard on the op ? I’ve seen loads of people sharing stories on here , that doesn’t mean they’re nasty or bitchy stories , usually they’re funny and ironic .
That's exactly, what my initial intentions were with my post , thank you Pony !
I was chatting to someone, few days ago on Fab and I was told that after few play meets, one of them realised that the "play" wasn't enough anymore.
The problem is that one of them is married with kids.
So they have to deal with that aspect of their Fab relationship now, as well.
While they have an amazing strong relationship still, what started as NSA fun, ended up to be a much more complex relationship.
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I’ve got a really funny story , but I’m so tired I’m going to lapse into a semi coma any minute , so I’ll find this thread tomorrow and share  |
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I had a gorgeous fwb on here. It was going great until jealousy kicked in. In between our meets she would notice I was online and asked me why. I said I was just looking around , checking messages etc. But because she could only meet maybe once every 2 months, yes I was looking elsewhere too but she evidently wanted me to be exclusive. She had always said we were both free to look around but it had got to the point where for her that was no longer true. All of a sudden I got messaged from other ( new) profiles. I soon worked out it was her trying to see If i would meet someone else. It got messy. She denied it was her. One one occasion she wanted to meet on a certain day but I said I couldn’t as a relative from Scotland was visiting. Next day I got a message from another profile asking if I wanted to meet. I said I couldn’t . Other profile said , sorry just remembered u told me about your Scottish relative. I hadn’t told this other profile, only my fwb. The stalking continued as did the new fake profiles. Had to block eventually |
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I don't think I ever had a friendship where we had to have a conversation about where things were heading. If I'm happy to spend more time with someone and he's happy to spend more time with me, it just happens, a natural evolution. Our bubble and bond just gets that bit stronger. Doesn't have any impact on other friendships or relationships  |
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It has happened me a few times. People catch feelings and I really don't know how to deal with it. I'm quite an apathetic person and there's no way I can say "I don't like you like that" that doesn't make me seem like a hurtful person. It's my intention to be nice, but I like being single. Not going into specifics as I don't know if any of them still use the site. Would be a good thread to start on Reddit... |
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