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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, im new here and the problem i find with this site is thus...as my title suggests it’s exactly like applying for a job, if you have no “experience “ ie verifications, you’re a lost cause, if you have to many, you’re “over qualified “ how exactly does one go about getting into this properly? Social meets? Likewise, being a single male seems to be a detriment, unfortunately there’s so many of us (and going by other people’s experience, the majority are.....for simplicity’s sake lets just say overly pushy and aggressive). I’ve tried a few sites and this seems to be the best but it’s definitely got a very cliquey mentality which is hard to get in. I’d consider myself a genuine guy, just looking for some nsa fun but it’s very hard to get past all the aforementioned things. (Ps, im new here so dont know if I should keep topics to a shorter level or if this is ok) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, im new here and the problem i find with this site is thus...as my title suggests it’s exactly like applying for a job, if you have no “experience “ ie verifications, you’re a lost cause, if you have to many, you’re “over qualified “ how exactly does one go about getting into this properly? Social meets? Likewise, being a single male seems to be a detriment, unfortunately there’s so many of us (and going by other people’s experience, the majority are.....for simplicity’s sake lets just say overly pushy and aggressive). I’ve tried a few sites and this seems to be the best but it’s definitely got a very cliquey mentality which is hard to get in. I’d consider myself a genuine guy, just looking for some nsa fun but it’s very hard to get past all the aforementioned things. (Ps, im new here so dont know if I should keep topics to a shorter level or if this is ok)"
For a start you need pics on your profile and more info to apply for the job and every application needs a passport pic so put one on you avatar |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Oh i get that but for people like me that have multiple distinguishing tattoos, my only option is arse or penis and that also seems to be an issue, im a private person so don’t want to have public pics but i do have private ones that im willing to send to people that I choose to message but it’s like as soon as someone see’s no proper avatar its just unacknowledged, wven if you send a respectful (i.e no cock) pic in initial messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh i get that but for people like me that have multiple distinguishing tattoos, my only option is arse or penis and that also seems to be an issue, im a private person so don’t want to have public pics but i do have private ones that im willing to send to people that I choose to message but it’s like as soon as someone see’s no proper avatar its just unacknowledged, wven if you send a respectful (i.e no cock) pic in initial messages "
I’d prefer a arse or cock avatar than none to be honest. I have no interest in blank profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd have to agree with the above, nothing about your profile would spark interest, you have to make yourself stand out among the huge numbers of men here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok cool, like i said im new here and new to this scene so any advice that could be given would be greatly appreciated! Again, keeping in mind my nervousness about public pics! |
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I have said it many times before. You're signing up looking for a bit of casual fun but in realistic terms it's the very same as sitting in front of a interview panel going for a job. Alot is luck also pal. Women delete messages often, might not even see your mail, could mail her couple weeks later and she replies. You're location and pics are the main things. Upload a few pictures. |
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"I'd have to agree with the above, nothing about your profile would spark interest, you have to make yourself stand out among the huge numbers of men here. "
I agree too wouldn't give a profile with no pic another look!! |
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"I'd have to agree with the above, nothing about your profile would spark interest, you have to make yourself stand out among the huge numbers of men here.
I agree too wouldn't give a profile with no pic another look!! "
I'd give your ass a second look! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smoooooooth dontbesilly reeeeeaaaallll smooth :D ok does anybody wanna take pics of my arse to help me in my endeavour lol"
That's what mirrors are for  |
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"Smoooooooth dontbesilly reeeeeaaaallll smooth :D ok does anybody wanna take pics of my arse to help me in my endeavour lol"
Here’s an off the wall suggestion... see the way you said you have loads of distinctive easily recognizable tattoos, you want anonymity and so you can only take pics of your arse and penis..?
How about you take pics with your clothes on...?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Smoooooooth dontbesilly reeeeeaaaallll smooth :D ok does anybody wanna take pics of my arse to help me in my endeavour lol
That's what mirrors are for "
I don’t use those on account of me being a vampire :D
Ok, im starting to realise that all you peeps are actually really cool on here and maybe forums are the best way to start for people on here  seriously , thanks everyone for the sound advice, we all gotta start somewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Smoooooooth dontbesilly reeeeeaaaallll smooth :D ok does anybody wanna take pics of my arse to help me in my endeavour lol
That's what mirrors are for
I don’t use those on account of me being a vampire :D
Ok, im starting to realise that all you peeps are actually really cool on here and maybe forums are the best way to start for people on here seriously , thanks everyone for the sound advice, we all gotta start somewhere"
so you only meet at night then  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Smoooooooth dontbesilly reeeeeaaaallll smooth :D ok does anybody wanna take pics of my arse to help me in my endeavour lol
That's what mirrors are for
I don’t use those on account of me being a vampire :D
Ok, im starting to realise that all you peeps are actually really cool on here and maybe forums are the best way to start for people on here seriously , thanks everyone for the sound advice, we all gotta start somewhereso you only meet at night then "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Smoooooooth dontbesilly reeeeeaaaallll smooth :D ok does anybody wanna take pics of my arse to help me in my endeavour lol
Here’s an off the wall suggestion... see the way you said you have loads of distinctive easily recognizable tattoos, you want anonymity and so you can only take pics of your arse and penis..?
How about you take pics with your clothes on...? "
Did you not read the this os not facebool thread..
Clothes are so facebook |
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"Smoooooooth dontbesilly reeeeeaaaallll smooth :D ok does anybody wanna take pics of my arse to help me in my endeavour lol
Here’s an off the wall suggestion... see the way you said you have loads of distinctive easily recognizable tattoos, you want anonymity and so you can only take pics of your arse and penis..?
How about you take pics with your clothes on...?
Did you not read the this os not facebool thread..
Clothes are so facebook "
Whatttttt..?????? This is not Facebook..????!!!
Someone should start a thread about that..! And get people to discuss or something... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Smoooooooth dontbesilly reeeeeaaaallll smooth :D ok does anybody wanna take pics of my arse to help me in my endeavour lol
Here’s an off the wall suggestion... see the way you said you have loads of distinctive easily recognizable tattoos, you want anonymity and so you can only take pics of your arse and penis..?
How about you take pics with your clothes on...?
Did you not read the this os not facebool thread..
Clothes are so facebook "
Hahahaha exactly what i was gonna say! |
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Put a picture up. A picture of you in your clothes is better than a blank avatar as people tend to scroll right past any blank profiles also try to be active on the forum you’ll notice the amount of people who check out your profile significantly gets higher.
Hope that helps. |
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