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By *eeker321 OP Man
over a year ago
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Having read a comment from another thread about how a lot of men aren't good at oral a question came to mind.
So on a journey of self improvement and also just plain intrigue I'll ask that question. Though I can guess some of the answers already. What makes for good oral....technique, stamina,etc....or a combination or what?
And before anyone hops on a high horse it's a question some wonder about but never ask so I'd like to know  |
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over a year ago
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I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head. |
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"I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head."
This 
Every woman is different. You can't think 'well this worked on X, so it's bound to work on Y'. You have to get to know their mind and body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head."
I'll second that! You've got to ask your partner what works for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head.
This
Every woman is different. You can't think 'well this worked on X, so it's bound to work on Y'. You have to get to know their mind and body. "
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over a year ago
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"I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head."
This.
For example: I will not reach climax from oral if my legs are raised above my partners shoulders or if I'm not laying down flat.
I'm sure other women will, but I just don't.
Every single woman has her own little nuances like that which she may or may not express leaving you wondering why is it taking her so long to orgasm and weather she is is going to do it at all.
Mindless tongue flicking around the clit is never a good idea, gotta work out some kind of consistency.
Harder isn't always better either. Some men love to bury their whole face in a pussy just to show affection and how much they're enjoying it, as fun as it can be - there's far and few who will climax from it.
Be gentle, be soft, make sure she's comfortable, hit her clit with just a right amount of pressure (assuming you know how to find it, stretch her pussy lips out a bit if needs be) and be consistent, if you see that she's just about to go over the edge- no need to go harder or faster unless she asks you to do so.
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"I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head."
All sound in theory, but there is an inherent flaw in your plan...
...you’re asking guys to listen..!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head.
All sound in theory, but there is an inherent flaw in your plan...
...you’re asking guys to listen..!! "
Sure the legs were sqeezing me ears  |
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"I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head.
All sound in theory, but there is an inherent flaw in your plan...
...you’re asking guys to listen..!!
Sure the legs were sqeezing me ears "
Sure thats all part if the fun: your head between thighs getting played like an accordian at the crucial moment..!! |
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"I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head.
This.
For example: I will not reach climax from oral if my legs are raised above my partners shoulders or if I'm not laying down flat.
I'm sure other women will, but I just don't.
Every single woman has her own little nuances like that which she may or may not express leaving you wondering why is it taking her so long to orgasm and weather she is is going to do it at all.
Mindless tongue flicking around the clit is never a good idea, gotta work out some kind of consistency.
Harder isn't always better either. Some men love to bury their whole face in a pussy just to show affection and how much they're enjoying it, as fun as it can be - there's far and few who will climax from it.
Be gentle, be soft, make sure she's comfortable, hit her clit with just a right amount of pressure (assuming you know how to find it, stretch her pussy lips out a bit if needs be) and be consistent, if you see that she's just about to go over the edge- no need to go harder or faster unless she asks you to do so.
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This is fairly spot on for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head.
This.
For example: I will not reach climax from oral if my legs are raised above my partners shoulders or if I'm not laying down flat.
I'm sure other women will, but I just don't.
Every single woman has her own little nuances like that which she may or may not express leaving you wondering why is it taking her so long to orgasm and weather she is is going to do it at all.
Mindless tongue flicking around the clit is never a good idea, gotta work out some kind of consistency.
Harder isn't always better either. Some men love to bury their whole face in a pussy just to show affection and how much they're enjoying it, as fun as it can be - there's far and few who will climax from it.
Be gentle, be soft, make sure she's comfortable, hit her clit with just a right amount of pressure (assuming you know how to find it, stretch her pussy lips out a bit if needs be) and be consistent, if you see that she's just about to go over the edge- no need to go harder or faster unless she asks you to do so.
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Agree with you on the legs raised bit I’m exactly the same. Need to be on my back and comfortable... and exactly as you say if about to cum don’t stop what you were doing or change or else it’s back to square 1  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jut lock your lips around the clit and make a buzzing noise till your lips and tongue are vibrating like a hitachi."
Vvvvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrr Vvvvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrr Vvvvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrr Vvvvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrr Vvvvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrrify me |
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"Big time!
It's so frustrating too when you're just seconds away and they suddenly decide that it's a good time to pick up the pace for good measure  "
Just read this and had an “Ah crap, all these years...” moment...! Lol |
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"Jut lock your lips around the clit and make a buzzing noise till your lips and tongue are vibrating like a hitachi.
Vvvvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrr Vvvvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrr Vvvvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrr Vvvvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrr Vvvvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrrify me"
Thats why I dont have many verifications, their eyes start to cross, they forget their mother language and start to talk in tongue, and orgasm so hard they forget my name.
I wipe my chin in my sleeve, throw a blanket over them and just say "I'll let myself out".
Next day they think they dreamed it all. |
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By *marrisWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont think its rocket science...
So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head.
This.
For example: I will not reach climax from oral if my legs are raised above my partners shoulders or if I'm not laying down flat.
I'm sure other women will, but I just don't.
Every single woman has her own little nuances like that which she may or may not express leaving you wondering why is it taking her so long to orgasm and weather she is is going to do it at all.
Mindless tongue flicking around the clit is never a good idea, gotta work out some kind of consistency.
Harder isn't always better either. Some men love to bury their whole face in a pussy just to show affection and how much they're enjoying it, as fun as it can be - there's far and few who will climax from it.
Be gentle, be soft, make sure she's comfortable, hit her clit with just a right amount of pressure (assuming you know how to find it, stretch her pussy lips out a bit if needs be) and be consistent, if you see that she's just about to go over the edge- no need to go harder or faster unless she asks you to do so.
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Every woman is different, so, it's always a pleasure to slowly discover all those nuances of taste, texture, lube, responsiveness in a woman. Some women have their g spot close to their clit. So, with a very stretched tongue it's possible to lick the G spot and feel it grow. I love giving oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get to know her , try diferent things see what works and what not and listen to her not all women are the same so what one thinks its amazing other might not like it at all |
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"Softly , get a Rhythm going, get in a comfortable position .... AND DONT STOP !!"
Wrong, stop to look up at her as you pick hairs out of your mouth. If you leave a hair in your mouth she will know and it will become all she can think about "why hasnt he taken the hair out of his mouth" over and over in her head until she dries up. So be real obvious that you are taking hair out. |
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"Softly , get a Rhythm going, get in a comfortable position .... AND DONT STOP !!
Wrong, stop to look up at her as you pick hairs out of your mouth. If you leave a hair in your mouth she will know and it will become all she can think about "why hasnt he taken the hair out of his mouth" over and over in her head until she dries up. So be real obvious that you are taking hair out."
I missed you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t like anyone going down on me I just find it pointless I much prefer to be sucking cock
Me Cox. I feel for you. "
I honestly find it boring I prefer to do the work
Tho I do like fingers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t like anyone going down on me I just find it pointless I much prefer to be sucking cock "
That’s so funny. It’s either you being really sarcastic or being deadly serious. I just can’t work it out yet. It is true for some women that they don’t like to receive oral but I’ve yet to find a man that says he doesn’t like a good old sucking. |
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"I don’t like anyone going down on me I just find it pointless I much prefer to be sucking cock
That’s so funny. It’s either you being really sarcastic or being deadly serious. I just can’t work it out yet. It is true for some women that they don’t like to receive oral but I’ve yet to find a man that says he doesn’t like a good old sucking. "
100% serious and I have lots of guys try it’s jusy not my thing |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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" Be gentle, be soft, make sure she's comfortable, hit her clit with just a right amount of pressure (assuming you know how to find it, stretch her pussy lips out a bit if needs be) and be consistent, if you see that she's just about to go over the edge- no need to go harder or faster unless she asks you to do so. "
This is pretty good advice. A lot are way to rough with that clit, don't bother to find the right spot, not even to mention consistency.
I can't even remember cuming last from oral, must be at least 15 years ago. Anyhow not even looking for it, oral becomes rather boring after 10 minutes.  |
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"I don’t like anyone going down on me I just find it pointless I much prefer to be sucking cock
That’s so funny. It’s either you being really sarcastic or being deadly serious. I just can’t work it out yet. It is true for some women that they don’t like to receive oral but I’ve yet to find a man that says he doesn’t like a good old sucking.
100% serious and I have lots of guys try it’s jusy not my thing "
Just had a perv at your profile, your certainly different from the norm here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Be gentle, be soft, make sure she's comfortable, hit her clit with just a right amount of pressure (assuming you know how to find it, stretch her pussy lips out a bit if needs be) and be consistent, if you see that she's just about to go over the edge- no need to go harder or faster unless she asks you to do so.
This is pretty good advice. A lot are way to rough with that clit, don't bother to find the right spot, not even to mention consistency.
I can't even remember cuming last from oral, must be at least 15 years ago. Anyhow not even looking for it, oral becomes rather boring after 10 minutes. "
Boring is the exact word |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t like anyone going down on me I just find it pointless I much prefer to be sucking cock
That’s so funny. It’s either you being really sarcastic or being deadly serious. I just can’t work it out yet. It is true for some women that they don’t like to receive oral but I’ve yet to find a man that says he doesn’t like a good old sucking.
100% serious and I have lots of guys try it’s jusy not my thing "
each to their own, you’ll always get people who will try to prove a point |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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" Be gentle, be soft, make sure she's comfortable, hit her clit with just a right amount of pressure (assuming you know how to find it, stretch her pussy lips out a bit if needs be) and be consistent, if you see that she's just about to go over the edge- no need to go harder or faster unless she asks you to do so.
This is pretty good advice. A lot are way to rough with that clit, don't bother to find the right spot, not even to mention consistency.
I can't even remember cuming last from oral, must be at least 15 years ago. Anyhow not even looking for it, oral becomes rather boring after 10 minutes.
Boring is the exact word "
For some it's hard to accept that not every woman is into oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Be gentle, be soft, make sure she's comfortable, hit her clit with just a right amount of pressure (assuming you know how to find it, stretch her pussy lips out a bit if needs be) and be consistent, if you see that she's just about to go over the edge- no need to go harder or faster unless she asks you to do so.
This is pretty good advice. A lot are way to rough with that clit, don't bother to find the right spot, not even to mention consistency.
I can't even remember cuming last from oral, must be at least 15 years ago. Anyhow not even looking for it, oral becomes rather boring after 10 minutes.
Boring is the exact word
For some it's hard to accept that not every woman is into oral. "
Faking to enjoy it gets so boring as you get older ha but I love a good hard fingering then to be fucked I to tomorrow after it squinting everywhere |
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over a year ago
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"Combination of finger and tongue. Guarantee you would hit the roof
Na I’ll pass and stick to the cock in my mouth and fingers inside me squinting "
I’d much rather if you were a squirter than a squinter  |
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"Combination of finger and tongue. Guarantee you would hit the roof
Na I’ll pass and stick to the cock in my mouth and fingers inside me squinting
I’d much rather if you were a squirter than a squinter "
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"Combination of finger and tongue. Guarantee you would hit the roof
Na I’ll pass and stick to the cock in my mouth and fingers inside me squinting
I’d much rather if you were a squirter than a squinter
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There is always someone to correct my spelling |
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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago
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Start with soft gentle kisses on inner thighs, moving closer and closer, holding her legs apart with hands supporting and spreading below her knees...kissing and licking gently on the pussy lips, start to open up the lips with the tip of tongue, licking up and down gently, upwards towards the clit, flicking up and down slowly, as her hips start to rise and fall flick faster at a constant pace, watching her movements for reaction, licking lower and then up again on the clit... Flicking faster and faster in rhythm with her hips as she moves... And keep going until the job is done! |
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"Start with soft gentle kisses on inner thighs, moving closer and closer, holding her legs apart with hands supporting and spreading below her knees...kissing and licking gently on the pussy lips, start to open up the lips with the tip of tongue, licking up and down gently, upwards towards the clit, flicking up and down slowly, as her hips start to rise and fall flick faster at a constant pace, watching her movements for reaction, licking lower and then up again on the clit... Flicking faster and faster in rhythm with her hips as she moves... And keep going until the job is done! "
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"Start with soft gentle kisses on inner thighs, moving closer and closer, holding her legs apart with hands supporting and spreading below her knees...kissing and licking gently on the pussy lips, start to open up the lips with the tip of tongue, licking up and down gently, upwards towards the clit, flicking up and down slowly, as her hips start to rise and fall flick faster at a constant pace, watching her movements for reaction, licking lower and then up again on the clit... Flicking faster and faster in rhythm with her hips as she moves... And keep going until the job is done! "
Sounds about right!! |
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"Combination of finger and tongue. Guarantee you would hit the roof
Na I’ll pass and stick to the cock in my mouth and fingers inside me squinting
I’d much rather if you were a squirter than a squinter
There is always someone to correct my spelling "
You must have clumsy fingers  |
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"Start with soft gentle kisses on inner thighs, moving closer and closer, holding her legs apart with hands supporting and spreading below her knees...kissing and licking gently on the pussy lips, start to open up the lips with the tip of tongue, licking up and down gently, upwards towards the clit, flicking up and down slowly, as her hips start to rise and fall flick faster at a constant pace, watching her movements for reaction, licking lower and then up again on the clit... Flicking faster and faster in rhythm with her hips as she moves... And keep going until the job is done! "
Wait.... whats this clit you speak of? |
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"Combination of finger and tongue. Guarantee you would hit the roof
Na I’ll pass and stick to the cock in my mouth and fingers inside me squinting
I’d much rather if you were a squirter than a squinter
There is always someone to correct my spelling
You must have clumsy fingers "
I’m blonde what more can I say  |
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"I don’t like anyone going down on me I just find it pointless I much prefer to be sucking cock
Pointless 
On me it is ha
Duly noted ha "
Ha ha friend zone we are remember ha you shouldn’t have been so nice and looked after me when we first met ha |
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"Combination of finger and tongue. Guarantee you would hit the roof"
Introduction of fingers while receiving oral guarantees only one thing with me - I will not cum.
It's all about concentration and fingers are a major distraction. |
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"Combination of finger and tongue. Guarantee you would hit the roof
Introduction of fingers while receiving oral guarantees only one thing with me - I will not cum.
It's all about concentration and fingers are a major distraction. "
So what you’re saying is that would need to be a money back guarantee from the previous poster and the roof is probably safe..?? |
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"I dont think its rocket science... So long ypur intention is to please and your willing to listen and get to know the person your with I dont think you will ever give bad head."
As fascinating it has been to read everyone's how to guides on delivering the perfect tongue tornado, this first reply got it perfect - everyone's different. Only advice I would add is it takes effort, not just good intentions.
Also, as an example I'm not a big fan of receiving oral, but I love giving... Unusual, I know. |
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"I don’t like anyone going down on me I just find it pointless I much prefer to be sucking cock
Pointless
On me it is ha
Duly noted ha
Ha ha friend zone we are remember ha you shouldn’t have been so nice and looked after me when we first met ha "
It's for my book I'm writing |
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"I don’t like anyone going down on me I just find it pointless I much prefer to be sucking cock
Pointless
On me it is ha
Duly noted ha
Ha ha friend zone we are remember ha you shouldn’t have been so nice and looked after me when we first met ha
It's for my book I'm writing "
Well that’s a different story ha. X |
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