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At present we have a pretty decent range of filters for mail. We can choose to not be contacted by newbies, non-site supporters, people with no public pics, people outside our age preferences, and even men, women, tv/ts, or couples in general if they aren't what we're looking for.
What additional filters would you like to see?
I like to be able to use all my filters to avoid random 'meet now' messages, but unfortunately they also prevent Forumites contacting me. I'd like it if the 'reply privately' option on the forums could actually bypass my filters, so I could continue to enjoy the interesting conversations I find myself having with Forumites  |
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over a year ago
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Good suggestions PlayD8, get coding!
We'd like the filter system to extend to browsing profiles too: If you're not interested in single males then single males would not even know your profile exists on the site, (until they see a forum post, or veri, but they still can't even see it.
Ain't gonna happen, freely donated (or worse, paid by giver!) eye candy from couples and girls attracting guys to the site is how the site makes its money. We'd gladly pay way more than we're paying now to have a more couples exclusive site. |
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"Good suggestions PlayD8, get coding!
We'd like the filter system to extend to browsing profiles too: If you're not interested in single males then single males would not even know your profile exists on the site, (until they see a forum post, or veri, but they still can't even see it.
Ain't gonna happen, freely donated (or worse, paid by giver!) eye candy from couples and girls attracting guys to the site is how the site makes its money. We'd gladly pay way more than we're paying now to have a more couples exclusive site."
Does having a filter on mails surely not take care of that. And seeing as you are active one forums it wouldnt work for you anyway? |
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I dont use filters so as you csn imagine my inbox is swamped.
Not a fikter but I always thought there should be an interest box or something for people who are interested in unprotected sex.
To me it makes more sense than a safe sex one, as with any interests they will change for some people depending on who they meet so it would be a more accurate picture for people browsing. |
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"Good suggestions PlayD8, get coding!
We'd like the filter system to extend to browsing profiles too: If you're not interested in single males then single males would not even know your profile exists on the site, (until they see a forum post, or veri, but they still can't even see it.
Ain't gonna happen, freely donated (or worse, paid by giver!) eye candy from couples and girls attracting guys to the site is how the site makes its money. We'd gladly pay way more than we're paying now to have a more couples exclusive site."
I think this is a little extreme, so what if they can see you? |
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"Good suggestions PlayD8, get coding!
We'd like the filter system to extend to browsing profiles too: If you're not interested in single males then single males would not even know your profile exists on the site, (until they see a forum post, or veri, but they still can't even see it.
Ain't gonna happen, freely donated (or worse, paid by giver!) eye candy from couples and girls attracting guys to the site is how the site makes its money. We'd gladly pay way more than we're paying now to have a more couples exclusive site."
I'd be good with that... At present the only way I can completely remove myself from searches is by hiding my profile, but I don't really want to hide completely, it feels voyeuristic being active on the Forums from behind a hidden profile. |
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"I would love to see the "hun" or "babe" filters on. Two word's that to me from a random stranger is like nails on a chalkboard
 easy there princess!   "
A princess can dream |
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"You’d get people abusing the ‘reply privately’ function though if the filters were no longer applied "
90% of Fab users don't even know the Forums exist and I rarely have expetienced forum users using the 'reply privately' function for anything other than furthering a thread discussion, so I couldn't see it being abused that much. However, I did have to put my filters back in place though today because of non-Forumites. I can't force anyone to read my profile, but I can at least stop them from mailing me asking to meet. |
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"I dont use filters so as you csn imagine my inbox is swamped.
Not a fikter but I always thought there should be an interest box or something for people who are interested in unprotected sex.
To me it makes more sense than a safe sex one, as with any interests they will change for some people depending on who they meet so it would be a more accurate picture for people browsing."
I don't think the interest tick-boxes are really pertinent anyway. If I have something ticked it doesn't mean I want to do it with everyone I meet or on a first meet, but people assume it's going to happen purely because it's ticked. |
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"I dont use filters so as you csn imagine my inbox is swamped.
Not a fikter but I always thought there should be an interest box or something for people who are interested in unprotected sex.
To me it makes more sense than a safe sex one, as with any interests they will change for some people depending on who they meet so it would be a more accurate picture for people browsing.
I don't think the interest tick-boxes are really pertinent anyway. If I have something ticked it doesn't mean I want to do it with everyone I meet or on a first meet, but people assume it's going to happen purely because it's ticked."
That kind of my point for having an unprotected option too.
That and move it to one of the profile choices like smoker/ drinker |
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"Have said it before, the only issue we have with mail filters is that they don't distinguish between "photo-verified" and "meet-verified" "
Even meet verified profiles these days cant be trusted. There are too many self-verifying from multiple profiles, and others offering to verify for phone credit etc.. Seeing a veri from someone you know and trust on a profile is about the best test there is. |
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"I would love to see the "hun" or "babe" filters on. Two word's that to me from a random stranger is like nails on a chalkboard
easy there princess!
A princess can dream "
Can I add 'xxxx' kisses from random strangers to that list too? |
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Does having a filter on mails surely not take care of that. And seeing as you are active one forums it wouldnt work for you anyway?"
@Short.s.s. I don't know? Can you see our profile but not message us? I understand you can't look at a profile if you're personally blocked. |
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We'd like the filter system to extend to browsing profiles too: If you're not interested in single males then single males would not even know your profile exists on the site, (until they see a forum post, or veri, but they still can't even see it.
Ain't gonna happen, freely donated (or worse, paid by giver!) eye candy from couples and girls attracting guys to the site is how the site makes its money. We'd gladly pay way more than we're paying now to have a more couples exclusive site.
I think this is a little extreme, so what if they can see you? "
Well each to their own I guess but we find it a little extreme to be exposed to tens of thousands of anonymous guys on the internet, puts us off posting pictures. We can be exhibitionist in real life such as at a party but not advertising our wares on here trying to meet a couple now and again, it's just not discreet, or our cup of tea, but there's not much options beyond Fab. |
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We'd like the filter system to extend to browsing profiles too: If you're not interested in single males then single males would not even know your profile exists on the site, (until they see a forum post, or veri, but they still can't even see it.
Ain't gonna happen, freely donated (or worse, paid by giver!) eye candy from couples and girls attracting guys to the site is how the site makes its money. We'd gladly pay way more than we're paying now to have a more couples exclusive site.
I think this is a little extreme, so what if they can see you?
Well each to their own I guess but we find it a little extreme to be exposed to tens of thousands of anonymous guys on the internet, puts us off posting pictures. We can be exhibitionist in real life such as at a party but not advertising our wares on here trying to meet a couple now and again, it's just not discreet, or our cup of tea, but there's not much options beyond Fab."
Any image you share on the internet can potentially end up anywhere, and it's not as though there are no creepy weirdos in couples. Using the friends only facility essentially achieves discretion in as much as sharing pictures can. |
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"At present we have a pretty decent range of filters for mail. We can choose to not be contacted by newbies, non-site supporters, people with no public pics, people outside our age preferences, and even men, women, tv/ts, or couples in general if they aren't what we're looking for.
What additional filters would you like to see?
I like to be able to use all my filters to avoid random 'meet now' messages, but unfortunately they also prevent Forumites contacting me. I'd like it if the 'reply privately' option on the forums could actually bypass my filters, so I could continue to enjoy the interesting conversations I find myself having with Forumites "
Well it would be great if there was a filter or feature probably the same meaning lol if say you have a meet arranged and everything has been set and you get stood up that person should be black flagged or something this way separates the time wasters from the good ones that are 100% genuine |
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Any image you share on the internet can potentially end up anywhere, and it's not as though there are no creepy weirdos in couples. Using the friends only facility essentially achieves discretion in as much as sharing pictures can. "
Yes indeed but it's a bit boring hiding our pics and hoping a couple will actually read our profile and stats and then ask to see our pics, just doesn't happen! If we were on a bullet-proof exclusive couples site we'd put more pictures up indicating what we get up to and get more response. We used to really enjoy putting effort into pictures and showing them off and getting good feedback. That kind of exclusivity could be achieved with filters and it could be an economic proposition for the site if they'd have the balls to try it. |
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Any image you share on the internet can potentially end up anywhere, and it's not as though there are no creepy weirdos in couples. Using the friends only facility essentially achieves discretion in as much as sharing pictures can.
Yes indeed but it's a bit boring hiding our pics and hoping a couple will actually read our profile and stats and then ask to see our pics, just doesn't happen! If we were on a bullet-proof exclusive couples site we'd put more pictures up indicating what we get up to and get more response. We used to really enjoy putting effort into pictures and showing them off and getting good feedback. That kind of exclusivity could be achieved with filters and it could be an economic proposition for the site if they'd have the balls to try it."
Bullet-proof doesn't exist, I'm afraid. |
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Bullet-proof doesn't exist, I'm afraid. "
Well there was a couples/unicorns site called the libertine connection that was invitation/nomination by an existing member. It was uber cool but didn't last.
And there's a US based couples/unicorn only site that allows the filtering I'm talking about but there really aren't any members from here.
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Bullet-proof doesn't exist, I'm afraid.
Well there was a couples/unicorns site called the libertine connection that was invitation/nomination by an existing member. It was uber cool but didn't last.
And there's a US based couples/unicorn only site that allows the filtering I'm talking about but there really aren't any members from here.
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Yes, but you are still vulnerable to others sharing your image without your permission. Just an observation.  |
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Does having a filter on mails surely not take care of that. And seeing as you are active one forums it wouldnt work for you anyway?
@Short.s.s. I don't know? Can you see our profile but not message us? I understand you can't look at a profile if you're personally blocked."
Sorry I obviously read that too quickly.
I guess you could always block any single male you come across..
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