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Today I'm reminded again why it is that I rarely Fab men's photos. It's almost as if some see this as a contractual obligation to meet and have sex. I can fab lovely ladies' photos all say long and don't have them mailing me expecting a shag. But fabbing a guy's photo often seems to have the same effect as unzipping his pants. Am I the only one to feel this way? Are you reluctant to Fab men's photos in case it leads to a conversation ending with being called a time-wasting cunt? |
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"I Fab pics most days. Odd time I get an odd message thanking for the Fab. "
I generally stick to a few hotlist men with really great photos whom I know won't bother me. But sometimes the artistry of a photo by someone else might catch my eye and I'll give it a fab. I don't think I've ever had a simple 'thank you' for fabbing a photo. I don't expect to be thanked, in fact I'd prefer not to, but neither do I expect to be abused. |
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over a year ago
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"I do sometimes take it as an invitation to interact....
And yes I do usually end up getting called a c*nt
You didn't with me 
But you didn't call me a cunt for wasting your time either  "
Didnt feel like time wasted  |
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"I Fab pics most days. Odd time I get an odd message thanking for the Fab.
I generally stick to a few hotlist men with really great photos whom I know won't bother me. But sometimes the artistry of a photo by someone else might catch my eye and I'll give it a fab. I don't think I've ever had a simple 'thank you' for fabbing a photo. I don't expect to be thanked, in fact I'd prefer not to, but neither do I expect to be abused. "
Abused? Seriously the mind boggles here at times. If you put your pic up and get fabs just be happy, no need for abuse, and if the person that fabs your pic tweaks your interest send a message saying thanks. Not that hard.
I fab one or two on my hot list and I'm waiting for the block or the restraining order. But it's only cause you guys are hot  |
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"I didn't even realise you could see who fabbed your pics.
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I've never needed to know 
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It's in your updates. I'm tempted to give you a pity fab... But would you really want one?  "
Ah sure look...
To be fair, I'd never notice it. Old age is a killer! |
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"I Fab pics most days. Odd time I get an odd message thanking for the Fab.
I generally stick to a few hotlist men with really great photos whom I know won't bother me. But sometimes the artistry of a photo by someone else might catch my eye and I'll give it a fab. I don't think I've ever had a simple 'thank you' for fabbing a photo. I don't expect to be thanked, in fact I'd prefer not to, but neither do I expect to be abused. "
We usually get a fab in return, sometimes a mail, which may or may not lead to more interaction, never been called a cunt yet as a result of fabbing a male here (not to my face anyway  ) |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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I fab lads pics i like all the time i some times get a message back saying "cheers for the fab" if the message leads in a diffrent direction i just say was just fabbing a nice pic but im not looking to meet |
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"I Fab pics most days. Odd time I get an odd message thanking for the Fab.
I generally stick to a few hotlist men with really great photos whom I know won't bother me. But sometimes the artistry of a photo by someone else might catch my eye and I'll give it a fab. I don't think I've ever had a simple 'thank you' for fabbing a photo. I don't expect to be thanked, in fact I'd prefer not to, but neither do I expect to be abused.
Abused? Seriously the mind boggles here at times. If you put your pic up and get fabs just be happy, no need for abuse, and if the person that fabs your pic tweaks your interest send a message saying thanks. Not that hard.
I fab one or two on my hot list and I'm waiting for the block or the restraining order. But it's only cause you guys are hot "
My hotlist guys know me well they know I just enjoy their photos and have no other agenda. I've even managed to perv a few of them in person at events without swooning from excitement. There are a few couples on my hotlist too that I fab regularly... Their photos are exquisite, but even with couples I can be reluctant to fab the guy's photos.
Anyway... The guy blocked me this morning for wasting his time... So I guess my fab was removed too |
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"I just say "thanks for fabing my pics" to anyone who fab them.Then leave it at that as if they are interested they will get back to me.
Sounds reasonable to me  "
I would like to think most men here would act similarly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I Fab pics most days. Odd time I get an odd message thanking for the Fab.
I generally stick to a few hotlist men with really great photos whom I know won't bother me. But sometimes the artistry of a photo by someone else might catch my eye and I'll give it a fab. I don't think I've ever had a simple 'thank you' for fabbing a photo. I don't expect to be thanked, in fact I'd prefer not to, but neither do I expect to be abused.
Abused? Seriously the mind boggles here at times. If you put your pic up and get fabs just be happy, no need for abuse, and if the person that fabs your pic tweaks your interest send a message saying thanks. Not that hard.
I fab one or two on my hot list and I'm waiting for the block or the restraining order. But it's only cause you guys are hot
My hotlist guys know me well they know I just enjoy their photos and have no other agenda. I've even managed to perv a few of them in person at events without swooning from excitement. There are a few couples on my hotlist too that I fab regularly... Their photos are exquisite, but even with couples I can be reluctant to fab the guy's photos.
Anyway... The guy blocked me this morning for wasting his time... So I guess my fab was removed too "
Unfortunately haven't met anyone on my hot list.
Not sure how you wasting his time men eh |
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"Just make sure the guys you fab are outside your mail filters and you're grand. Works well for me "
I'm actually considering putting all my filters back up. They've been down now for a month or so and mail was manageable at first and mostly forum-related, but particularly at the weekend there were a lot of random 'meet now' ones who obviously don't read profiles. Anyone mailing me for the first time should be getting the 'are you sure?' warning, as I've unticked all my looking for preferences, but they persist anyway. Its just a shame to have to filter out the forum folk too who's conversations I thoroughly enjoy |
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"I Fab pics most days. Odd time I get an odd message thanking for the Fab.
I generally stick to a few hotlist men with really great photos whom I know won't bother me. But sometimes the artistry of a photo by someone else might catch my eye and I'll give it a fab. I don't think I've ever had a simple 'thank you' for fabbing a photo. I don't expect to be thanked, in fact I'd prefer not to, but neither do I expect to be abused.
We usually get a fab in return, sometimes a mail, which may or may not lead to more interaction, never been called a cunt yet as a result of fabbing a male here (not to my face anyway ) "
I probably poked a horny hungover bear  |
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"I always fab back who ever fabs me , and if not blocked by the filters send a message thanking it "
I don't feel compelled to fab in return. I have a 'thanks' bit on my profile that should cover it. If I find a photo particularly alluring I fab it. But it's the photo I'm fabbing, not the person... If that makes sense? If someone fabs one of my photos, I assume it's because they liked the photo, not me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Today I'm reminded again why it is that I rarely Fab men's photos. It's almost as if some see this as a contractual obligation to meet and have sex. I can fab lovely ladies' photos all say long and don't have them mailing me expecting a shag. But fabbing a guy's photo often seems to have the same effect as unzipping his pants. Am I the only one to feel this way? Are you reluctant to Fab men's photos in case it leads to a conversation ending with being called a time-wasting cunt?"
the language  |
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"I fab lads pics i like all the time i some times get a message back saying "cheers for the fab" if the message leads in a diffrent direction i just say was just fabbing a nice pic but im not looking to meet "
That's exactly how the convo went this morning... But I got the cunt reply. Maybe he'd already had the thanks but not meeting from you and my similar reply was the straw that broke the camel's back |
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"Today I'm reminded again why it is that I rarely Fab men's photos. It's almost as if some see this as a contractual obligation to meet and have sex. I can fab lovely ladies' photos all say long and don't have them mailing me expecting a shag. But fabbing a guy's photo often seems to have the same effect as unzipping his pants. Am I the only one to feel this way? Are you reluctant to Fab men's photos in case it leads to a conversation ending with being called a time-wasting cunt?
the language "
Sorry... 'trousers' apologies to those I offended by saying pants |
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"Today I'm reminded again why it is that I rarely Fab men's photos. It's almost as if some see this as a contractual obligation to meet and have sex. I can fab lovely ladies' photos all say long and don't have them mailing me expecting a shag. But fabbing a guy's photo often seems to have the same effect as unzipping his pants. Am I the only one to feel this way? Are you reluctant to Fab men's photos in case it leads to a conversation ending with being called a time-wasting cunt?"
Ahhh you gotta love the entitled. It happens too on the forums. If you comment on a thread some think it's an invitation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You need to be very careful when managing a mans expectations! Especially on fab
Once that fab button has been pushed, you can expect to get 10 mails awaiting a time, date & venue to fuck haha |
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"A thank you is enough to send. "
I don't even expect that. I don't fab for anything other than to show I appreciate the effort that went into making a great pic. It's like telling someone I like their shoes... I'm not saying I fancy them.. I'm just saying their shoes are fabulous |
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"Today I'm reminded again why it is that I rarely Fab men's photos. It's almost as if some see this as a contractual obligation to meet and have sex. I can fab lovely ladies' photos all say long and don't have them mailing me expecting a shag. But fabbing a guy's photo often seems to have the same effect as unzipping his pants. Am I the only one to feel this way? Are you reluctant to Fab men's photos in case it leads to a conversation ending with being called a time-wasting cunt?
Ahhh you gotta love the entitled. It happens too on the forums. If you comment on a thread some think it's an invitation. "
Yes... I get that too occasionally. But 99% of Forumites just mail to further the discussion of the topic, so it's an acceptable ratio |
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"A thank you is enough to send.
I don't even expect that. I don't fab for anything other than to show I appreciate the effort that went into making a great pic. It's like telling someone I like their shoes... I'm not saying I fancy them.. I'm just saying their shoes are fabulous "
Exactly surely thats all it is intended for but fabulous shoes are a sign that they have class |
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"Today I'm reminded again why it is that I rarely Fab men's photos. It's almost as if some see this as a contractual obligation to meet and have sex. I can fab lovely ladies' photos all say long and don't have them mailing me expecting a shag. But fabbing a guy's photo often seems to have the same effect as unzipping his pants. Am I the only one to feel this way? Are you reluctant to Fab men's photos in case it leads to a conversation ending with being called a time-wasting cunt?
Ahhh you gotta love the entitled. It happens too on the forums. If you comment on a thread some think it's an invitation.
Yes... I get that too occasionally. But 99% of Forumites just mail to further the discussion of the topic, so it's an acceptable ratio"
It's that 1%. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i don't know if it should be used as an invite to message someone but dee fabbed my pics when we were on here as singles almost 3 years ago. been together since then so i'm quite happy she fabbed them and i used it as an excuse to mail her |
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I dont message people who fab my photos unless it has a wink or sometimes, or unless their profile has something written that indicates they would like a message back like "if i like you ill let you know", its worth saying hello in that case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree with the last guy..id always say thanks only the majority of my fabs always come from CD/TS's and to be an absolute hypocrite I don't say thanks then..guess I'm a bit of a wanker.. but it's nice to try use a fabbed pic as an icebreaker..  |
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"Today I'm reminded again why it is that I rarely Fab men's photos. It's almost as if some see this as a contractual obligation to meet and have sex. I can fab lovely ladies' photos all say long and don't have them mailing me expecting a shag. But fabbing a guy's photo often seems to have the same effect as unzipping his pants. Am I the only one to feel this way? Are you reluctant to Fab men's photos in case it leads to a conversation ending with being called a time-wasting cunt?"
Feel free to fab mine, I wont torment you with a message nice lady. |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"I fab my own and message myself to thank myself
You should then send yourself a message telling you to feck off and stop stalking you. "
I generally just delete the message unread....generally puts me off from sending myself a follow up |
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"I fab my own and message myself to thank myself
You should know by now "you cannot fab your own pics" lol where there is a will there is a way ..of course you can you just need to know how."
Well if you are saying you have multiple accounts then of course there is away |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"I fab my own and message myself to thank myself
You should know by now "you cannot fab your own pics" lol where there is a will there is a way ..of course you can you just need to know how.
Well if you are saying you have multiple accounts then of course there is away "
no need for multiple accounts |
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"I fab my own and message myself to thank myself
You should then send yourself a message telling you to feck off and stop stalking you. I generally just delete the message unread....generally puts me off from sending myself a follow up"
I want to shake your hand! |
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There's something that puzzles me about quite a lot of photos... I notice that people will cut their face out of photos or cover them up, but have quite distinctive tattoos on view, or vice versa... They'll pixel out or cover tattoos with stickers but have full face pics on view. Why hide one if you can be recognised by the other? |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"There's something that puzzles me about quite a lot of photos... I notice that people will cut their face out of photos or cover them up, but have quite distinctive tattoos on view, or vice versa... They'll pixel out or cover tattoos with stickers but have full face pics on view. Why hide one if you can be recognised by the other? "
because the face pic on its own isn't a problem...only if the face and body are in a compromising position or act is it an issue. Think potential future employers or your kids or vanilla friends
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Today I'm reminded again why it is that I rarely Fab men's photos. It's almost as if some see this as a contractual obligation to meet and have sex. I can fab lovely ladies' photos all say long and don't have them mailing me expecting a shag. But fabbing a guy's photo often seems to have the same effect as unzipping his pants. Am I the only one to feel this way? Are you reluctant to Fab men's photos in case it leads to a conversation ending with being called a time-wasting cunt?"
Tbh if a lady fabbed one of my pics I'd take it as a yes I'm interested get in touch kinda hint.
But saying that it's not a full on invitation to have sex , merely a let's chat n see. |
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"There's something that puzzles me about quite a lot of photos... I notice that people will cut their face out of photos or cover them up, but have quite distinctive tattoos on view, or vice versa... They'll pixel out or cover tattoos with stickers but have full face pics on view. Why hide one if you can be recognised by the other?
because the face pic on its own isn't a problem...only if the face and body are in a compromising position or act is it an issue. Think potential future employers or your kids or vanilla friends"
Oh I know and understand that, but it's those pics I mean. The compromising ones with faces or tatts in them. If I was worried enough to cover one, why not the other? An example I always remember was a woman who had her 6 kids' names tattooed on her torso, just under her left boob, but wore a mask. It struck me as completely pointless. |
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"Today I'm reminded again why it is that I rarely Fab men's photos. It's almost as if some see this as a contractual obligation to meet and have sex. I can fab lovely ladies' photos all say long and don't have them mailing me expecting a shag. But fabbing a guy's photo often seems to have the same effect as unzipping his pants. Am I the only one to feel this way? Are you reluctant to Fab men's photos in case it leads to a conversation ending with being called a time-wasting cunt?
Tbh if a lady fabbed one of my pics I'd take it as a yes I'm interested get in touch kinda hint.
But saying that it's not a full on invitation to have sex , merely a let's chat n see. "
That's my point though. You still see it as an invitation of sorts. Would you view it the same way if a man fabbed your pics? |
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