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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?
Hypothetical like "
Hate fucking... yes I've done that ..feels great actually |
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No. If I hated everything else about them I'd be repulsed. There are people I've had sex with in the past who now make my skin crawl, but at the time I thought they were great. Whether they were someone hot I'd met on a night out and slept with, or someone I spent time and put effort in with but came to realise had some pretty nasty qualities, I wouldn't go back once those beer/rose tinted goggles were off. I like a healthy dose of dopamine and serotonin with my adrenalin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?
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Nope, personality is a big factor.
Welcome back again btw. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?
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Nope, personality is a big factor.
Welcome back again btw."
Thank you  keep thinking I can leave   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, all us men here are apparently attracted to personality so, I doubt it  "
Surprised as per forums we fuck anything with a pulse according to others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hate= no sex ... but if there was a personality or physical trait I disliked, well under the right circumstances I could have sex & make sure we both enjoyed the experience ... sure it's only 2 minutes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t think I could if I actually hated them but sometimes I am attracted to arrogance which is a trait I don’t particularly like in life... perhaps I want to them to want me and to have that control which is a turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have. It was hot
But you mustn’t have hated EVERYTHING about them? Hated there personality but liked the look of them ?!"
Hated the personality so much even the look of them made me angry. So yes, despised that person with every single fibre of my being |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hate is a very strong word, don't think I have ever hated anyone in my life, a couple I have disliked a lot but deffo wouldn't want to fuck.....now anger sex in the heat of a disagreement with someone you normally get along with is hot...I have had that, it was the rough, hot and heavy rip each others clothes off and don't hold back kind and we were friends again afterwards |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?
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are you asking for a friend "
Just thinking out loud if couldn’t stand someone they irritated me and couldn’t listen to them would I enjoy them physically if they had everything else I looked for. Not sure tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No I couldn't unless u were able to tape their mouth and put a bag over their head. Get the job done and leave before they were allowed to take bag off the head and intake the mouth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It boils down to fantasies. Many have a fantasy that involves a form of repulsion or of pure dominance or control over another, irrespective of the others wishes like being forced upon or forcing oneself upon another (which is a lot more common that many would like to believe). This will often inevitably involve overlooking any physical or other attracting traits of the other. This does happen a lot in a consensual setting in here. Not uncommon to have posts about this subject of play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I hate everything about them , then no couldn't have sex with someone I don't feel any attraction for , rather have a wank lol at least there's more pleasure there .
Ok I tried before , had a woman over, thought oh wow this will be great , when things got to things was damn what have I done , what time do you have to go home |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It boils down to fantasies. Many have a fantasy that involves a form of repulsion or of pure dominance or control over another, irrespective of the others wishes like being forced upon or forcing oneself upon another (which is a lot more common that many would like to believe). This will often inevitably involve overlooking any physical or other attracting traits of the other. This does happen a lot in a consensual setting in here. Not uncommon to have posts about this subject of play."
I've certainly heard men express the desire to give her a right good fucking when referring to a woman who provokes them in a negative way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It boils down to fantasies. Many have a fantasy that involves a form of repulsion or of pure dominance or control over another, irrespective of the others wishes like being forced upon or forcing oneself upon another (which is a lot more common that many would like to believe). This will often inevitably involve overlooking any physical or other attracting traits of the other. This does happen a lot in a consensual setting in here. Not uncommon to have posts about this subject of play.
I've certainly heard men express the desire to give her a right good fucking when referring to a woman who provokes them in a negative way. "
Tied up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It boils down to fantasies. Many have a fantasy that involves a form of repulsion or of pure dominance or control over another, irrespective of the others wishes like being forced upon or forcing oneself upon another (which is a lot more common that many would like to believe). This will often inevitably involve overlooking any physical or other attracting traits of the other. This does happen a lot in a consensual setting in here. Not uncommon to have posts about this subject of play.
I've certainly heard men express the desire to give her a right good fucking when referring to a woman who provokes them in a negative way.
Tied up? "
That wasn't specified! |
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No, but I have never hated anyone, or gotten angry.
Usually people just disappoint or disgust me, or make me think they are stupid. I'm not into drama, jealousy, getting your partner angry, insulting them.
I know for a lot of people drama is viewed as being healthy. Flirt with a guy/girl to see if the other half cares. Stirring up a fight and shouting at each other and then rough sex. I don't get it though. Whenever a girl does stuff like that with me, I just call it a day and move on.
Never had to cross that line in my head where a relationship is souring and you keep having sex and string it out longer, you lie to yourself saying the jealousy and the anger, and the insults mean that they still care, that the emotions are still there, and the brain starts to tell you its normal like most people seem to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, but I have never hated anyone, or gotten angry.
Usually people just disappoint or disgust me, or make me think they are stupid. I'm not into drama, jealousy, getting your partner angry, insulting them.
I know for a lot of people drama is viewed as being healthy. Flirt with a guy/girl to see if the other half cares. Stirring up a fight and shouting at each other and then rough sex. I don't get it though. Whenever a girl does stuff like that with me, I just call it a day and move on.
Never had to cross that line in my head where a relationship is souring and you keep having sex and string it out longer, you lie to yourself saying the jealousy and the anger, and the insults mean that they still care, that the emotions are still there, and the brain starts to tell you its normal like most people seem to."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No, but I have never hated anyone, or gotten angry.
Usually people just disappoint or disgust me, or make me think they are stupid. I'm not into drama, jealousy, getting your partner angry, insulting them.
I know for a lot of people drama is viewed as being healthy. Flirt with a guy/girl to see if the other half cares. Stirring up a fight and shouting at each other and then rough sex. I don't get it though. Whenever a girl does stuff like that with me, I just call it a day and move on.
Never had to cross that line in my head where a relationship is souring and you keep having sex and string it out longer, you lie to yourself saying the jealousy and the anger, and the insults mean that they still care, that the emotions are still there, and the brain starts to tell you its normal like most people seem to."
Lol that’s why I divorced and I will cut off people who have a negative effect on my personal wellbeing usually without warnings. The sex part though is funny because aparantly here it’s free from strings etc so should be easily done. |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
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Know someone who slept with someone they disliked alot. It was because he was very hung and that aspect of him overrided her dislike for him when they met put one night on the drink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had incredible angry sex but I couldn't have sex with someone I hated, I'd be disgusted with myself.
Would you hate yourself? "
I might be ok with bringing out the big lad, if I hated myself |
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"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?
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I'm not even set on a pulse tbh "
PM me… I reckon you have done someone you shouldn’t and curiosity has got the better of me  |
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