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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay so I was on here a while back as a couple. This morning the ex called. General chit chat about life. Chat soon turned to the old days on here and ended with her wondering if I’d be interested in returning with her. I’m not sure what to do. Any input is welcomed. |
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"Okay so I was on here a while back as a couple. This morning the ex called. General chit chat about life. Chat soon turned to the old days on here and ended with her wondering if I’d be interested in returning with her. I’m not sure what to do. Any input is welcomed. "
No nope nah no nein nyet nuh-uh no
An ex is an ex for a reason (hard learned lesson for me!) |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
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"Okay so I was on here a while back as a couple. This morning the ex called. General chit chat about life. Chat soon turned to the old days on here and ended with her wondering if I’d be interested in returning with her. I’m not sure what to do. Any input is welcomed. "
Run....run like the wind....ex's are ex's for a reason buddy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Okay so I was on here a while back as a couple. This morning the ex called. General chit chat about life. Chat soon turned to the old days on here and ended with her wondering if I’d be interested in returning with her. I’m not sure what to do. Any input is welcomed.
Run....run like the wind....ex's are ex's for a reason buddy"
I’m Forest Gumping this one. |
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"Okay so I was on here a while back as a couple. This morning the ex called. General chit chat about life. Chat soon turned to the old days on here and ended with her wondering if I’d be interested in returning with her. I’m not sure what to do. Any input is welcomed. "
Good call - I’ve always based my relationship decisions on the input of randoms on a swingers site |
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"Okay so I was on here a while back as a couple. This morning the ex called. General chit chat about life. Chat soon turned to the old days on here and ended with her wondering if I’d be interested in returning with her. I’m not sure what to do. Any input is welcomed. "
Yes, this is going to work out well for everyone involved.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If she's on here then she's probably read this thread and is a bit pissed. Why post such a question on a public forum unless she's doesn't really exist and your just seeking attention ???"
You messaged us twice. Twice she said thanks but no thanks. Yeah she ain’t real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really depends on how the realtionship ended sometimes people break up and get back together down the line and it all just works but really depends on why the breakup happened in the first place and how messy |
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Ex's are usually so for good reason. If you couldn't make things work before, what makes you think getting back together just to swing will work? Sounds like she might just be feeling a bit insecure about swinging alone, particularly if she's a bit older now and/or has never swung as a single before, and wants a 'protector' figure. Ask her. If you're still on good terms, and you're comfortable in this role, there's no need to couple up, you can just be her safety net and watch out for her as a friend without things getting messy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If she's on here then she's probably read this thread and is a bit pissed. Why post such a question on a public forum unless she's doesn't really exist and your just seeking attention ???
You messaged us twice. Twice she said thanks but no thanks. Yeah she ain’t real. "
Ouch |
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