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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I always imagined that setting up an mmf would be a breeze but it really has been proving difficult getting all the stars aligned or the right single guy to start with. Why if a couple is seeking a mmf does the single guy think it's reasonable to ask to meet the woman alone ??! It's getting so old tbh
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It's not reasonable at all for the single guy to ask to meet the woman on her own first -we ve never been asked this personally and had we we d never agree to it .We re a couple ,we come as a package and if someone can't respect this they can feck right off ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From my experience couples are as guilty to ask a guy to have MMF when the guy only plays with ladies."
We don't do the approaching , usually we will put up a status asking interested parties to apply within. |
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"It's not reasonable at all for the single guy to ask to meet the woman on her own first -we ve never been asked this personally and had we we d never agree to it .We re a couple ,we come as a package and if someone can't respect this they can feck right off !"
Yes this is what we have been doing and the reason why our block list is growing lol |
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Half the fun in mmf is having her other half there . The whole alpha male thing comes out . He wants to see his partner get spoiled and enjoy herself and that kinky competitive edge means u bring your a game and it's the security she needs to release her ultimate sexual peak . Absolute bliss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always imagined that setting up an mmf would be a breeze but it really has been proving difficult getting all the stars aligned or the right single guy to start with. Why if a couple is seeking a mmf does the single guy think it's reasonable to ask to meet the woman alone ??! It's getting so old tbh
Any thoughts/advice or what are other couples experience? "
I’m free for MMF. Experienced, verified and honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always imagined that setting up an mmf would be a breeze but it really has been proving difficult getting all the stars aligned or the right single guy to start with. Why if a couple is seeking a mmf does the single guy think it's reasonable to ask to meet the woman alone ??! It's getting so old tbh
Any thoughts/advice or what are other couples experience? "
Some people will just not respect boundaries and that's just the way it is. I'm sure there are lots of single guys who will be respectful too and verifications from other couples may help with that selection process.
Rather than waiting for someone to contact you maybe you could approach another couple where the male half is experienced in meeting couples and is comfortable in the close proximity with another male.
It's important that all 3 text and chat a bit before a social meet so that there is a connection and everyone is ok with it. Not everyone is going to be your cup of tea and you may not be theirs.You will find the right guy for you.
MMF can be an absolutely fantastic experience and extremely erotic with the right match up.
I'm lucky that Casey is pretty good at choosing well!
Lee
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finding a guy for mmf is difficult, surprisingly how many single guys on a swingers site lose their bottle for them when push comes to shove. on the plus side many genuine guys experienced in this and group situations around here and actually know the score rather then blagging about it |
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By *nicumCouple
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"finding a guy for mmf is difficult, surprisingly how many single guys on a swingers site lose their bottle for them when push comes to shove. on the plus side many genuine guys experienced in this and group situations around here and actually know the score rather then blagging about it "
Agreed. We talk to other couples and ask for their recommendations for good and reliable guys. |
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