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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a full time dad ,widower with three children, I am only available for daytime meets while the children are at school,also available Saturday and Sunday afternoons if needed.
Am I wasting my time on here ??
Just wondering what the odds of finding people for daytime meets is ??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fair point but it's easier for women to find a man especially on Fab..."
Haha not for every woman
I work shift work and I'm a single parent , so when I'm off most people are at work |
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By *osyMan
over a year ago
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"I am also a widow two kids . So can only do day time meets . It suits some people not others . Babysitters are expensive no family members to do you a turn?"
You obviously don't have 3 kids |
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"I am also a widow two kids . So can only do day time meets . It suits some people not others . Babysitters are expensive no family members to do you a turn?
You obviously don't have 3 kids"
I don't but I know people with kids who have family members who help out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have three children,I don't have any family members who can babysit for me also I am not really looking for proper night out etc, my children come first always,daytime is more casual and suits me better to be casual until the kids get older then I can start dating properly again .
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By *osyMan
over a year ago
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"I am also a widow two kids . So can only do day time meets . It suits some people not others . Babysitters are expensive no family members to do you a turn?
You obviously don't have 3 kidsI don't but I know people with kids who have family members who help out. "
Not everyone's family is the same there blessed cause 3 is a handful |
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"I am also a widow two kids . So can only do day time meets . It suits some people not others . Babysitters are expensive no family members to do you a turn?
You obviously don't have 3 kidsI don't but I know people with kids who have family members who help out.
Not everyone's family is the same there blessed cause 3 is a handful"
if I had 3 kids to look after I'd be in an asylum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am also a widow two kids . So can only do day time meets . It suits some people not others . Babysitters are expensive no family members to do you a turn?
You obviously don't have 3 kidsI don't but I know people with kids who have family members who help out.
Not everyone's family is the same there blessed cause 3 is a handfulif I had 3 kids to look after I'd be in an asylum. "
Haha I have 3 young kids, Its easy   lol |
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By *osyMan
over a year ago
athlone |
"I am also a widow two kids . So can only do day time meets . It suits some people not others . Babysitters are expensive no family members to do you a turn?
You obviously don't have 3 kidsI don't but I know people with kids who have family members who help out.
Not everyone's family is the same there blessed cause 3 is a handfulif I had 3 kids to look after I'd be in an asylum. "
It's all worth it in the end whenever that is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am also a widow two kids . So can only do day time meets . It suits some people not others . Babysitters are expensive no family members to do you a turn?
You obviously don't have 3 kidsI don't but I know people with kids who have family members who help out.
Not everyone's family is the same there blessed cause 3 is a handfulif I had 3 kids to look after I'd be in an asylum.
Haha I have 3 young kids, Its easy lol "
Have to agree what ya I have three kids full time too and I work fulltime once u have a good routine it can go quite easy |
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Isn't the idea of being here to do whatever suits you OP? To fit it around your own schedule. Not to let others dictate when and where. If your hours don't suit some, just move on. Your kids and family life are far more important than some person who might meet you and decide you're not for them after all, might not turn up, or might meet you but ghost you an hour later... I don't have kids myself, but upsetting childrens' routines just in order to have sex with strangers wouldn't sound like great parenting to me, and tbh if I was arranging to meet someone and they didn't put their kids' needs first, I'd know they definitely weren't for me. Lots of people manage schooltime meets OP, I've managed it with my Fwb for years. His kids don't even know I exist and I'm more than happy to keep it that way  |
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By *hoknows82Man
over a year ago
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"Fair point but it's easier for women to find a man especially on Fab...
Haha not for every woman
I work shift work and I'm a single parent , so when I'm off most people are at work "
I'm the same... shift work. Single parent.
It's tricky to say the least! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a full time dad ,widower with three children, I am only available for daytime meets while the children are at school,also available Saturday and Sunday afternoons if needed.
Am I wasting my time on here ??
Just wondering what the odds of finding people for daytime meets is ?? "
Surely u can get a babysitter now and again been a single parent doesn't mean u can't go out. |
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