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A grown man inviting children to sleep in his bed.!
Alarm bells would be screaming !!
Both of the guys stories are very similar, but that could be because they have both read in papers and heard news reports about each others experiences with wacko jacko |
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I'm on now way defending Jackson..he's certainly under a shadow and has been for years bit the one thing I noticed is that one of the guys still has the rings Jackson gave him. Now..if it was me I'd have gotten rid of anything to do with the guy that shattered my life.. |
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Was a huge Jackson Fan and altho I still love the music having watched the documentry I feel he was definetly guilty .The parents are also guilty tho of neglecting to protect their children ,blinded by the fame and money they didn't put their kids safety and wellbeing first .Something they will have to carry for the rest of their lives but nothing compared to what those children have and will have to deal with for the rest of their lives . |
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"I'm on now way defending Jackson..he's certainly under a shadow and has been for years bit the one thing I noticed is that one of the guys still has the rings Jackson gave him. Now..if it was me I'd have gotten rid of anything to do with the guy that shattered my life.."
I think I'd be the same but I think this just highlights the complexity of childhood abuse and the strength of the bond/control that can form between an abuser and their victim. Both of the men went to great lengths to explain how MJ was patient, playful, attentive, generous and even loving to them. I think it was Wade who said that when he was called to testify in MJs defence, he did so because he still loved him.
Now throw into the mix that the person who has shown you all this warmth and kindness, and afforded you and your family amazing opportunities, just also happens to be sexually abusing you. It would be a total head fuck. For me, it was evident that both men were still struggling with the conflicting emotions they'd had for MJ. |
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