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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question. In the same way some women and couples won’t entertain meeting a guy unless he is packing 8” +, I’ve got meets purely because I’m over 6ft , without exchanging pics. So yes, it is my experience that height can be a real dealbreaker . |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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There's two heights
Fab height
Real height
In the real world I'm 6'3" but in fab I'm at least 6'7" depending on which 6 foot or 5'10" person I'm standing beside I have been a head taller than someone who was "6foot" tall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not a prerequisite, however height is a factor in attraction for many women, myself included. But if someone ticked the boxes otherwise, I'd overlook it (excuse the pun) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it a prerequisite to be at least 5.10 in order to get a meet? Ive had so many messages saying. Your nice but not tall enough!!!"
Used to have a preference for over six footers, but had my mind changed by a local fabber couple of years ago who wasn't as tall as myself but was an unbelievable regular meet.
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So i think so far. The answer is that its not a prerequisite. More of a major factor for a lot of women. I understand if your a 5.10 lady. I actually dont even bother messaging women and couples that tall. But its when a lady whos 5ft tells me im not tall enough. But hey i just wanted to get that of my short arsed chest.each to their own i suppose!!!!?????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So i think so far. The answer is that its not a prerequisite. More of a major factor for a lot of women. I understand if your a 5.10 lady. I actually dont even bother messaging women and couples that tall. But its when a lady whos 5ft tells me im not tall enough. But hey i just wanted to get that of my short arsed chest.each to their own i suppose!!!!??????"
I'm afraid even us short women are allowed preferences,soz. |
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Yes, its a major factor with Irish women. I am 5'10 so they make "exception" for me, how lucky.
I thought it was perfectly normal till I lived abroad and tall women didnt seem to care at all.
They would wear flats, but when we were going somewhere special, they would put on a dress showing off their legs and put on heels and be a fair amount taller than me and not even miss a beat about it.
I would joke that other men would think I was rich, and they would say "why?" and I'd say "to have such a pretty tall girl on my arm"
Then i get back to dublin, bunch of fat short orange potatoes twaddling down grafton street in high heels telling some 5'6 guy he is not good enough for them but I will do. Get the fucking bus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, its a major factor with Irish women. I am 5'10 so they make "exception" for me, how lucky.
I thought it was perfectly normal till I lived abroad and tall women didnt seem to care at all.
They would wear flats, but when we were going somewhere special, they would put on a dress showing off their legs and put on heels and be a fair amount taller than me and not even miss a beat about it.
I would joke that other men would think I was rich, and they would say "why?" and I'd say "to have such a pretty tall girl on my arm"
Then i get back to dublin, bunch of fat short orange potatoes twaddling down grafton street in high heels telling some 5'6 guy he is not good enough for them but I will do. Get the fucking bus."
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"Should have stayed abroad than"
I would have if I could have. I guess its not okay for me to judge women on their weight, something they can change, but perfectly fine for women to judge men on height, something they cant change.
I should just leave the country if that kind of mentality rubs me the wrong way and not come back |
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"Should have stayed abroad than
I would have if I could have. I guess its not okay for me to judge women on their weight, something they can change, but perfectly fine for women to judge men on height, something they cant change.
I should just leave the country if that kind of mentality rubs me the wrong way and not come back"
Not all of us judge on height or size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should have stayed abroad than
I would have if I could have. I guess its not okay for me to judge women on their weight, something they can change, but perfectly fine for women to judge men on height, something they cant change.
I should just leave the country if that kind of mentality rubs me the wrong way and not come back
Not all of us judge on height or size. "
Not everyone takes a preference as a judgement either.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should have stayed abroad than
I would have if I could have. I guess its not okay for me to judge women on their weight, something they can change, but perfectly fine for women to judge men on height, something they cant change.
I should just leave the country if that kind of mentality rubs me the wrong way and not come back
Not all of us judge on height or size.
Not everyone takes a preference as a judgement either. "
Nothing wrong with having preferences either just sick of all the Adonis types on here constantly slating women that carry a bit of weight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should have stayed abroad than
I would have if I could have. I guess its not okay for me to judge women on their weight, something they can change, but perfectly fine for women to judge men on height, something they cant change.
I should just leave the country if that kind of mentality rubs me the wrong way and not come back
Not all of us judge on height or size.
Not everyone takes a preference as a judgement either.
Nothing wrong with having preferences either just sick of all the Adonis types on here constantly slating women that carry a bit of weight. "
Best to ignore people like that Steph. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should have stayed abroad than
I would have if I could have. I guess its not okay for me to judge women on their weight, something they can change, but perfectly fine for women to judge men on height, something they cant change.
I should just leave the country if that kind of mentality rubs me the wrong way and not come back
Not all of us judge on height or size.
Not everyone takes a preference as a judgement either.
Nothing wrong with having preferences either just sick of all the Adonis types on here constantly slating women that carry a bit of weight.
Best to ignore people like that Steph. "
They usually block me anyway so I'm Grand |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong with having preferences either just sick of all the Adonis types on here constantly slating women that carry a bit of weight.
 am i an adonis type"
No idea but a lot of guys think they are and seem to have no issue commenting or slating a person because of their size etc. Cause everyone is so perfect on here. I'm well aware of my downfalls and well used to it been pointed out on here. Everyone has their likes and dislikes would be very boring if we all looked the same.
As for height I'd sooner a guy with manners and one that can hold a decent conversation and make me laugh over his height any day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm definitely guilty of this. On the one hand, I do feel bad for guys who are on the shorter end of the spectrum and struggle to find girls that are ok with that. But on the other, I know that my size rules me out of a lot of guys and that's totally ok with me. Nobody is obliged to fancy me, or you, so being butthurt and sensitive about it seems a waste of time.
If I were you I'd concentrate on girls who are short and who's idea of "tall" is relative. I'm 5'8 so I like my men in and around the 6'3 mark. But I have friends who are 5'3 and love a man around my height. Look for the right target market and your luck should change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess its not okay for me to judge women on their weight, something they can change, but perfectly fine for women to judge men on height, something they cant change.
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Whether or not a woman can change her weight is completely irrelevant. The point is, don't be pissy when people don't fancy you. Just because she doesn't want your dick in her mouth doesn't mean she's judging you ffs.
Whether you're short, fat, tall, skinny, whatever... Get a grip. Accept that people aren't obliged to fancy you. And try to build a level of self confidence that means you don't take it as offensive when they don't.
Cos honestly, the "woe is me" look is NOT sexy on any body type. |
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The thing is women say no one under a certain height all the time on fab. Must be over 6ft, must be at least 6ft2 or don’t bother contacting me etc etc. Don’t remember seeing guys profiles saying no one over size 16 or no- one over a certain weight. Mind you, some women’s profiles have dozens of must haves which would exclude 95% of the male population of planet earth ( probably because said women don’t actually live on planet Earth) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thing is women say no one under a certain height all the time on fab. Must be over 6ft, must be at least 6ft2 or don’t bother contacting me etc etc. Don’t remember seeing guys profiles saying no one over size 16 or no- one over a certain weight. Mind you, some women’s profiles have dozens of must haves which would exclude 95% of the male population of planet earth ( probably because said women don’t actually live on planet Earth)"
I know right? Nuts. If it's any help, I hear there are supplements you can take now that help strengthen up your ego. Hope they help! |
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I dont message amyone over 5.7 anymore! Lots of ladies arpund the 5ft height have told me they only like taller guys. I understand its individual preference.
But hey when all the tall guys are riddled with stds.
Dont come looking me!!????????
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"The thing is women say no one under a certain height all the time on fab. Must be over 6ft, must be at least 6ft2 or don’t bother contacting me etc etc. Don’t remember seeing guys profiles saying no one over size 16 or no- one over a certain weight. Mind you, some women’s profiles have dozens of must haves which would exclude 95% of the male population of planet earth ( probably because said women don’t actually live on planet Earth)"
have to agree some of the shite written on profiles would sicken ye but hey hoo if it keeps people happy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont message amyone over 5.7 anymore! Lots of ladies arpund the 5ft height have told me they only like taller guys. I understand its individual preference.
But hey when all the tall guys are riddled with stds.
Dont come looking me!!????????
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Lol
Well I dunno. I'd have thought that a girl who is 5 ft wouldn't want to be going near anyone over 5'7/5'8ish. Think of the neck strain! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thing is women say no one under a certain height all the time on fab. Must be over 6ft, must be at least 6ft2 or don’t bother contacting me etc etc. Don’t remember seeing guys profiles saying no one over size 16 or no- one over a certain weight. Mind you, some women’s profiles have dozens of must haves which would exclude 95% of the male population of planet earth ( probably because said women don’t actually live on planet Earth)have to agree some of the shite written on profiles would sicken ye but hey hoo if it keeps people happy "
Long profile = instant block . Can’t be arsed with self indulgent pompous crap especially when the person would qualify for my 600 lb life . Had to laugh today when some newbie without pics said they would only reply to verified profiles with face pics . Lol.... good luck with that mammoth new meat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can’t be arsed with self indulgent pompous crap especially when the person would qualify for my 600 lb life . "
Complain all you like about girls who don't like shorter men. But please note; we don't speak about them the way some people speak about plus size women.
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"Is it a prerequisite to be at least 5.10 in order to get a meet? Ive had so many messages saying. Your nice but not tall enough!!!"
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Would take more offence being called "nice" than "not tall enough"
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"Can’t be arsed with self indulgent pompous crap especially when the person would qualify for my 600 lb life .
Complain all you like about girls who don't like shorter men. But please note; we don't speak about them the way some people speak about plus size women.
PLEASE NOTE. "
"fat short orange potatoes"
"would qualify for my 600lb life"
"mammoth new meat"
Noted, noted and noted. Not finding someone attractive doesn't give you a licence to outright insult them and others like them.
As for height, I just like someone my height or taller. But it's not a dealbreaker. Which I think is the position of most women tbh.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thing is women say no one under a certain height all the time on fab. Must be over 6ft, must be at least 6ft2 or don’t bother contacting me etc etc. Don’t remember seeing guys profiles saying no one over size 16 or no- one over a certain weight. Mind you, some women’s profiles have dozens of must haves which would exclude 95% of the male population of planet earth ( probably because said women don’t actually live on planet Earth)"
Women can afford to be picky on here though. A lot of them are playing with partners who obviously are lacking in some department or other so that’s probably where they come up with their lists of requirements. Men can be as picky too but it’s unlikely you’re going to meet anyone on here if you rule most of the women out based on strict preferences. Basically I think guys have to either lower their standards or really strike lucky imvho but that’s just based on my experiences |
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I'm just about 5'1" and I'm really attracted to tall men. I've generally only dated men who were well over 6ft but within reason height isn't a massive deal breaker for me. My last boyfriend was 5'7", which I would say is short, and I was incredibly attracted to him and found his height to be perfect. I don't think I could date someone shorter than that though. I don't know why but I just haven't found myself attracted to a man shorter than that yet. It's not something I've done on purpose though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can’t be arsed with self indulgent pompous crap especially when the person would qualify for my 600 lb life .
Complain all you like about girls who don't like shorter men. But please note; we don't speak about them the way some people speak about plus size women.
PLEASE NOTE.
"fat short orange potatoes"
"would qualify for my 600lb life"
"mammoth new meat"
Noted, noted and noted. Not finding someone attractive doesn't give you a licence to outright insult them and others like them.
As for height, I just like someone my height or taller. But it's not a dealbreaker. Which I think is the position of most women tbh.
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70% of all women and couples profiles have disparaging insulting remarks about various Male characteristics. No chubbies , no small dicks, only VWE (and for U dickheads VWE is 8” plus), no short arses - must be 6 ft plus , and so on and so on and so on . I’ve never seen a guy specify height , weight, looks , tightness of vagina, sagginess of breasts. Real double standards at play . As I said , pompous up themselves ridiculous profiles are instant block. Can’t be arsed keeping myself awake to read war and peace profiles . God help the guy who turns up to meet these ppl only to be chastised for being an inch too small according to their boorish exacting standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can’t be arsed with self indulgent pompous crap especially when the person would qualify for my 600 lb life .
Complain all you like about girls who don't like shorter men. But please note; we don't speak about them the way some people speak about plus size women.
PLEASE NOTE.
"fat short orange potatoes"
"would qualify for my 600lb life"
"mammoth new meat"
Noted, noted and noted. Not finding someone attractive doesn't give you a licence to outright insult them and others like them.
As for height, I just like someone my height or taller. But it's not a dealbreaker. Which I think is the position of most women tbh.
70% of all women and couples profiles have disparaging insulting remarks about various Male characteristics. No chubbies , no small dicks, only VWE (and for U dickheads VWE is 8” plus), no short arses - must be 6 ft plus , and so on and so on and so on . I’ve never seen a guy specify height , weight, looks , tightness of vagina, sagginess of breasts. Real double standards at play . As I said , pompous up themselves ridiculous profiles are instant block. Can’t be arsed keeping myself awake to read war and peace profiles . God help the guy who turns up to meet these ppl only to be chastised for being an inch too small according to their boorish exacting standards "
Ah come on there are plenty of male profiles with likes and dislikes on them. It's allowed we all have our preferences. Some might be a bit more insulting about it but each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can’t be arsed with self indulgent pompous crap especially when the person would qualify for my 600 lb life .
Complain all you like about girls who don't like shorter men. But please note; we don't speak about them the way some people speak about plus size women.
PLEASE NOTE.
"fat short orange potatoes"
"would qualify for my 600lb life"
"mammoth new meat"
Noted, noted and noted. Not finding someone attractive doesn't give you a licence to outright insult them and others like them.
As for height, I just like someone my height or taller. But it's not a dealbreaker. Which I think is the position of most women tbh.
70% of all women and couples profiles have disparaging insulting remarks about various Male characteristics. No chubbies , no small dicks, only VWE (and for U dickheads VWE is 8” plus), no short arses - must be 6 ft plus , and so on and so on and so on . I’ve never seen a guy specify height , weight, looks , tightness of vagina, sagginess of breasts. Real double standards at play . As I said , pompous up themselves ridiculous profiles are instant block. Can’t be arsed keeping myself awake to read war and peace profiles . God help the guy who turns up to meet these ppl only to be chastised for being an inch too small according to their boorish exacting standards
Ah come on there are plenty of male profiles with likes and dislikes on them. It's allowed we all have our preferences. Some might be a bit more insulting about it but each to their own. "
Never seen any guy say no women above a size 14. Has anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can’t be arsed with self indulgent pompous crap especially when the person would qualify for my 600 lb life .
Complain all you like about girls who don't like shorter men. But please note; we don't speak about them the way some people speak about plus size women.
PLEASE NOTE.
"fat short orange potatoes"
"would qualify for my 600lb life"
"mammoth new meat"
Noted, noted and noted. Not finding someone attractive doesn't give you a licence to outright insult them and others like them.
As for height, I just like someone my height or taller. But it's not a dealbreaker. Which I think is the position of most women tbh.
70% of all women and couples profiles have disparaging insulting remarks about various Male characteristics. No chubbies , no small dicks, only VWE (and for U dickheads VWE is 8” plus), no short arses - must be 6 ft plus , and so on and so on and so on . I’ve never seen a guy specify height , weight, looks , tightness of vagina, sagginess of breasts. Real double standards at play . As I said , pompous up themselves ridiculous profiles are instant block. Can’t be arsed keeping myself awake to read war and peace profiles . God help the guy who turns up to meet these ppl only to be chastised for being an inch too small according to their boorish exacting standards
Ah come on there are plenty of male profiles with likes and dislikes on them. It's allowed we all have our preferences. Some might be a bit more insulting about it but each to their own.
Never seen any guy say no women above a size 14. Has anyone?"
size 14 is quite a normal size. But plenty of guys have "hot" "fit" "athletic" on their profile and as not allowed name a profile in particular. At end of day everyone has their preferences just don't need to insult the type of women you don't like. Fab is supposed to be fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is such a pointless conversation. Every one is totally entitled to have preferences. Of course they are. There's just no need to be nasty about the people you're not attracted to. |
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"This is such a pointless conversation. Every one is totally entitled to have preferences. Of course they are. There's just no need to be nasty about the people you're not attracted to. "
Totally agree. I don’t care how tall , how anything a woman is and express no preferences in my profile. Most women I have met would have curvy in their profile which is fine and dandy by
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Depends on the lady's preferences I guess. 6' seems to be the happy height for me. I know people bang on about 'what does it matter if you're both lying down', but seriously... Only a pillow princess will always lie down. Some of us like far more variety in positions, activities and locations  and at 5'4, I've found that a 6' man is simply better positioned and proportioned for some of those positions and activities. So yes, I use height as a passive filter when someone messages me. There have been exceptions, people I got to know through forum or chatroom chats, but from a purely 'do I reply to this guy's message?' pov... I use height as a filter. |
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"Depends on the lady's preferences I guess. 6' seems to be the happy height for me. I know people bang on about 'what does it matter if you're both lying down', but seriously... Only a pillow princess will always lie down. Some of us like far more variety in positions, activities and locations and at 5'4, I've found that a 6' man is simply better positioned and proportioned for some of those positions and activities. So yes, I use height as a passive filter when someone messages me. There have been exceptions, people I got to know through forum or chatroom chats, but from a purely 'do I reply to this guy's message?' pov... I use height as a filter. "
Agree 100%. I prefer 5ft 5 ish.... I’m 6 ft 1 and a half , and those heights are a perfect fit. Once met a woman who was 6ft 1 so about 6ft 5” in heels and I could hardly kiss her standing up and as we manoeuvred around the house , positions were difficult ( well they probably weren’t but it was hard to get used to particularly such long legs which made standing up/ foggy and others tricky |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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5' 8" here.
I'm the shortest of my group of friends and that's been their fodder for banter over the years so I'm pretty thick skinned about it now and don't take it to heart.
It is what it is.
I've been with taller and shorter women but it just feels more natural to me with a shorter woman so that would be my preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like my men taller than me though as I am just 5ft 3" most guys are taller. Lol
My preference is 6ft or over though I have met shorter and no complaints at all lol.
Just find it soo sexy wearing heels and the guy still has to bend to kiss me.
But....when push comes to shove...it is the 2 people and the sexual chemistry that counts in the end and height means little if there is no chemistry.  |
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"Whether or not a woman can change her weight is completely irrelevant. The point is, don't be pissy when people don't fancy you. Just because she doesn't want your dick in her mouth doesn't mean she's judging you ffs."
Who does not fancy me? Every girl I have ever wanted in life I have had, and I don't judge on body size. I have been with very overweight, a little overweight, a bit curvy, the right weight, atlethic, muscely, skinny, shorter than me, my exact same height and taller than me.
Glad I am not restrained by judging people on their bodies.
"And try to build a level of self confidence that means you don't take it as offensive when they don't."
Take your own advice and don't take it as offensive when someone says they dont want a fatty? They would probably judge you as curvy? I dunno? I'm sure they might make an exception for you? No need to get angry. |
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"Depends on the lady's preferences I guess. 6' seems to be the happy height for me. I know people bang on about 'what does it matter if you're both lying down', but seriously... Only a pillow princess will always lie down. Some of us like far more variety in positions, activities and locations and at 5'4, I've found that a 6' man is simply better positioned and proportioned for some of those positions and activities. So yes, I use height as a passive filter when someone messages me. There have been exceptions, people I got to know through forum or chatroom chats, but from a purely 'do I reply to this guy's message?' pov... I use height as a filter. "
I'm 5ft 4 and I never passed any heed on a guys height before but now I might have to do some research and try a few different heights just to say what fits best |
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"I'm 5ft 4 and I never passed any heed on a guys height before but now I might have to do some research and try a few different heights just to say what fits best "
The research was already done. The best possible height difference possible for two people is 3/4 inches barefoot.
It's to do with spontaneous kisses, breathing into each others necks, proper hug height etc etc etc.
Even Irish girls stick to this rule subconsciously, however they add their high heel height on. 5'6 becomes 5'10, then add on the 3/4 inches and youre 6'2 minimum etc, etc. |
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"I'm 5ft 4 and I never passed any heed on a guys height before but now I might have to do some research and try a few different heights just to say what fits best
The research was already done. The best possible height difference possible for two people is 3/4 inches barefoot.
It's to do with spontaneous kisses, breathing into each others necks, proper hug height etc etc etc.
Even Irish girls stick to this rule subconsciously, however they add their high heel height on. 5'6 becomes 5'10, then add on the 3/4 inches and youre 6'2 minimum etc, etc."
Who did the research though? I don't do heels so no need to add any on. |
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But....when push comes to shove...it is the 2 people and the sexual chemistry that counts in the end and height means little if there is no chemistry. "
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Ah no way!! Really? Who cares how tall you are when you are playing with them.
Yes it would be a consideration on a dating site for me only because I want an arm around me but would not be a deal breaker if we clicked |
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"Depends on the lady's preferences I guess. 6' seems to be the happy height for me. I know people bang on about 'what does it matter if you're both lying down', but seriously... Only a pillow princess will always lie down. Some of us like far more variety in positions, activities and locations and at 5'4, I've found that a 6' man is simply better positioned and proportioned for some of those positions and activities. So yes, I use height as a passive filter when someone messages me. There have been exceptions, people I got to know through forum or chatroom chats, but from a purely 'do I reply to this guy's message?' pov... I use height as a filter.
I'm 5ft 4 and I never passed any heed on a guys height before but now I might have to do some research and try a few different heights just to say what fits best "
Be thorough now.... You have to test them in/on the shower, stairs, kitchen table, etc., to fully complete your research. I look forward to your published findings |
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"Depends on the lady's preferences I guess. 6' seems to be the happy height for me. I know people bang on about 'what does it matter if you're both lying down', but seriously... Only a pillow princess will always lie down. Some of us like far more variety in positions, activities and locations and at 5'4, I've found that a 6' man is simply better positioned and proportioned for some of those positions and activities. So yes, I use height as a passive filter when someone messages me. There have been exceptions, people I got to know through forum or chatroom chats, but from a purely 'do I reply to this guy's message?' pov... I use height as a filter.
I'm 5ft 4 and I never passed any heed on a guys height before but now I might have to do some research and try a few different heights just to say what fits best
Be thorough now.... You have to test them in/on the shower, stairs, kitchen table, etc., to fully complete your research. I look forward to your published findings "
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"Whether or not a woman can change her weight is completely irrelevant. The point is, don't be pissy when people don't fancy you. Just because she doesn't want your dick in her mouth doesn't mean she's judging you ffs.
Who does not fancy me? Every girl I have ever wanted in life I have had, and I don't judge on body size. I have been with very overweight, a little overweight, a bit curvy, the right weight, atlethic, muscely, skinny, shorter than me, my exact same height and taller than me.
Glad I am not restrained by judging people on their bodies.
And try to build a level of self confidence that means you don't take it as offensive when they don't.
Take your own advice and don't take it as offensive when someone says they dont want a fatty? They would probably judge you as curvy? I dunno? I'm sure they might make an exception for you? No need to get angry."
I'm not remotely angry. If youd read my posts you'd see that I don't take any offense when guys aren't inti my body type. Genuinely. We all have our types and that's perfectly fine.
My point was just that just because you (no, not you specifically believe it or not) don't fancy someone doesn't mean you should be a cunt about it. That's all! |
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"Whether or not a woman can change her weight is completely irrelevant. The point is, don't be pissy when people don't fancy you. Just because she doesn't want your dick in her mouth doesn't mean she's judging you ffs.
Who does not fancy me? Every girl I have ever wanted in life I have had, and I don't judge on body size. I have been with very overweight, a little overweight, a bit curvy, the right weight, atlethic, muscely, skinny, shorter than me, my exact same height and taller than me.
Glad I am not restrained by judging people on their bodies.
And try to build a level of self confidence that means you don't take it as offensive when they don't.
Take your own advice and don't take it as offensive when someone says they dont want a fatty? They would probably judge you as curvy? I dunno? I'm sure they might make an exception for you? No need to get angry."
Also, I couldn't fancy you less.
Just answering your question. |
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Wouldn't mind myself how tall someone is I'm 5"11" was with a 6"5" women for few months a while ago and she didn't mind that I was shorter but suppose it's personal opinion |
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6”2 - and hated being tall growing up. One occasion at the cinema I was charged for a adult ticket price when I was only around 14.
There again didn’t seem to be in many fights growing up as a kid |
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"Thats a long ass thread can someone tell me if I need to buy heels or not?"
If you have to then why not?
I wish to see you walking in heels 
It will be sooo funny! |
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