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over a year ago
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Ok going by a few threads on forums. Not many having luck on here ( will admit myself included)
So how about today you take a chance on someone you haven't contacted before? An actual message i.e
" Seen you from afar so taking a chance and popping you a message on this miserable to see how you doing"
Sure what harm can it do, go forth and Fab lads and Lassie's ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok going by a few threads on forums. Not many having luck on here ( will admit myself included)
So how about today you take a chance on someone you haven't contacted before? An actual message i.e
" Seen you from afar so taking a chance and popping you a message on this miserable to see how you doing"
Sure what harm can it do, go forth and Fab lads and Lassie's "
Have taken your advice and sent a message to a lady I hadn't messaged before, if I don't hear back I'm holding you personally responsible lol ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok going by a few threads on forums. Not many having luck on here ( will admit myself included)
So how about today you take a chance on someone you haven't contacted before? An actual message i.e
" Seen you from afar so taking a chance and popping you a message on this miserable to see how you doing"
Sure what harm can it do, go forth and Fab lads and Lassie's
Have taken your advice and sent a message to a lady I hadn't messaged before, if I don't hear back I'm holding you personally responsible lol "
At least you tried and if no response you can say. I tried and it's her loss lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok going by a few threads on forums. Not many having luck on here ( will admit myself included)
So how about today you take a chance on someone you haven't contacted before? An actual message i.e
" Seen you from afar so taking a chance and popping you a message on this miserable to see how you doing"
Sure what harm can it do, go forth and Fab lads and Lassie's
Have taken your advice and sent a message to a lady I hadn't messaged before, if I don't hear back I'm holding you personally responsible lol
At least you tried and if no response you can say. I tried and it's her loss lol"
Lol and that's what I'll tell myself You would be a 200 mile round trip which would be a bit much mid week or I'd treat you to liquid social lol |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh that has all ways being the luck of the draw, and trying not to get buried in 100’s of messages from others is the timing issue we all have
Very true its all timings fault "
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"Im in a serious slump at the mo...half a case of I can't be bothered and the other half is no one really appeals. Roll on the Summer"
...is that because the sun makes you horny and so your standards drop..?? ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Im in a serious slump at the mo...half a case of I can't be bothered and the other half is no one really appeals. Roll on the Summer
...is that because the sun makes you horny and so your standards drop..?? "
Not my standards no...my knickers though... ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok going by a few threads on forums. Not many having luck on here ( will admit myself included)
So how about today you take a chance on someone you haven't contacted before? An actual message i.e
" Seen you from afar so taking a chance and popping you a message on this miserable to see how you doing"
Sure what harm can it do, go forth and Fab lads and Lassie's " nice Idea steph ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Im in a serious slump at the mo...half a case of I can't be bothered and the other half is no one really appeals. Roll on the Summer"
I think this is more to the point we get so used to being in Fab and the usual abuse and comments become the norm that we can’t be arsed half the time in reading profiles, messages or engaging fully waiting for that one profile to tick all the boxes so we can get excited about something on Fab again ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to get this to work some people may need to adjust their filter & privacy settings.
it is a great positive idea, stepping out of our comfort zone is to be recommended.
I certainly would have no problem with women or couples making the 1st contact. |
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"to get this to work some people may need to adjust their filter & privacy settings.
it is a great positive idea, stepping out of our comfort zone is to be recommended.
I certainly would have no problem with women or couples making the 1st contact."
Does this not all ready happen where women and couples message people where a profile has caught there eye? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok going by a few threads on forums. Not many having luck on here ( will admit myself included)
How did you come to that conclusion, op? "
Was just trying to post something positive on forums, not everyone is flooded with 100's of messages. Was just trying to be helpful but hey what the hell do I know. |
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"Ok going by a few threads on forums. Not many having luck on here ( will admit myself included)
How did you come to that conclusion, op?
Was just trying to post something positive on forums, not everyone is flooded with 100's of messages. Was just trying to be helpful but hey what the hell do I know. "
Good on ya Steph. A nice positive start to the week, which I applaud ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok going by a few threads on forums. Not many having luck on here ( will admit myself included)
How did you come to that conclusion, op?
Was just trying to post something positive on forums, not everyone is flooded with 100's of messages. Was just trying to be helpful but hey what the hell do I know. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always send the first message now.
It's usually one taking the piss out of an update someone has put up, because that's the delightful creature that I am always get the best chats that way.
Be brave people! |
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"I always send the first message now.
It's usually one taking the piss out of an update someone has put up, because that's the delightful creature that I am always get the best chats that way.
Be brave people!"
Fair play Morgan. It’s only right too the mat couples and females go after what they want ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always send the first message now.
It's usually one taking the piss out of an update someone has put up, because that's the delightful creature that I am always get the best chats that way.
Be brave people!
Fair play Morgan. It’s only right too the mat couples and females go after what they want "
No point wasting time Mild |
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"I always send the first message now.
It's usually one taking the piss out of an update someone has put up, because that's the delightful creature that I am always get the best chats that way.
Be brave people!
Fair play Morgan. It’s only right too the mat couples and females go after what they want
No point wasting time Mild"
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