I would say too young but sure what do I know about you both.
No one achieved anything in life without making a few mistakes along the way.
Just dont get obsessed. Use it as fun on an odd occasion.
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Don’t mean are we to young to swing we both love thought of it... are we too young for most couple on this site don’t really see much people our age and it’s mostly single men just txting and we were just starting to think maybe we are too young for a lot couples |
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We started swinging when we were in our early 20's, we weren't on any sites or anything and then when we were 26 we found an Irish site, had a few meets then we found here!! We got invited to our first house party after a few months and we've never looked back since!! You just have to take the plunge, we're so lucky we did!!
The rest is history....
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?"
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If I was talking to a friend in his/her 20s, would say not to bother with this lifestyle for a few years. You're better off having a relationship together and experiencing all the highs  and lows  that that brings ..versus adding in more complexity of meeting other singles, couples, etc and wondering if he/she is better in bed, more well endowed, etc...
Also, if you start swinging it can be hard to walk away from especially if you never experienced much else...
Now, if it's a fantasy you just HAVE TO DO , I'd say do it then delete your account as its not the healthiest place to be for a young couple in love and starting out 
Others will differ with me but that's my opinion & am just being as honest as I can be here 
However, whatever you both decide to do, be safe, have fun & best of luck!  |
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Everyone or at least most will say that age doesnt matter, but it kind of does.
You would get alot more interest if you were a bit older, simple reason being that moat of the couples on here are older.
The perception is that people of your age are less experianced and less mature, of course this is not true for all, but in general even from my own single exploits there isnt much I'd click with a 20/21 year old over.
You will no doubt find some people that either wont care about this or will gove you a chance to show your personality but you are deffo facing a bigger challange than a couple in there late 20' early 30's or older |
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?"
We have played with younger and older couples it doesn’t matter about the age really just if you like the other people. Go and have fun age isn’t an issue.
Having said that, for everyone there are limits which will stop them playing for some it’s beards or smokers or lesbians or bi, whatever it is don’t worry about it just find someone who fits you. |
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?
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If I was talking to a friend in his/her 20s, would say not to bother with this lifestyle for a few years. You're better off having a relationship together and experiencing all the highs and lows that that brings ..versus adding in more complexity of meeting other singles, couples, etc and wondering if he/she is better in bed, more well endowed, etc...
Also, if you start swinging it can be hard to walk away from especially if you never experienced much else...
Now, if it's a fantasy you just HAVE TO DO , I'd say do it then delete your account as its not the healthiest place to be for a young couple in love and starting out
Others will differ with me but that's my opinion & am just being as honest as I can be here
However, whatever you both decide to do, be safe, have fun & best of luck! "
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This is sound advice, couldn't have said it better. |
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?
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If I was talking to a friend in his/her 20s, would say not to bother with this lifestyle for a few years. You're better off having a relationship together and experiencing all the highs and lows that that brings ..versus adding in more complexity of meeting other singles, couples, etc and wondering if he/she is better in bed, more well endowed, etc...
Also, if you start swinging it can be hard to walk away from especially if you never experienced much else...
Now, if it's a fantasy you just HAVE TO DO , I'd say do it then delete your account as its not the healthiest place to be for a young couple in love and starting out
Others will differ with me but that's my opinion & am just being as honest as I can be here
However, whatever you both decide to do, be safe, have fun & best of luck! "
I agree totally |
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?
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If I was talking to a friend in his/her 20s, would say not to bother with this lifestyle for a few years. You're better off having a relationship together and experiencing all the highs and lows that that brings ..versus adding in more complexity of meeting other singles, couples, etc and wondering if he/she is better in bed, more well endowed, etc...
Also, if you start swinging it can be hard to walk away from especially if you never experienced much else...
Now, if it's a fantasy you just HAVE TO DO , I'd say do it then delete your account as its not the healthiest place to be for a young couple in love and starting out
Others will differ with me but that's my opinion & am just being as honest as I can be here
However, whatever you both decide to do, be safe, have fun & best of luck! "
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Have to say for me I do have an age limit, as I just wouldn't feel comfortable being with someone the same age as my own children, that's my own personal preference but I'm sure there are couples on fab that would be more open to meeting a younger couple |
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?
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If I was talking to a friend in his/her 20s, would say not to bother with this lifestyle for a few years. You're better off having a relationship together and experiencing all the highs and lows that that brings ..versus adding in more complexity of meeting other singles, couples, etc and wondering if he/she is better in bed, more well endowed, etc...
Also, if you start swinging it can be hard to walk away from especially if you never experienced much else...
Now, if it's a fantasy you just HAVE TO DO , I'd say do it then delete your account as its not the healthiest place to be for a young couple in love and starting out
Others will differ with me but that's my opinion & am just being as honest as I can be here
However, whatever you both decide to do, be safe, have fun & best of luck! "
Excellent reply Tim. |
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?"
My option yes definitely way to young to indulge in this lifestyle.. |
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?
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If I was talking to a friend in his/her 20s, would say not to bother with this lifestyle for a few years. You're better off having a relationship together and experiencing all the highs and lows that that brings ..versus adding in more complexity of meeting other singles, couples, etc and wondering if he/she is better in bed, more well endowed, etc...
Also, if you start swinging it can be hard to walk away from especially if you never experienced much else...
Now, if it's a fantasy you just HAVE TO DO , I'd say do it then delete your account as its not the healthiest place to be for a young couple in love and starting out
Others will differ with me but that's my opinion & am just being as honest as I can be here
However, whatever you both decide to do, be safe, have fun & best of luck! "
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"Everyone or at least most will say that age doesnt matter, but it kind of does.
You would get alot more interest if you were a bit older, simple reason being that moat of the couples on here are older.
The perception is that people of your age are less experianced and less mature, of course this is not true for all, but in general even from my own single exploits there isnt much I'd click with a 20/21 year old over.
You will no doubt find some people that either wont care about this or will gove you a chance to show your personality but you are deffo facing a bigger challange than a couple in there late 20' early 30's or older"
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"... are we too young for most couple on this site don’t really see much people our age and it’s mostly single men just txting and we were just starting to think maybe we are too young for a lot couples"
I would say that a lot of couples here on Fab, have at least neeces and nephews, if not sons and daughters your age, so not interested in you at all.
Twice we were approached by very young couples and we refused to meet.
Couples here start when they've experienced a lot of sexual things on their own already and trying to spice things up a bit or fulfill some sexual kink of fetish.
Not a lot of people start swinging when they are so young, at least I haven't seen too many young couples on Fab and by young, I mean in their early 19's and 20's.
But if you decided that swinging is your thing, I am sure you will find someone as close to your age as possible and start tasting the bitter sweet taste of "swinging life"  , but you will have a lot of patience... hard for your age . |
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?"
The hubby and I were talking about this just before. In general I prefer playing with couples a similar age to ourselves, say a max 10 year age gap. I feel if it goes beyond that the connection/click is more difficult to find. The hubby's preference is a bit more flexible. When it comes down to it tho age is not the most important thing, its more about mindset and the click xxx Mrs Bugs |
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over a year ago
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?
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If I was talking to a friend in his/her 20s, would say not to bother with this lifestyle for a few years. You're better off having a relationship together and experiencing all the highs and lows that that brings ..versus adding in more complexity of meeting other singles, couples, etc and wondering if he/she is better in bed, more well endowed, etc...
Also, if you start swinging it can be hard to walk away from especially if you never experienced much else...
Now, if it's a fantasy you just HAVE TO DO , I'd say do it then delete your account as its not the healthiest place to be for a young couple in love and starting out
Others will differ with me but that's my opinion & am just being as honest as I can be here
However, whatever you both decide to do, be safe, have fun & best of luck! "
Wise words |
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You are both too young for me (crack) but that's only because you are younger than one of my kids lol but that's just me not Sack lol
Everyone is different and I'm sure ye will not have a problem getting meets xx |
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"We are a young couple love the thought of swinging but question is does age matter?are we too young?
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If I was talking to a friend in his/her 20s, would say not to bother with this lifestyle for a few years. You're better off having a relationship together and experiencing all the highs and lows that that brings ..versus adding in more complexity of meeting other singles, couples, etc and wondering if he/she is better in bed, more well endowed, etc...
Also, if you start swinging it can be hard to walk away from especially if you never experienced much else...
Now, if it's a fantasy you just HAVE TO DO , I'd say do it then delete your account as its not the healthiest place to be for a young couple in love and starting out
Others will differ with me but that's my opinion & am just being as honest as I can be here
However, whatever you both decide to do, be safe, have fun & best of luck! "
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