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over a year ago
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"Asking for a face pic after chatting ye grand,no probs and asks for one more,yes no problem,, then blocked ,not like a profile pic I would let them no, not a block straight away,"
It's the height of ignorance.
The easy thing is to just let them know "sorry your not for me"
Didn't take much did it 
But blocking after the face pic ....... not acceptable.
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over a year ago
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"The best line we got was. ...Do you have another face pic of Mr Toad for his wife to see. ..cause she is not sure. ...absolutely totally RUDE. ..were do people get off. ..  "
Clearly not on Mr Toads face |
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Sadly sometimes with experience women find it less complicated to simply block someone they're not attracted to. If you tell someone you don't find them attractive the risk is pretty high that they will not appreciate your honesty. Fact. So rather than risk either being told you're a fat old hag anyway and should be grateful that anyone would even mail you, or have someone whine and beg you to change your mind, its easier just to block. I haven't done it personally, but I can understand why some women do, especially if they have multiple convos going on with multiple potential meets.
We live in a time where even employers rarely send out a 'thanks but no thanks' to unsuccessful applicants anymore, it's just the world we live in. |
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"Sadly sometimes with experience women find it less complicated to simply block someone they're not attracted to. If you tell someone you don't find them attractive the risk is pretty high that they will not appreciate your honesty. Fact. So rather than risk either being told you're a fat old hag anyway and should be grateful that anyone would even mail you, or have someone whine and beg you to change your mind, its easier just to block. I haven't done it personally, but I can understand why some women do, especially if they have multiple convos going on with multiple potential meets.
We live in a time where even employers rarely send out a 'thanks but no thanks' to unsuccessful applicants anymore, it's just the world we live in. "
I have to agree, just getting to chat with someone on here is an achievement if you don’t match then accept it and move on. No need for begging or abuse. |
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Women seen to think men will just get nasty if they don't fancy us and unfortunately some guys do on here
Me personally I just say no problem and happy fabbing
But I do think a reply would be more respectful blocking is simply rude
We're all here for a bit of fun we're definitely not here to feel bad about ourselves and to be nasty to people
Life is to short for that |
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"Asking for a face pic after chatting ye grand,no probs and asks for one more,yes no problem,, then blocked ,not like a profile pic I would let them no, not a block straight away,"
either knew you or didnt want to say no in case of abuse (not saying you would but some are better safe then sorry)
just pick yourself up and move on. |
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"Asking for a face pic after chatting ye grand,no probs and asks for one more,yes no problem,, then blocked ,not like a profile pic I would let them no, not a block straight away,
It's the height of ignorance.
The easy thing is to just let them know "sorry your not for me"
Didn't take much did it
But blocking after the face pic ....... not acceptable.
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"Asking for a face pic after chatting ye grand,no probs and asks for one more,yes no problem,, then blocked ,not like a profile pic I would let them no, not a block straight away,
It's the height of ignorance.
The easy thing is to just let them know "sorry your not for me"
Didn't take much did it
But blocking after the face pic ....... not acceptable.
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"Sadly sometimes with experience women find it less complicated to simply block someone they're not attracted to. If you tell someone you don't find them attractive the risk is pretty high that they will not appreciate your honesty. Fact. So rather than risk either being told you're a fat old hag anyway and should be grateful that anyone would even mail you, or have someone whine and beg you to change your mind, its easier just to block. I haven't done it personally, but I can understand why some women do, especially if they have multiple convos going on with multiple potential meets.
We live in a time where even employers rarely send out a 'thanks but no thanks' to unsuccessful applicants anymore, it's just the world we live in. "
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"Sadly sometimes with experience women find it less complicated to simply block someone they're not attracted to. If you tell someone you don't find them attractive the risk is pretty high that they will not appreciate your honesty. Fact. So rather than risk either being told you're a fat old hag anyway and should be grateful that anyone would even mail you, or have someone whine and beg you to change your mind, its easier just to block. I haven't done it personally, but I can understand why some women do, especially if they have multiple convos going on with multiple potential meets.
We live in a time where even employers rarely send out a 'thanks but no thanks' to unsuccessful applicants anymore, it's just the world we live in. "
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"Sadly sometimes with experience women find it less complicated to simply block someone they're not attracted to. If you tell someone you don't find them attractive the risk is pretty high that they will not appreciate your honesty. Fact. So rather than risk either being told you're a fat old hag anyway and should be grateful that anyone would even mail you, or have someone whine and beg you to change your mind, its easier just to block. I haven't done it personally, but I can understand why some women do, especially if they have multiple convos going on with multiple potential meets.
We live in a time where even employers rarely send out a 'thanks but no thanks' to unsuccessful applicants anymore, it's just the world we live in. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happens all the time that's the power women have over us and they no we.ll keep coming back"
You think women don't get blocked, ghosted, have meets don't show, receive unwarranted insulting messages?
We do
It's part and parcel of a site like this
Online anonymity sometimes breeds unpleasant behavior
Suck it up and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with Geordie. But in all honesty who cares.  "
You have to accept you are not for everyone's taste. We all have to accept that
Btw majority of my block list is lads who have barraged me with mail when I am not interested. Sometimes saying no just doesn't end the conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with Geordie. But in all honesty who cares.
You have to accept you are not for everyone's taste. We all have to accept that
Btw majority of my block list is lads who have barraged me with mail when I am not interested. Sometimes saying no just doesn't end the conversation"
Just tell her you have a pack of chocolate hobnobs lads
She just can’t resist them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been blocked by a few even after just sending a nice hello message. I’ve never been rude or insulting but sure I just laugh and move on. Not point getting annoy over something u can’t change lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with Geordie. But in all honesty who cares.
You have to accept you are not for everyone's taste. We all have to accept that
Btw majority of my block list is lads who have barraged me with mail when I am not interested. Sometimes saying no just doesn't end the conversation
Just tell her you have a pack of chocolate hobnobs lads
She just can’t resist them "
It's Fox's these days. Keep up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with Geordie. But in all honesty who cares.
You have to accept you are not for everyone's taste. We all have to accept that
Btw majority of my block list is lads who have barraged me with mail when I am not interested. Sometimes saying no just doesn't end the conversation
Just tell her you have a pack of chocolate hobnobs lads
She just can’t resist them
It's Fox's these days. Keep up "
Abandon mint time 
Like all the rest ... changes mind like the weather |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with Geordie. But in all honesty who cares.
You have to accept you are not for everyone's taste. We all have to accept that
Btw majority of my block list is lads who have barraged me with mail when I am not interested. Sometimes saying no just doesn't end the conversation
Just tell her you have a pack of chocolate hobnobs lads
She just can’t resist them
It's Fox's these days. Keep up
Abandon mint time
Like all the rest ... changes mind like the weather "
And u call urself fast lad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with Geordie. But in all honesty who cares.
You have to accept you are not for everyone's taste. We all have to accept that
Btw majority of my block list is lads who have barraged me with mail when I am not interested. Sometimes saying no just doesn't end the conversation
Just tell her you have a pack of chocolate hobnobs lads
She just can’t resist them
It's Fox's these days. Keep up
Abandon mint time
Like all the rest ... changes mind like the weather
And u call urself fast lad "
Well hello Totsy
The older I get the Faster I was  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with Geordie. But in all honesty who cares.
You have to accept you are not for everyone's taste. We all have to accept that
Btw majority of my block list is lads who have barraged me with mail when I am not interested. Sometimes saying no just doesn't end the conversation
Just tell her you have a pack of chocolate hobnobs lads
She just can’t resist them
It's Fox's these days. Keep up
Abandon mint time
Like all the rest ... changes mind like the weather
And u call urself fast lad
Well hello Totsy
The older I get the Faster I was "
The older u get the faster u forget the right biscuits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with Geordie. But in all honesty who cares.
You have to accept you are not for everyone's taste. We all have to accept that
Btw majority of my block list is lads who have barraged me with mail when I am not interested. Sometimes saying no just doesn't end the conversation"
Unreal. No is a NO in my language.
I'd much prefer a lady to say "sorry this ain't going anywhere "
Problem solved , wish them well and move on.
Much better than wondering if it's going to happen or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the one that annoys mens send a pic and I'll send one back and then boom blocked
have manners it costs nothing
not my type
not into you
hers a pic but don't think we would get on
whatever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the one that annoys mens send a pic and I'll send one back and then boom blocked
have manners it costs nothing
not my type
not into you
hers a pic but don't think we would get on
whatever "
It's not about manners. It's about safety. If we wanted everyone to see our face - it would be made public.
As ladies above said - being polite doesn't always end a conversation and it's frustrating to have so many threads going along the lines of "why don't you fancy me?" "Give me a chance" "I'm a nice genuine guy" etc.
Block is just more efficient. It also stops that woman's account from popping up on that man's updates so they also don't get frustrated in future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the one that annoys mens send a pic and I'll send one back and then boom blocked
have manners it costs nothing
not my type
not into you
hers a pic but don't think we would get on
whatever "
easier then getting abuse for saying no. not saying you would give them abuse but many guys and even women and couples do. ego is a fragile thing and a lot think if they can't get their holes here there is something wrong. hence abuse cause they can't get sex form what they see is a sex site.
p.s. this is just m opinion that unfortunately has been proven right more times then wrong |
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