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Couple but single meetings ??
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Are you a couple that just cant find the right couple to meet one like one off the couple the other not and vis versa .....should we do single meetings but on same date nights ???
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over a year ago
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We gave up on the idea as it's so difficult to find a couple where all are compatible. Now we just meet males as male half here gets a kick out of watching female get double the pleasure. Neither of us is interested in one on one meets. |
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"We gave up on the idea as it's so difficult to find a couple where all are compatible. Now we just meet males as male half here gets a kick out of watching female get double the pleasure. Neither of us is interested in one on one meets. "
Same as above but occasionally Mrs flies solo for the added kink! |
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We’ve also found it difficult to find a couple where there is mutual attraction for everyone involved.
We do single meets, usually not at the same time. We both love hearing about the other’s meets, both the good and the bad. Occasionally those meets have become something more with both of us involved too.
Not for everyone but we like it  |
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I think it’s a common enough issue, we effectively stopped meeting first-time couple to couple a few years ago. Instead we go to a lot of socials, parties and vanilla nights. We find that a much better way to meet new couples, have a little chat and get to see if there’s a connection all round. If there isn’t, they’re always a good night anyway and if there is, then we arrange a play date knowing there’s all-round mutual attraction and we can quickly get straight to the durty stuff |
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Everyone is different and both couples and singles have there own preferences and rules . For us we came on fab as a couple to have fun and sexy experiences together by meeting couples and single males/females but always together .
We've met some great couples and had some great sexy fun play and we've also met some great couples and not played but always have a good time regardless.
For us the need to play with other couples/ singles is not that great that we feel the need or want to do it separately as we came on here to play as a couple .
But for some people that's part of there own personal experiences and it's something that turns them both on and it works for them and that's the great thing about fab everyone is different.
But I would not meet separately if it's not something that you are both 100% comfortable with.
As said by someone else going to socials and M&G you'll find what your looking for eventually  .
That's just us op whatever you both decide to do have fun |
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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago
In and around |
"We’ve also found it difficult to find a couple where there is mutual attraction for everyone involved.
We do single meets, usually not at the same time. We both love hearing about the other’s meets, both the good and the bad. Occasionally those meets have become something more with both of us involved too.
Not for everyone but we like it "
We have found the same approach works for us now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guy's for all your inputs ..we taught it was just us this issue was with glade were not alone... will take all your ideas on board again thanks for your input much appreciated "
There's no "right" way to do things, just what's right for you as a couple.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Snap.. Found it very difficult not with finding couples to have a laugh with but sexual attraction. It's either myself or herself that isn't attracted to either partner in my opinion I think it's the fact that Ireland is so small and the swinging community is such.. |
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We find it very difficult too, to find another couple we both fancy.
While most of the time, I am not fussy and don't mind the age/size/shape of the other woman, my wife is ruthless in selecting the males she likes.
After getting frustrated with the amount of couples I had to say no to, now I've asked her to find the couple she likes  .
But we are taking a break from Fab and meets at the moment, as we realised that casual sex with total strangers is not what we want.
We also think that our love and sexual connection and relationship, is more important than being "successful" in the swinging lifestyle.
Initially, we were looking for some "sexual spice" and some sort of connection with another couple, but lately we are not as convinced we will find someone.
For now, we concentrate more on our solo profiles, but maybe we will start again attending sex parties or meets and greets together.
We both had solo coffee meets, but going further and following up with a solo play meet, hasn't worked out very well and we were both disappointed.
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By *m158Couple
over a year ago
Cork |
"We’ve also found it difficult to find a couple where there is mutual attraction for everyone involved.
We do single meets, usually not at the same time. We both love hearing about the other’s meets, both the good and the bad. Occasionally those meets have become something more with both of us involved too.
Not for everyone but we like it "
Yes we love this scenario as well....started off as same room full swap but love exploring and hearing about those experiences |
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Ya we are in same boat
Finally it hard to find the right couple where all four find an attraction.
For that reason it's seems easier to meet one person rather than a couple
We believe that no one should "take one for the team" as you want everyone to enjoy the experience. We want to play with people we are attracted to and at same time we want the same from people we play with.
Also with a couple when arranging a meet , all 4 have to be available which can be tricky.
We have enjoyed our meets and don't regret any but have been disappointed that it's harder to meet and play with couples
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I don’t think it’s just couples that have this issue. A man meeting a couple can be just as difficult and couples I have met ( not all btw) have had their difficulties where it felt like the male was pushing the woman into meets. |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"I don’t think it’s just couples that have this issue. A man meeting a couple can be just as difficult and couples I have met ( not all btw) have had their difficulties where it felt like the male was pushing the woman into meets. "
Can't say that I've experienced the same...love couple meets and now meet mainly with couples with straight males for MMFs or MMMFs
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"I don’t think it’s just couples that have this issue. A man meeting a couple can be just as difficult and couples I have met ( not all btw) have had their difficulties where it felt like the male was pushing the woman into meets. Can't say that I've experienced the same...love couple meets and now meet mainly with couples with straight males for MMFs or MMMFs"
Maybe I have being unlucky with the meets, and like I said it wasn’t every couple. I have met a few lovely couples. |
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We're a married couple but I don't play with women so we've met in the middle and only meet at club's, that way he can go away and do his thing and I do my own!! It has worked well for us for years and we'll continue to do so!!
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What's great about meeting couples is the safety element, I always feel very protected and safe and it's always a very comfortable environment because thankfully you've spent time getting to know each other!
Sometimes I feel the pressure if I'm to meet a couple in case I'm not feeling it/the energy at all and there's that worry that I can't back out or the pressure that this is a big date night out that involved babysitters! |
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Complete double standards to what we said earlier, but we do meet single women “blind- date” style (well, after an online chat). But one hard rule we have, which we say up front is that the first meet is always only a social one. We’re very conscious there’s two of us and one lady, and we want to avoid is that person feeling under pressure. Better that we can all fully relax on getting to know each other.
If we have a cpl of drinks and we all get on then it’s easy to arrange a more intimate meet. |
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"Complete double standards to what we said earlier, but we do meet single women “blind- date” style (well, after an online chat). But one hard rule we have, which we say up front is that the first meet is always only a social one. We’re very conscious there’s two of us and one lady, and we want to avoid is that person feeling under pressure. Better that we can all fully relax on getting to know each other.
If we have a cpl of drinks and we all get on then it’s easy to arrange a more intimate meet. "
A social meet is the best way as there is no pressure on anyone. We have found this the best way for us.  |
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"I don’t think it’s just couples that have this issue. A man meeting a couple can be just as difficult and couples I have met ( not all btw) have had their difficulties where it felt like the male was pushing the woman into meets. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone is different and both couples and singles have there own preferences and rules . For us we came on fab as a couple to have fun and sexy experiences together by meeting couples and single males/females but always together .
We've met some great couples and had some great sexy fun play and we've also met some great couples and not played but always have a good time regardless.
For us the need to play with other couples/ singles is not that great that we feel the need or want to do it separately as we came on here to play as a couple .
But for some people that's part of there own personal experiences and it's something that turns them both on and it works for them and that's the great thing about fab everyone is different.
But I would not meet separately if it's not something that you are both 100% comfortable with.
As said by someone else going to socials and M&G you'll find what your looking for eventually .
That's just us op whatever you both decide to do have fun "
this is pretty much spot on .... so much so for us we decided to host r own socials and play parties ... that way if we click with someone we can have fun at the venue, or arrange a future play date if its a social .... socials r great as u can meet 10-20 couples and if there is a spark, u can talk about it with ur partner and arrange a future play date with out the pressure ... but as has been said ... everyones different
we enjoy it as a fun hobby we can do together |
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"So im feeling bit better now I thought it was us personally ..or me as a female ..so appreciated u all adding to my quarries ... "
I think if you meet people socially and sometining doesn’t feel feel just right about moving to the next step then don’t take it any further. I think you will know when it is right with someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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a social is probably best for a 1st meet, the various organised socials & M&G are probably best way to meet & network.
in this informal way you can meet the people behind the name, the forum comments, the sexting messages.
our mind may have imagines something completely different to the reality.
no one should ever feel pressurised into anything.
as for couples meeting singally or having a single profile, this requires alot of trust within the couple, but if it works for them, why not. |
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